Supporting the Social, Emotional and Behavioral Development / Health of Young Children Laura J. Johns, Ph.D. Introduction Laura J. Johns, Ph.D. The mission of Propulsion Squared is to optimize human capital as a means of enriching vast and diverse communities working to enhance the lives of young children. Our vision is a world where people and communities are compelled to meet the holistic needs of their children as a means of investment in their community and future. The company’s name represents our commitment to create a force leading to movement on behalf of our youngest citizens. Propulsion Squared is an Atlanta based early care and education (ECE) consulting firm co-owned by Laura J. Johns, Ph.D. and Christopher Sleeme. “Emotional well-being and social competence provide a strong foundation for emerging cognitive abilities. Together they are the bricks and mortar that comprise the foundation of human development.” (National Scientific Council on the Developing Child, 2007) Emotional Competence • Refers to one's ability to express or release one's inner feelings (emotions). It implies an ease around others and determines one's ability to effectively and successfully express how they feel. Social Competence • Refers to a person's ability to get along with other people. A child's social competence is affected by how well he/ she communicates with other children and with adults. • A child's view of herself/himself in relation to her family, peers, and the wider world also affect social competence. Behavioral Competence • Behavioral competencies are observable and measurable behaviors, knowledge, skills, abilities, and other characteristics that contribute to individual success. It Starts With a Theory! Types of Theory Behaviorism - all behavior is learned or conditioned Skinner Cognitive - focus on the mind - how children learn to think Piaget Vygotsky Types of Theory Constructivism - based on the belief that we construct our knowledge Piaget Vygotsky Maturationalism - passage of time leads to unfolding of capabilities Piaget Types of Theory Psychoanalytic - human behavior is a result of unconscious drives and motivation Freud Erikson Sociocultural - study of the child from social and cultural prospective Vygotsky Humanistic – Human potential and self-actualization Maslow Vygotsky-Sociocultural People are products of their social and cultural worlds, to understand children, we must understand the social, cultural, and societal contexts in which they develop Vygotsky-Sociocultural ZPD Zone of Proximal Development Scaffolding Erikson - Psychoanalytic Each age or stage of development is characterized by a struggle between two emotional states, one positive and one negative Erikson-Psychoanalytic Trust vs. Mistrust Autonomy vs. Shame Initiative vs. Guilt Industry vs. Inferiority Identity vs. Role Confusion Intimacy vs. Isolation Generativity vs.Stagnation Integrity vs. Despair Abraham Maslow-Humanistic Hierarchy of Needs Focus on what children need to survive emotionally, based on potentials, striving for higher levels of wisdom/consciousness Environment makes all the difference! If it is “right” children move through the hierarchy; if not, they do not grow. Hierarchy of Needs Self-Actualization •Fulfillment of potential, challenge, curiosity, creativity, aesthetic appreciation Self-Esteem •Recognition, prestige, leadership, achievement, competence, strength, intelligence Love •Acceptance, belonging, affection, participation Safety •Security, protection, comfort, peace, order Physiological Needs •Food, sleep, health, exercise, sex The Pyramid Model: Effective Practices to Promote Social Emotional Competence and Prevent and Address Young Children’s Challenging Behavior Tertiary Intervention Secondary Prevention Universal Promotion The Center on the Social and Emotional Foundations for Early Learning (CSEFEL) www.vanderbilt.edu/csefel Pyramid Foundation = Effective Workforce • Training and technical assistance • Coaching • Ongoing professional development • Fidelity of implementation • Policies, resources and procedures Nurturing and Responsive Relationships • Foundation of the pyramid: for ALL children • Essential to healthy social development • Includes relationships with children, families and team members High Quality Environments • Inclusive early care and education environments: for ALL children • Supportive home environments Supportive Home Environments • Supporting families and other caregivers to promote development within natural routines and community settings • Providing families and other caregivers with information, support, and new skills Targeted Social Emotional Supports • Explicit instruction and support for learning social skills • Self-regulation, expressing and understanding emotions, developing social relationships Individualized Intensive Interventions • Family-centered, comprehensive interventions • Assessment-based • Skill-building • Team based • Positive Behavior Supports (PBS) Teach Children to Identify and Express Emotions • Give feelings names • Teach children to identify and express • Provide opportunities emotions in to identify feelings in themselves and others acceptable ways • Teach children ways to respond to specific feelings, conflicts, or problems Expressing Feelings - What’s Acceptable! • • • • • Ask for help Use words Say it….don’t show it Tell a grown up Walk away • Take a breath • Describe how you feel • Think of a different way to express it • Relax and try again • Ask for a hug • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Brave Cheerful Confused Curious Disappointed Embarrassed Excited Fantastic Friendly Generous Ignored Impatient Important Interested Jealous Angry Confused Lonely Feeling Words • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Cheerful Bored Surprised Proud Frustrated Silly Uncomfortable Worried Stubborn Shy Satisfied Safe Relieved Peaceful Overwhelmed Loving Tense Calm Indicators of Social Emotional Health • • • • Capacity to Trust Capacity to Relate Capacity to Take Pleasure in Self and Others Capacity to Feel Effective Key Social / Emotional Skills Children Need as They Enter School • Key Skills • Confidence • Capacity to develop good relationships • Concentration and persistence •Ability to effectively communicate emotions • Ability to listen to instructions, be attentive • When children don’t have these skills, they often exhibit challenging behaviors Seven Gifts You Can Give • Respond in encouraging ways • Let children know they are capable • Help children develop confidence and trust in others • Help children learn about intimacy • Help children learn that adults can not solve all problems • Be tolerant of the internal conflicts and desires of children • Match your reaction to the child’s temperament Be Responsive to Emotion/Behaviors • Watch – See the world as children see it – Wait for verbal and non-verbal clues / do not rush in – So you can choose the right response • Ask – How can I support – What message is the child sending – What is my bias…my hot spot • Adapt – Adapt your actions to the child’s desires…modify as needed Probable Causes of Behaviors Cause Why What Developmental stage Maturation Relax Tolerate Channel it Stop it Individual difference Temperament Observe and adapt Provide options/choices Environment Home, school, lifestyle, culture, library Ensure protection, attention, stimulation, order and calm Change or adapt expectations I did not know…but I am Un-experienced ready to learn No teacher Teach a new skill Explain Encourage / offer help Be patient Unmet emotional need Do something Actively respond with actions not words Missed a critical realm of emotional development Practical Ideas - Book Nooks On Monday When it Rained Glad Monster Sad Monster Hands Are Not for Hitting