GENDER COMPETITION AND FAMILY CHANGE Robert Schoen Department of Sociology Pennsylvania State University University Park PA 16802 February 2008 Support from NIH under grant R01 HD045309, “Family Formation in an Era of Family Change” (PI Nancy Landale) is gratefully acknowledged, as is research assistance from Claudia Nau and Kimberly Daniels, and comments on an earlier draft from Paul Amato, Alan Booth, Jeffrey Dew, Bryndl Hohmann-Marriott, Susan McHale, and Stacy Rogers. 1 Gender Competition and Family Change Abstract Over the last 40 years, the United States and many other Western nations have seen a major economic shift to the service sector, the large scale employment of women, and attitudinal changes favoring gender equality and individual autonomy. Over the same period, huge changes in family behavior have occurred, including a retreat from marriage, a rise in cohabitation, and an upsurge in nonmarital fertility. Here the argument is advanced that those macro socioeconomic and ideological changes are linked to family changes through the micro mechanism of gender competition, i.e. partners striving for status, power, and control within their relationship. Although complex social changes are the result of many forces, it is argued that (1) alternative explanations of family change are inadequate; (2) gender competition is real, widespread, and a powerful force for change; (3) observed family changes can be seen in terms of the competitive strategies men and women employed in relationships; and (4) in subgroups identified on the basis of class and race, the extent of the retreat from marriage mirrors male/female differentials in gender attitudes. 2 Gender Competition and Family Change The last half century saw extraordinary changes in family behavior in most Western countries (Axinn and Thornton 2000; Lesthaeghe 1995). Focusing on the United States, this essay seeks to relate those changes to their social and economic context. First, past economic and attitudinal changes are briefly described, as are some major trends in family behavior. The argument is then made that the gender competition unleashed by those macro socioeconomic and ideological changes is an important and underappreciated factor that underlies family change. Economic Transformation and Socioeconomic Change As World War II receded into the past, Western nations saw their economies not only grow but transform. Large, service-based tertiary sectors emerged, which grew to dominate what would become post-industrial economies (see Table 1). Many of the new jobs created were in areas considered “women’s work”, and women’s labor force participation increased markedly over time. Women comprised a steadily increasing fraction of the labor force, even at the prime childrearing ages and, on average, spent an ever larger fraction of their lives in gainful employment. Women’s wages relative to men’s also rose, from 61% in 1960 to 73% in 2000. The demographic context was favorable to an increase in women’s employment. As the Baby Boom ended in the early 1960s, American fertility fell from 3.6 children per woman in 1960 to less than two in the 1970s, and has fluctuated near two since then. Fewer children reduced the conflict between women’s labor force participation and childrearing. In the 1960s and 1970s, the United States experienced a marriage squeeze, as there were more women than men of marriageable age. As a result of that imbalance, 3 Schoen (1983) calculated that women’s average age at marriage increased by over 0.6 years between 1955 and 1970. Heer and Grossbard-Shechtman (1981) argued that the marriage squeeze encouraged young women to remain in the labor force longer than they might otherwise have. Once the rise in women’s employment was underway, status competition may have acted to promote further increases. As more and more families had two earners, their consumption standards could exceed those of otherwise comparable one earner families. In his classic exposition on the forces producing fertility declines, Kingsley Davis (1963) argued that it was resistance to a relative loss of status that drove down fertility rates. It is now commonplace to hear that families “need” two earners to “just get by”. Such claims suggest that the one-earner/two-earner income discrepancy may have fostered a status competition that drew nonworking women into the expanding labor force. Ideological Changes Regarding Family Behavior As women entered the labor force in larger numbers and on a more permanent basis, they encountered substantial discrimination in hiring, wages, and opportunities for advancement. The Women’s Movement that began in the 1960s started as a reaction to discrimination against women workers, and became part of a growing campaign for gender equality. The times were propitious for such a campaign. Heer and Grossbard-Shechtman (1981) argued that the marriage squeeze against women reduced the “compensation” men were obliged to pay women for their domestic services, and provided additional impetus to the Women’s Movement. The oral contraceptive pill was introduced in 1960, 4 facilitating women’s ability to control their reproduction. In the 1970s, that ability was further enhanced when legal abortion became readily available nearly everywhere in the country. The extent of family control over adolescents and young adults began to decline markedly (Rosenfeld 2006). The Western world in general was experiencing an ideological shift toward greater individual autonomy. A complex of family related attitudes