Traits of Adult Personality Types: (From a Writer’s Guide to Character Traits by Linda Edelstein) The Adventurer The themes of the Adventurer are excitement and boldness. He may look and sound ordinary, but underlying most activities is the need to feel like a warrior, often unknowingly at the cost of others. More men are Adventurers than are women, because culture and socialization inhibit this type in growing girls; however, there have always been daring Adventurer women like Amelia Earhart. The Boss The Bossy person wants to be in the limelight, whether at home, work, or play. The themes that run through the life of a Bossy are control (of self and others) and having things her own way. The Conventional A conventional lives by the rules and prefers the established ways; the status quo is vastly preferable to change. The Creator The Creator’s life gets meaning from the ability to produce new ideas or products. The Dependent The Dependent’s world revolves around having his needs met. These traits go beyond what is normally expected for a particular time of life, even in youth or during periods of trauma or illness. The Eccentric The Eccentric marches to the beat of a different drummer. He is genuinely different from the norm and may appear weird to others. The Extrovert Extroverts are, if not the most fascinating of characters, among the most normal and least pathological. Extroverts truly like people, enjoy crowds, and flourish in energetic activities. The Fall Guy/Girl The Fall Guy or Girl is notable for being the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong people. The Fearful Life for the Fearful is driven by inhibition and fears of rejection. It dominates the internal world and relations with others. The Flamboyant Life for the Flamboyant contains love, sex, competition, and disloyalty, always with a lack of authenticity, as if the Flamboyant shows or expresses more than is really felt. Flamboyant women lack close relationships with other women. The Hyper The Hyper’s life is active, but not always with direction. There is movement, but it can occur without progress. The Loner The Loner’s life seems to be directionless: He drifts with little strong attachment to anyone. The Loner’s type is not to be confused with the emotional numbness or freezing of temporary states of withdrawal experienced when individuals are in strange circumstances such as being and immigrant or reacting to tragedy. The Manipulator This person seeks control through domination of others and usually uses charm to achieve her ends. The Man’s Man The Man’s Man appears one-dimensional because only certain qualities are allowed to emerge. The counterpart to the Man’s Man is the Ultra- Feminine. The Passive-Aggressive For the Passive-Aggressive, days are lived under a negative cloud. He tries hard, but always feels misunderstood. The Perfectionist The Perfectionist has the desire to be not excellent, but perfect. Her standards are extremely high, and failure to meet those standards causes great stress. Many believe that they will be valued only if they are perfect. They experience a sense of pressure coupled with hopelessness and helplessness: “The better I do, the better I am expected to do.” The Personable A Personable makes for one of the best friends or colleagues around because of all the easy, delightful qualities she possesses. The Problem Solver The Problem Solver is someone we all want to have in our corner when we get into a mess, but he can stumble by being too capable for others and not capable enough for himself. The Resilient Life is no different for Resilients than for others, but they have the remarkable ability to recover from life’s losses and disappointments. The Ultra- Feminine The Ultra-Feminine is to women what the Man’s man (on pages 37-38) is to men. Not surprisingly, they often wind up together. The Victim Type Life for the Victim is filled with themes of lack or self-determination and control. Victims are always convinced that others are more in command than they are.