MEDIATION Professor John Barkai William S. Richardson School of Law University of Hawaii at Manoa 2515 Dole Street, Honolulu, Hawaii 96822 Phone (808) 956-6546; Fax (808) 956-5569 E-mail: barkai@hawaii.edu Web Page: www2.hawaii.edu/~barkai The Hawaii Mediation Model "Applying The Hawaiian Mediation Model To Disputes and Conflicts" 11 Interspectives 40 (1992) Professor John Barkai Introduction In its simplest form, mediation is a conflict resolution method in which a mediator helps two people negotiate a voluntary solution to their dispute. What makes mediation different from other third-party dispute resolution processes is that the mediator does not have the power to decide who "wins" the dispute or what the solution should be. The mediator is neutral and provides nonjudgmental management of the negotiation process. Even though the mediator has no power to decide, mediation is a powerful and successful dispute resolution process. The majority of mediated conflicts result in negotiated solutions that are satisfactory to all the disputants. Statistics from mediation centers indicate that approximately 85 percent of the mediations end in agreements. Even if there is no mediated solution, the disputants are no worse off than before the mediation. A Basic Model of Mediation The basic mediation process can be most clearly identified in its purest form by looking at the mediation of minor disputes. Mediators of minor disputes devote their attention to managing the mediation process and using techniques which allow the disputants to 1) identify, clarify, and communicate the issues and interests in dispute, 2) effectively negotiate with each other, and 3) structure a settlement that is fair and workable from their perspectives. Especially in minor disputes, the mediator has no way of knowing what a fair and workable settlement would be from the disputants' perspectives. In addition, there is no legal standard by which to judge, for example, how much noise to too much for the neighborhood or how the children of the neighbors should relate to each other. Because the disputants have to live with any negotiated agreement, the disputants (not the mediator) are the people in the best position to decide what is the best, most workable solution. The native Hawaiian people had their own family problem solving process called Ho'oponpono. [See, V. Shook, Ho'oponpono: Contemporary Uses of a Hawaiian Problem-Solving Process. Honolulu: University of Hawaii Press (1985).] This article, however, focuses on the contemporary, community mediation process in Hawaii. Formal mediation began in Hawaii in 1979 with the establishment of the Neighborhood Justice Center (NJC) of Honolulu. The following model of mediation was developed over more than a decade and thousands of mediations at the NJ. The mediation model Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 1 - presented here has been revised and refined as a result of the experiences of many volunteer mediators and almost countless mediator trainings. The Core Process The core process of mediation is designed around two central tasks: 1) defining the problems, and 2) negotiating solutions. When teaching mediation in Hawaii, the mediation process is conceptually divided into two phases referred to as the "Forum" and the "Negotiation." Each phase is in turn divided into three stages. The Forum includes: 1) the mediator's opening statement, 2) the disputants' statements, and 3) private meetings called "caucuses" with each disputant to discover all the issues and interests important to a fair, workable solution. The Negotiation includes: 1) a second round of private caucuses with each disputant to define options and begin the bargaining, 2) a joint session with all disputants to negotiate the general terms of the agreement, and 3) a drafting session that results in a specific, written agreement. Such a mediation process can be diagramed as two triangles, each with three layers, as seen below. The Mediation Process Phases Conceptual Model Stages Mediator's Opening Forum Disputants' Statements First Caucuses Second Caucuses Negotiation Joint Session Draft Agreement A. The Forum Phase The Forum phase, represented by the top triangle, starts with the mediator's opening statement, then allows each disputant to tell their view of the conflict, and Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 2 - finally moves to caucuses with each disputant. In the mediator's opening statement, the mediator first convenes the meeting by discussing the voluntary, confidential, and impartial nature of the process. In addition, the mediation process is described generally (especially the confidential caucuses), and it is stressed that the mediator will not issue a decision as a judge would in court. Next, in the disputants' statement stage, each disputant is asked to make a short statement about their view of the conflict and the other disputant is asked to not interrupt. Finally, the mediation moves into a series of confidential caucuses with just the mediator and one of the disputants present. As the mediator process moves to the caucus stage, the upper triangle has its widest