What do you already do that makes you feel good? ........................................... 13 Friends / family ................................................................................................................................... 14 Time with children ........................................................................................................................... 14 Talking ............................................................................................................................................ 15 Befriending ...................................................................................................................................... 15 Social groups / activities .................................................................................................................. 15 Help family/ friends .......................................................................................................................... 16 Dog ................................................................................................................................................. 16 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 16 Creativity ............................................................................................................................................. 19 Music ............................................................................................................................................... 19 Singing ............................................................................................................................................ 19 Dancing ........................................................................................................................................... 19 Visual arts ....................................................................................................................................... 19 Crafts .............................................................................................................................................. 20 Theatre ............................................................................................................................................ 20 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 20 Nature ................................................................................................................................................. 21 Gardening ....................................................................................................................................... 21 Being outside .................................................................................................................................. 21 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 21 Walking ............................................................................................................................................... 22 Walking with dog ............................................................................................................................. 22 Walking in countryside..................................................................................................................... 22 Walking in fresh air .......................................................................................................................... 22 Walk with others .............................................................................................................................. 22 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 22 Physical activity .................................................................................................................................. 23 Swimming........................................................................................................................................ 23 Bowling ........................................................................................................................................... 23 Classes ........................................................................................................................................... 23 Gym ................................................................................................................................................ 23 Sports.............................................................................................................................................. 23 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 24 Food ................................................................................................................................................... 24 Cooking ........................................................................................................................................... 24 Drinking ........................................................................................................................................... 24 Eating out ........................................................................................................................................ 24 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 25 Spirituality ........................................................................................................................................... 25 Religious music ............................................................................................................................... 25 Prayer ............................................................................................................................................. 25 Attending religious activities ............................................................................................................ 25 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 26 Volunteering / caring ........................................................................................................................... 26 Caring ............................................................................................................................................. 26 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 26 Sleep / relax ........................................................................................................................................ 27 Relaxing .......................................................................................................................................... 27 Sleep ............................................................................................................................................... 27 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 27 Holidays / outings / trips ...................................................................................................................... 28 Holidays .......................................................................................................................................... 28 Going places by bus ........................................................................................................................ 28 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 28 TV ....................................................................................................................................................... 29 Particular types of tv programme ..................................................................................................... 29 Cinema ............................................................................................................................................ 29 1 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 29 Specific groups ................................................................................................................................... 29 U3A ................................................................................................................................................. 29 Day centre ....................................................................................................................................... 30 Asian Elders .................................................................................................................................... 30 Drop in centre .................................................................................................................................. 30 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 30 Read ................................................................................................................................................... 30 Learning.............................................................................................................................................. 31 Shopping ............................................................................................................................................ 31 Housework / DIY ................................................................................................................................. 31 Look after self ..................................................................................................................................... 31 Other................................................................................................................................................... 32 Working .............................................................................................................................................. 32 Puzzles ............................................................................................................................................... 32 Tai chi / yoga ...................................................................................................................................... 33 Getting advice /support ....................................................................................................................... 33 Health ................................................................................................................................................. 33 Enjoy life ............................................................................................................................................. 33 Bingo / cards ....................................................................................................................................... 33 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................... 33 Take a break ....................................................................................................................................... 34 Driving ................................................................................................................................................ 34 Computers .......................................................................................................................................... 34 Keeping busy ...................................................................................................................................... 34 Smoking.............................................................................................................................................. 34 What else would you like to do to make you feel even better? .......................... 35 Friends / family ................................................................................................................................... 36 Social groups / activities .................................................................................................................. 36 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 36 Travel/ holidays/ outings ..................................................................................................................... 38 Holidays .......................................................................................................................................... 38 Outings ............................................................................................................................................ 38 Mobility / get out more ......................................................................................................................... 39 Physical activity .................................................................................................................................. 40 Swimming........................................................................................................................................ 40 Exercise with others ........................................................................................................................ 40 Specific activities ............................................................................................................................. 40 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 40 health/ healthcare ............................................................................................................................... 41 walking................................................................................................................................................ 41 Nothing - ok already / more of the same ............................................................................................. 42 Nature ................................................................................................................................................. 42 Gardening ....................................................................................................................................... 42 The sea ........................................................................................................................................... 42 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 42 Volunteering / caring ........................................................................................................................... 43 Learning.............................................................................................................................................. 43 Sleep / relax ........................................................................................................................................ 44 Sleep ............................................................................................................................................... 44 Relaxing .......................................................................................................................................... 44 money ................................................................................................................................................. 44 Creativity ............................................................................................................................................. 44 Visual arts ....................................................................................................................................... 44 Music ............................................................................................................................................... 45 Writing ............................................................................................................................................. 45 Crafts .............................................................................................................................................. 45 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 45 2 Housework/ DIY .................................................................................................................................. 45 Food ................................................................................................................................................... 45 Eating out ........................................................................................................................................ 45 Cooking ........................................................................................................................................... 45 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 45 theatre / cinema / concert.................................................................................................................... 46 New hobbies / interests ....................................................................................................................... 46 Help/ support ...................................................................................................................................... 46 Other................................................................................................................................................... 46 Specific groups ................................................................................................................................... 47 Energy/able to do more ....................................................................................................................... 47 Housing .............................................................................................................................................. 47 Shopping ............................................................................................................................................ 47 Take a break ....................................................................................................................................... 48 Working .............................................................................................................................................. 48 Time ................................................................................................................................................... 48 Look after self ..................................................................................................................................... 48 Welfare of others ................................................................................................................................ 48 Spirituality ........................................................................................................................................... 49 Tai chi / yoga ...................................................................................................................................... 49 independence ..................................................................................................................................... 49 Lose weight......................................................................................................................................... 49 Bingo/ cards ........................................................................................................................................ 49 Computers .......................................................................................................................................... 49 Dancing .............................................................................................................................................. 50 Better weather .................................................................................................................................... 50 Feel better .......................................................................................................................................... 50 no interest in anything ......................................................................................................................... 50 Quit smoking ....................................................................................................................................... 50 Driving ................................................................................................................................................ 50 Complimentary therapies .................................................................................................................... 50 read .................................................................................................................................................... 50 TV ....................................................................................................................................................... 51 enjoy life ............................................................................................................................................. 51 What, if anything, is preventing you from doing these things? ......................... 52 Health ................................................................................................................................................. 53 Money ................................................................................................................................................. 55 Get upset / worry ................................................................................................................................ 55 Nothing really ...................................................................................................................................... 56 Other commitments............................................................................................................................. 57 Work................................................................................................................................................ 57 Caring ............................................................................................................................................. 57 Pets ................................................................................................................................................. 57 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 57 Travel / mobility ................................................................................................................................... 57 Walking ........................................................................................................................................... 57 Confidence with travel ..................................................................................................................... 57 Housebound .................................................................................................................................... 58 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 58 Time ................................................................................................................................................... 58 Other................................................................................................................................................... 59 Company ............................................................................................................................................ 59 Lack of service / facility ....................................................................................................................... 60 Confidence ......................................................................................................................................... 60 Energy ................................................................................................................................................ 60 Organise it .......................................................................................................................................... 61 Distance.............................................................................................................................................. 61 Age ..................................................................................................................................................... 61 3 Motivation ........................................................................................................................................... 61 Going out at night/ safety .................................................................................................................... 62 Information .......................................................................................................................................... 62 Housing .............................................................................................................................................. 62 Others time ......................................................................................................................................... 62 Weather .............................................................................................................................................. 62 Myself ................................................................................................................................................. 