Learning Objective O U T L I8N E Chapter Listening and Nonverbal Communication Objectives Understanding Listening Behavior Improving Listening Skills 8 C H A P T E R Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior Listening And Nonverbal Communication Copyright © 2001 South-Western College Publishing Co. Chapter 8 Learning Objective Listening and Nonverbal Communication Learning Objectives 1. Identify the importance of well-developed listening skills for success in business. 2. List six indicators of poor listening. 3. Improve listening skills by using a seven-step process. 4. Describe the four major purposes of nonverbal communication. 5. Identify seven guiding principles of nonverbal communication. 6. Describe the components of nonverbal communication. Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Identify the importance of well-developed listening skills for success in business UNDERSTANDING LISTENING BEHAVIOR The Importance of Listening in Business Settings Improving Listening Skills Studies conducted between 1970 and 1990 reveal that listening is:4 • most significant for entry-level positions Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • most important for promotion to upper management • most observed in successful CEOs and upper managers Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Identify the importance of well-developed listening skills for success in business • most significant for entry-level positions • most important for promotion to upper management • most observed in successful CEOs and upper managers Improving Listening Skills • most critical in distinguishing effective from ineffective subordinates • most critical for managerial competency Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • most needed for improvement in communication • most important for career competence • most important for organizational success Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improving Listening Skills Understand your listening self-concept. List six indicators of poor listening. What Is Your Listening Self-Concept? How we think about ourselves as listeners becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Barriers to Effective Listening Indicators of Poor Listening • Receiving an above normal amount of written communication. Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • Feeling left out of important projects. • Missing Important meetings. • Reacting to problems rather than preventing problems. • Being perceived as slow or inept. • Being manipulated easily by others. Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior List six indicators of poor listening. The Silent Enemy of Effective Listening Most people would rather speak than listen. One must possess the desire to listen Improving Listening Skills Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improving Listening Skills Improve listening skills by using a seven-step process. IMPROVING LISTENING SKILLS Understanding and Committing to the Listening Process You listen at different levels: • Signal processing: processing and organizing the words of a message Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • Literal processing: decoding the most basic meaning of a message • Reflective processing: listening for deeper meanings Figure 8.2 Chapter 8 Strategic Listening Process Learning Objective Listening and Nonverbal and Communication Understanding Committing Listening between the Words to the Listening Process 1 Adopting Mental Guidelines for Listening 6 2 Receiving Skills 5 Using Excessive Thinking Time Productively 3 4 Providing Supportive Feedback Improving Memory Learning Objective Figure 8.3 Chapter 8 Model of Listening Listening and Nonverbal Communication Auditory Input SP Signal Processing LP Literal Processing RP Reflective Processing Segments Structures Meaning Simple Implication Critical Analysis Appreciation Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improve listening skills by using a seven-step process. Listening Between the Words • You must listen for deeper meanings. • Listen for the paralanguage elements of speech. Improving Listening Skills Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • How something is said rather than what is said. • Aspects of verbal communication unrelated to the words used. • Paralanguage types: • Voice set: the personal characteristics of the speaker Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improving Listening Skills Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior Improve listening skills by using a seven-step process. • Vocal qualities: characteristics of speech such as pitch, tempo, volume, rhythm, and articulation • Vocal characteristics: vocal sounds such as laughing, crying, snickering, whimpering, moaning, or yawning. • These characteristics can express a state of mind, mood, and even emotional state of individuals • Vocal segregates: vocal sounds that can substitute for words, as in “mm-hush,” “huh-uh,” “sshh,” and “uummm.” • Vocal fillers: vocalizations in which the speaker inadvertently uses “um,” “ah,” or “uh.” • Can result from stress or emotional strain Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improve listening skills by using a seven-step process. Paralanguage and the Implications for Business Settings Vocal cues can be . . . • inadvertently communicate thoughts and feelings Improving Listening Skills • useful in accomplishing business goals • used to communicate feelings toward others • confused with culture and diversity issues Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior Improving Memory • Improving memory increases listening comprehension • Ineffective listeners may hear, attend to, comprehend and then fail to remember oral communication Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improve listening skills by using a seven-step process. Providing Supportive Feedback Good listeners . . . • demonstrate an interest in what the speaker says • maintain appropriate eye contact Improving Listening Skills • smile and show animation • nod occasionally in agreement • lean toward the speaker to demonstrate interest Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • use verbal cues such as “I see” and “yes.” • phrase interpretations to verify understanding • consciously time their verbal and nonverbal feedback to assist the speaker Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improve listening skills by using a seven-step process. Using Excess Thinking Time Productively Good listeners use excess thinking time to concentrate on the message Adapting Mental Guidelines for Effective Listening Improving Listening Skills • Believe that effective listening is crucial • Learn to tolerate and even enjoy silence Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • Relate new information to old information • Adjust to problems of poor listeners • Organize your listening • Ask questions in your mind Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Describe the four major purposes of nonverbal communication. Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior Major Purposes of Nonverbal Communication Improving Listening Skills Nonverbal behavior serves four purposes: • to express emotions Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • to convey interpersonal attitudes • to present one’s personality to others • to accompany verbal communication - to reinforce what was said Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improving Listening Skills Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior Identify the seven guiding principles of nonverbal communication. Principles of Nonverbal Communication • Nonverbal Communication Occurs in a Context: folded arms and laid-back posture • Nonverbal Behaviors Are Usually Packaged: a clustering of posture, eye contact, leg movement, facial expression • Nonverbal Behavior Always Communicates: even when not speaking • Nonverbal Behavior Is Governed by Rules: smiling conveys happiness • Nonverbal Behavior is Highly Believable: eyes darting away Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Describe the components of nonverbal communication. Understanding Listening Behavior • Nonverbal Behavior is Metacommunicational: communication about communication Improving Listening Skills • Nonverbal Behavior Helps Clarify Verbal Communication: with nonverbal communication the signal is neither as clear nor as precise Components of Nonverbal Communication Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • Facial expression: one of the most expressive and reliable channels • Allow you to determine the real motivations and intentions of others Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Describe the components of nonverbal communication. • Eye and Visual Behavior: the movement and focus of the eyes reveal a great deal of information • Cultural differences Improving Listening Skills Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • Persuasion • Avoidance of Communication • Gesture and Body Movement: problems occur whenever a person’s gestures conflict with the verbal message • Posture • Time and Space: culturally determined • personal space, environmental space Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication Understanding Listening Behavior Improving Listening Skills Describe the components of nonverbal communication. • Dress: general appearance signals others • Physical characteristics: body type, height, weight, hair, and skin color or tone • Studies have shown that people readily attribute greater intelligence, wit, charm and sociability to those people whom they judge to be very attractive • Additional sense related issues: • Artifacts: human made objects Understanding and Improving Nonverbal Behavior • Haptic: all human touch • Olfactics: sense of smell • Gustics: ability to taste • Acoustics: sound • Silence: the absence of sound to communicate Learning Objective Chapter 8 Listening and Nonverbal Communication The End Copyright © 2000 South-Western College Publishing Co.