Cultural Competence: Supporting All Families Presented by Diana Autin, Family Voices @ SPAN-NJ At the National Family Voices Conference, May, 2007 The Pebble in the Pond… “Do unto others as they would have you do unto them.” The Platinum Rule • “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” Steven Covey What Impacts Relationships? • • • • • • • • Status Socially acceptable behavior Body Language How close we stand to each other How we communicate & process information How we interpret silence Comfort level with advocacy How we approach & resolve conflict What Impacts Relationships? • Parenting roles and functions • Expectations of children • Beliefs about appropriate developmental goals & independence • Views about needing and accepting “help” from non-family members • Fears about being judged unfavorably Cultural Continuum • • • • • • Cultural Destructiveness Cultural Incapacity Cultural Blindness Cultural Pre-competence Cultural Competence Cultural Proficiency Impact of American Cultural values • Individual Success – Getting ahead – Making money • Value & purpose of education • Competition Examine cultural values: Time • What does it mean to be “on time?” • How do you feel when someone arrives late to a meeting? Why? Examine cultural values: Communication • Verbal communication – – – – – Rates of speech Voice modulation Pauses Use of silence Time between Q&A • What is rude? Polite? Examine cultural values: Communication • Nonverbal – – – – – Body language Eye contact Proximity Deference Respect Cultural Scanning • Is the behavior – – – – Innocent Ignorant Insensitive Racist • How to respond? Do we – Know the person – Value the relationship – Have a history Cultural Reciprocity with Families • Challenging power • Assuming risks • Sharing stories & ourselves • Listening with the heart • Involving those affected • Offering alternatives • Balancing the scales of justice and equity • Holding ourselves accountable How Change Happens “Power concedes nothing without a demand. It never has and it never will.” -Frederick Douglas Agents of Cultural Competence • Understand context, barriers to change, and stages of change • Listen • Respond • Advocate • Pursue change • Intervene at the systems level • Team with others • Facilitate Leadership in Cultural Competence • Inspire and help people work toward the goal • Share leadership • Recognize diverse roles • Become self-aware • Accept responsibility • Ask for help • Be open to constructive criticism • Encourage & motivate partners Know Yourself • Who am I? • What am I doing here • What are my: – Goals, purposes – Expectations – Motivations? • What strengths & challenges do I bring? • How can I best use my skills? • How can I make space for others? Know Yourself • In my family, children are expected to ___ • I feel like an outsider when _______ • I believe the most important thing in life is ______________ • My ethnic or cultural heritage is important to me because _____ Self-Reflection • Roots, places of origin • Ethnic group, socioeconomic class, religion, age group, community • Social interactions with people from ethnic groups, socioeconomic classes, religions, age groups or communities different from your own Self-Reflection • Speaking language other than English • Attitudes of your family of origin on people from different backgrounds • Values, beliefs, cultural messages re: – – – – – – Family Child-rearing External relationships Community Health Education Traits needed for Cultural Competence • Trust • Hope • Shared relationships • Honesty • Openness • Flexibility • Love Gaining Community Trust • Trust is not automatic; it must be earned and it can be lost. • Trust must be twoway: those who are not trusted, do not trust. • Trust leads to belief in each other and in a cause. Developing Trust • Be honest about the problems, the barriers, the potential negative consequences – as well as the potential benefit of action Developing Trust • Be in it for the long haul. Don’t abandon ship after the first disappointment or failure. • Admit mistakes. • Ask for help!!! • LISTEN!!! • Acknowledge others’ contributions. Honesty • I don’t know. • I haven’t had this experience before. • I’m confused. • I need your help. • I don’t understand. • I made a mistake. Openness • Openness means letting go of the present to focus on what could be. • “What would it look like, feel like, smell like, taste like, sound like, if it was good?” Flexibility • Flexibility means willingness to change behavior based on circumstances and need. • How have people accommodated your needs? Moving toward cultural competence • How do we get there? • What supports are needed? • What is each of our roles in providing those supports? • How can it be sustained? To See Clearly • It is only with the heart that one can see clearly; what is essential is invisible to the eye. – The Little Prince Antoine de Saint Exupery The Chinese characters that make up the verb “to listen” tell us something about this skill. Gathering Community Knowledge • Communities know: – Their history: where they have been – Their culture: who they are – Sacred places – Dangerous places – What is important to them Gathering community knowledge • Encourage and support community members to find their voice. • Be ready to hear what community members say. • Respect the passion of the community for change. Sharing Community Knowledge • Tell stories within the community to build shared knowledge • Listen to the stories of families • Help families share their stories with each other Partnering for Cultural Competence • Committed Leadership from all partners • Maintaining a partnership with good communication, clear decisionmaking, & specific responsibilities Myth: Cultural differences are unimportant • Thoughts – All people should be treated “the same” • Feelings – Pressure – Resentment • Behaviors – Failure to accommodate differences Reality: Cultural Differences are Strengths to Build on • Thoughts – Cultural differences are strengths • Feelings – Curiosity – Interest – Appreciation • Behaviors – Affirm differences – Seek learning opportunities Building Cultural Competence • Quality information: – Develop accurate “map” of strengths & needs of families from diverse communities –who’s important, what’s important, relationships • Formal • Informal – Know how others have addressed these issues Building Cultural Competence • Ongoing: • Planning • Implementation • Evaluation • Revision of plan Developing a Plan • Who will do what? • Under what conditions? • To what extent? • What resources do we need? • How will we measure? Specific Suggestions • Allow time for reflection, don’t always fill silent spaces • Engage community leaders and cultural liaisons • Modify communication methods, processes and materials to respond to individual circumstances • Provide ongoing training and support in diversity, cultural competence, flexibility • Provide qualified, trained and prepared interpreters when needed Implementing Changes to Enhance Cultural Competence • Bring about changes • Monitor implementation to make sure improvements take place Commitment People say, what is the sense of our small effort. They cannot see that we must lay one brick at a time, take one step at a time. A pebble cast into a pond causes ripples that spread in all directions. Each one of our thoughts, words and deeds is like that. No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless. There’s too much work to do.