and behaviors, termed the Second Demographic Transition, was observed (Lesthaeghe 1995), which included increased secularism, a belief in individual freedom, a rise in cohabitation and premarital sexual behavior, postponement of marriage and parenthood, low fertility and increased childlessness, and a rise in nonmarital childbearing. The United States, despite some exceptional characteristics, appears to be an exemplar of the Second Demographic Transition (Lesthaeghe and Neidert 2006). Table 2 shows that the U.S. experienced a shift in attitudes from the 1960s to the 1990s quite consistent with that transition. The figures, assembled by Thornton and Young-DeMarco (2001), come from three different surveys. The General Social Survey represents a sample of the noninstitutionalized, English speaking population of the United States 24 years of age and older. The Study of American Families followed a cohort of persons born in 1961 in the Detroit Metropolitan Area. Monitoring the Future surveyed a nationally representative sample of high school seniors. By the 1990s, Table 2 shows that there was a great acceptance of premarital sex and cohabitation among both men and women. About half of young men and women graduating from High School felt that unmarried childbearing was either a worthwhile experiment or “doing one’s thing”; scarcely a third expressed disapproval. These changes represented a major shift in family 5 values. 4. Trends and Differentials in Gender Attitudes Despite those attitudinal shifts toward greater choice in family and reproductive behavior, there has been resistance to the idea of gender equality. The Equal Rights Amendment to the U.S. Constitution failed. The belief in male leadership did not disappear among men nor, to a lesser extent, among women. Table 3 shows survey results on the percent of men and women indicating egalitarian sex role attitudes (Thornton and Young-DeMarco 2001). The three items are from Monitoring the Future, and thus reflect the views of those on the threshold of their prime relationship formation and reproductive years. Egalitarian views generally increased over time, but there were substantial gender differences even in 1997-98, the latest survey period shown. Half of all men felt that the husband should make all important decisions in the family, and nearly two-thirds believed that it is usually better if the man is the achiever outside the home and the woman is the homemaker. Women had much more egalitarian views, but 2 out of 7 believed that it is usually better if the man is the achiever outside the home. Moreover, on all three measures, the difference between the level of egalitarianism expressed by high school senior men and women increased from 1976-77 to 1997-98. For example, 28% more women than men believed that the husband should not make all important decisions in 1976-77, but 35% more women than men did so in 1997-98. Recent years have seen a substantial divergence in the gender attitudes of men and women. Gender attitudes are known to vary with both education and race/ethnicity (cf. Cherlin 1999). Higher education has consistently been associated with men’s more 6 liberal attitudes and greater acceptance of gender equality (Blee and Tickamyer 1995; Goldscheider and Waite 1991: 54-56). Compared to non-Hispanic Whites, African Americans and Hispanic Americans are more likely to believe that the man should be the head of the household and the primary economic provider (Bourgois 2003; Kane 2000; Staples 1985; Taylor, Tucker and Mitchell-Kernan 1999). Although African American men are less egalitarian in their outlook than White men, Black women do not significantly differ from White women in their sex role attitudes (Ransford and Miller 1983). In general, the divergence in gender role attitudes between men and women is greater among the less educated than the well educated, and more pronounced among Blacks than among Whites. Changes in Family Behavior Table 4 shows how American family behavior changed as the Second Demographic Transition proceeded. There was a steady decline in the proportion of men and women ever marrying, from 96-97% in 1960 to 83-89% in 1995. At the same time, the average age at first marriage increased by 5 or more years for both men and women. In 1995, the smaller proportion that ever married entered marriage, on average, when they were in their late 20s, not their early 20s. The proportion of marriages ending in divorce rose sharply from 1960 to 1980, before plateauing at that high level. Since some marriage dissolutions never result in a legal divorce, the proportion of marriages disrupting is now likely close to one half. The retreat from marriage was accompanied by a rise in cohabitation. Three out of eight women born during the years 1965-69 cohabited before attaining age 25. In 1995, 49% of women aged 30-34 had cohabited (Bumpass and Lu 2000: Table 1). The 7 proportion of births outside of marriage also increased dramatically. From 1 birth in 20 in 1960, it rose to 1 in 3 in 1999. The Role of Gender Competition Changes in the structure of the American economy, and their social and ideological consequences, have thus been accompanied by profound family changes. Here, the argument is made that an important and underappreciated mechanism linking those socioeconomic and ideological developments to family change is gender competition. Given the context of an intimate relationship between a man and a woman, the term gender competition refers to contestations between them for status, power, and