62 Forget things ....................................................................................................................................... 62 What, if anything would make it easier for you to do these things?.................. 63 Health ................................................................................................................................................. 64 Travel / mobility ................................................................................................................................... 65 Public transport ............................................................................................................................... 65 Car .................................................................................................................................................. 65 Door to door transport ..................................................................................................................... 65 Wheelchair / scooter ........................................................................................................................ 65 Escorts ............................................................................................................................................ 65 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 65 Money ................................................................................................................................................. 66 Extra service / facility .......................................................................................................................... 67 Physiotherapy ................................................................................................................................. 67 Local services ................................................................................................................................. 67 Respite opportunities ....................................................................................................................... 67 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 67 Company ............................................................................................................................................ 68 Other................................................................................................................................................... 68 Nothing really ...................................................................................................................................... 69 Do things own way .............................................................................................................................. 69 Time ................................................................................................................................................... 69 Change work....................................................................................................................................... 70 Less work ........................................................................................................................................ 70 More work ....................................................................................................................................... 70 Change work ................................................................................................................................... 70 Motivation / encouragement ................................................................................................................ 70 Help / advice ....................................................................................................................................... 70 Housing .............................................................................................................................................. 71 Information .......................................................................................................................................... 71 See family ........................................................................................................................................... 71 Stay happy .......................................................................................................................................... 71 Organise it .......................................................................................................................................... 72 Energy ................................................................................................................................................ 72 Distance.............................................................................................................................................. 72 Age ..................................................................................................................................................... 72 Other commitments............................................................................................................................. 72 Talk easily ........................................................................................................................................... 72 Learning.............................................................................................................................................. 72 Others' time ........................................................................................................................................ 72 Going out at night/ safety .................................................................................................................... 73 Weather .............................................................................................................................................. 73 What is most important to you in giving you the best wellbeing possible? ..... 74 Family / friends ................................................................................................................................... 75 Good health / healthcare ..................................................................................................................... 76 Healthcare ....................................................................................................................................... 76 Health .............................................................................................................................................. 77 Spirituality ........................................................................................................................................... 78 Peace of mind / happy / relaxed .......................................................................................................... 78 Lifestyle changes ................................................................................................................................ 79 Being looked after / having support / cared about ............................................................................... 79 Welfare of family / friends.................................................................................................................... 79 4 Independence ..................................................................................................................................... 80 Other................................................................................................................................................... 80 Mobility / keep active........................................................................................................................... 81 Outings / holidays ............................................................................................................................... 81 Sleep / relax ........................................................................................................................................ 81 Sleep ............................................................................................................................................... 81 Relaxing .......................................................................................................................................... 81 Physical activity .................................................................................................................................. 82 Food ................................................................................................................................................... 82 Keep busy / mentally active ................................................................................................................ 82 Specific group / facility ........................................................................................................................ 82 Look after / help others ....................................................................................................................... 83 Be respected / Listened to .................................................................................................................. 83 Nature ................................................................................................................................................. 83 Live your own way .............................................................................................................................. 83 Housing .............................................................................................................................................. 84 Creativity ............................................................................................................................................. 84 Confidence ......................................................................................................................................... 84 Feeling useful / needed ....................................................................................................................... 84 Time to do things ................................................................................................................................ 84 More of the same ................................................................................................................................ 84 Able to cope ........................................................................................................................................ 85 Learning.............................................................................................................................................. 85 Enjoy life to full.................................................................................................................................... 85 Waking up in the morning ................................................................................................................... 85 Walking ............................................................................................................................................... 85 Money ................................................................................................................................................. 85 Work ................................................................................................................................................... 85 Many people, for a variety of lifestyle reasons, sometimes feel unhappy and need to access some support to make them feel better ......................................................................... 86 What did you do? .................................................................................................. 89 Physical activity .................................................................................................................................. 89 Volunteering / caring ........................................................................................................................... 89 Specific groups ................................................................................................................................... 90 U3A ................................................................................................................................................. 90 Asian elders .................................................................................................................................... 90 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 90 Learning.............................................................................................................................................. 91 Computers....................................................................................................................................... 91 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 91 Creativity ............................................................................................................................................. 91 Music ............................................................................................................................................... 91 Needlework ..................................................................................................................................... 91 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 91 Food ................................................................................................................................................... 92 Friends / family ................................................................................................................................... 92 Drop in centre / day centre .................................................................................................................. 92 Computers .......................................................................................................................................... 92 Sleep / relax ........................................................................................................................................ 93 Walking ............................................................................................................................................... 93 Spirituality ........................................................................................................................................... 93 Nature ................................................................................................................................................. 93 Holidays / outings / trips ...................................................................................................................... 93 Other................................................................................................................................................... 93 Befriending ......................................................................................................................................... 94 Read ................................................................................................................................................... 94 How did you find out about this? ......................................................................................................... 95 Other................................................................................................................................................... 95 5 Friends/ family .................................................................................................................................... 95 Health professional ............................................................................................................................. 96 Hospital ........................................................................................................................................... 96 Physiotherapist ................................................................................................................................ 96 Other ............................................................................................................................................... 96 Asian elders centre ............................................................................................................................. 96 Newspaper/ magazine ........................................................................................................................ 96 Been involved before .......................................................................................................................... 97 Church/ mosque/ temple ..................................................................................................................... 97 Social services .................................................................................................................................... 97 TV ....................................................................................................................................................... 97 College ............................................................................................................................................... 97 CVS .................................................................................................................................................... 98 Library................................................................................................................................................. 98 BAND.................................................................................................................................................. 98 Warden ............................................................................................................................................... 98 UCAN ................................................................................................................................................. 98 Work ................................................................................................................................................... 98 Day centre .......................................................................................................................................... 98 Halliwell Befriending............................................................................................................................ 98 St George's road ................................................................................................................................. 99 Volunteer bureau ................................................................................................................................ 99 Poster ................................................................................................................................................. 99 Council................................................................................................................................................ 99 Leaflet ................................................................................................................................................. 99 What was the best thing about this?.................................................................. 100 Company/ friends/ meeting people/ chatting ..................................................................................... 100 Being useful/valued........................................................................................................................... 101 Other................................................................................................................................................. 102 Learn new things/useful information .................................................................................................. 102 Keep active / fit / healthy ................................................................................................................... 103 Meeting similar people ...................................................................................................................... 103 Supportive / understanding/ .............................................................................................................. 103 Keep busy/pass time......................................................................................................................... 103 Feel good / better .............................................................................................................................. 104 Fun ................................................................................................................................................... 104 Relaxing ............................................................................................................................................ 104 Food ................................................................................................................................................. 104 Trips out / get out .............................................................................................................................. 104 Keep in touch with community .......................................................................................................... 104 Confidence ....................................................................................................................................... 105 Bingo ................................................................................................................................................ 105 Lose weight....................................................................................................................................... 105 What was missing? ............................................................................................. 106 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 106 Other................................................................................................................................................. 106 Are there any other opportunities to improve wellbeing that you are aware of but don’t use? .............................................................................................................................. 107 What activities do you know about? .................................................................. 110 Physical activity ................................................................................................................................ 110 Swimming...................................................................................................................................... 110 Gym .............................................................................................................................................. 110 Bolton Council, Sport Health Inclusion........................................................................................... 110 Other ............................................................................................................................................. 110 Walking ............................................................................................................................................. 110 Learning............................................................................................................................................ 111 Computers..................................................................................................................................... 111 6 English for Speakers of Other Languages ..................................................................................... 111 Other ............................................................................................................................................. 111 Specific groups ................................................................................................................................. 111 Other................................................................................................................................................. 111 Several activities ........................................................................................................................... 111 Other ............................................................................................................................................. 111 Creativity ........................................................................................................................................... 112 Drop in centre / day centre ................................................................................................................ 112 Volunteering/ caring .......................................................................................................................... 