STI Would You Rather Questions Would you Rather Ask Someone Out or Be Asked out? If you started a New Relationship, Would you Trust your New Partner Right Away or Would You Withhold Your Trust until she or he earned it over time? Would you rather be the one to bring up a conversation about Abstinence, Birth Control, or STIs or would you rather have your boyfriend or girlfriend bring up the topic? If you had two friends who were dating each other and one of them told you that he or she had an STI, but didn’t want to tell their partner, would you get involved and say something or stay out of it? Same question as above but instead the friend has HIV.