control. It is a micro phenomenon that operates at the partner level, though in a context that includes societal norms, beliefs, and practices. Gender competition includes striving for an equal or leadership role, for greater authority in decision-making, and for a more favorable division of housework and child care. Moreover, it encompasses the strategies and tactics used to achieve those objectives and establish more advantageous terms of trade in the relationship. The basic structure of the argument is shown in Figure 1. There is no claim that gender competition is the only force behind family change, or that each step of the process inevitably follows from the preceding step. An emphasis on individual autonomy can itself weaken marriage. Greater economic self-sufficiency implies that marriage is less important for both men and women. Apart from gender competition, the increased educational requirements of the labor market may well have lengthened time in school for both men and women, pushing the age at marriage upward and possibly increasing 8 cohabitation (Oppenheimer 2003). More independence from parental supervision has likely played a role as well (Rosenfeld 2006). Social change is invariably a complex and multidimensional phenomenon, and there is no way to quantify the contribution of gender competition. Instead, four more modest objectives are pursued. They are to show that (1) the alternative explanations for family change that have been proposed are inadequate; (2) gender competition is real, widespread; and has the capacity to produce significant social change; (3) the observed changes in family behavior can usefully be interpreted in terms of gender competition strategies, and (4) family change by class and race mirrors the differentials in gender attitudes. The Inadequacy of Alternative Explanations A number of explanations for recent family changes have been offered in the literature. The four principal approaches are examined in this section. A leading explanation is the “Role Specialization” or “Specialization and Trading” view advanced by Becker (1981), which uses an economic framework to argue that the benefits of marriage are maximized when men specialize in economic activities and women in domestic activities. The increase in women’s employment is seen as a departure from optimum specialization that diminishes the gains to marriage, and hence acts to discourage marriage and increase divorce. That view attracted a good deal of attention, as increases in women’s employment were occurring while marriage was in retreat and divorce was rising to record levels. Further analysis, however, revealed serious problems with the Role Specialization idea. It frames the issue in terms of unchanging social institutions, and is thus unable to explain such accompanying institutional changes as the rise in cohabitation. In economic terms, Moffitt (2000) 9 criticized it for focusing on relative female/male wages while ignoring the sum of male plus female wages. Doing so renders the net benefit of women’s employment indeterminate instead of negative. Moreover, no serious case has been made that a woman’s contribution to a marriage is maximized by a focus on homemaking. Oppenheimer (1994) pointed out that in contemporary nuclear families specialization can make the family vulnerable to the loss of a unique individual, so flexibility, even some redundancy, may well be a better strategy. Although Becker’s argument claims that marital conflict is likely when both husband and wife are employed, empirical evidence has found that not to be true once prior marital quality is taken into account. Schoen, Astone, Rothert, Standish and Kim (2002), using longitudinal data from the National Survey of Families and Households, found that wives’ employment did not destabilize happy marriages. Schoen, Rogers, and Amato (2006), using the same data set, found that wives’ full time employment was associated with greater marital stability and had no effect on marital quality. A related explanation of the decline in marriage argues that when women achieve economic independence, they will choose to be unmarried. Theoretically, Scanzoni (1979) argued that need not be the case, as women could use their additional bargaining power to negotiate a better marital relationship. Empirically, the “Independence” view does not fit the facts. Women with more education, and thus more earnings potential, are more likely to marry, not less (Schoen and Cheng 2006). Sweeney and Cancian (2004) found that women’s earnings potential made them increasingly sought after in the marriage market, and the review of the literature by White and Rogers (2000) found that both men’s and women’s economic resources are positively related to marriage. 