LISTENING Do you hear what I hear? LISTENING The deliberate, psychological process by which we receive, understand, and retain aural stimuli. HEARING VS LISTENING • HEARING IS A BIOLOGICAL ACTIVITY, BASED IN THE MECHANISMS OF THE EARS, PASSIVE IN NATURE • LISTENING IS A COGNITIVE ACTIVITY, REQUIRING EFFORT AND ENERGY SELECTION IN LISTENING • SELECTIVE EXPOSURE – DO WE EXPOSE OURSELVES TO WHAT WE DON’T WANT TO HEAR? • SELECTIVE ATTENTION – TO WHAT DO WE “TUNE”? • SELECTIVE PERCEPTION – WE HEAR WHAT WE WANT TO HEAR • SELECTIVE RETENTION – WHAT DO WE CHOOSE TO RETAIN IN MEMORY? Levels or Types of Listening • • • • • Discriminative Appreciative Comprehensive Critical Therapeutic (empathic) INEFFECTIVE LISTENERS • • • • • • • Pseudolisteners (fraudulent) Monopolistic listeners Completers Selective listeners Avoiders Defensive listeners Attackers Guidelines for Improving Listening Page 177