112 Food ................................................................................................................................................. 112 Dance ............................................................................................................................................... 112 Therapy / treatment........................................................................................................................... 112 Yoga / tai chi ..................................................................................................................................... 113 Age concern...................................................................................................................................... 113 Aromatherapy / massage /beauty therapy ......................................................................................... 113 Shopping .......................................................................................................................................... 113 U3A .................................................................................................................................................. 113 Asian elders ...................................................................................................................................... 113 Don't want any more opportunities .................................................................................................... 113 Social activities ................................................................................................................................. 114 Friends/ family .................................................................................................................................. 114 Spirituality ......................................................................................................................................... 114 Reading ............................................................................................................................................ 114 Local activities .................................................................................................................................. 114 Why don’t you get involved? .............................................................................. 115 Health / mobility ................................................................................................................................ 115 Too tired ........................................................................................................................................ 115 Other ............................................................................................................................................. 115 No time ............................................................................................................................................. 115 Other................................................................................................................................................. 115 Transport .......................................................................................................................................... 116 Confidence / motivation .................................................................................................................... 116 Information ........................................................................................................................................ 116 Not interested / no need .................................................................................................................... 116 Already do this activity ...................................................................................................................... 117 Time not convenient.......................................................................................................................... 117 Other commitments........................................................................................................................... 117 Not available locally .......................................................................................................................... 117 Too busy ........................................................................................................................................... 117 Nobody to go with ............................................................................................................................. 117 Just not done it yet ............................................................................................................................ 118 Didn't enjoy ....................................................................................................................................... 118 Used to do it...................................................................................................................................... 118 How did you find out about this? ....................................................................... 119 Friend / family ................................................................................................................................... 119 Newspaper / magazine ..................................................................................................................... 119 Adverts/ leaflet / poster ..................................................................................................................... 119 Other................................................................................................................................................. 120 Health professional ........................................................................................................................... 120 Community centre etc ....................................................................................................................... 120 At event ............................................................................................................................................ 120 Involved before ................................................................................................................................. 120 Befriending ....................................................................................................................................... 121 Social services .................................................................................................................................. 121 Asian elders ...................................................................................................................................... 121 CVS .................................................................................................................................................. 121 Library............................................................................................................................................... 121 Tv ..................................................................................................................................................... 121 7 If you did take part, how comfortable would you feel? ..................................... 122 Yes ................................................................................................................................................... 122 Partly ................................................................................................................................................ 122 No ..................................................................................................................................................... 122 Don't know ........................................................................................................................................ 123 What is the best thing about this? ..................................................................... 124 Seeing others.................................................................................................................................... 124 Support ............................................................................................................................................. 124 Other................................................................................................................................................. 124 Don't know ........................................................................................................................................ 124 Feel good / fun .................................................................................................................................. 125 Exercise ............................................................................................................................................ 125 Learning............................................................................................................................................ 125 Something to do/ keep busy.............................................................................................................. 125 Health ............................................................................................................................................... 125 Go outside/ fresh air.......................................................................................................................... 126 There if you need it ........................................................................................................................... 126 Confidence / motivation .................................................................................................................... 126 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 126 What might be missing? ..................................................................................... 127 People/ friendliness........................................................................................................................... 127 Don't know ........................................................................................................................................ 127 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 127 Other................................................................................................................................................. 127 Support ............................................................................................................................................. 127 Information/advice............................................................................................................................. 128 Might not be able to do it ................................................................................................................... 128 Transport .......................................................................................................................................... 128 Different times/ time .......................................................................................................................... 128 Finding something you want to do..................................................................................................... 128 Me .................................................................................................................................................... 128 Starter group ..................................................................................................................................... 128 Some people suffer with mental health problems or mental illness and need to access services that help them to recover .................................................................................... 129 What did you access? ......................................................................................... 131 GP practice ....................................................................................................................................... 131 CPN .................................................................................................................................................. 131 Psychiatrist ....................................................................................................................................... 131 Hospital............................................................................................................................................. 132 Counselling ....................................................................................................................................... 132 Voluntary sector ................................................................................................................................ 132 Psychologist...................................................................................................................................... 132 Social services .................................................................................................................................. 132 How did you find out about this? ....................................................................... 134 Health professional ........................................................................................................................... 134 GP practice ................................................................................................................................... 134 Hospital ......................................................................................................................................... 134 Other ............................................................................................................................................. 134 Other................................................................................................................................................. 134 Social services .................................................................................................................................. 134 General knowledge ........................................................................................................................... 135 Been involved before ........................................................................................................................ 135 Friends/ family .................................................................................................................................. 135 Halliwell befriending .......................................................................................................................... 135 Work ................................................................................................................................................. 135 Poster ............................................................................................................................................... 135 8 What was the best thing about this?.................................................................. 136 Talking / being listened to ................................................................................................................. 136 Received treatment ........................................................................................................................... 136 Other................................................................................................................................................. 136 Checkup ........................................................................................................................................... 137 Good attitude / understanding problem ............................................................................................. 137 Socialising / company/ nice people ................................................................................................... 137 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 138 Being looked after ............................................................................................................................. 138 Helped person to cope / make changes ............................................................................................ 138 Good service..................................................................................................................................... 138 Food ................................................................................................................................................. 139 Able to stay at home ......................................................................................................................... 139 Language support ............................................................................................................................. 139 What was missing? ............................................................................................. 140 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 140 Other................................................................................................................................................. 140 More sessions................................................................................................................................... 140 Problems with understanding/ communicating .................................................................................. 140 More time .......................................................................................................................................... 140 Problems with appointments ............................................................................................................. 141 Are there any other services to help people to recover from mental health problems or mental illness that you are aware of but don’t use? ..................................................... 142 What services do you know about? ................................................................... 144 Other................................................................................................................................................. 144 GP .................................................................................................................................................... 144 Counselling ....................................................................................................................................... 144 Hospital............................................................................................................................................. 144 Community nurses ............................................................................................................................ 144 Voluntary organisations .................................................................................................................... 145 BAND................................................................................................................................................ 145 MhiST ............................................................................................................................................... 145 Drop in .............................................................................................................................................. 145 Psychiatrist ....................................................................................................................................... 145 Various ............................................................................................................................................. 145 Befriending ....................................................................................................................................... 145 Council.............................................................................................................................................. 145 St George's centre ............................................................................................................................ 145 Support groups ................................................................................................................................. 146 Church / Mosque .............................................................................................................................. 146 Therapeutic arts ................................................................................................................................ 146 CBT .................................................................................................................................................. 146 Why don't you use this? ..................................................................................... 147 No need ............................................................................................................................................ 147 Do/did use ........................................................................................................................................ 147 Other................................................................................................................................................. 147 Don’t want to ..................................................................................................................................... 147 No time ............................................................................................................................................. 148 Not offered before ............................................................................................................................. 148 Travel................................................................................................................................................ 148 How did you find out about this? ....................................................................... 149 Friend / family ................................................................................................................................... 149 Health professional ........................................................................................................................... 149 Work ................................................................................................................................................. 149 Just knew.......................................................................................................................................... 149 Leaflets/ advert ................................................................................................................................. 149 Newspaper / magazine ..................................................................................................................... 149 9 Other................................................................................................................................................. 150 Day centre ........................................................................................................................................ 150 Befriending ....................................................................................................................................... 150 Approached by service ..................................................................................................................... 150 Mosque ............................................................................................................................................. 150 If you did use this service, how comfortable would you feel? ......................... 151 Partly ................................................................................................................................................ 151 Yes ................................................................................................................................................... 151 No ..................................................................................................................................................... 151 Don’t know ........................................................................................................................................ 151 What is the best thing about this? ..................................................................... 152 Support / good service/ make you feel better .................................................................................... 152 There if needed................................................................................................................................. 152 Other................................................................................................................................................. 152 Seeing others.................................................................................................................................... 