10 A third economic explanation focuses on men’s labor force experience (cf. Moffitt 2001; Oppenheimer 1994). Men with less than a college education have had stagnant or declining real wages for most of the past four decades, and that experience may well have contributed to an increase in the age at marriage. Yet it does not follow that other family changes such as the rise in cohabitation and nonmarital fertility would ensue. The Depression of the 1930s and other periods of difficult economic conditions did not have such effects. Moreover, as Ellwood and Jencks (2001) concluded, the changes in the economic situation of men in the lower two-thirds of the educational distribution are not able to explain much of the observed change in family behaviors. A demographic explanation has also been offered, which sees a shortage of men relative to women---i.e. a marriage squeeze---as a major factor in lower marriage and higher nonmarital fertility (Lichter, LeClere, and McLaughlin 1991; South and Lloyd 1992). That argument has been made in particularly strong terms with regard to Blacks (Darity and Myers 1995). Empirically, there does not seem to be any basis for such a belief. The analysis in Schoen (1983), which indicated a marriage squeeze induced increase in the average age at marriage between 1955 and 1970, found that the marriage squeeze had minor effects after 1980 and never produced more than negligible changes in the proportion ever marrying. A detailed study of the effects of sex composition on marriage behavior in North Carolina and Virginia between 1970 and 1980 by Schoen and Kluegel (1988) found that, for both Blacks and Whites, composition played a very minor role. For Blacks, the sex ratio argument is frequently put in terms of a shortage of “marriageable” (i.e. employed) men (Wilson 1987). That restatement, however, casts the issue in terms of suitability rather than availability, a very different matter. 11 In sum, the literature does not reveal an alternative explanation capable of producing the observed family changes. We thus further explore the gender competition approach in order to examine its potential influence, interpretive value, and consistency with the available evidence. The Reality of Gender Competition Cynthia Fuchs Epstein (2007: 1), in the article based on her 2006 Presidential Address to the American Sociological Association, wrote that “Categorization based on sex is the most basic social divide. It is the organizational basis of most major institutions, including the division of labor in the home, the workforce, politics, and religion.” In the framework advanced by Portes (2006), changes in such fundamental structures as the nature of the relationship between men and women tap deep cultural values, with the potential to generate forces that can transform social institutions and social practices. A noteworthy example is the penetrating analysis of the abortion controversy by Luker (1984), which described how a threat to the centrality of women’s role as housewife and mother had (and continues to have) profound social and political reverberations. Before the 1960s, American marriages were largely characterized by an exchange of the husband’s breadwinning activities for the wife’s homemaking services. Such a pattern of exchange has by no means disappeared, but the rise in women’s labor force participation has made it far less common. Yet despite the growth of women’s economic power and the spread of the ideology of gender equality, marriage and family life remain strongly gendered. One of the family’s core functions is sexual reproduction. Wilcox and Nock (2006) found that both husbands and wives still value gendered relationships, 12 and that women are not happier in marriages characterized by egalitarian practices and beliefs. A striking illustration is the phenomenon of “doing gender”. The gender differential in hours of household labor has narrowed somewhat, but women still do most of the housework. Brines (1994) found that the generally observed inverse relationship between housework and paid employment breaks down when the husband earns less than the wife. Economically dependent husbands do less housework when they are more reliant on their wives’ income. In effect, gender is “done” in that the husband’s shortcomings as a provider are offset by a reinforcement of the wife’s homemaker role. Those empirical findings have largely been replicated in subsequent work (e.g. Bittman et al 2003; Fenstermaker and West 2002; Greenstein 2000). The analysis of Greenstein (2000) characterized the wife’s enhanced contribution to housework as a gender display that acted to neutralize the “deviance” represented by her higher earnings. The study of Bittman et al (2003) spoke of gender “trumping” money. In contrast to the ideology of gender equality, doing gender represents an acknowledgment that the woman should be the primary homemaker. Discord is avoided by a public display of a gendered division of labor on the part of women with the greatest economic resources to resist such a division of labor. Two prominent features of contemporary family life emphasize differences between men and women. The first is that while it is generally acceptable for a woman either to be in the labor market or to be a homemaker, all men are expected to be gainfully employed. The second is that, barring compelling evidence to the contrary, children are seen as belonging with their mother. These views are widely held by both 13 men and women across the social spectrum, and have far-reaching consequences. Men who do not have a steady job are simply not considered suitable marriage partners. Should the relationship between mother and father dissolve---and most current relationships do---the children are likely to go with their mother. That prospect can weaken the ties between fathers and their children. Two more implications can be drawn. First, those gendered features reinforce the economic role of men and the noneconomic role of women in family life. Second, those societally inconsistent views regarding gender equality (i.e. men and women are equal, but women are privileged with regard to their children) can promote gender competition and lead to discord between partners. There is nothing new about gender competition or struggles