Suria, what do you want to be when you grow up? Trapezist, fire woman and dentist! EDUCATING TOWARDS AUTONOMY From early age Educating to reasure carers / parents that a bleeding disorder is manageable Psychology to enhance the individual's potentialities INCREASE INTEREST OF CARERS AND HCPs IN DEVELOPMENTAL PSYCHOLOGY to BETTER UNDERSTAND CHILDHOOD AND ADOLESCENCE Parents and carers can learn from other successful experienced parents' stories 1 Pep PROGRAM How to raise and attend the needs of a child with hemophilia 2 Understanding the different stages of accepting hemophilia and different psychological interventions 3 4 What are the different issues and needs in childhood, teens years toward adulthood 5 DUTREIL, S., RICE, J., MERRITT, D. and KUEBLER, E. J. (2011), Parents Empowering Parents (PEP) Program: understanding its impact on the bleeding disorders community. Haemophilia, 17: e895–e900. doi: 10.1111/j.1365-2516.2011.02512.x / KELLY, L. (2001) Raising a child with hemophilia / CASSIS, F (2007) Psychosocial Care for People with Haemophilia.Treatment for haemophilia, number 44 / YOUNG, G. (2012), From boy to man: recommendations for the transition process in haemophilia. Haemophilia, 18: 27–32. doi: 10.1111/j.1365-2516.2012.02893.x / SIMMONS, G. M., Frick, N., Wang, A., Miller, M. E. and Fragueiro, D. (2014), Identifying information needs among children and teens living with haemophilia. Haemophilia, 20: 1–8. doi: 10.1111/hae.12223 PSYCHO-EDUCATION ? What is it? A psychological intervention where information about etiology, symptoms and treatment is given by a psychotherapist / counsellor to the patient and family Objectives: • knowing more about 1) your-self and 2) your blood clotting disorder and management - each one has his /her own way to live the chronic condition • provide costumized orientations about how to deal with the symtoms and optimize the treatment by good adherence • improve day-to-day life by feeling managing better the condition How? 1) take into consideration the cognitive stage and phase of development 2) using expressive techniques, educational tools like flash cards,videos, phone assistence and specific trainings BUILDING IDENTITY AND PSYCHO + EDUCATIONAL approach why “they” insist in this treatment? Why injecting so many times? What is von willebrand? Hemophilia? What is happening? Why do I bleed? What can I do to improve? How do I feel? What is irritating me? What is hard for me? Can I be independent? Work? Can I go to camp? Can I play soccer? TRANSITIONING… ALWAYS Deeper understanding of children and adolescents is important to deliver eficiently information Information that shapes by: 1. Preventing misconceptions about growing healthy with a bleeding disorders 2. Clarifying doubts to direct energies towards achievements 3. Being open to other possibilities knowing their true limitations Enhancing coordination, developing senses, experiencing his body functions High curiosity, more and more verbal fluency, no-no phase, more collaboration Feeling more in control, more himself Psychoeducation: Normalizing by mentioning the bleeding disorder's name, accepting treatment and proud to be gradually active in it. Listen comprehensively to him /her when not liking or afraid. Reassure by giving her/him solutions like a medical kit, box to keep things. Click to edit the outline text format Second Outline Level Third Outline Level Fourth Outline Level Click to edit the outline Healthy self-image and creativity in text format BABY and boy/girlhood phase (2-6) In baby and kiddo phase training soft skills is important for our future worker: solving problems, fluency in expressing ideas and feelings, identity is born Second Outline Level Third Outline Level And if he /she wants to be a rock star, or a soccer player JUST LET magic be, listen, ask the kid questions, let him dream!! Fourth Outline Level From developmental psychology: more awareness of the differences, at school comparison occur not only physical, mental also in skills and the limitations are clear. His parents are not the only reference. sociability and first crisis in his personality identity: avoid criticizing about their struggles with academics, sports or making friends. Meanwhile, encourage your tween to continue activities that he or she is good at. Psychoeducation: important conquests: he knows a lot about hemophilia, he may also know how to infuse factor, encourage in decisionmaking process about his treatment, providing strategies to deal with being different and how it affects or not his/her life (cases of abseenteeism + peer support for ex) Learning to accept one-self , with different style, different way of being: tolerance 6,7-12 being a boy / girl and a tween How this phase can influence positively our future worker? Resilience: knowing the positive effect of adhering to prophylaxis, he can understand early how is constructive to be constant, disciplined learn to defend his ideas.... learning to give arguments. In this phase they can wish to be several things at the same time! Like suria...or they change opinion easily.... just tell him that if they wish to be a soccer player, he will have to plan that, to work towards it and see if he/she is really able to. DREAMING and REALITY ...but LET them feel in control of their dream. Second crisis: lot of changing: tastes, cloths, style, friends, activities...EXPLORING phase and that's healthy! They wish for independence and they have their beliefs about “things” Psychoeducation: • more and more importance in listening to his needs, his experience related to prophilaxis or other treatment. • Commitment in treatment is gradually acquired :Important to involve him/her in the HOW he or she wants to do it, discussing firmly about his responsibilities and his rights. More autonomy in camps, travels, sleep over and management of his body, his friendships, his choices Adolescence and jobs EXPLORATION and COMMITMENT: finding the right balance! Click to edit the This is the phase where they outline text format usually answer: I don't know what I want to be! No ideaaaaa! No more imagination or magic. Moratorium phase...no decisions but experiencing or watching other's ways Second Outline Level Third Outline Level Parents / carers' role: Intuition to feel their young boy /girl...to let them explore and change without critize the fact they don't want to continue something...the notion of commitment comes when they experience severals “short jobs” , discuss with other experienced professionals and try again. Fourth Outline Level DEVELOPING SOFT SKILLS LIVING WITH A BLEEDING DISORDER? your personality is as important as diplomas. 1 3 Good communication is learned when a kid knows from childhood to talk, explain his hemophilia 2 Able to work in a team can be learned by dealing early with different HCPs and feeling part of the care team Flexibility by adapting, adjusting and solving problems in management of his condition 4 Resilience, dedication is acquired by being able to handle difficult health situations like pain or doing physio programs to reach a goal GIRLS AND BOYS From 18 to 36 years old in our Hemophilia Center and other bleeding disorders Medical field (3) nurses Computer and electric field (12) 82 TOTAL 70 Family company (3) Administrative field (50) electric / electronic services, installation of ownings, insurance 12 Artistic field (2), Jornalistic (1) , Teaching fields (4) Independent professions(8) car wash, bakery, seller of electrical materials, school bus , tire repair shop, driver, floristry, painter (3 restaurant, billing, 3 shops, notary, 8 assistents, 2 marketing, 6 pharmacy shops, 2 banking, 2 client services, hospital, baking, pressing, 2 security, 6 auxiliary administration, driver, 2 accounting, administrator, bus collector, concierge, hotel , mockups building, nanny) FINAL CONSIDERATIONS As a psychotherapist: Begin in childhood to facilitate the development of a child by letting him be + learning about his condition As a parent: A blood clotting disorder is part of the child so do not focus all life events on that. Normality comes when enjoying him/her just living To win a job, to be autonomous and productive is healthy, is part of enjoying a good life. Carers must provide the best conditions social, psychological, spiritual, medical....and then, we must LET THEM try, experience ...and SOAR Thank You! Frederica R.M.Y Cassis frederica.cassis@gmail.com