The Myths of Evangelism WHAT NOT TO BELIEVE ABOUT SHARING YOUR FAITH Copyright 2006 Don Mansfield 2 Timothy 4:3-5 3 For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. 4 They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, 5 do the work of an evangelist . . . Be willing to weigh the thought Introduction In other words don’t . . . “turn aside to myths.” Rather . . . Paul says . . . “do the work of an evangelist . . .” What is the point of out time? We want to avoid PARALYSIS in the area of evangelism. Today . . . what we want to know is . . . WHAT AREA THE MYTHS? THEY ARE OUT THERE . . . and WE NEED TO AVOID THEM . . . according to Paul. From where do Myths come? Fads, theories, ideas, that seem to help, Academically-based teaching by a number of Christian missiologists . . . Who have great hearts . . . BUT . . . come from limited experience in few locations . . . which are then assumed to be the norm. BUT . . . they end up being MYTHS. Myths . . . Usually come from some measure of truth, BUT . . . Become misapplied half-truths which, many times, can lead to paralysis Many of these MYTHS are also simply . . The Lies . . . That sound good . . . that Satan tells every believer. Be willing to weigh the thought Most myths have some basis in truth But that bit of truth . . . Gets twisted, Gets wrongly applied and extrapolated, Ends up deceiving us, Ends up paralyzing us in the very area to which that myth is suppose to be helping us! People end up believing and acting on lies! Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought MYTH # 1 The Myth of Relationships It goes like this: “I must have a really solid relationship with someone before I can share the Gospel with that person.” Every myth has at least one bit of truth and a good question behind it. The Myth of Relationships The bit of truth . . . Relationships are important The good question . . . How well do we need to know a person to be effective? Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought The Problems with Myth #1 We always doubt that our relationship is really good enough. How many deep relationships can we build in a life time? We end up appearing as hypocrites about what is really important to us. We simply do not find this in Scripture! We find in Scripture the exact opposite! Be willing to weigh the thought What Do We Find in Scripture? Our New Testament heros . . . Getting to the substance of the Gospel ASAP. Building relationships with people at the same time as sharing the good news with them. Overcoming the fear of relational rejection. We find that a believer doesn’t really need to know a person all that well in order to share. Be willing to weigh the thought MYTH # 2 The Myth of “A Life Well Lived” It goes like this: “If I just ‘let my light shine,’ if I just live a consistent Christian life, a person will see that I am different and then . . . ask me why I am different. Every myth has at least one good question behind it. The Myth of “A Life Well Lived” The bit of truth . . . We should live a consistent Christian life. The good question(s) . . . “How important is a consistent Christian life in evangelism?” “What needs to be the focus of causing curiosity towards the God, Jesus, and the Gospel . . . in the life of a non-believer ?” Be willing to weigh the thought The Problems with Myth #2 We doubt that our life is consistent enough. We all have sin, we all need to grow. In the many decades I have been a believer, I have only had this happen to me three times, outside of Albania. We also don’t find this in Scripture. Jesus did both! He didn’t live in a needless dichotomy. Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought What Do We Find in Scripture? Our New Testament heros . . . Living a consistent Christian life . . . AND . . . Getting to the substance of the Gospel ASAP Building relationships with people at the same time as verbally sharing the Gospel with them. Overcoming the fear of relational rejection. We find that living a consistent Christian life is very important, but that a good walk with Christ isn’t a substitute for purposeful talk. Be willing to weigh the thought MYTH # 3 The Myth of Theological Expertise It goes like this: “If I knew the Bible better, if I was a graduate of a seminary, if I knew theology better . . . only then would I be more effective in sharing Christ with a person.” Every myth has at least one good question behind it. The Myth of Theological Expertise The bit of truth . . . Knowing the Bible is important. The good question(s) . . . “How much do I need to know in order to be effective in sharing my faith?” Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought The Problems with Myth #3 We end up doubting that we will ever know enough to be effective. This attitude can lead to pride, “I’m smart enough to share, but you aren’t.” We don’t find this in Scripture. Be willing to weigh the thought What Do We Find in Scripture? Our New Testament heros . . . Were uneducated fishermen, astounding the Jewish leaders and the smart guys of Jesus’ day (Acts 4:13), Paul, who was very educated, on many occasions, avoided deep theology . . . in favor of the simple truths of the Gospel ( 1 Cor. 2:1-5), Paul invited people to participate in the Gospel from the very first day of conversion. (Phil. 1:3-5). It is helpful to know Scripture, but ANYONE can share their faith, and we are invited to do so. God & the Gospel empower us. Be willing to weigh the thought MYTH # 4 The Myth of Cultural Awareness It goes like this: “If I just knew the culture better (the thoughts, values, background, language, etc.) . . . then I would be an effective evangelist.” Every myth has at least one good question behind it. The Myth of Cultural Awareness The bit of truth . . . Culture is real & it affects communication. The good question(s) . . . “How much about the non-believer should I know in order to be effective in sharing my faith with them?” Be willing to weigh the thought The Problems with Myth #4 We doubt that we ever learn enough about their culture to get through to them. Cultures change so fast, what we learn can be useless very fast, seeming to wasting time. The main issue remains . . . - The non-believer learning the Gospel. - Not . . . me learning about them. We also don’t find this in Scripture. Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought What Do We Find in Scripture? Our New Testament heros . . . Have no preference in using cultural knowledge. It doesn’t seem to be the main issue. If they are led to use it, fine . . . they use their knowledge. (example of Paul in Athens - Acts 17:22-35) If they are led to not use it, fine . . . Paul, at times avoided using “cultural knowledge” (example of Paul in Corinth - 1 Cor. 2:1-5) We find that it is helpful to know culture, but that is not what changes people’s hearts. What saves and changes people is the Gospel. AND . . . that never changes . . . in ANY culture. Be willing to weigh the thought MYTH # 5 The Myth of Finding the Right Person It goes like this: “If I can just find the right person with whom to share Christ . . . you know, those who seem open, friendly, who don’t look like their heart is hardened, who I feel like I can relate to . . . then I can share my faith.” Every myth has at least one good question behind it. The Myth of Finding the Right Person The bit of truth . . . Certain people are more open to the Gospel. The good question(s) . . . “What type of person do I need to be in order to be effective with a certain type of people?” “Can a person who is different from the non-believer really be effective in sharing their faith with them?” Be willing to weigh the thought The Problems with Myth #5 Wouldn’t it be nice to find a perfect person?!? Satan will say about every person . . . “They aren’t interested.” THAT’S A LIE! This ends up being an arrogant, prideful position that . . . of course . . . suggests that most people are “the wrong person.” We aren’t that smart in evaluating the spiritual condition of a person’s heart. Only God can do that. We are fairly blind. This is opposite to what Scripture commands. Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought What Do We Find in Scripture? Our New Testament heros . . . Are going to everyone. When they hesitate to go to the Samaritans, Ethiopians, Romans, and the rest of the Gentiles, God intervenes most dramatically. Learn that everyone is described the same way Sinful, lost, needing a savior . . . no one is different, or “right!” We find that everyone is potentially a follower of Jesus. We also find that Jesus commands us to go tell the whole world, not just a select few that suit our fancy. We find that we become the “right person” only by the work of the cross in our life. Be willing to weigh the thought MYTH # 6 The Myth of Geography It goes like this: “There are just certain places where God is moving, where the Gospel really works . . . but, where I live and work, it is different . . . You don’t understand. In my world . . . the Gospel just doesn’t work . . . I need to find the right place . . . then I can share my faith.” Every myth has at least one good question behind it. The Myth of Geography The bit of truth . . . Certain places seem to be more open to the Gospel. The good question(s) . . . “What type of circumstances and atmosphere need to be present in a location . . . in order for us to be effective in evangelism?” Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought The Problems with Myth #6 We get stereotypes that may or may not be true. “America is like this. Asia is like that. The Middle East is so closed. The Balkan area of Europe is so dangerous!” We always think . . . “God is working . . . over the there . . . but not here.” We don’t think God can do it in our everyday life. Some how . . . everyday life for the apostles was somehow different than for us. Be willing to weigh the thought What Do We Find in Scripture? Our New Testament heros . . . Ended up going everywhere they could. Wherever they went and shared their faith, in obedience to God’s call, God showed up! God did lead them to certain parts of the world or to certain communities, but what and where those locations were do not matter. We find GEOGRAPHY DOESN’T MATTER! Be willing to weigh the thought MYTH # 7 The Myth of Identity It goes like this: “You don’t know me. I can’t share my faith. I don’t have the gift of evangelism. I will probably mess up . . . and I don’t want to risk anyone’s eternal destiny. I let the other, more gifted evangelistic-type people talk to nonbelievers. My spiritual gifts are in other areas. I am exempt from sharing my faith.” Every myth has at least one good question behind it. The Myth of Identity The bit of truth . . . Certain people seem to do a better job sharing their faith. The good question(s) . . . “Who do I need to be or do, in order to be effective in sharing my faith?” Be willing to weigh the thought The Problems with Myth #7 This makes us think that we are exempt from certain things in the Christian life. This disregards the clear teaching of Scripture that God calls every one of us His witnesses and His ambassadors. This attitude, while seeming to care about the non-believer, really lets us have an invalid excuse for not loving non-believers. We also don’t find this in Scripture. Be willing to weigh the thought Be willing to weigh the thought What Do We Find in Scripture? Our New Testament heros . . . All were told that Jesus would make them “fishers of men.” All were told by Jesus that they would be His witnesses all over the world. Learned that spiritual gifts were not just for specialization, but to aid all believes to grow up in all aspects of Christian maturity. We find that NO BELIEVER IS EXEMPT FROM EVANGELISM! Be willing to weigh the thought SOLUTIONS TO BELIEVING MYTHS 1. Believe truth! Where does one find that?! 2. Follow the example of our NT heros! 3. Always check out “new” theories thoroughly, doubt first, believe and incorporate later! 4. Believe in the power of the Gospel! 5. Believe what God says about your . . . New nature . . . New calling Invitation to be filled with the Holy Spirit, thus become His witness. New power and ability that is found totally in Him Need for training, prayer and support within the Body of Christ 6. Decide & desire to be used of God in His power! Be willing to weigh the thought LET’S PRAY “ but . . . you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and . . . you shall be My witnesses . . .” Jesus Confidence / Boldness in the New Testament parrhsi,a parresia – confidence - boldness John 7:26 John 18:20 Acts 4:13 "Look, He is speaking boldly, they are saying nothing to Him. Jesus answered him, "I have spoken boldly to the world; Now as they observed the boldness of Peter and John and understood that they were uneducated and untrained men, they were amazed, and began to recognize them as having been with Jesus. Acts 4:29 "Lord . . . grant that Your servants may speak Your word with all boldness,” Acts 4:31 And when they had prayed, . . .they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak the word of God with boldness. Acts 9:28 moving about freely in Jerusalem, speaking out boldly Acts 13:46 Paul and Barnabas spoke out boldly and said, Acts 14:3 Therefore they spent a long time there speaking boldly Acts 18:26 and he began to speak out boldly in the synagogue. 2 Cor. 3:12 having such a hope, we use great boldness in our speech, Eph 6:19-20; Col 4:3-4; Acts 28:31; Be willing to weigh the thought Questions to Discuss What have been my personal beliefs regarding my role in evangelism? How has that been challenged tonight? Of the seven “myths” (1. Relationships, 2. Well-Lived-Life, 3. Theological Expertise, 4. Cultural Awareness, 5. Finding the Right Person, 6. Geography, 7. My Personal Identity) . . . which one(s) have caused me the most problem(s).