for power in relationships. The “battle between the sexes” is an old cliché. Waller (1937) wrote about the Principle of Least Interest, which enables the less involved or less dependent partner to exert power by threatening to leave the relationship. A consistent research finding is that power in relationships flows from resources. Those resources may be of many different kinds, including personality, intelligence, and social ties, but they most certainly include economic means (cf. Blood and Wolfe 1960; Scanzoni and Scanzoni 1981). The increased employment of women, and the additional financial resources that brought them, changed the power dynamics in many relationships. Women were able to compete more effectively for a greater role in decision-making and a more favorable division of housework. At the same time, the gender attitudes of men and women were diverging in an unprecedented fashion (cf. Table 3). That combination may well have led to a dramatic broadening of the areas being contested. In particular, the rise of cohabitation meant that the form of the relationship itself was up for negotiation. 14 A central argument made here is that many men did respond competitively to the changed economic, social, and ideological situation. As is explored further in the next section, men with advantages in economic resources could strive to bring them to bear. If marriage as an institution limited men’s freedom and imposed long term obligations, alternative institutional settings could be favored. Cohabitations and nonresidential relationships that proved unsatisfactory could be terminated without legal proceedings. If relationships were unstable and children stay with their mother, fathers could devote fewer resources to them. Of course, strategies can provoke counter-strategies. If women anticipate less support from men, they could strive to be economically self-sufficient. If men cannot be relied upon as marriage partners, women wanting children could have them without marrying. Goldscheider and Waite (1991: xv) noted that the profound shift in women’s employment made it seem that only women’s lives were different, leading many observers to try and explain family change solely in terms of women’s behavior. I agree that such a view is fundamentally mistaken. Given the extensive literature on gendered institutions and male dominance, it should be evident that men’s attitudes and behavior must have played a critical role. There simply has been a lack of attention paid to men’s responses, and the increasing ability of men to choose from a wider array of family options. A significant exception is the work of Le Bourdais and Lapierre-Adamcyk (2004), which argued with respect to Quebec that a shift away from marriage and toward cohabitation can be seen as rooted in the redefinition of men’s and women’s roles in conjugal relationships and the struggle for equality between men and women. 15 Discord between partners is quite likely in relationships characterized by low levels of commitment, limited sharing of resources, and struggles for control. Sociodemographic data reflect that many unions do in fact encounter difficulties. The likelihood of divorce rose until the early 1980s and has remained close to 50% ever since, despite the shift to a later age at first marriage (which is associated with a lower risk of divorce). Marital quality remained constant between 1980 and 2000 (Amato, Johnson, Booth, and Rogers 2003), even though persons likely to have poorer marital quality may well have been in cohabitations, not marriages. Cohabitations between persons without plans to marry are known to have significantly poorer relationship quality than marriages (Brown and Booth 1996). Furthermore, while most cohabitations are still short-lived, the proportion of cohabitations that become marriages has declined substantially (Schoen, Landale and Daniels (2007). In the United States, ethnographic work has revealed that distrust between men and women runs deep in many poor communities. Edin and Kefalas (2005) studied poor White, Black, and Hispanic women in the greater Philadelphia area, and found that social class, not race/ethnicity, was the key factor. Women were reluctant to marry, and typically had a profound suspicion of men. They reported that men would not keep their promises of support, spending money on themselves but not their families, and defaulting on their obligations to provide for their children. The women were determined not to be economically dependent on a man, and had no interest in marrying a man who did not have resources and a job. Children, however, were a necessity, “the best of what life offers” (p170). The women were not ignorant of birth control. While births were 16 generally not planned, they were rather allowed to happen and almost always welcomed. Adoption was generally frowned upon, and abortion seen as a tragedy. Anderson (1999) studied a predominately Black inner city area in Philadelphia, and provided more from a male perspective. Young men gained respect from fathering children and dominating their girl friends, but not from establishing a long term relationship with a woman or from limiting their own freedom to pursue other relationships or spend their money as they pleased. Relationships between young men and women often took the form of a “game”, where he got prestige from getting a woman to bear his child, while she got a child that was hers. There was a clear understanding on the part of both men and women that the child belonged to the