ParentTalkPodcast Episode 006
Parent Talk Podcast
The Power of Parenting with A Positive
Attitude
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Choose your attitude (inspired by the FISH!
Philosophy). Choose to have a positive attitude.
What good has happened to your life in the last
month, last week, today? When you hear something
good happened, how does that make you feel?
Does it make you feel good? Do you feel touched,
inspired, motivated?
Take a moment to think about this: What has been
good in your life? When you focus on the positive, it changes your attitude and
motivates you. You are reinforcing the positive.
Attitude is defined as “a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or
something and is typically reflected in one’s actions.”
Your feelings can be discerned through your actions. If you start your day with
a negative attitude toward your kids, they can tell by your behavior. What is your
attitude when it comes to parenting kids?
It’s easier to talk about the negative than the positive. When we focus on the
negative, it affects our attitude and parenting. You probably know people who are
always negative. In an effort to change their thinking, ask an always-negative person
to tell you something good that has happened (something all good, not just
conditionally good).
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ParentTalkPodcast Episode 006
Your perspective changes so much. Here are some quotes about attitudes.
“We can complain that rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorns have
roses.” - Abraham Lincoln
“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer
yourself in any direction you choose.” - Dr. Seuss
“A bad attitude is like a flat tire: if you don’t change it, you won’t go anywhere.”
- Unknown
Awareness to action
1. Look for something good in your kids and/or family that you can talk about
- Ask others in your family about good that has happened to them
2. Acknowledge the good with no strings attached
- Don’t be the type of parent (or person) that says, “Well, you did well, but if
you had done more, you would have done better.” Constructive criticism has its place,
but so does encouragement.
3. Make it a habit, not a ritual
- Don’t do things (like asking about something good that happened every
dinner) just because you’re supposed to do it. Be engaged and truly focus on the
good.
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“I choose to have a positive attitude” does not mean everything is positive. It
expresses the ability to see beyond the negativity and not focus on those things. It
means acknowledging the positive and not forget it in the midst of the negativity.
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ParentTalkPodcast Episode 006
If you do this,
1. Your attitude will change
2. Your focus will change
3. You will create a habit of looking for the good
4. Your kids will seek positive attention from you
- Our kids want to be heard and seen because we all have the desire to be
acknowledged. Give them that positive reinforcement at home so they don’t have to
search for other outlets
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Start by asking your family questions like these:
What was your favorite part of the day?
Tell me something good that happened this week?
Do you do something else with your family? Please share with the community.
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