153 Affordable ......................................................................................................................................... 153 A break ............................................................................................................................................. 153 Don’t know ........................................................................................................................................ 153 What might be missing? ..................................................................................... 154 Don’t know ........................................................................................................................................ 154 Need improved service ..................................................................................................................... 154 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 154 Other................................................................................................................................................. 154 Language problems .......................................................................................................................... 154 Some people become very unwell, they may not completely recover, and they need specialist care to meet their physical and mental health needs ....................................... 155 What did you access? ......................................................................................... 157 Voluntary sector ................................................................................................................................ 157 Other................................................................................................................................................. 157 Home care ........................................................................................................................................ 157 Residential care ................................................................................................................................ 158 Hospital............................................................................................................................................. 158 Respite ............................................................................................................................................. 158 Intermediate care .............................................................................................................................. 158 GP .................................................................................................................................................... 158 Sheltered housing ............................................................................................................................. 158 Social services .................................................................................................................................. 159 Daycare ............................................................................................................................................ 159 District nurse ..................................................................................................................................... 159 CPN .................................................................................................................................................. 159 Psychiatrist ....................................................................................................................................... 159 How did you come to use this service? ............................................................................................. 160 Health professional ........................................................................................................................... 160 Hospital ......................................................................................................................................... 160 GP ................................................................................................................................................. 160 Other ............................................................................................................................................. 160 Social services .................................................................................................................................. 160 Other................................................................................................................................................. 160 Friends/ family .................................................................................................................................. 161 Asian elders centre ........................................................................................................................... 161 Church/ mosque/ temple ................................................................................................................... 161 TV ..................................................................................................................................................... 161 Been involved before ........................................................................................................................ 161 What was the best thing about this?.................................................................. 162 People friendly / caring / company .................................................................................................... 162 Improve confidence/ feel secure ....................................................................................................... 162 10 Help round the house/ with chores .................................................................................................... 162 Other................................................................................................................................................. 162 Relieve pressure ............................................................................................................................... 163 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 163 Feel supported .................................................................................................................................. 163 Activities ........................................................................................................................................... 163 Someone's there / visiting regularly................................................................................................... 163 Meet people in same situation .......................................................................................................... 163 Advice / knowledgeable .................................................................................................................... 163 Good help ......................................................................................................................................... 164 They come to you ............................................................................................................................. 164 What was missing? ............................................................................................. 165 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 165 Other................................................................................................................................................. 165 Are there any other specialist services to help people to manage a mental illness/condition and deterioration in health that you are aware of but don’t use? ........................... 166 What services do you know about? ................................................................... 168 Residential care ................................................................................................................................ 168 Home care ........................................................................................................................................ 168 Other................................................................................................................................................. 168 Age concern...................................................................................................................................... 168 Various ............................................................................................................................................. 168 Community nurses ............................................................................................................................ 168 Ring & ride ........................................................................................................................................ 168 Day centre ........................................................................................................................................ 169 Crisis resolution ................................................................................................................................ 169 Alzheimer’s society ........................................................................................................................... 169 GP .................................................................................................................................................... 169 BAND................................................................................................................................................ 169 Why don’t you use this? ..................................................................................... 170 No need ............................................................................................................................................ 170 Not eligible ........................................................................................................................................ 170 Other................................................................................................................................................. 170 How did you find out about this? ....................................................................... 171 Family / friends ................................................................................................................................. 171 Other................................................................................................................................................. 171 Just knew.......................................................................................................................................... 171 Work ................................................................................................................................................. 171 Adverts ............................................................................................................................................. 171 GP .................................................................................................................................................... 171 Social services .................................................................................................................................. 172 Can’t remember ................................................................................................................................ 172 If you did use this service, how comfortable would you feel? ......................... 173 Partly ................................................................................................................................................ 173 No ..................................................................................................................................................... 173 Yes ................................................................................................................................................... 173 What is the best thing about this? ..................................................................... 174 There if needed................................................................................................................................. 174 Look after you ................................................................................................................................... 174 Good ................................................................................................................................................. 174 Being with people ............................................................................................................................. 174 Other................................................................................................................................................. 174 What might be missing? ..................................................................................... 175 Social life .......................................................................................................................................... 175 Other................................................................................................................................................. 175 11 Nothing ............................................................................................................................................. 175 More money ...................................................................................................................................... 175 More staff .......................................................................................................................................... 175 12 What do you already do that makes you feel good? Comment category Friends / family Creativity Nature Walking Physical activity Food Spirituality Volunteering / caring Sleep / relax Holidays / outings / trips Tv Specific groups Read Learning Shopping Housework/ DIY Look after self Other Working Puzzles Tai chi / yoga Getting advice / support Health Enjoy life Bingo/cards Nothing Take a break Driving Computers Keeping busy Smoking Number 286 127 107 87 82 77 60 58 57 51 41 39 37 24 23 15 12 12 11 9 8 8 8 7 6 6 5 5 4 4 2 Rank 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 17 19 20 21 21 21 24 25 25 27 27 29 29 31 Note: some comments fall into more than one category 13 Friends / family Time with children going spending time with children grandchild Grandchild, loved ones Grandchildren (x7) Helping with grandchildren I keep in touch with my family spend time with my grandchildren go to stay at my daughters 3 times year. I look after my great grandson every day because his mum goes to work I love my children & grandchildren Keeping in touch with friends specially my grandchildren look after grandchildren Look after grandchildren see my four children quite often look after grandchildren. Keep in touch with family & friends Look after grandson. Looking after grandchildren and spending time with them. Looking after grandchildren on the rare occasion I can Lots of time with great grandchildren I spend a lot of time with my family and grandchildren meeting your family, spending time with grandchildren. Being with grandchildren Care for grandchildren Caring for grand children. play with grandchildren, Help my daughter and being with my grandchildren Watching and playing with grandchildren Spending/playing with grandchildren Visit my daughter and grandchild every week Time with the grandchildren time with grandchildren Time with grandson. Two daughters and grandchildren Spending time with grandchildren (x26) Spending time with grandchildren Keeping touch with friends and relatives Spending time with great grandchildren, spending time with kids – spending time with my family and grandchildren Spending time with my grandchildren and other members of the family. Spending time with my grandson and family spending time with my wife/children and grandchild. spend time with my grandchildren (x2) spend time with my granddaughters and their families spend time with my husband, children, grandchildren, great grandchildren Spending time with children/grandchildren spend time with grandchildren Spend time with granddaughter, See grandchildren See my son and grandson every weekend but speak to them nearly every day on the internet. see/visit children/grandchildren – Seeing family and grandson Spend time with family and grandchildren 14 Seeing my son and grandchildren She spends time with grandchildren she spends time with grandchildren, keeping in touch with all type and aged people Contact with grandchildren enjoy an active life and enjoy social life which involves my wife & my family always busy daily with great grandchildren Talking she feels better with communicating with people and spending time with them she feels good when she is with other people and talking to them Communicating with other people. She likes to make everybody young and old happy chatting to the people and listening to their problems and talk about that Talking (x2) talking to my friends (x2) Talking to other people talking to others talking to people talking to your son on the phone Talking with family and friends Talking (x2) Telephone calls to family and friends. speaking to family & friends Meet with friends and relatives as often as possible to chat and hear about their and their families lives. Communicating with others contacting friends on phone giver her more pleasure Befriending Halliwell Befrienders. Having someone to listen to me with a befriender Enjoy the visits by the Halliwell befriending service Also a monthly befriending group Befriend visit Social groups / activities to go to the Asian elders centre & pass time with the people socialising - in community, at classes social activities (church, U3a, WI group) social evenings I socialise in various groups interact with others of similar interests e.g. U3A Meeting friends at exercise Class & Tai Chi Gym with friends Play cards with friends meeting friends for lunch etc feel good when joining in on the few social events I attend walk with company I go for walks with my friends to the shops, and go shopping with my daughter Meet friends at 'Book Club' Like eating out with friends and family. I do enjoy an evening at the theatre with a friend or family member Reading and relaxing with my spouse or going for a meal with friends or family to celebrate special occasions 15 Going out to social club Going out for lunch with family and friends enjoy trip with contact Help family/ friends Help my brother in his garden Making food for loved ones Act as a "taxi" for a good friend (unfortunately only for another fortnight, as I am giving up the car at the end of the month) The friendship will still be there though Looking after my family and friends Looking after my husband - I have looked after my husband for all of 6 yrs together and sadly the past few months is now in a home (the last ten yrs dementia) Help family with chores and childcare Helping the family. I am full time carer looking after my wife makes me feel good Help family out Giving support to friends who need it and spending time with them Caring for husband Caring for others (x2) Dog Dog the company of my dog Other keeping in touch Social support (x2) Socialising with family, friends, writing letters, (self) getting company. all the families here so happy to spend time with them attending social events, being with family & friends voluntary work Being with friends Being with friends and family being with people, Socialising with other people of my own age Socialising with people who understand me contact with family contact with friends & family enjoy visits people for company Family (x6) family friends Family history family history research family life very good & loving family support Family support, Family to be proud of. Family, friends, neighbours Friends (x2) 16 Friends (going out)` getting company grandchildren give time to others including family go meet with friends & family Go out with other couples. going out spending time with family Going out with family. Going to friends houses Good friends Happy marriage having friends to visit me having visits from family and friends I am a widow spend some time with my family at weekend I enjoy social contact I have many friends I keep in touch with friends and societies. In touch with family/friends (x2) Involved with family Keep in touch with scattered family Keeping in touch keeping in touch with family keeping in touch with family & friends (x2) Keeping in touch with friends (x3) keeping in touch with friends & family (x2) Keeping in touch with friends (Loved ones) Keeping in touch with friends and loved ones (x4) Keeping in touch with friends relatives Keeping in touch with loved ones keeping in touch with other people Like people visiting. love spending time with my family, making new friends Meeting people. meeting friends (x6) meeting friends and family, Meeting friends, old and new. Meeting new people Meeting people (x4) Meeting with friends and family when I feel well enough. mixing with people most of all the fact that our children are in constant touch with us even though they do not live near us. My friends come to see me twice a week. Out with friends see friends often seeing family seeing friends (x3) seeing friends and family regularly Seeing my friend a neighbour, Socialising (x3) spend 1 day each week with my sister & brother in law when they visit me from Shropshire. spend time with family 17 Spend time with family and friends (x6) spend time with friends, Spend time with my family Spending time with daughter – Spending time with family (x2) Spending time with the family I miss my husband (he has died) Stay with friends give her happiness Time with family (x3) Time with friends. Visit elderly mum & step father Visit my friends. visiting friends and family Visiting my daughter and family weekly – visitors Visits from my family when son visits pass time with friends Keeping touch with family and friends (x2) Just enjoy the community keeping family happy 18 Creativity Music listening to religious music listening to religious music (bjajans) Listening to the religious songs and about God's stories listen to music (religious songs) arranging music. Enjoy music, Enjoys music and watching people sing Listen to classical music listen to music. concerts (x2) Going to concerts music, Jazz night. singing (x2) sometimes music, Listening to classical music (x3) Listening to music (x20) listening to music - researching music Listening to music (Asian music only) love music Music (x10) Play/listen to music – practice keyboard relaxing & listening to music She like to listen to music listening to religious music Singing Music (Singing included) choir Singing in choir Member of church choir and pianist for another choir, Sing with a Choral Society a small group karaoke with Tony Berry U3A choir Dancing go to jive lessons, Dancing (x5) Friday evening dancing Go dancing, Line dancing (x2) Salsa dancing - new at this but very enjoyable Visual arts Hobbies like painting, I attend art classes at my local community centre Art. artistic pursuits 19 attending university course in fine arts Belong to an Art Group Painting (x6) painting class Photography (x3) calligraphy, Water colouring, mainly landscapes Taking photographs Crafts Making things Being creative card making (x2) Attend Carers' craft classes. Coming to the craft club craft class creativity Crochet/knit Doing woodwork as a hobby I do things that are creative (woodwork) Knitting (x3) Knitting and crocheting knitting crochet craft & art classes at St George's lace making sewing (x3) doing flower arranging Theatre Going to the theatre Theatre & art. Theatre trips. theatre, Going to the theatre visits to the theatre I do enjoy an evening at the theatre with a friend or family member Other reading / writing (poetry) Doing something creative (x2) 20 Nature Gardening Garden (x2) Gardening (x49) gardening - although limited by some problems gardening / houseplant care Gardening Group Help my brother in his garden allotment Gardening when possible Passing time in gardening pottering in greenhouse Digging at my allotment Doing gardening carry out work on an allotment Helping at allotment/ helping in the garden Spending time outside working on garden tend garden working in the garden Can’t do much, but recently got my gardens done Brightened my day Being outside Being in the garden enjoy being outside in my garden / greenhouse Enjoying garden & nature. Going out into the country. I like sitting in the garden sitting in the garden Sitting in the garden in the sunshine Sitting in the garden taking fresh air this being my favourite time of the year some time in the garden Spending time in the garden (x7) spending time in the garden taking fresh air spending time in the garden, but not working hard these days Time in the garden (x2) used to enjoy sitting outside