mother. A good father saw himself as contributing to his child’s support, but considered that task to be the primary responsibility of the mother. Bourgois (2003) studied a disadvantaged Puerto Rican community in East Harlem, New York, and found a misogynistic street culture. He reported that men did not accept the new rights and roles that women had obtained, and desperately tried to reassert their grandfathers’ lost autocratic control over their households and public areas. Street culture celebrated the cacheteando or gigolo, who lived off his girlfriends. Women did not expect a man to support his children, but rather felt it was his responsibility to support the children of the woman he was with. In the 1950s and 1960s, poverty was very real in many parts of America, but the overwhelming majority of men and women married. The husband was usually the primary earner, and in most cases the couple raised their children together. The ethnographies of the time (e.g. Komarovsky 1964; Rubin 1976) focused on working class 17 families. They found them beset with problems, but resilient. That earlier pattern stands in stark contrast to the fragile unions found by Anderson (1999), Bourgois (2003), and Edin and Kefalas (2005). Gender competition, and the discord between partners that it spawned, not poverty, appears to be the crucial difference. Family Change as a Reflection of Gender Competition The continuing economic disparity between the earnings of men and women stands in sharp contrast to the ideology of equality, and can directly influence the nature of relationships. Men (or women) who provide more than half of the resources of a partnership might well question why they should receive only half of the benefits of that partnership. Marriage is a formal union with many legal restrictions and normative prescriptions that substantially limit individual autonomy. Cohabitation can provide many of the same benefits as marriage, but allows greater individual autonomy and avoids long term commitments and obligations (cf. Rindfuss and VandenHeuvel 1990). Cohabiters have many different motivations, so any generalizations about them must be qualified. As an institutional structure, however, cohabitation provides a context where a belief in gender equality can be reconciled with economic inequality. Either partner is free to leave at any time. No formal rules constrain them, but none provide support to the one with fewer resources. Cohabiters are less likely to pool financial resources than married persons (Oropesa, Landale and Kenkre 2003; Treas 1993; Winkler 1997), and can thus withhold resources more easily. Thus cohabitation allows the partner with greater resources, most often but not necessarily the man, to take a de facto leadership position in what is ostensibly an equal relationship (Schoen and Owens 1992). 18 The rise in nonmarital fertility can also be viewed as a consequence of divergent male and female strategies. Men who withhold resources as a means of gaining leverage in a relationship may be particularly reluctant to invest in children to whom their ties are tenuous (Selzer 2000; Willis and Haaga 1996). Nonmarital fertility can, in effect, be a way to transfer childrearing costs from men to women. Still, nonmarital fertility is the only apparent option available to women who want children but do not expect to find a suitable marriage partner. The barriers to out-of-wedlock childbearing have diminished as nonmarital births have become more common and women’s economic position has improved relative to men’s. Children can confer considerable benefits to unwed mothers (Astone, Nathanson, Schoen, and Kim 1999; Fernandez-Kelly 1993). Women for whom the social resource value of children is high are more likely to have a child out-ofwedlock than are women for whom the social resource value of children is low (Schoen and Tufis 2003). Moreover, the lack of a husband can leave the mother in complete control of her children. Ethnographic work by Nelson (2006) shows that single mothers take the “mother-in-charge” role very seriously, and fight to preserve their hold on it. In sum, the gender competition perspective can direct attention to the strategies men and women pursue in relationships and to see family changes as consequences (intended or not) of those strategies. Cohabitation is a relationship form consistent with both the ideology of gender equality and the reality of unequal economic resources. Nonmarital fertility expresses individual autonomy, while relieving men of much of the economic burden of caring for their children and allowing women exclusive control over their offspring. Differentials in Family Change in the Light of Gender Competition 19 As noted earlier, differences in gender attitudes are greater for Hispanic Americans and Blacks than for Whites, and are greater among the less educated than among the more educated. Let us now consider how the changes in family behavior shown in Table 4 vary by social class and by race/ethnicity. Schoen and Cheng (2006) examined the proportion ever marrying, by gender, race, and educational level, in North Carolina, Virginia, and Wisconsin around 1990. Whites were more likely to marry than Blacks. Typically, those with 16 or more years of education were the most likely to marry, followed by those with 12 years of education, those with 13-15 years of education, and finally those with less than 12 years of education. The same patterns emerged when race and education were considered together. Among White women with 16 or