Positive and Negative Social Behavior Edita Stončiūtė, PSbns0-03 Contents • • • • • Liking Loving Aggression Prosocial behavior How to deal with anger Liking and loving Factors that initially attract two people to each other: • • • • Proximity Exposure Similarity Physical attractiveness Characteristics of love • • • • • • • • • Interest in another Fantasizing about the other Rapid swings of emotion Passion Closeness Fascinaion Sexual desire Intense caring Idealization of other Types of love • Passionate love • Companionate love According to Sternberg, love has three main components: • Decision/ commitment • Intimacy • Passion Aggression . Approaches to agressive behavior: • Instinct approaches • Frustration approaches • Observational learning approaches Instinct approaches • Zigmund Freud: aggression is a primary instinctual drive. • Konrad Lorenz: aggression is a fighting instinct; definition of catharsis Frustration - aggression approaches • Frustration produces anger, leading to readiness to act aggressively. Obsevational learning approaches • Social and environmental conditions can teach individuals to be aggressive. Helping others • Diffusion of responsibility tendency for people to feel that responsibility for acting is shared, or diffused, among those present. the Altruism is helping behavior that is beneficial to others but clearly requires self - sacrifice. Certain personality characteristic of helpers: • • • • Self- assured Sympathetic Emotionally understanding Have great empathy How to deal with anger? Conclusions Social psychology considers person’s interaction with other people, positive and negative social behavior. Feelings for others and positive behavior are very important in every individual’s life and cause positive emotions. In contrast, aggression and hurting others are unacceptable behavior. References • • • Robert S. Feldman. Understanding Psychology. 9th Edition. McGraw- Hill, Inc. 2009. http://www.hubbynet.com/Handlinganger.htm http://justafewthoughts.wordpress.com/2007/09/29/the-picture-behind-thequote/ http://www.scottparent.me/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/social-media.jpg http://www.labnol.org/internet/facebook-like-rubber-stamp/18853/ http://www.gayline.lt/modules.php?op=modload&name=Diskusijos&file=viewt opic&pstid=237376 http://asmeniskaimum.blogas.lt/page/12 http://www.parentsconnect.com/articles/dealing_with_aggressive_behavior.jht ml http://www.cancunandrivieramaya.com/archives/cancun.cgi/md/read/id/91023 http://blog.lib.umn.edu/sabon003/architecture/2008/02/understanding_my_wo rld.html http://everphoto.bloguez.com/everphoto/1786378/liz-taylor-wikipedia http://robhueniken.com/help-someone-today • http://lt.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaizdas:Superman_hero.jpg • • • • • • • • •