unable to get out anymore Relaxing in the garden Fresh air (x3) Taking some fresh air taking some fresh air in the countryside Other doing flower arranging Comfort with nature (x4) Bird watching/looking at nature Watch the birds Birds, butterflies. fishing (x2) watching nature programmes 21 Walking Walking with dog Dog walking (x2) walk the dog (x2) Walking my dog on a sunny day. walking the dog (x3) Walking the dog - fresh air walking the dogs Walking with the dog (x2) go out walking with dog Walking across the moors with my dogs walking, long walk with the dog Walking in countryside I like to walk on the moors walk on the moors walking; esp. over local hills Take a walk around the Jumbles reservoir country & hill walking Daily walk visits to park walking in the country Walking in the countryside. Walks in the countryside Walking in fresh air Fresh air & exercise (x2) Taking some fresh air and exercise (x8) Go for walks in the fresh air walking and getting some fresh air, Walking in fresh air (x2) Walk with others walk with company I go for walks with my friends to the shops, and go shopping with my daughter Walking and meeting people Walking club - meeting friends walking with grandchildren Walking with friends. Other Going for a walk (x4) Go for walks (x3) Go walking (not serious, ambitious walking) I do a lot of walking I have a Health walk on Sunday morning I go walking, Walk Walk the maximum I am capable of. Walking (x25) Exercise i.e. walking 22 Exercise, particularly walking walking on my own, walks Physical activity Swimming Swim but now only occasionally swim sometimes swimming and playing golf Swimming (x2) Bowling bowling Hobbies – bowling Classes do Tai Chi Meeting friends at exercise Class & Tai Chi exercise (chair based) Exercise class (x2) Aerobics, Attend aerobics and Tai Chi Chair exercise Gentle aerobics, go to aqua aerobics Keep fit class exercise class For a limited time: exercise - walking, aqua aerobics aerobics class / tai chi Gym Attending Motorcise gym Try to go to the gym Go to the gym (x3) gym I work out in a gym for 2 hrs 4 days each week Gym visit daily. Gym with friends I go to the gym, I keep physically active 2 go to gym twice a week Sports Football. I run learning and practising golf play golf Physical activities e.g. playing badminton play badminton (x2) keeping physically active community netball 23 Other also I like sport keeping active (x3) keeping active mentally & physically (x4) Keeping physically active (x10) Some exercise exercises (x2) Exercise (x11) exercising General exercise, Exercise i.e. walking Exercise, particularly walking taking some exercise having some exercise physical exercises, Physically active Having an exercise keep herself fit Keep physically active. going for exercises Food Cooking baking, cook (x2) cookery (x7) Making food for loved ones Having a good meal which I have cooked. cooking trying new recipes Eat well - prepare my own meals. Drinking enjoy an alcoholic drink, Drinking in moderation (x3) Chocolate occasionally and a bottle of wine Eat well Drinking well Eating out Go to meetings where there is food provided Going for meal going out for meals (x2) going to out eat Attend luncheon clubs and 4 days week Go for meal Go out for lunch eating out (x2) having a cup of coffee at a café, Meals out. pub lunches or going for a meal with friends or family to celebrate special occasions 24 lunch clubs Luncheon clubs, I go to a luncheon club, Other eat healthy food eat well (x3) eat well sometimes eating well (x26) Eating (X2) Had 2 knee replacement ops but keep active by eating well, having lunch, I eat well I enjoy good food I have a good diet they dine together Sit down with a crossword & coffee Spirituality Religious music listening to religious music (x2) listening to religious music (bjajans) Listening to the religious songs and about God's stories listen to music (religious songs) Prayer Pray (x4) Pray quran/namaa2 pray to god that’s what makes me feel good Prayers in the morning Praying (x5) Remembering God, She likes praying to God makes her feel good Taking time with God: Prayer/Bible Study/Meditation. Attending religious activities Take part in church activities Church activities Taking an active part in church life social activities (church) Active church member Attend church attend church and all its activities attending and supporting the church e.g. running stalls, tea bar, being involved at church Being involved with church activities church activities / spirituality church attendance go to mosque (x2) Going to church (x6) 25 Going to church my faith. I enjoy going to the mosque I go to church Like going to church. meetings at church involved in church life Other Spirituality (x5) spirituality - know God personally spirituality (praying) White Croft HDV church. As a committed Christian helping others less fortunate than myself, leading by example Christian readings Church (x2) Inter-Faith Activities (Muslims, Hindus, Jews, Christians) Volunteering / caring Caring Care for other Caring, full time carer for mother 86 work as a carer makes me feel useful caring for others (x5) informal caring take care of my 90 year old mother Other Belonging to several voluntary groups getting involved (x6) Help older people round about - do their shopping, check up on them, have them over for cup of tea help others help others by doing volunteer work once a week Helping at luncheon club Helping other people who are in need, if they want something do I want to help them and even if it means not looking after my health. helping others (x2) Helping people helping round the house and caring for the children after school while she works I am a befriender enjoy listening & helping others. I do voluntary work I help with children who can't read very well at school I like to help different people and seeing them happy I volunteer once a week at a hospice Look after others making a contribution (x3) Making a positive contribution to the lives of others through my job. Neighbourliness - visiting elderly & housebound often visit the elderly organise & run a junior theatre workshop for 40 youngsters aged 8/18. 26 other voluntary work within community (luncheon clubs, charity shops etc) assisting others supporting older people in the community Supporting other people Try to help people and make them laugh Visiting a lady via Halliwell Befriending Service Voluntary work in Fair Trade Shop. Voluntary work (x4) Volunteer at charity shop Volunteer at luncheon club, outings, volunteering (x2) Work as volunteer for Hearing Dogs for the Deaf. Work hard all so help the community caring for their need Working towards making demented sufferers and their carers lives easier Sleep / relax Relaxing I like relaxing relaxing Relax (x2) Relaxation classes. relaxing (x11) Relaxing and sleeping Relaxing at home Relaxing in the garden Sleep She enjoys good night sleep sleep or rest well. Sleep, Sleeping well (x4) Sometimes good night sleep (some because breathing problems) good nights sleep A good nights sleep. But only when my husband is in respite care which has not been for many months now in care (Feeling much more assesible of self but when I think of my husband feel dreadfully guilty and sad - he's in care Getting a good nights sleep (x9) good night sleep (x5) lots of sleep Getting a good nights sleep (x2) Having a good nights sleep Getting a good nights sleep If she has a good night sleep she feels even better (x2) having a good nights sleep getting a good nights sleep makes her even better and happy Other massage Meditation (x2) Sit down with a crossword & coffee 27 Holidays / outings / trips Holidays visit our caravan in the lakes Looking forward/going on holidays/away Holidays (x4) holidays in the sun I always have a good long break to 6 month a year Having holidays. Go to last drop hotel for long weekends twice a year Going away for the weekend going on holiday Frequent holidays Going places by bus Going on the bus to different towns travel - indulging using free bus pass using bus pass for days out Other 2 outings per week by Dial a Ride Shopping day trips from st George's day centre other days out days out days out amongst others visiting places, Get out of the house getting out and about - going into town Getting out and about getting outdoors / getting out & about Go on holidays (x2) go out (x2) Go out to town get out of house going out (x6) going out & about GOING OUTDOORS. going somewhere new Going to new places. Going to theatre and museums and houses and gardens Having the opportunity to go out being housebound, Likes going out. looking around outings Planning places to visit. Travel. travelling (x2) Going out to social club visiting new places / venues of historical value 28 TV Particular types of tv programme Watching tv programmes in Asian & English Watching tv (mostly Asian programmes) To watch Asian TV programmes Watching lots of tv programmes and Gujarati serials She feels even better when she watches Asian tv programmes to watch television (special Indian programmes) Watching a good film watching football on the tv watching nature programmes Listening to soaps and quizzes on TV Cinema Cinema (x2) Going to cinema Going to pictures Other TV (x3) Television Watch TV (x5) I like watching TV (x2) Watching tv (x9) Watch telly Watch television, until 5 years ago I was involved & enthusiastic about all of the above suggestions. Restricted now to talking books, reading & TV, I do a lot of reading and puzzles and enjoy TV watching lots of programmes on tv Listen to radio and TV radio & TV Specific groups U3A activities eg U3A Attend U3A Belonging to U3A Belonging to U3A groups Attending U3A meeting some U3A activities (x2) U3A activities U3A activities / membership U3A choir Various group meetings, inc. U3A groups Going to U3A Group Meetings 29 Day centre Attending day centre, Attend a day centre twice a week St Georges Day Centre Dominoes, Bingo, Like going to day centre in Horwich. Asian Elders Coming to the centre (A.E.R.C.) Attending centre, attend Asian elders group & go on trips with them Spending time in the community centre. (Asian Elder's Centre) to go to the asian elders centre & pass time with the people The Asian sathi group The Sathi group makes me feel good Drop in centre Attend two drop-in centres Attending a Halliwell drop-in once a week attending coffee mornings & drop ins, attending drop in centres Attending drop-in Drop ins Other Chairing BAND Go to carers meeting Go to Mhist every day. Towns Women Guild Women's institute social activities (church, U3a, WI group) attending various groups, Involvement in organisations (voluntary and professional). member of help groups show active interest in local societies, Read until 5 years ago I was involved & enthusiastic about all of the above suggestions. Restricted now to talking books, reading & TV, I do a lot of reading and puzzles and enjoy TV Lots of reading Read (x3) read books Reading (x23) Reading (my life line) Reading a good book or poetry Reading a novel Reading novels. Reading when I feel well. Reading and relaxing with my spouse 30 Learning day classes at hospital as outpatient (Rivington day centre) education classes - u3a, WEA French class. go to college learning to be a counsellor go to jive lessons, keeping mentally active learning learning French & German Learning new skills (x5) Learning new things learning skills Listening to the news interested in world news, local history museums Relearning old skills e.g. Conversation French. Researching areas of study through books etc. Studying (Did OU Degree after retirement) B.Sc. Social Science. I mark exam papers for National Organisation taking courses (x2) socialising - in community, at classes Shopping I go for walks with my friends to the shops, and go shopping with my daughter 2 outings per week by Dial a Ride Shopping Shopping (x17) Go out shopping makes me feel good Going shopping (x2) Going to town Housework / DIY Clean the house. Cleaning my house, cleaning, doing housework my own housework Routine housework, cooking, shopping To do little things around the house Doing housework DIY (x3) Doing bits of DIY. help around the house household tasks DIY activities my financial situation has become better due to disablement benefits enables me to get more help cleaner, garden, taxi, etc. Look after self Go to hairdressers weekly 31 Have manicures Having a bath having a shower and moisturising having a shower, having my feet done, Like having hair done. Look after myself Wellbeing. going to sauna, Valuing myself Valuing myself and others valuing yourself Other Activities in the community Darts Dominoes Hobbies (x3) Doing hobbies Keep a diary Listening Playing pool Receiving good news Thinking Working Being well enough to work. teach kids have part time job Involved in local politics Tutoring students work for self work in our family business work, working at my job working for a charity Working for myself Puzzles Pub quiz Crosswords (x3) Do jigsaw puzzle and brain teasers, Doing jigsaws Jigsaws, I do a lot of reading and puzzles and enjoy TV Sit down with a crossword & coffee 32 Tai chi / yoga Tai chi (x3) Yoga (x4) Yoga class at local library-once a week Getting advice /support Seeking help Getting advice Getting support Taking part in some complementary therapies Talking about feelings want to be listened to. Talking about my feelings (x3) Health being pain free counselling feeling well physically. getting health checks Getting the help I need with my mental health problems. initial support from expert when started with ME Medication helps support from CPN Enjoy life enjoy making plans for making my lifestyle more comfortable Enjoy the day - whatever it brings Get up in the morning get up in the morning "I'm still here" LIFE! Live a good life mentally and physically - do no harm to anyone Stay happy Bingo / cards Bingo (x4) I go to bingo daily Play cards with friends Nothing At the moment unable to do anything I can't think of anything I do not have time to spare to get involved in any of the above Not much, unable to go out often. Eyesight very bad and I am afraid of falling Nothing at the moment lost my husband a few weeks ago she has no interest in anything 33 Take a break Taking a break (x5) Driving Drive a tractor Driving (x4) Computers computers, I.T. Computer (internet etc) Use google a lot. Keeping busy always trying to keep busy, as well as busy day to day living keeping busy If she's busy she feels very happy - Smoking Smoking (x2) 34 What else would you like to do to make you feel even better? Comment category friends / family travel/ holidays/ outings mobility / get out more Physical activity health/ healthcare walking nothing - ok already / more of the same nature volunteering / caring learning Sleep / relax money creativity housework/ diy Food theatre / cinema / concert new hobbies / interests help/ support other Specific groups housing shopping energy/able to do more take a break working time lose weight Look after self welfare of others sprituality tai chi / yoga independence bingo/ cards computers dancing better weather feel better no interest in anything smoking driving complimentary therapies read TV enjoy life keeping busy puzzles Number 88 65 40 32 27 23 22 21 18 16 16 16 14 13 13 9 9 9 8 8 8 8 7 7 7 6 6 5 5 5 5 5 3 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 0 0 Rank 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 10 10 13 14 14 16 16 16 19 19 19 19 23 23 23 26 26 28 28 28 28 28 33 33 33 33 33 38 38 38 38 42 42 42 - Note: some comments fall into more than one category 35 Friends / family Social groups / activities Making new friends with the same interests Go a walk with a companion Have a companion for outings and holidays People with shared interests Going out with my wife (holidays) coming to AERC & talking to friends Active sex life Get more exercise along with people of my own age eg exercise classes Company, spending time with someone Enjoying a lunch chatting over food Join more social groups I wish there was more activities for people my age listening to classical music with another person who enjoys it. exercise with other people Organised walking with group Other more involvement socially involve other like minded people See grandchildren more often Make new friends See more of my family but they are very busy people and keep in touch when they can. I can rely on them if really needed. Live nearer to my family See my children and grandchildren more often Spend more time with 92 yr old mother More socialisation especially during Public Holidays Friends becoming older - more difficult to meet up See my immediate family more frequently. They all live in the S.E. social life Have some sincere friend or friends Meeting people Some more friends See grandchildren, stay in touch with family Would like to see the family More visits from my family Find a soul mate Spending more time with my grandchildren I like to communicate If her daughter visits Meeting different people Have visitors coming more often would make me feel a lot better Going out meeting other people Seeing my family more often having a company of her friends I wish I had my husband with me More friends Communicating with other people. She likes to make everybody young and old happy Visit friends/family more often Have a friend come and visit me more often Go visit family abroad 36 I'm contented in my own home with friends calling Have some kind of social life More socialising more company Having contact with family Visit family and friends Mix more socially Would like to live nearer to my family social support spend more time with my grandchildren socialise more visiting friends keeping in touch In contact with other people Keeping in touch with friends/loved ones Visit family more Meeting more people (x2) Meet more people Walking, meeting other people Want to move house to be near my family Have a well husband Move back down south nearer family Keeping in touch with friends Talking with others Visit them regularly Buy nice things for my family have grandchildren Going out - meeting friends spending time with children/grandchildren more classes to meet people socially… meeting other people socially more involvement with grandchildren meet other members of family being involved more socially keeping in touch with friends mix with other people, old acquaintances wish I could help my family more financially go to see my son in Spain have more company more social contacts being with my children & grandchildren relaxing going on a break e.g. India visiting my parents keeping in touch with friends/ loved ones see more of my grandchildren who live away Chances to enjoy great grandchildren who live 200 miles away. 37 Travel/ holidays/ outings Holidays Foreign holidays Go on a cruise Go away on holidays go away somewhere on my own go on a holiday Go on holiday (x2) Going on holiday go on holiday spend more time with my grandchildren go on holidays (x2) Go to India go to see my son in Spain, change of same old routine for example nothing to look forward to holidays etc Afford to travel more Sail across the Atlantic Enjoy one or two holidays a year now we are retired find more appropriate holidays i.e. more than just "go away" Going out with my wife (holidays) Have a caravan in the country Have a companion for outings and holidays Have a holiday (x3) Have more holidays holiday walking Holidays (x3) it would be nice to have a nice holiday for a week somewhere nice. Like to go on a cruise Money, go on holiday More cultural visits More holidays More holidays/days out More opportunity for holidays and breaks Go visit family abroad going on a break eg. India visiting my parents Going on holiday is even better Travel and explore new places, at home and abroad travelling, going abroad Travel extensively again Regular outings and holidays see more of England, Ireland, Wales, Scotland see more of the world take a holiday Take relaxing beach type holidays. Outings a day trip to Southport Able to travel more Being able to enjoy sunshine and more holidays Day trips (x2) Days get out & see more of England Get out and about seeing different places 38 Go to shows and outings Going out - everywhere Occasional outings e.g. vists to concerts & theatre performances. Trips to places of interest & opportunities to enjoy nature. Chances to enjoy great grandchildren who live 200 miles away. Regular outings Travel Travel more (x4) Trips out (x2) Visit to sea-side Mobility / get out more Have more mobility to get out and about more To walk further Be able to walk further Walk better without assistance better walking without my stick to be able to use public transport get out more increased mobility Be more mobile A magic wand to make me walk again I would like to be able to walk properly be able to walk without assistance (suffer from polio) To feel able to go out for a walk - even a short one - without someone holding on to see so that I don't fall. This is impossible for me as my lack of balance is due to a neurological reason which is not possible to diagnose specifically. Be able to walk on my own and go out shopping (shop till I drop!) instead of being pushed in my wheelchair. But it does beat not being able to go out of the house. To be able to walk would be happier if my mobility was better Someone to take me to town Being able to get out to church Better mobility going out Going outside more to get outside more Go out a lot more Go out more often (x2)n go out more (x2) Going out - meeting friends to go out more go out more Getting out Get out more (x3) get out & about more Getting out and about Get medication sorted to improve how and feel and be able to get out more Can't afford taxis Going out meeting other people Going out - everywhere Being able to go out - given enough time to shop for myself and my husband 39 getting out more - even to local shops Physical activity Swimming Swim (x3) Swimming (x4) Swim/aqua arobics Do more swimming Like to go swimming Exercise with others exercise with other people Get more exercise along with people of my own age eg exercise classes Specific activities be able to be more active - e.g. walking as done in the past I would like to go to the gym or do regular walking aerobics group Ride a bike (x2) learn golf Other more exercise (x2) to be able to be more active Keep active Be more physically active be more active Keeping physically active do more exercise / keep fit Exercise (x4) more exercise (x2) More active life 40 health/ healthcare Maintaining GP Surgery Gov to stop messing with NHS I would like to be more confident that we have a good health service Be in better health To feel able to go out for a walk - even a short one - without someone holding on to see so that I don't fall. This is impossible for me as my lack of balance is due to a neurological reason which is not possible to diagnose specifically. My physical health holds me back When has replaced ear drum Be able to move without pain in legs and arms Get rid of schizophrenia Have lower pain levels Stay healthy If she has good health she will feel even more better If she has no problem with health she will be the happiest person To have good health To get improvement of my eyesight would be happier if my mobility was better I would like to feel better healthwise Get medication sorted to improve how and feel and be able to get out more have complimentary therapies instead of my medication be given a choice to have alternative therapies not drugs. Better health free therapy Being well. Have diabetes - so need to control would like a CPN again but don't know how to access service classes to support with particular mental health problem to know who to contact if I feel I need help getting help & support if you are not already 'in the system' Feel physically better I like to write but due to poor sight struggle with one fine eye & one eye on a broken machine better health I have support from cleaner attends hospital appointments to help me walking Be able to walk further Be able to walk on my own and go out shopping (shop till I drop!) instead of being pushed in my wheelchair. But it does beat not being able to go out of the house. To feel able to go out for a walk - even a short one - without someone holding on to see so that I don't fall. This is impossible for me as my lack of balance is due to a neurological reason which is not possible to diagnose specifically. Do more walking but my health problems don't let me Walk more To go for a good long walk Go a walk with a companion Going for a walk in the country walking in the countryside Going for a walk when the weather is nice Do more walking walk To walk further I would like to spend more time walking going for walks be able to be more active - e.g. walking as done in the past 41 Walking Fresh air walk around not too far I would like to go to the gym or do regular walking go on long walks by myself walking/ rambling joining a walking group holiday walking Organised walking with group Nothing - ok already / more of the same More of the same None no I'm contented in my own home with friends calling I have enough to do now Well satisfied Nothing else I enjoy what I am doing at this moment Nothing (x2) I feel ok my life Is very full