System Theory and Congregational Life with Rev. Dr. Michael Nel November 12-15, 2015 Hope Lutheran Church 3527 Boulton Road NW Calgary, AB Course Description This course will focus on leadership as self management instead of focusing on managing others. As we learn to manage ourselves in situations of stress, we as pastors, lay leaders, pastoral caregivers and parents are more able to offer stable, non-anxious, transparent and uncluttered leadership, and make significant contributions to our family and congregational health. Through his study of families Dr. Murray Bowen identified eight concepts that shape the family relational process. He also identified that relational processes provide greater insight than a focus on content for the understanding of human functioning. The late Rabbi Friedman saw the potential of Bowen theory to assist religious leaders, lay leaders and pastoral caregivers in understanding the relational dynamics in their families and congregations. This course will provide an understanding of the eight concepts of Bowen theory and their application to faith communities and their leadership. The focus of the course will be on the relational processes of the participant’s own family and how these processes influence his or her functioning. Articles will be provided on how to do family research, drawing a family diagram and presenting the family. A bibliography will be provided. Instructor - Rev. Dr. Michael J. Nel Born in Cape Town South Africa. B.A. from the University of Cape Town. M.Div. and S.T.M. degrees from Lutheran Theological Seminary, Saskatoon D.Th. from the University of South Africa Fellow Member of American Association of Pastoral Counselors Registered Clinical Counsellor, BC Association of Clinical Counsellors Parishes Served: Hodgeville Lutheran Parish, Hodgeville, Sk Redeemer Lutheran, Kitimat, BC First Lutheran Church, Vancouver, BC Director of Consultation to Clergy serving 5 Synods of ELCA in Region 1 and the NW District of LCMS Interim President, Lutheran Theological Seminary, Saskatoon What People are Saying: In sixteen years of ministry as bishop of the Eastern WA and Idaho Synod (ELCA) no single aspect of ministry has had more positive effect on clergy and congregational health as has the work of Dr. Michael Nel teaching Bowen (Systems) theory. The core teaching is rooted in “self-definition,” the conscious attempt to account for and de-fang “family of origin” issues that predictably arise under new names and with new people as pastoral ministry unfolds in a new location. Managing oneself in situations of stress is key to clergy satisfaction and offers transparent and uncluttered leadership for congregations facing anxious days. I cannot imagine asking pastors to lead with authority in projection-prone communities without this training. - Bp. Martin Wells I encountered Rev. Michael Nel during my internship year of pastoral training. His teaching of Systems Theory was both personally empowering and professionally illuminating. In a dozen years of ministry I have often relied on the concepts I learned from him to provide insight into myself and my relationships with congregation and family. - Rev. Kristian Wold Registration Through the Lutheran Theological Seminary (LTS), Saskatoon. Please call 306.966.7850 or email lutheran.seminary@usask.ca Please register by November 5. A minimum of 8 and maximum of 20 are required to run the workshop. Cost $125 – payable to the Lutheran Theological Seminary, Saskatoon Course Schedule Thursday 7:00 pm – 8:30 pm Friday 9:00 am – 12:30 pm 1:30 pm – 3:00 pm Saturday 9:00 am – 12:30 pm 1:30 pm – 3:00 pm Sunday 1:30 pm – 3:00 pm Refreshments and a light lunch are provided. This workshop is co-sponsored by: The Leadership Development Working Group, ABT Synod ABT Synod, Southwest Conference