more years of education, 91-96% married, while among Black women with less than 12 years of education only 37-59% married. For cohabitations, Bumpass and Lu (2000: Table 2) reported a generally inverse relationship between educational level and the percent of women ever cohabiting; those with the least education cohabited substantially more. The relationship between race/ethnicity and cohabitation is less clear, with different orderings found in different studies (cf. Bumpass and Lu 2000; McLanahan et al 2001). In terms of the probability that a cohabitation leads to marriage, Blacks have the lowest proportion of the three groups (Lichter, Qian, and Mellott 2006). Cohabitation accelerates the transition to marriage for premaritally pregnant White women, has no effect for Black women, and has a negative effect for Puerto Rican women (Manning and Landale 1996). The risk of a nonmarital birth has long been known to vary inversely with educational level (Ermisch 2001; Kaye 2001; Schoen and Tufis 2003), as women with 20 low levels of education are much more likely to have children out-of-wedlock. Substantial differences have also been found by race/ethnicity. In 1999, 22% of nonHispanic White births, 42% of Hispanic births, and 69% of non-Hispanic Black births were out-of-wedlock in the U.S. (Ventura and Bachrach 2000: Table 4). In short, there is a striking similarity between male/female differences in gender attitudes and the nature of family change. In groups where gender beliefs diverge more, there is less marriage and more nonmarital fertility. That “dose-response” relationship is consistent with the view that gender competition and consequent discord is related to the retreat from marriage. The pattern observed among Blacks is particularly telling, as that group has had the greatest decline in marriage and highest level of nonmarital fertility. Black men have also been particularly disadvantaged by racial discrimination and by the sectoral shift that eliminated many high wage blue collar jobs in the industrial sector. In that regard, Hatchett, Veroff, and Douvan (1995:208) forcefully wrote Black men and women have long experienced dissonance surrounding mainstream gender roles. They have lived in a society where men were supposed to have more power in both private and public spheres, and where women were to be provided for and protected. But this has not been their reality. For a long time, black men were symbolically, and at times literally, castrated by racial oppression. Power in the home, thus, became particularly important for black men. However, black women could often find work (although typically menial) when black men could not. As a consequence, black women have historically had a more significant economic role in families than their white counterparts. The 21 fact that these egalitarian patterns are now becoming acceptable has not lessened the significance of this gender issue among blacks. … Our analyses suggest that this issue is so central that it places black marriages at risk. The gender competition perspective, by interpreting the especially large changes that have occurred in African American families in terms of the historical processes that produced their particularly high levels of gender strife, makes it possible to understand changes in the Black family in terms of the same forces that have propelled family change throughout American society since 1960. Summary and Conclusions In the inaugural issue of the journal Population, Jean Stoetzel (1946: 88) wrote that “demographic behavior, like all human phenomena, must be interpreted as the result of the general dual processes of competition and cooperation that characterize the struggle for life” [translated by the author]. The balance between competition and cooperation can be a delicate one, so it is no small thing to alter the terms of trade between men and women. The thesis advanced here is diagrammed in Figure 1, and argues that (i) macro socioeconomic restructuring has led to (ii) ideological changes which have (iii) generated gender competition that (iv) has produced large scale family change. While acknowledging that gender competition is by no means the only cause of family change, it is argued that its importance has been greatly underestimated. Four points have been stressed: (1) other proposed explanations for family change are inadequate to explain observed changes; (2) gender competition is real, widespread, and a potent force for change; (3) observed family changes can be interpreted as the consequences of gender 22 competition strategies; and (4) the retreat from marriage by class and race closely parallels differentials in gender attitudes. Given the complexity of social change and the forces producing it, no quantitative assessment can be made of the importance of gender competition in bringing about the family changes of the past half century. However, the validity of the arguments presented can be examined in terms of the three “essential” criteria supportive of causal inference in demographic change advanced by Ni Bhrolchain and Dyson (2007): “time order”, “mechanism”, and “no alternative”. The causal process described in Figure 1 meets those three criteria. The rise in gender competition was preceded by substantial socioeconomic and ideological changes, and began before large scale family change. Mechanisms relating socioeconomic and ideological change to gender competition have been described, as have the links between gender competition and the retreat of marriage. The