more of the same keeping in touch Nothing else Already happy I am happy Feel happy Praying/happy already Enough already Nothing more Nothing much. I feel ok Already very happy nothing I can think of Nature Gardening gardening (x3) get my garden straight Get my gardens done by the council in the garden - get jobs done - sort out garage - greenhouse sorting out my largish garden Grow my own veg The sea Being by the sea live near the coast Other Going for a walk in the country Have a caravan in the country walking in the countryside 42 More outdoor activity Better living environment - in Bolton - parks and gardens, trees, flowers which help to reflect a pride in the town Make a useful contribution to saving the planet and mankind - in my small way Get fresh air and exercise. being outside Gallop across open fields Fresh air walk around not to far open spaces get in touch with nature - stroke a horse, take a picnic contact with nature opportunities to enjoy nature.. Volunteering / caring caring for others (x2) Would love to do more caring more money help with my caring duties. It gets harder as you get older Some voluntary work Make a useful contribution to saving the planet and mankind - in my small way Getting involved I like getting involved and making a contribution Help others she likes to help people but her mind is not in anything Getting involved/making a contribution Voluntary work helping people worse off than myself Getting involved in volunteering getting involved with things volunteer work help people in need getting involved in volunteering knowing how to get into voluntary work - and being accepted as a volunteer Learning Learn to play music from written notes Exploring my family history To learn something new (eg) DIY, decorating Learn to play piano Computer studies Learning new skills college courses at low cost to help get back employment Understand the universe and our place in it learn how to read &write english learn golf more classes to meet people socially… learning new skills information - about activities, services, how I get help first aid classes cookery classes at tech easily accessible classes more adult education classes study Study or undertake new project of an educational nature I would like to go to an embriodery class 43 Sleep / relax Sleep Sleep a lot better. I am a poor sleeper. Getting a good nights sleep She feels when she gets a good nights sleep Getting a good nights sleep sleeping well Sleeping better Sleep better sleeping properly If don't have good nights sleep don't feel too well Relaxing relaxing Take relaxing beach type holidays. relaxing going on a break e.g. India visiting my parents I would like to be able to relax I would not like to be more conscientious Just relaxing Try Yoga, relax more relaxing & taking a break money Getting a job, money Money Win the lottery Get money win a prize Can't afford taxis better finances for older people Higher pension rate earn more money more money help with my caring duties. It gets harder as you get older more money - benefits or job opportunities free travel for over 50's holidays free therapy more money (x2) Win lottery I would like to be more financially secure, perhaps wish I could help my family more financially have more energy and money to spend on them Creativity Visual arts Take up painting Join more art groups Start art again do an art course 44 Music Learn to play music from written notes Learn to play piano Play the paino again - join a brass band Writing I would like to feel better healthwise and get back to my hobby of writing and computer studies. That was put on the back burner for 3 yrs (through caring) I like to write but due to poor sight struggle with one fine eye & one eye on a broken machine Crafts I would like to go to an embriodery class Like to do embroidery Basket work class Other Doing something creative (x2) Housework/ DIY Have full time help in the house Sort out house be able to make some repairs to house To learn something new (eg) DIY, decorating I do get upset when I cant do my routine things Put curtains/blinds and nets up on windows. Can take them down - difficult to put up Do more house repairs in the garden - get jobs done - sort out garage - greenhouse help around the home cleaning I can not climb to put up my curtains any more and would like to have somone to help. get my garden straight get paperwork straight jobs around the house, painting, decorating sorting out my largish garden decorating my house Food Eating out Go to a dinner at a Club Enjoying a lunch chatting over food going to more restaurants Cooking Cooking (x2) cooking new recipes baking Cook better Other Eating well Healthy food. 45 home cooked fresh meals drink less Go to the Pub theatre / cinema / concert Sometimes I would like to go to the theatre more, but money isn't always available Going to the Cinema Have a visit to a show in Manchester now and then Go to shows and outings Go out in an evening to the theatre attending a classical music event listening to classical music with another person who enjoys it. Like to go to a concert go to the theatre more often Occasional outings e.g. visits to concerts & theatre performances. New hobbies / interests More hobbies Enjoy an interesting hobby A new interest More thing in the community More activities and more choice New hobbies makes her happy and taking up hobbies I wish there was more activities for people my age Take up a new hobby Help/ support Have full time help in the house Someone to take me to town Spend time to myself knowing that someone I trust is caring for my partner More care information - about activities, services, how I get help first aid classes cookery classes at tech easily accessible classes getting help & support if you are not already 'in the system' knowing how to get into voluntary work - and being accepted as a volunteer I can not climb to put up my curtains any more and would like to have someone to help. My husband to have more respite care to give me a break I have support fro cleaner attends hospital appointments to help me people to think about me not always the other way Other More cultural visits Better living environment - in Bolton - parks and gardens, trees, flowers which help to reflect a pride in the town find more appropriate holidays i.e. more than just "go away" Driving my car, but I can't due to recovering from a stroke watching football more freedom 46 Gallop across open fields classes to support with particular metnal health problem to know who to contact if I feel I need help more classes to meet people socially getting involved in volunteering ways to get out to combat loneliness ways to encourage the community to understand getting counselling meeting other people socially walking/ rambling joining a walking group learning new skills information - about activities, services, how I get help first aid classes cookery classes at tech easily accessible classes getting help & support if you are not already 'in the system' knowing how to get into voulntary work - and being accepted as a volunteer Specific groups Join a few more U3A groups More thing in the community Coming to the day care centre (A.E.R.C.) Join more art groups coming to AERC & talking to friends More Tai Chi classes in Bolton in the evening for those who work day I wish there was more activities for people my age Organised walking with group Energy/able to do more do ANYTHING for longer periods To have more energy To be able to do more physically I don't know, I am old now I don’t have any energy to do anything now More energy No motivation have more energy and money to spend on them the above for longer Housing live somewhere that I feel safer & where young people (boys) do not call me names (old bag) Live nearer to my family Move house Get away from unpleasant neighbours Move to a better climate and more sunshine I'm contented in my own home with friends calling Would like to live nearer to my family Want to move house to be near my family Move back down south nearer family live near the coast Shopping Be able to walk on my own and go out shopping (shop till I drop!) instead of being pushed in my wheelchair. But it does beat not being able to go out of the house. Someone to take me to town Going shopping Go out shopping Being able to go out - given enough time to shop for myself and my husband 47 Getting out more - even to local shops Buy nice things for my family buy new clothes, buy new shoes, underwear, shop shop shop till I drop Take a break Take a break (x2) Taking a break (x3) relaxing & taking a break my husband to have more respite care to give me a break Working Getting a job, money Would like to work Part time job Not employed would like part-time work College courses at low cost to help get back employment Be able to retire more money - benefits or job opportunities I would like to start an industrial business where elderly people could work Time No time Spend time to myself knowing that someone I trust is caring for my partner Have more time for myself No time to do more have more free time Being able to go out - given enough time to shop for myself and my husband Look after self Some time spent at the beauty salon (if only) Have hair done Spend time to myself knowing that someone I trust is caring for my partner Have more time for myself make over Welfare of others She likes to make everybody young and old happy It is more important that I make others feel better If I could get rid of the guilt feeling of leaving my wife with the befriender (who is lovely) I feel I should be with my wife all the time Have a well husband My husband to have more respite care to give me a break 48 Spirituality Be more involved in church activities Being able to get out to church Praying Prays church groups Tai chi / yoga I would like to try Tai Chi. Alexander method. Tai Chi (x2) Try Yoga, relax more More Tai Chi classes in Bolton in the evening for those who work day independence To feel able to go out for a walk - even a short one - without someone holding on to see so that I don't fall. This is impossible for me as my lack of balance is due to a neurological reason which is not possible to diagnose specifically. Be able to walk on my own and go out shopping (shop till I drop!) instead of being pushed in my wheelchair. But it does beat not being able to go out of the house. To be able to be 100% independent Walk better without assistance be able to walk without assistance (suffer from polio) Lose weight Lose weight (x5) Lose some weight Bingo/ cards go to bingo computer Attend whist drives Like to go to a concert or card games dominoes Computers Computer studies basic computer classes I would like to feel better healthwise and get back to my hobby of writing and computer studies. That was put on the back burner for 3 yrs (through caring) 49 Dancing Dancing (x2) Folk dancing Better weather Being able to enjoy sunshine Move to a better climate and more sunshine Going for a walk when the weather is nice Feel better If I could get rid of the guilt feeling of leaving my wife with the befriender (who is lovely) I feel I should be with my wife all the time feeling better not being divorced handle my grief better no interest in anything I don't know, I am old now I don’t have any energy to do anything now She has no interest in anything else Quit smoking Give up smoking give up smoking I am a heavy smoker Driving Driving my car, but I can't due to recovering from a stroke Drive a bigger tractor Complimentary therapies Taking part in complimentary therapies try reflexology, have complimentary therapies instead of my medication be given a choice to have alternative therapies not drugs. read Reading 50 TV Watching tv by myself enjoy life enjoy life 51 What, if anything, is preventing you from doing these things? Comment category Health Money No reasons given Get upset / worry Nothing really Other commitments Travel / mobility Time Other Company Lack of service / facility Confidence Energy Organise it Distance Age Motivation Going out at night/ safety Information Housing Others time Weather Myself Forget things Number 100 51 44 43 37 37 35 35 21 18 16 16 12 10 10 9 7 6 5 4 3 2 2 2 Rank 1 2 3 4 5 5 7 7 9 10 11 11 13 14 14 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 22 22 Note: some comments fall into more than one category 52 Health A physical disability - peripheral neuropathy Aches & Pains Agoraphobia, breathing problems, transport support. Have a hernia so stops me swimming, my health problems prevent me from having the hernia operated on & I.B.S Arthritis (x5) Arthritis, gout, leukaemia (CMR) Asthma (x2) because of her absent mind Being able to hear being divorced mental health problems Being sick - cancer Breakdown but I am unable to [walk properly] with my leg Chronic health problem (physical) and associated depression company for holiday days out self conscious because of confidence (lacking) & hearing impairment Deafness, memory Difficulty with breathing Disability physical - No energy, isolation Finances disability, someone to go with Disabled - lame Eye sight Gammy knee! Had a stroke, affected right knee Health (x7) health - loss of energy Health - some of the time health issues health problems (physical) Health problems are restrictive hip & shoulder problem I am disabled & have to use crutches I am disabled (mobility problems) I am registered partially sighted, suffer from stenosis of spine & arthritis & several other age related problems. Need to pay for taxis every time I go out I feel very bad and my brain stops I have a problem with my eyesight I have had hip replacement surgery 18 months ago and expecting to go into hospital any day now to have my other hip done Ill health (x3) Illness Illness, weak heart It depends how I feel - health wise lack of get up & go. No spring in legs. Soon get very tired & exhausted in other words O/A, heart problems, BP, underactive thyroid Legs mobility arthritis, had a water blister years ago spreading fever got my leg straightened because of this, after eight years finally got right cream of dermatologist because too late to get leg done (now more or less housebound) Long term chronic medical conditions M.S. ME Medication Mental health problem: Can't concentrate at times 53 Mobility/health my disability My health my health - lack of energy My health problems My health problems seem to resist remedies my knee surgery My mobility. I had a double fracture of the spine many years ago and have had osteoporosis - diagnosed in the 70s when they were first able to do so and osteogenesis imperfecta My own eating disorder problem No access to practical home help i.e. cleaning, cooking, home cooked meals (Panic attacks) lack of confidence poor mobility No more can be done to improve my eyesight, someone to come to my home to help me exercise, message ok to help my mobility Osteoporosis Parkinsons Coeliac problems Pain in joints Pain in knee and joints - foot Painful legs No confidence on my own partially sighted Physical disabilities Physical disability (x2) physical disability & lack of energy Physical health Physical movement post-op, physically unable Problem with nerves Recent operation restricted movement in right arm (after dislocation of shoulder 1986) rheumatic pains Sciatica - paid waist below Breathlessness due to Angina Severe arthritis causing painful and poor mobility She can't feel her feet Sick elderly pet Own health variable sickness, limited disability Sometimes has problems with pain in leg Sometimes unwell There is no gym nearby and I have very hard cracked feet and I can't do a lot of walking as I am diabetic TKR (total knee replacement) Needed unable to because of mental health visual impairment Walking, my disability worry of diabetes problem pain in leg 54 Money Cost can also be an issue with leisure facilities costs low income eating out is expensive expense Finance Finances (x2) Finances can be a factor in preventing me from doing all I would like to do, but I have learnt to make the best of things by getting concessionary tickets and good holiday deals out of season etc. Financial commitments financial limitations Financial problems Financial restraints (x2) Financial worries Lack of money (x2) Lack of money - mortgage Money (x19) Money! Money on benefits money problems Money problems (x2) Money, if I came 5 days a week it would be expensive for me Need to pay for taxis every time I go out not having spare cash Not winning the lottery Shortage of cash Six day 60+ hours work self-employed attempting to earn a living! too far away costly very few adult education classes in the area and the ones available in other areas are expensive Watching my spending Work - money - pressure of family needing money Increased cost of living. Get upset / worry As I have said the feeling of guilt I promised in my marriage vows to look after her Coming to terms living on my own I miss my husband so much But accept we were together so long How many couples are so lucky to survive diamond anniversary (But I am nearly 80) Feel upset Feeling anxious and nervous all time afraid to go out Feels sad and unhappy Get upset (x5) he has died. I get upset Husband died - just feels lonely I'd get upset lost my husband 2 years ago - loneliness mental trauma not happy going out at night, worry She feels bored and unhappy she feels irritated when she can't do things she used to do. Sometimes she forgets things She feels sad she feels sad about other people not feeling well it makes her upset 55 She feels sad and upset She feels unhappy She feels upset She feels upset and unhappy (x2) she feels upset if she is prevented from doing these things [that make her feel better] she feels very unhappy she gets depressed She gets irritated She gets upset (x7) she gets upset sometimes sometimes worry - if friends/family ill upset and unhappy worry - general worry about other people, children not happy to go out at night worry of diabetes problem pain in leg would feel upset Nothing really being lazy & self centred Finances can be a factor in preventing me from doing all I would like to do, but I have learnt to make the best of things by getting concessionary tickets and good holiday deals out of season etc. I'm doing it Never got round to it Never had any problems No (x2) No one is preventing her from the doing things None (x3) Not much now Nothing - I read about the above (universe) but there are many conflicting theories Nothing (x21) nothing really Nothing really feel I can do it myself Nothing really I live at a Residential home 56 Other commitments Work Time and work pressures Time, as I am still working Work (x5) Caring Being a carer (x2) being carers for our handicapped daughter caring for mother & children Husband will not have sitters or carers crossroads I also have a daughter who has MS and I take her out one day a week to have a meal. I DO TRY to do everything I can as I am very independent. Husband very ill I can't drive ill health of husband Mum rarely wants to go and is often tired. my husband has Alzheimer’s my responsibilities for my mother my son & his needs Not enough care time for my husband who has dementia and cancer aged 94 years Time - I spend every afternoon with my husband who is in a Care Home Pets My dog is getting old - difficult to leave her leaving pets in kennels Sick elderly pet Other commitments to family near to home Family commitment (x3) fitting in travelling with other responsibilities house & partner Lack of time goes due to being very active Looking after my mother not being able to say no Other commitments prevent me from joining the U3A groups I would like to join. partner, family Responsibilities Too many other people needing support Travel / mobility Walking can't walk too well but I am unable to [walk properly] with my leg I am disabled & have to use crutches not too good walking Walking difficulties There is no gym nearby and I have very hard cracked feet and I can't do a lot of walking as I am diabetic Confidence with travel 57 (Panic attacks) lack of confidence poor mobility Agoraphobia, breathing problems, transport support Feeling anxious and nervous all time afraid to go out Transport Mobility Fear of going out when dark mobility confidence can't get out myself due to mobility problems not been out in so long lack confidence Housebound (mobility problems) I am recently housebound last few months Legs mobility arthritis, had a water blister years ago spreading fever got my leg straightened because of this, after eight years finally got right cream off dermatologist because too late to get leg done (now more or less housebound) Other I am registered partially sighted, suffer from stenosis of spine & arthritis & several other age related problems. Need to pay for taxis every time I go out Difficulty in getting around alone different city - travelling problems Double amputee "Ring & Ride" not always available Wheel chair too wide (no ramps etc) Driving, going out at night Husband very ill I can't drive I am disabled (mobility problems) lack of mobility Mobility (x2) Poor mobility (x2) mobility, independence, someone to go with Mobility/health Mum rarely wants to go and is often tired. Plus transport is a problem if it is out of Bolton not enough energy / fitness Severe arthritis causing painful and poor mobility Transport (x2) Travel Travel by public transport Time fitting in travelling with other responsibilities Just time and circumstances lack of time (x3) Lack of time goes due to being very active Money and time No time Not enough hours in a day to do all the things that I would like to do not enough time (x2) Planning my time better Six day 60+ hours work self-employed attempting to earn a living! starts too early Time - get up and go motivation Time - I spend every afternoon with my husband who is in a Care Home Time (x8) time / work Time and energy Lack of encouragement 58 Time and work pressures Time clashes mainly time constraints Time for myself Time sometimes Time, as I am still working Time. Work. Money. Travel by public transport too busy Work (i.e. lack of time) Other Newly arriving to the area Leaving behind a very good GP Prejudice against aged by young, insurance people holiday company, car hire, other drivers & employers (the list goes on!) Government (x2) I wish I had the answer spend too much working in my own house which I find is sometimes too much for me and I suppose I am a bit shy talking to people until I get to know them can't fly Language barriers No contact I am in a Residential home, family cannot look after me at home Enjoy food too much Don't want to at the moment let gym membership lapse when language & conversation of young men around became offensive to me son separated from partner being divorced I get something done indoors Initial introductions Support Agoraphobia, breathing problems, transport support Have a hernia so stops me swimming, my health problems prevent me from having the hernia operated on & I.B.S I cope in a fashion independence Company No one to go with (x2) Nobody to go anywhere with not everyone is available at the same time Companionship Most people of my age (82) will not walk Getting to know a new group of friends as the friend who I had for 21 years has died and it leaves a hole in your life three's a crowd, most of my friends have husbands or partners I always feel left out in a group mobility, independence, someone to go with somebody who could take the person in question or spend time with them company company for holiday days out self conscious because of confidence (lacking) & hearing impairment Can't go because got no-one to take me Difficulty in getting around alone disability, someone to go with 59 Living on own isolation Lack of service / facility Having people who will give me the respite time and not aware of services who provide these Lack of facilities someone to come to my home to help me exercise, message ok to help my mobility In this area (North Bolton) there is a lack of resources Lack of service Local to where I live There are leisure centres for younger people, fitness classet etc. Sitting down exercises for the elderly but for my age group (I'm 68) we need something in between. No access to practical home help i.e. cleaning, cooking, home cooked meals No classes available let gym membership lapse when language & conversation of young men around became offensive to me Not enough care time for my husband who has demintia and cancer aged 94 years I do not know of anything that is happening There is no gym nearby and I have very hard cracked feet and I can't do a lot of walking as I am diabetic distance - & spread out families very few adult education classes in the area and the ones available in other areas are expensive [respite care] has not been available so far starts too early Confidence Confidence (x2) Lack of confidence in myself I wish I had the answer spend too much working in my own house which I find is sometimes too much for me and I suppose I am a bit shy talking to people until I get to know them Just personal motivation/determination to get out and do them (as a widow - self confidence is lowered) Time and energy Lack of encouragement Shy Shyness Feeling anxious and nervous all time afraid to go out fear, scared of trying