part, signifying the increasing amount of information that becomes available to the mediator and the disputants as issues, positions, interest, feelings, and hidden agendas are discussed and clarified in the caucuses. The full development of facts and feelings in the Forum phase offers the greatest opportunity to create in the Negotiation phase a cooperative, integrative solution - what some people refer to as a "win-win" solution. As the mediator uses this Forum phase to learn the history of the conflict, the disputants often focus on just the facts which support their view of the conflict. In both joint meetings and especially in the caucuses, the mediator probes beyond the apparent facts to learn the disputants' underlying interests and feelings about the conflict. During the Forum, the time focus is on the past and the present. B. The Negotiation Phase In the Negotiation phase, represented by the second, inverted triangle, the mediator shifts the focus to the future and assists the disputants to negotiate solutions based upon their interests. The Negotiation usually begins with another series of caucuses. The caucuses are used to move the disputants off their current negotiating positions by asking them to brainstorm possible solutions to the problem. Mediators can use a number of techniques to narrow the differences between the disputants and allow them to save face. Common mediator tactics are to review the good parts of the prior relationship, create doubts, stress the consequences of no agreement, provide reality testing about proposed solutions, and emphasize the progress that has been made. Several caucuses may be necessary. When the disputants appear ready to bargain effectively face-to-face, the mediator brings the disputants together for a joint meeting. Although the mediator may still manage the bargaining as mutual concessions are proposed and accepted, the disputants are encouraged to negotiate directly with one another. Finally, as the disputants work out the solution, the mediator assists them by drafting a written agreement that is balanced, specific, complete, workable and in the disputants' own words. Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 3 - C. A Communication Focus Throughout the entire mediation process, Hawaiian mediators use facilitative communication techniques. During the Forum, the mediators try to get the disputants to reveal and clarify their interests and express their feelings by using various communication techniques such as open-ended questions, clarifying questions, and active listening. Mediators often summarize to acknowledge what the disputants have said, to prevent repetitive accounts, and to check their understanding of what the disputants mean. They use active listening to acknowledge the disputants' feelings because feelings can be as important to a solution as the facts. Mediators also "reframe" the disputants' language to eliminate blame and the attribution of motives. A fundamental hypothesis of Hawaii community mediation model is that the disputants are in charge of their own dispute. Hence, during the Negotiation phase the disputants are expected and encouraged to create their own solutions to the conflict. Acting under the assumption that disputants are more likely to move from their entrenched negotiation positions towards mutually acceptable solutions if the basis of the solutions comes from a disputant's own mouth rather than if suggested by someone else, mediators are taught to refrain from giving advice. Hence, rather that make direct suggestions to the disputants, mediators ask well crafted questions that are intended to stimulate the creative thinking of the disputants. The Neighborhood Justice Center The basic mediation model described in this article is used in many different types of disputes in Hawaii, including complex, multi-party construction cases in court, bitterly contested divorce proceedings, minor neighbor-neighbor disputes, and for playground conflicts mediated by grade school children. When the mediation is done at the Neighborhood Justice Center, the mediators are community volunteers from a wide variety of backgrounds and professions, who mediate without compensation. All such mediators have gone through at least 40 hours of training using role plays and debriefing sessions as the primary teaching techniques. Finally, at the NJC all mediations are done with two mediators in a process called "co-mediation." Conclusion The process of mediation has been used for thousands of years to resolve conflicts. In some parts of the world, mediation is considered to be the same as, or similar to, conciliation. Whatever its name, at its core is a voluntary process used to help two or more disputants negotiate and settle their differences. The article has described a basic model of mediation taught to community mediators in Hawaii and adapted to a wide variety of disputes. The people of Hawaii have made it their own process. Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 4 - LEVELS OF MEDIATION 1. Commercial 2. Community 3. Co-Workers Friends & Family Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 5 - Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 6 - Stages THE MEDIATION PROCESS 1 CONVENE THE PARTIES stressing the voluntary, confidential, and impartial nature of the mediation process 2 DEFINE THE PROBLEMS by COLLECTING INFORMATION about past and current issues, positions, interests, feelings & hidden agenda 3 FIND SOLUTIONS by HELPING THEM NEGOTIATE by preparing them to bargaining then managing the bargaining to find solutions that look to the future 4 WRAP UP by drafting Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 7 - a balanced, specific, workable agreement MEDIATION ADVANTAGES * faster than litigation * less expensive than litigation * informal * parties select the neutral * parties determine the outcome * non-binding until agreement is reached * opportunity to vent emotions * creative solutions are possible * mediation sessions are private * mediation outcomes are confidential * parties decide who participates DISADVANTAGES * one party can refuse to mediate * can't make legal precedent * difficult if there is a power imbalance * may not discover all the facts * may not result in a decision Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 8 - MEDIATOR OUTLINE Use the basic 4 part mediation model to try to resolve this dispute. If you are using comediators, each mediator should do some of the work in each part of the mediation. 1. INTRODUCTION Introduction of people Explain the Mediation process - I will not decide - Neutral & confidential 2. COLLECT INFORMATION Have both parties explain the dispute Ask some open-ended & clarifying questions Hold private meetings with each disputant. Ask about facts, feelings, history, needs, interests, reasons ask "why?" Past and future relationship? 3. HELP PARTIES NEGOTIATE Help parties brainstorm solutions Be optimistic and positive. Help save "face" Do not judge the result 4. CONCLUDE THE AGREEMENT Get a specific agreement Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 9 - FACILITATIVE & EVALUATIVE MEDIATION STYLES Two very different mediation styles are the facilitative and evaluative styles. The following article explains more about the two mediation styles. Community mediators tend to use the facilitative style; commerical mediators tend to use the evaluative style MEDIATOR ORIENTATIONS, STRATEGIES AND TECHNIQUES 12 Alternatives to High Cost Litig. 111 (Sept. 1994) Leonard L. Riskin THE MEDIATOR'S ROLE The evaluative mediator assumes that the participants want and need the mediator to provide some direction as to the appropriate grounds for settlement--based on law, industry practice or technology. She also assumes that the mediator is qualified to give such direction by virtue of her experience, training and objectivity. The facilitative mediator assumes the parties are intelligent, able to work with their counterparts, and capable of understanding their situations better than either their lawyers or the mediator. So the parties may develop better solutions than any that the mediator might create. For these reasons, the facilitative mediator assumes that his principal mission is to enhance and clarify communications between the parties in order to help them decide what to do. The facilitative mediator believes it is inappropriate for the mediator to give his opinion, for at least two reasons. First, such opinions might impair the appearance of impartiality and thereby interfere with the mediator's ability to function. Second, the mediator might not know enough--about the details of the case or the relevant law, practices or technology--to give an informed opinion. SUBJECT-MATTER EXPERTISE In selecting a mediator, what is the relevance of "subject-matter expertise?" The term could mean substantial understanding of either the law, customary practices, or technology associated with the dispute. In a patent infringement lawsuit, for instance, a mediator with subject-matter expertise could be familiar with the patent law or litigation, practices in the industry, or the relevant technology--or with all three of these areas. The need for subject-matter expertise typically increases to the extent that the parties seek evaluations--assessments, predictions or proposals--from the mediator. The kind of subject-matter expertise needed depends on the kind of evaluation or direction the parties seek. If they want a prediction about what would happen in court, Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 10 - they need a mediator with a strong background in related litigation. If they want suggestions about how to structure future business relations, perhaps the mediator should understand the relevant industries. If they want to propose new government regulations (as in a regulatory negotiation), they might wish to retain a mediator who understands administrative law and procedure. In contrast, to the extent that the parties feel capable of understanding their circumstances and developing potential solutions--singly, jointly or with assistance from outside experts--they might prefer a mediator with great skill in the mediation process, even if she lacks subject-matter expertise. In such circumstances, the mediator need only have a rough understanding of the relevant law, customs and technology. In fact, too much subject-matter expertise could incline some mediators toward a more evaluative role, and could thereby interfere with developing creative solutions. Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 11 - VERY SIMPLE MEDIATION CLAUSE All disputes arising out this contract shall be submitted to mediation. Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 12 - WESTERN MEDIATION COMPARED TO DISPUTE RESOLUTION IN OTHER CULTURES CLASSIC WESTERN MEDIATION Neutral Face-to-face Facilitate communication Explore interests Determine facts & perceptions Identify options Assist in evaluation of options Document the agreement KEIRETSU TRADING CIRCLE JAPANESE Mutual business associate from an established trading circle Meets separately with the parties Explores facts, perceptions, interests Identifies options for mutual benefits Explores obligations to accommodate for the good of future relationship Searches for consensus Convenes parties to confirm agreement HO'OPONOPONO HAWAIIAN High status elder (haku) gathers disputing parties Opening prayer to gods and family guardians (aumakua) Identifies the problem Elder questions the parties Parties acknowledge their actions to gods and each other Talk about solutions, actions to disentangle and to make right (pono) Mutual forgiveness Closing prayer Sharing of meal Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School OLD FRIEND SYSTEM (Lao peng you) - CHINESE Trusted old friend Meets separately with the parties Explores facts & interests Explores interests in context of mutual benefits & interdependence Preserves valuable relationships Identifies options Suggests resolution Save face & give face Convenes parties to confirm agreement Pours tea & talks COUNCIL OF ELDERS (VILLAGE MODEL) Circle of Elders Joint meeting of parties with Circle of Elders Sharing of cultural customs; - prayer to divine spirits Explores facts & perceptions Encourages full expression of views & options Evaluates options in context of group needs Makes suggestions for resolution Acceptance and ceremony Created by Louis Chang, Honolulu, Hawaii, 1995 -Mediation, Page 13 - IDEAS ABOUT INFORMAL MEDIATION You will probably know one or more of the parties. You will probably not want to use the words "mediation," or "caucus." The parties may not need or want a written agreement. You may not be seen as impartial by the parties. You may have a stake in the outcome. You may have a very hard time being impartial. You may be the decision maker if the parties cannot reach an agreement on their own. The process may be VERY informal. You will be applying the techniques and skills of traditional, formal mediation. Confidentiality will be as important as ever. You will generally not have a co-mediator. Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 14 - MEDIATORS FIND SOLUTIONS by HELPING PARTIES NEGOTIATE Uncover Interests Prioritize Interests Brainstorm Options "What could they do...?" "What could you do...?" Establish criteria Create Doubts Review the Relationship Engage in contingent Bargaining "If they were to "For you to , what could you do?" , what would you expect them to do?" Narrow the differences Save Face Emphasize Progress Engage in Reality Testing: BATNA Stress the Consequences of No Agreement Find External Standards & Sources Cheerleader for settlement And, as a last resort: Mediator suggests MULTIPLE options Professor John Barkai --- University of Hawaii Law School -Mediation, Page 15 - PRACTICE MEDIATOR LINES John Barkai FORUM PHASE - DEALING WITH THE PAST AND THE PRESENT Can we agree that as a ground rule, we will ... Remember, you both agreed not interrupt. You will get your uninterrupted time too. Tell me more about that. When did this happen? So what you are saying is ... Wait. Let me be sure I understand correctly. You're saying ... So, as far as you are concerned ... What else is important? Could you say more about that? How do you feel about what happened? What do you mean by that? Is there anything else you want to add? Let's move to the issue of ... Can you tell me more about ...? What additional information do you have on that? Of all that you have talked about, what is most important to you now? NEGOTIATION PHASE - DEALING WITH THE FUTURE What could X do to help you solve this problem?" What can you do to help solve this problem? Do you have any other ideas for solving this problem? What do you think will happen if you can't negotiate a solution? How do you want things to be between the two of you? Is what you are talking about now helpful in reaching a solution? Put yourself in Mr./Ms. X's shoes. How do you think they feel right now. What do you have in mind on that topic? If X were to do A, what would you be willing to do? What I hear you saying is that you might be willing to ... You both seem to agree that ... Do you agree with the solution that we are talking about? What you are talking about sounds like it might work. What will happen if ... MUCH LATER - MEDIATOR SUGGESTIONS: How would you feel about ... What would happen if you tried ... 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