JULY 2021 UNHELPFUL THINKING STYLES "It will be a disaster" "It is bound to go wrong" "What if..." "I screwed up. This just proves I'm a failure" "They think I'm stupid" "Everyone will judge me" CATASTROPHISING Always thinking that the worst will happen CONFIRMATION BIAS Only paying attention to the information that fits your bias MIND READING Believing that you know what others are thinking about you "If I don't do it perfectly, then I've failed" "I am a burden to my loved ones" "I am such an idiot" "I'm worthless" "You never listen to me" "I always have to do everything around here" ALL OR NOTHING THINKING Thinking in extremes of either good/bad or perfect/failure SELF-CRITICAL BIAS Constantly putting yourself down OVERGENERALISING Assuming that current events always apply to all situations "I should have known better" "I should have seen it coming" "I knew that was going to happen" "I feel like something is about to go wrong, therefore it will" "I feel anxious, so that means something bad will happen" HINDSIGHT BIAS Using new information to change our recall of the past EMOTIONAL REASONING Letting your emotions inform your thinking "You have such a better life than me" "Everything always works out for you" COMPARE & DESPAIR Comparing others highlights reel with your behind the scenes Check out our website for more resources, handouts and videos