things in case I fail. Loss of self esteem confidence. I'm stuck can't move on. Painful legs No confidence on my own No access to practical home help i.e. cleaning, cooking, home cooked meals (Panic attacks) lack of confidence poor mobility Fear of falling can't get out myself due to mobility problems not been out in so long lack confidence self conscious because of confidence (lacking) & hearing impairment three's a crowd, most of my friends have husbands or partners I always feel left out in a group Energy physical disability & lack of energy lack of get up & go. No spring in legs. Soon get very tired & exhausted Lack of time Lack of energy Lack of emotional energy Time and energy Lack of encouragement No motivation More energy 60 Being a carer Lack of energy - sometimes I feel very tired and don't want to get out of bed Dissibility physical - No energy not enough energy / fitness health - loss of energy nothing at the moment, except more stamina & energy my health - lack of energy Organise it Finding my bent Reluctance to make a choice Just time and circumstances Disorganisation/laziness Just personal motivation/determination to get out and do them (as a widow - self confidence is lowered) A direction - someone or something to set me on the path I am with my wife, researching the issue. It is not a problem, other than one of information Lack of regular weekly routine at present - this will change! Planning my time better being lazy & self centred Distance Distance is stopping me seeing my grandchildren Son, daughter in law and two grandchildren live in South Lake District Daughter, her partner and two grandchildren live in Suffolk. Long distance and commitments to family near to home Travelling distances - most of my long standing friends and family live away from Bolton My dog is getting old difficult to leave her They all live in the S.E. Too far away. too far away costly different city - travelling problems distance - & spread out families very few adult education classes in the area and the ones available in other areas are expensive the geographic restraint Age Prejudice against aged by young, insurance people holiday company, car hire, other drivers & employers (the list goes on!) Getting older Age (x5) but feel too old age 6/3/43 Motivation Laziness. Disorganisation/laziness No motivation get up and go motivation 61 Motivation (x2) lack of motivation Going out at night/ safety I live in protected housing and with other vulnerable people. I am afraid of strangers & do not understand a lot of what goes on around me. going out at night Fear of going out when dark Age/health dangerous area not happy going out at night, worry not wanting to be out all night Information Having people who will give me the respite time and not aware of services who provide these Not knowing where help needed Seeking help Lack of knowledge of where to go I do not know of anything that is happening Housing re housing Can't sell my house going through house sale house Others time work son separated from partner Family worker time of family - they are busy people Weather Weather bad weather Myself me myself Forget things she feels irritated when she can't do things she used to do. Sometimes she forgets things not able to remember things 62 What, if anything would make it easier for you to do these things? Comment category No reasons given Health Travel / mobility Money Extra service / facility Company Other Nothing really Do things own way Time Change work Motivation / encouragement Help/ advice Housing Information See family Stay happy Organise it Energy Distance Age Other commitments Talk easily Learning Others' time Going out at night/ safety Weather Confidence Get upset / worry Number 138 62 42 35 33 28 23 19 17 14 14 10 10 9 5 5 5 4 4 3 2 2 2 2 2 1 1 0 0 Rank 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 10 12 12 14 15 15 15 18 18 19 20 20 20 20 20 25 25 - Note: some comments fall into more than one category 63 Health A Cure!! a new body Being able to do things without getting breathless Being able to have greater use of all 4 limbs being in fairly good health Better health (x4) Better health (self) Better health and more money Better mobility/health Better pain relief could do with a new pair of legs!!! feeling less tired having less pain in my spine Funding some care for my health problems Improving my sleeping difficulties Get the use of my legs and hands better Getting rid of Scatica pain Glasses have a good health Have a new skeleton Have improved health Having… lesser of personal problems I need a good surgeon to make me better If I was able to use my left hand properly if I was pain free if I was physically fit If I wasn't diabetic it would make things a lot easier If she could eat properly and talk properly if she has good health If she has good health she feel happier Improvement in chronic health problems improvement in husband's health (unlikely) Improving my heart condition Just don't know!! Maybe my new knee will help Less medication less pain in joints miracle cure to improve memory! Mobility, waiting for an operation for hips Monkey glands! My health, get out of breath very easily also would like to get out of house more often no post traumatic stress not have arthritis Relief from arthritis Not to have arthritis Physical and mental good health Recovering from my stroke See above - the unlikely - a cure she feels if she stays healthy and happy it will help to feel better She is ill so she has no interest in anything that's why she is not better stay healthy to be more physically healthy To be well and healthy 64 To have a good health to have a healthy life To keep active and stay healthy to keep healthy and keep in touch with other people to keep herself happy and healthy to keep herself healthy & fit To see properly When operation goes well Travel / mobility Public transport Better bus service better night-time bus service Easier & more frequent public transport A bus pass for public transport to be easy to use for people in my position Car A friend with a car & a pair of strong arms to push a wheelchair! I have an active mind but unactive body. Being able to drive (x2) Driving If I could drive a car I wish I had learnt when I was younger. It would make life so much easier. someone to rely on to take me with a car Door to door transport Door to door transport door to door transport assistance from my house to the transport Better taxi, cheaper transport, drivers helping to get you out and take you to the shop etc Organised trips - door to door Better transport e.g. ring and ride, hospital transport Wheelchair / scooter have a scooter I have bought a mobility scooter to get around need to get used to it yet Wheelchair Escorts wheelchairs escorts, limited transport a good carer able to accompany & help shopping TRANSPORT having support to go out and about If I had a little help sometimes going for food, or be taken for a ride sometimes Transport or someone to take me out to town Other Better access to transport Better mobility Better mobility/health Easier access to services I find travelling tiring if I could get around better on my own 65 If I wasn't in a wheelchair could walk, to do things when I want when I want Improved availability of/or access to community resources Improved physical mobility - probably not possible! Increased mobility Mobility Mobility, waiting for an operation for hips more mobility My health, get out of breath very easily also would like to get out of house more often Transport (x3) Money A little more money Being able to do supported paid work, so I can start to get my life on track but scared of the benefits system to many rules. college courses at low cost to help get back employment cheaper transport extra income (x2) Finance financial Financial security for the future years of retirement Financial support Funding some care for my health problems have more money (x2) have more money to help me Have sufficient money to live off Having a bit more money Having more money Money (x4) more income More income/own home More money (x9) no debt place to work & money Retirement with plenty of money! Win the lottery 66 Extra service / facility Physiotherapy Physiotherapy probably some more physio More help from a physiotherapist - have been discharged. Appointment with consultant delayed 6 months to 3 years Local services More opportunities locally in Westhoughton Improved availability of/or access to community resources As above [leisure centre] in a central location find a convenient local authority swimming pool with good showering / changing facilities & try that If there was a gym near to where I live I would regularly use it with my friends Easier access to services Respite opportunities If someone would take him out for a walk some afternoons Some one to look after mum while I go dancing once a week when I can forget Respite care for my disabled son More hrs to be able to go out - swimming or exercise - or shopping - to switch off. Knowing my husband is well taken care of and enough has not to have to rush back home more respite care facilities Other Someone to escort me People for company (help to access above) Talk to someone one to one, or go out with someone - one to one Carer Full time support More organisations like the Befriending Service Have a club which includes days or nights out If I had a little help sometimes going for food, or be taken for a ride sometimes a good carer able to accompany & help shopping TRANSPORT used to have jobs done by neighbour ie [?] a directory from a reliable body ie social services of people recommended & trustworthy easily accessed if the housing was protected from youngsters & people who habitually drink too much, I would be more comfortable Funding some care for my health problems Availability of information, access to courses - esp university level Service improvement Organised trips - door to door training for new carers (job opportunities) being listened to extra assistance extra help 67 Company Finding a like minded companion Getting to know people in a new situation Companionship Perhaps living in a community as I grow older BUT with independence to make my own decisions. Retaining my self worth Talk to someone one to one, or go out with someone - one to one More company I need more personal contact during the day, my close friends live a fair distance away from my home base Company of relatives when going out If family weren't working hard to pay for houses, cars, holidays and had a bit of time to help in the areas where I'm struggling keep in touch with other people Having a friend to go out with Someone to escort me Someone to take short walks with me People for company (help to access above) Meeting people Somebody to go with companion during daytime Having several people to share holiday with. need a companion to travel with me Better health, visiting Only son in New Zealand Niece looks after me but she has her own children and grandchildren and works full time If family take me out Be in a group If I had a little help sometimes going for food, or be taken for a ride sometimes more company support social for outings someone to rely on to take me with a car Having other people who want to do the same things but who are not stand offish A friend with a car & a pair of strong arms to push a wheelchair! I have an active mind but unactive body. Other steps in public swimming pools - access to water not via vertical ladder (new pool please note) improvement in husband's health (unlikely) cut back some of the things I do Recovery or death of pet Mix better I am quite a happy loner Halve some of existing voluntary commitments - which I have just done! Take with me my home and Doctor's practice Perhaps living in a community as I grow older BUT with independence to make my own decisions. Retaining my self worth Government and officials to really listen and hear what people say To be in an environment that supports nature and wildlife around the local area and a town centre which is attractive To find the key to my above answer Cheap price holiday To keep active and stay healthy If I could give up smoking I have no idea - less stigma towards eating disorders If I felt my GP had more time to spend with me 68 Join weight watchers maybe Better appreciation for pensioners to keep herself healthy & fit less day to day grind have time away on my own 16.2 HH Horse I think as time goes on and my grandchildren grow up I will find it easier to undertake more voluntary projects Not live in a hilly location Nothing really Am old now. I don't want to do anything I do most of the things already Just continue Just joined the U34 so time will tell not much can be done Nothing - the damage is done Nothing (x6) Nothing at moment Nothing really Nothing that the NHS could provide nothing. Unlikely to be able to swim much again probably the current timetable is the best compromise stop doing things I have to do so that I can do more things I want to do I would feel that I was being selfish though not good in the end Do things own way Just please myself Do things her own way and own space Do her thing her own way and in her own time To do things her own way (x4) To do her things her own way She wanted to do her things her own way She wanted to do things her own way makes her feel better Do her own things own way If I wasn't in a wheelchair could walk, to do things when I want when I want If she does her things her own way but sometime she takes advice from friends To do everything her own way She feels better when she does her things her own way she likes to do things her own way & she can manage that way better Time More time To have more time for myself (x2) Halve some of existing voluntary commitments - which I have just done! Have more leisure time available More time and less work 69 More time in a day. More free time (x2) time opportunity with more time have time away on my own More hrs to be able to go out - swimming or exercise - or shopping - to swith off. Knowing my husband is well taken care of and enough has not to have to rush back home to have some time for myself Change work Less work Retire from work Early retirement More time and less work Retirement with plenty of money! spend less time at work Work less hours Working less hours More work A part time job Being able to do supported paid work, so I can start to get my life on track but scared of the benefits system to many rules. college courses at low cost to help get back employment training for new carers (job opportunities) place to work & money Change work Work normal hours Change working pattern more flexibility at work Motivation / encouragement self discipline Encouragement to be more involved Getting help from people [to get a job] Getting motivated I think therapy might be the answer Having support to do these things Encouragement Friends getting along side of me Having more support from staff Chance of personal attitude more support support social for outings Help / advice Someone making them [choices] for me A lead from a friend to point the way 70 If she does her things her own way but sometime she takes advice from friends If she gets help from the people she likes she feels more better having support to go out and about Someone to escort me Better taxi, cheaper transport, drivers helping to get you out and take you to the shop etc extra assistance If I had a little help sometimes going for food, or be taken for a ride sometimes a good carer able to accompany & help shopping TRANSPORT used to have jobs done by neighbour Housing Obviously living nearer my children Living nearer to my family Perhaps living in a community as I grow older BUT with independence to make my own decisions. Retaining my self worth own home If I was living at home it would make me feel better Live near to family Moving be closer to them to get through the house sale Information Not Availability of information, access to courses - esp university level Nobody to show you what to do Know where to meet people used to have jobs done by neighbour i.e. a directory from a reliable body e.g. social services of people recommended & trustworthy easily accessed See family Obviously living nearer my children If family weren't working hard to pay for houses, cars, holidays and had a bit of time to help in the areas where I'm struggling Live near to family to have more access to my grandchildren Only son in New Zealand Niece looks after me but she has her own children and grandchildren and works full time If family take me out Stay happy Just stay happy Just enjoy life she feels if she stays healthy and happy it will help to feel better to keep herself happy and health she tries to keep herself happy 71 Organise it Someone making them [choices] for me A lead from a friend to point the way Better organising of time organising my life better Energy More energy I find travelling tiring Not to feel so tired feeling less tired Distance Obviously living nearer my children Living nearer to my family Live near to family Age Turn the clock back 40 years Youth. Other commitments cut back some of the things I do Talk easily If she could eat properly and talk properly People who speak the same language Learning college courses at low cost to help get back employment training for new carers (job opportunities) Others' time If family weren't working hard to pay for houses, cars, holidays and had a bit of time to help in the areas where I'm struggling 72 Only son in New Zealand Niece looks after me but she has her own children and grandchildren and works full time If family take me out Going out at night/ safety safer surroundings Weather good weather all the year round 73 What is most important to you in giving you the best wellbeing possible? Comment category Family / friends Good health / healthcare Spirituality Peace of mind / happy / relaxed Lifestlyle changes Being looked after / having support / cared about Welfare of family / friends Independence Other Mobility / keep active Outings / holidays Sleep / relax Physical activity Food Keep busy / mentally active Specific group / facility Look after / help others Be respected / Listened to Nature Live your own way Housing Creativity Confidence Feeling useful / needed Time to do things More of the same Able to cope Learning Enjoy life to full Waking up in the morning Walking Money Work Number 98 71 27 24 24 24 18 15 15 14 14 12 11 10 10 9 9 8 8 8 7 5 4 4 4 4 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 Note: some comments fall into more than one category 74 Rank 1 2 3 4 4 4 7 8 8 10 10 12 13 14 14 16 16 18 18 18 21 22 23 23 23 23 27 27 27 27 31 31 31 Family / friends A club where the others in the community like myself could get together A comfortable happy life and good friends A trusting friend Adequate company of others agree with the own relatives Any my friend coming in cleaning and shopping and taking me out Being able to go out and visit family Being happily married for the past 55 years Being loved Being married and having grandchildren Being part of a loving family being with family & grandchildren being with people I like Coming to aerobics class at St Georges - mixing with the girls. community Companionship company Company of people company, people to talk to Contact with my family enjoying the company of others who care Family (x4) Family and friends family life. Family, friends, neighbours, Family, friends, relatives family/friends feeling loved Friends (x2) Friendships and family Getting involved with my family and friends. Working with other people in groups. Being there when needed for friends and relations. Getting out and about and socialising. Helping others to take my mind off things Giving love and being loved Going on holidays to India to see family often Good friend and family network good health & friends & family good relationships Good support from family Happiness in my relationships with husband and family as I struggle in this area. Happy family, Good neighbours Having contact with friends and family having family support close by - they live abroad. Having friends (x2) Having friends, having people around / not being alone Having people around me I enjoy family contact by phone or in person Independence in my own home with company. Keeping in touch with friends and family 75 Knowing there are people and support groups to turn to in times of difficulty large family Likes to see Dehlia and when she helps her. (Dehlia is Drop ins organiser) Living independently in own home with spouse for as long as possible Maintaining contact with family and friends Meeting friends meeting people Meeting people socially, especially people of like mind, U3A good for this Meeting with friends My children & grandchildren (being with them) .Circumstances make it unlikely that I will see more of them, therefore seeing friends and being in groups etc is the next best thing My family (x4) my family & good friends support network my family and friends (x3) My family and my 'boyfriend' who is also my best friend my family and surroundings My family. My friends, knowing people care my husband and family my relatives and friends my wife love & the love from my children & grandchildren People/family came and visit - don't like staying alone - lonely See above, support from daugher, but she has a family, a demanding job and lives in N. Wales. Seeing friends Seeing lots of my family sharing in my wife's interests as well as my own Social interaction Spending time with family (x3) Spending time with friends spending time with my grandchildren Support of my family the community The happiness and contentment of my wife and the enjoyment, satisfaction and fulfilment of my three daughters to stay with people who make her happy Talking to others talking to people Talking with and caring for friends, neighbours and relatives Good health / healthcare Healthcare Being healthy and having that extra support from the local authority Chiropodist, Carers Regular and a positive conclusion to foot problems - which stops me from walking (though the help given didn't work - long standing and people tried to help) very distressing Availability of possible counselling - I asked the GP for support after my brother took his life and I was told to go home think about it and come b Brief therapeutic interventions better health care Good access to all aspects of Healthcare Good health care Good health. Easier access to GP more personal attention. Being able to do things, even cleaning, on reflection maybe age has something to do with it as well as 76 Good healthcare at the moment, would help having doctors who listened to their patients, having health care staff who treated older people as individuals and didn't just see their age health & the security to know if things go wrong someone will look after me with care & dignity Healthcare (x2) Hospital community support Medicine Physiotherapy Reflexology, community support. Respite. Someone to guide me about my health regularly and motivate me specialist care based at home Specialist care based at home healthcare district nurse they came regularly every 2 weeks to change my dressing on my feet Taking medicine Therapeutic interventions Therapy for my arthritis and osteoporosis or exercises would probably help Well being depends to a large extent on being well. Most men & women over the age of eighty suffer from agerelated problems. Health visitors should be employed to call on over 75s at regular intervals to give support & advice Health Being alert and healthy being healthy (x2) Being in good health Being well enough to look after my family doing new things but I don't always feel well enough Feeling more healthy and being better able to cope with things (but my own health problems stop me) General health Good health (x12) Good health and being able to continue to care for my partner Good, thoughtful, informed health care Got physical and mental health problems. Need to sort out physical problems to feel better Having a good health Having peace of mind and enjoying good health Having sound health Health (x6) health & happiness Healthy life If I had good health that would make me very happy keeping healthy & active Keeping as healthy as I am able Keeping healthy Keeping mobile and healthy own health seeing my sons in good health, good health for myself sleeping without pain through the night & 40 winks whenever needed Staying fit and healthy still being able to enjoy life to the full having my health and mobility to be healthy / husband health To carry on as I can as my balance is not likely to improve and I hope it will not get worse too quickly. I have a neurological problem which cannot be specifically diagnosed at the present time. Maybe it is considered that this is age-related. No doubt To keep well and stay happy 77 Spirituality prayer Prayers in the morning Praying (x9) Praying is most important Praying keeps you happy and healthy Praying to God Spirituality & prayer Attending Mass St Edmonds RC Church being at peace in god through faith in Jesus Christ church church life faith in Christ Going church my religion reading the Bible daily & learning from it. Attending church services and sharing God's blessings Religion (x3) Teaching children Islamic