CHAPTER THREE: Communication Principles for Small Groups WHAT IS “COMMUNICATION”? The transactional process of simultaneously creating, interpreting, and negotiating shared meaning through interaction CHARACTERISTICS OF COMMUNICATION Symbolic Abstract, arbitrary Mostly words Personal Meanings are in people Transactional Multidirectional Meaning between people Shared meaning Content and relational dimensions “what” “how” LISTENING The process that involves perceiving, interpreting, and responding to messages Is listening the same as hearing?? Activity Effective listening Influencing factors Listening between the lines LISTENING PREFERENCES Identify, and shift People-oriented listeners Action-oriented listeners Content-oriented listeners Time-oriented listeners ACTIVE LISTENING Listening to understand a message before critically judging it Paraphrase Confirm Sensitive or controversial issues VERBAL COMMUNICATION Actual spoken words to communicate a message Bypassing Organizing Being sensitive Group rules NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION Anything in a message that is NOT a word Ambiguous Cannot not communicate Nonverbals reign! Functions Emotions Supplement Substitute Regulate Contradict NONVERBAL CATEGORIES Appearance Space & seating Facial expressions Eye contact Body movement Voice Timing NONVERBAL CATEGORIES Appearance Space & seating Facial expressions Eye contact Body movement Voice Timing