principal alternative explanations for family change---role specialization, economic independence, male economic stagnation, and marriage market imbalances---have been considered and found to be wanting. More research is needed to fully understand the dynamics of gender competition, its causes and consequences, and its relationship to other causal processes. Economic factors have played a pivotal role in family change. Here it is argued that they acted principally through social processes, especially competition for status and power in intimate relationships. However, the extent to which economic factors directly influenced family change remains an important research question. Psychological and emotional factors are likely to be important as well. Erving Goffman (1977: 315) saw gender identity as “the deepest sense of what one is.” The Second Demographic 23 Transition may well have affected the gender identity of both men and women, and such effects need to be explored. 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Applied Economics 29: 1079-90. 33 Figure 1: A Schematic of Socioeconomic, Ideological, and Family Change Socioeconomic change —————— (rise of the service sector ––––––––– | and of women’s employment) | | | | | | | | | | | ↓ | | Ideological changes | | ———(belief in gender equality | | | and individual autonomy) | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | ↓ | | | Gender competition | | | for status and power ←–––––––––– | | in relationships | | (varying by class, race/ethnicity) | | | | | | | | | | | ↓ | | Family change | –––→ (retreat of marriage and rise | of cohabitation and ––––––––––––→ nonmarital fertility) 34 Table 1. Indicators of Change in the Economy of the United States, 19602000 Measure Year 1980 1960 1970 1990 2000 1. Fraction of labor force in manufacturing sector .27 .26 .22 .18 .15 2. Fraction of labor force in service sector .33 .40 .46 .52 .53 3. Women as fraction of civilian labor force .33 .38 .43 .45 .464 4. Fraction of women aged 25-34 in labor force .36 .45 .66 .74 .76 5. Expectation of working life for a. men b. women — — 37.3 21.3 36.81 27.21 36.02 30.02 36.93 31.63 6. Full-time women’s wages as a fraction of full-time men’s wages .61 .59 .60 .72 .73 Notes: 1. Refers to the years 1979-80; 2. refers to the years 1992-93; 3. refers to the years 1997- 98; 4. refers to the year 1998. Sources: Line 1, Sobek (2001: Table 4), International Labor Organization (2007: Table 1c); Line 2, Fullerton (1999); Lines 3 and 4, US Bureau of Labor Statistics (1997); Line 5, (1970,80) US Bureau of Labor Statistics (1986), (1992-3, 1997-8) Ciecka et al (1995, 1999-2000); Line 6, O’Neill and Polachek (1993), US Census Bureau (2002) 35 Table 2. Attitudes Toward Family Related Issues, by Gender, United States 1972-98 Women Percent Agreeing Men____________ 1972/74 1977-78 1985-86 1989-90 1993-94 1996/98 1. Premarital sex is always or almost always wrong (%) 56.4 2. Cohabitation is all right (%) 50.0 44.4 42.6 42.1 1972/74 1977-78 1985-86 1989-90 1993-94 1996/98 40.0 46.0 37.2 33.2 32.0 31.9 1980 1985 1993 1980 1985 1993 44.4 56.6 64.2 59.4 69.4 71.8 1976-77 1980-81 1985-86 1989-90 1993-94 1997-98 29.8 1976-77 1980-81 1985-86 1989-90 1993-94 1997-98 3. Live together good idea 33.0 33.3 39.3 47.9 51.2 59.1 46.9 42.3 53.1 58.4 61.6 66.9 4. Unmarried childbearing is a. a worthwhile experiment/ doing own thing (%) 37.1 34.5 45.5 49.0 54.0 52.8 46.5 47.9 46.5 46.7 50.5 49.7 b. destructive to society/ violates moral principle (%) 47.7 50.2 40.8 36.3 33.6 34.9 41.4 40.1 40.7 39.6 34.8 36.3 c. None of the above (%) 15.2 13.6 14.5 12.4 12.2 12.0 11.9 12.8 13.8 14.8 14.0 15.2 NOTE: Item 1 is based on responses to the General Social Survey; Item 2 refers to daughters and sons in the Study of American Families; and Items 3 and 4 are from the Monitoring the Future Survey. Source: Adapted from Thornton and Young-DeMarco (2001: Tables 4, 5, 6, and 8) 36 Table 3. Percent of Respondents Indicating Egalitarian Sex Role Attitudes, by Gender, United States 1976-98 Women 1976-77 Men 1980-81 1985-86 1989-90 1993-94 1997-98 1976-77 1980-81 1985-86 1989-90 1993-94 1997-98 1. Husband should (not) make all important decisions 71.9 74.7 81.3 83.8 84.8 44.1 2. Usually better if the man is the achiever and the woman the homemaker (disagree) 42.1 50.5 64.3 71.4 74.4 71.4 17.3 25.5 32.2 36.5 39.7 36.7 3. A woman’s job takes away from her relationship with her husband (disagree) 83.5 81.8 84.2 84.4 85.7 84.6 63.1 68.1 63.7 62.8 67.6 63.2 84.9 Note: Items 1-3 are based on the Monitoring the Future Survey; Source: Adapted from Thornton and Young-DeMarco (2001: Table 1) 37 47.3 46.1 47.6 49.4 49.4 Table 4. Changes in American Family Behavior, 1960-99 1. 2. 3. 1960 1970 1980 1988 1995 .96 .97 .96 .97 .89 .91 .84 .88 .83 .89 Average age at first marriage a. men b. women 23.6 21.3 23.4 21.8 26.3 24.1 27.5 25.1 28.6 26.6 Proportion of marriages ending in divorce a. men b. women .26 .26 .37 .36 Proportion ever marrying (of those surviving to age 15) a. men b. women 4. Proportion of women ever cohabiting by age 25 5. Proportion of births out-of-wedlock .44 .43 1975-79 1980-84 .18 .29 .43 .43 1985-89 .34 .44 .43 1990-94 .38 1960 1970 1980 1990 1999 .05 .11 .18 .28 .33 Notes: Lines 1-3 based on marital status life tables for the year indicated. In Line 4, the years reflect the experience of cohorts born 1950-54, 1955-59, 1960-64, and 1965-69. Sources: Lines 1-3, Schoen and Nelson (1974), Schoen and Standish (2001); Line 4, Raley (2000); Line 5, Ventura and Bachrach (2000) 38