readings Peace of mind / happy / relaxed A comfortable happy life A sense of humour achieving a sense of self-worth being contented Being happy. Being free from overburdening concerns and anxieties Feeling happy about everyday life and knowing my family are ok feeling relaxed Happiness Happiness in my relationships with husband and family as I struggle in this area. Having peace of mind health & happiness Just stay happy No worry Peace peace of mind Peace of mind and accepting that life is good. I am 92 years of age and this is my belief Peace of mind in all things Satisfaction Support and encouragement I get very down at times To keep well and stay happy To live life at full and be happy To live lifestyle the way it goes to stay with people who make her happy When those you care for and those near to you share their joys and all express more positive attitudes to life 78 Lifestyle changes Change of lifestyle (x7) Changes in lifestyle (x2) Lifestyle change (x9) To change lifestyle to change the lifestyle A lifestyle change - supported accommodation if more help is available Change of her lifestyle and being healthy Change of lifestyle and better health care change of lifestyle, doing things her own way Having a good health and change of lifestyle if she can change her lifestyle eating habits Being looked after / having support / cared about Being healthy and having that extra support from the local authority Care that is full time not sporadic at times that are convenient for me in my own home. Carers Good support from family, social Care Services having family support close by - they live abroad. A bottle of confidence - motivation & pushing by support Having some one to talk to reassure me that I will be fine and I can get through this difficult patch health & the security to know if things go wrong someone will look after me with care & dignity help from others with transport & help around the house Hospital community support Independence in my own home with company. Help with personal hygiene, s/worker looking into it but waiting!!!! Knowing that if you are low that help is available when and if needed Knowing there are people and support groups to turn to in times of difficulty Likes to see Dehlia and when she helps her. (Dehlia is Drop ins organiser) My friends, knowing people care My husband being as well as possible and him being able to help me in the daily doings Residential Home. They look after me See above, support from daugher, but she has a family, a demanding job and lives in N. Wales. Someone to guide me about my health regularly and motivate me Support Support and encouragement I get very down at times Support from my carers 3 times daily Careline. And my friend coming in a cleaning and shopping and taking me out supported accommodation if more help is available The knowledge that someone cares Well being depends to a large extent on being well. Most men & women over the age of eighty suffer from agerelated problems. Health visitors should be employed to call on over 75s at regular intervals to give support & advice Welfare of family / friends family happiness When those you care for and those near to you share their joys and all express more positive attitudes to life The happiness and welfare of my whole family including nephews and nieces 79 My husband being as well as possible and him being able to help me in the daily doings The happiness and contentment of my wife and the enjoyment, satisfaction and fulfilment of my three daughters Knowing my family are healthy and happy Giving love and being loved The knowledge that my husband has the highest care possible Happy family Family's health and happiness Family are happy and well provided That all my family are well and cared for husband health my family all happy my son to be well seeing my sons in good health knowing my husband is being cared for constantly Feeling happy about everyday life and knowing my family are ok family all settled no problems Independence being able to do things, even cleaning, on reflection maybe age has something to do with it as well as Keeping my independence Independence To carry on as I can as my balance is not likely to improve and I hope it will not get worse too quickly. Not to be restricted by my caring responsibility Living independently in own home with spouse for as long as possible Although it is very difficult I still do my own cleaning and cooking. Keeping my independence is so very important independence Independence in my own home with company. Being independent and feeling safe Stay mentally active… Try to do as much as possible for myself staying mentally alert and capable of looking after myself in the long term retaining my independence & enjoying the company of others who care remaining in my own home & making my own choices Being independent Other sharing in my wife's interests as well as my own If someone I knew well could help me with advice on person matters (hygeine) possibly that might help. Please note this is not this person's opinion, it is the writer's opinion. People smiling and saying good morning Reading Privacy More places to access advice I like to feel well dressed and to keep myself attractive using makeup and jewellery daily Communication between professionals and myself Gallop across open fields bingo my lovely Mercedes! my family and surroundings Place to go to do dancing and other things Warmth, regular meals & supervised activities. The person in question is very aware of a loss of independence 80 Mobility / keep active Being busy and active. Better mobility Driving and being able to remain active Gardening and driving help from others with transport Keeping fit and active. keeping healthy & active Keeping mobile and healthy mobility & still being able to drive Mobility personally - and if impaired in the future good transport to places - esp. dial and ride concepts. Staying fit and healthy still being able to enjoy life to the full having my health and mobility To be able to walk To carry on being reasonably fit and continue my lifestyle Outings / holidays Perhaps able to go on holiday, Change of scene taking a holiday or short breaks Keeping busy and getting out and about also a holiday must get around to it Being able to go out and visit family Not to be restricted by my caring responsibility. I'd like a week in a spa Any my friend coming in a cleaning and shopping and taking me out Getting out and about and socialising. Helping others to take my mind off things Holidays getting out more - even to local shops going out (x2) Going on holidays to India to see family often, and other places travelling being able to get out more Sleep / relax Sleep getting good sleep I sleep 4-5 hrs nightly (sometimes less for yrs) and I would like around 7 hrs regular but sadly it alludes me Sleeping better sleep 8 hrs sleep sleeping without pain through the night & 40 winks whenever needed Relaxing Relaxing Resting I'd like a week in a spa Relaxing home 81 Yoga Relaxing/taking a break Physical activity Exercise (x8) Keep trying to keep fit has possible Coming to aerobics class at St Georges - mixing with the girls. Sport - netball (shooter) Place to go to do dancing and other things Food eating well, and having occasional drink Cooking (x2) Eating well (x2) Attending age concern each week for a meal Food if she can change her lifestyle eating habits Somebody to cook fresh meals not to have bits & frozen regular meals Keep busy / mentally active Being alert and healthy Being busy and active. I am terrified of developing dementia Keeping busy Keeping busy and getting out and about Keeping herself busy at her own way Keeping mentally active Keeping myself busy Stay mentally active, Talking to others, Try to do as mush as possible for myself staying mentally alert and capable of looking after myself in the long term Specific group / facility Reflexology, community support. Respite. some U3A meetings definitely a day care centre like A.E.R.C. this should open at the weekend also Attending age concern each week for a meal Being able to go to the drop-ins Coming to aerobics class at St Georges - mixing with the girls. Respite Being able to attend day centre (x2) 82 Look after / help others Getting involved with my family and friends. Working with other people in groups. Being there when needed for friends and relations. Talking with and caring for friends, neighbours and relatives doing things for people who are a lot worse off than myself Being well enough to look after my family Teaching children Islamic readings My and my wife are foster carers for long time we have experience in this field we look after babies and young children well as different community individual circumstances Good health and being able to continue to care for my partner Getting out and about and socialising. Helping others to take my mind off things That we care about one another, especially the old and infirm, the weak and those without hope Be respected / Listened to To feel valued as a person in my own right despite increasing age. Actually my GP makes me feel good and does this! He says I am fulfilling his ambition - "to grow old disgracefully" Understanding and respect People treating me normal, some don't because I had a stroke That we care about one another, especially the old and infirm, the weak and those without hope Appreciation listening to my needs, treating me as an equal health & the security to know if things go wrong someone will look after me with care & dignity having doctors who listened to their patients, having health care staff who treated older people as individuals and didn't just see their age Nature contact with nature Gardening (x3) Fresh air Waking up in the morning, Seeing the sum shine Gallop across open fields time to get outdoors Live your own way Keep her life style her own way She lives her lifestyle her way To live her life own way Keeping herself busy at her own way her own lifestyle she is always in her world she wants to live and do things her own way. To be able to do things her own way. doing things her own way 83 Housing To be safe and comfortable in my home Residential Home. They look after me Relaxing home I would like to move to another area unhappy where I am now Living independently in own home with spouse for as long as possible help around the house have environment décor updated. Care that is full time not sporadic at times that are convenient for me in my own home. Creativity Listening to music, Reading Creative things singing, learn to play piano Being more creative. Place to go to do dancing and other things Confidence Try new things without being scared to. confidence in myself A bottle of confidence - motivation & pushing by support To be safe and comfortable in my home Feeling useful / needed Sense of being valued and needed being needed I need to be needed / useful being needed & useful Time to do things Feeling that I have sufficient time to do what I want to do. More time at home time to get outdoors Having time to do the things I enjoy doing More of the same More of the same Ok as she is Maintain wellbeing To carry on being reasonably fit and continue my lifestyle 84 Able to cope Being able to cope with modern life, driving, cost of etc Feeling more healthy and being better able to cope with things (but my own health problems stop me) to be able to cope with my problems Learning Learn to play piano Try new things without being scared to. Learning new skills that will help go towards a job in the future. doing new things but I don't always feel well enough talking to people Enjoy life to full To live life at full and be happy still being able to enjoy life to the full having my health and mobility satisfaction in whatever I do! So far, I'm lucky! Waking up in the morning Waking up in the morning, Seeing the sum shine Waking up every morning (x2) Waking up every morning Walking Walking Going out for a walk Money Financial security money Work Working with other people in groups. my job 85 Many people, for a variety of lifestyle reasons, sometimes feel unhappy and need to access some support to make them feel better What did you do? Nothing used Physical activity Volunteering / caring Specific groups Learning Creativity Food Friends / family Drop in centre / day centre Computers Sleep / relax Walking Spirituality Nature Holidays / outings / trips Other Befriending Read Shopping Health Bingo Nothing Housework/ DIY Tv Look after self Working Enjoy life Smoking Keeping busy Driving Puzzles Number 64 42 41 26 25 22 14 11 9 7 6 6 5 4 3 3 3 2 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 Rank 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 11 13 14 15 15 15 18 - Note: some comments fall into more than one category 86 How did you find out about this? Other Friends/ family Health professional Asian elders centre Newspaper/magazine Been involved before Church/mosque/temple Social services Tv College CVS Library Band Warden UCAN Work Day centre Halliwell befriending St George's Road Volunteer bureau Poster Council Leaflet Number 35 23 15 14 11 10 8 6 6 5 4 4 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 2 2 1 1 Did you feel comfortable? Yes partly No Number 160 14 6 Rank 87 What was the best thing about this? No comments for best thing or thing missing Company / friends/meeting people/ chatting Being useful/valued Other Learn new things/useful information Keep active / fit / healthy Meeting similar people Supportive / understanding/ Keep busy/pass time Feel good / better Fun Relaxing Food Trips out / get out Keep in touch with community Confidence Bingo Lose weight What was missing? Nothing Other Number 88 82 28 28 23 14 7 7 6 6 6 5 5 4 2 2 2 2 Number 64 9 88 Rank 1 2 3 3 5 6 7 7 9 9 9 12 12 14 15 15 15 15 What did you do? Physical activity Aerobic exercise GIM St Georges Aerobics Aerobics + Tai Chi classes St Georges Road Armchair exercises Armchair exercises/weight management Attending the gym Chair based exercise (x2) cycling in Leverhulme park (but purely for physical exercise NOT because of feeling unhappy Exercise (x4) exercise class Exercise classes from physio from Bolton Hospital Relaxation Go for a walk and exercise Go swimming classes Gym joined Motorcise Keep fit Physical Activities (x3) physical activity Physical activity Physical activity mentor Physical activity schemes (x2) Rosemary Conley exercise class she does some exercises She likes doing exercise She takes exercise St Georges aerobics (x2) swim swimming Tai Chi - Gentle Aerobics Tai chi swimming talking therapies and physical activities Try to keep active Volunteering. Sport Inclusion Bolton Metro. YMCA - gym Volunteering / caring Collect for cancer research & for Bolton Hospice Foster carer Have been a volunteer for 2 yrs Helping at luncheon club helping out in kitchen at event at chapel I have been a cancer shop volunteer for many years Joined Halliwell befriending service Read to children at school run day group age concern for 13 years social volunteering supporting a friend Voluntary work 89 Volunteer (x4) Volunteer Age Concern (5 yrs) Volunteer befriending Volunteer telephonist (one morning a wk) Volunteer with Bolton Shared Care Volunteering (x12) Volunteering - befriending service volunteering (dementia support group) volunteering in a summer fair Volunteering RVS Volunteering training courses. Physical activity mentor volunteering U3a/WI committees volunteering walking volunteering with charity group. Making contact with other groups (CVS) Volunteering. Sport Inclusion Bolton Metro. Specific groups U3A U3a/WI committees Joined U3A - Joined camping and caravanning clubs Be a member of the U3A - WI & Speaker's club - more recent (quiz nights) Joined the U3A Joined U3A U3A. U3A Music Meeting Joined a philosophy group @ U3A Attended the two I have listed U3A - Reading group at local library scrabble U3A U3A courses (philosophy, music, crafts) also painting Asian elders She attends Asian Elders Resource Centre Asian Elder's Resource Centre for Social activities Attend a Local History Group (member 21 years) I attend Asian elders resource centre Asian Elders Resource Centre Other joined WI Join various groups. Attend church and be involved there. Go to drop in, Sathi group Thicketford House Age concern workshops Go to Mhist RVS Coming to the Ucan Centre osteoporosis group 90 Learning Computers Absolute beginners in computers computer course Computer studies Computer studies, but had to leave (because my husband worsening dementia) learning computer at home Teaching self IT skills English and computer classes Training course such as Computer class, cookery classes etc Other art class workshops Assertive course PCT Relaxation courses PCT Community Centre and lessons cookery class, exrecise class & sewing diploma course Do training course such as feeling good enrol for degree in fine arts Sewing course singing classes, bridge lessons Training activities training courses (x6) Volunteering training courses. Creativity Music U3A Music Meeting Musical activities choir choir singing singing classes Needlework Sewing course Enjoy knitting/crochet sewing Other theatre workshops (x2) Craft activity Do art and craft work Craft/art classes at St Georges and Karoake with Tony Berry Craft/Art classes at St Georges Karaoke with Tony Berry Craft class Craft classes for carers enrol for degree in fine arts 91 Craft work Group activities art class workshops Art group at day centre Art and woodwork group at day centre U3A courses (philosophy, music, crafts) also painting Food meet people, have a light bite & drink, talk & play dominoes Coffee with friends cooking, eating Training course such as Computer class, cookery classes etc Healthy food Luncheon club (x3) Helping at luncheon club Joined a luncheon club cookery class helping out in kitchen at event at chapel Friends / family visiting relatives - friends going into town meet people, have a light bite & drink, talk & play dominoes Coffee with friends Social activities (x3) Social Activity Gardening, cooking, talking with members Computer studies, time spent with friends helping each other supporting a friend Going out to socialise with family friends Drop in centre / day centre Go to drop in, play games, socialising, eating Visit drop-in centre I come to the Centre (A.E.R.C.) three times a week I go to crossroad. At a daycare centre A.E.R.C. A.E.R.C. DAY Care Centre Drop in, day centre (Polish) befriending went to a day care centre Art group at day centre Art and woodwork group at day centre Computers Training course such as Computer class Computer studies 92 Computer studies, but had to leave (because my husband worsening dementia) computer course learning computer at home Teaching self IT skills computer classes Sleep / relax yoga Yoga and breathing exercise Tai Chi (x2) Aerobics + Tai Chi classes St Georges Road Relaxation Walking Health walks regularly (weekly) Bolton Walks for Health Went for a Health walk organised by the Council Go for a walk and exercise Walking - has improved physical health and mental health - Got me out of my wheelchair walking Spirituality Attend church and be involved there. Church social activities. To help in Temple's activities Going to church helping out in kitchen at event at chapel Nature Gardening (x3) Holidays / outings / trips went on holiday. Joined camping and caravanning clubs holidays Other have a light bite & drink, talk & play dominoes Go to drop in, play games Play dominoes 93 Befriending befriending service (x2) Use befriending service Read Started a book club Reading group at local library 94 How did you find out about this? Other Member of groups for this purpose Local care home A telephone call from H/O of the charity Joined the church. By invitation Clarence Street Just found out Through creative support group Read from Winnie Kettle Google in the centre Trainer gave talk about it Member of charity Bolton at home Drop ins Netball with neighbours - play on Moss Bank Park - live near there Age concern CPA took me several years ago referred by PCT services Through MS when daughter passed away I just drifted towards it health club give up smoking campaign Carers group Mhist from Bolton Carers Support From SSO job centre Involved with its foundation places for people was asked to do it victim support referred live opposite office Manchester retirement show Friends/ family By a family member who is an Occupational Therapist Community Daughter arranged Friend friends (x5) friend's recommendation From a friend From friend from friends (x3) Heard about it in casual conversation Personal contact 95 Suggestions by friends Through a friend Through friends. Word of mouth (x3) Health professional Hospital Through the hospital Advertised in the hospital The Hospital Hospital Physiotherapist Through Physiotherapist at hospital ward Through physiotherapist Physiotherapist Other falls clinic nurses My Doctor By having a triple by pass myself GP CPN referred by PCT services Care staff befriending from practice nurse Asian elders centre Asian Elders Centre (x2) Asian Elders Resource Centre From Asian Elders Centre (x4) from Asian elders resource centre (x4) in Asian Elders In the Centre (Asian Elders) through Asian elders group Newspaper/ magazine District magazine Magazine advert B.E. News Bolton news Local paper newspapers press 96 Been involved before I have been involved in theatre for 65 years always done it. I like people. Been doing them for years Been involved in volunteering for last 20 years since early retirement Been member for a long time she has been a member for a long time former member always known my husband & I attend each year have always done this - my family was very musical Church/ mosque/ temple In church (United reformed) From her temple where she does yoga and etc through church From church Church newsletter Mosque (x3) Social services Social Services (x2) Social worker, carer for my wife Social Worker Introduced by social worker 7 years ago social worker after leaving hospital TV from TV programmes (x3) On tv (x3) College Through the college from college college community college local college - my daughter teaches and I model 97 CVS through CVS CVS (x3) Library Library (x3) Local library BAND BAND Drop Ins Band (Bolton Association Network of Drop-Ins) Warden warden told me about it Warden (x2) UCAN Ucan centre in my community UCAN From Tonge Fold UCAN Centre Work My profession Work for comp studies Through my job Day centre At the day centre Halliwell Befriending contact from befriending Halliwell befriending service 98 St George's road St Georges Road for woodwork St Georges Day Centre Volunteer bureau Volunteer bureau. from volunteer bureau Poster Shop window posters in scheme Council Local authority Leaflet leaflet through door 99 What was the best thing about this? Company/ friends/ meeting people/ chatting a lot of friends Being with friends old and new being with others in fresh air Care and support Communicating with others Company (x3) company of like souls Company of similar people Contact with other people contact with people both in hospital & other volunteers day out from home with people Enjoying company freedom to talk generally Friendly people - a happy leader who encourages friends Friendship Good fun and company. Good company I get to meet people from my own community & age I like Social gatherings and meeting people my our age lovely people, helpful making friends (x2) Making new friends making new friends / contacts Meet like minds friends meet new people (x2) Meet people talk to people that understand me meeting and making new friends Meeting Asian People meeting new friends meeting new people x3 Meeting new people and spending time with my daughter Meeting other brothers and sisters Meeting other ladies in similar situation Meeting other people (x5) Meeting others (x2) Meeting others in similar positions with laughter Meeting people (x6) Meeting up with friends Mixes physical activity with social activity mixing with other people (x2) Mixing with people New friends nice friendly people, cozy & friendly day in & coffee nice people other people (x2) People talking Sharing a common aim - social contact social involvement social life (x3) 100 Socialising (x2) Talking (x2) Talking to other members Talking to other people Talking to others talking to people my age who are lonely Talking/listening to others the people To meet people Walking with others rather than alone Working with other people Being useful/valued being valued - not judged Feeling appreciated Feeling I was helping someone feeling needed feeling useful (x4) Feeling useful to someone Feeling valued Gave incentive to "get involved" Getting involved Giving support to an older adult who is isolated. helping helping children and supporting mum Helping other people (x2) Helping other people which helped me helping others (x3) helping people suffering anxiety/depression Makes one know one is useful. Ongoing work with child with disabilities Satisfaction of being able to help people supporting another widow supporting others talking to people my age who are lonely 101 Other availability - but turned out not to be suitable training children better balance Tried to join as many small groups as possible The end of the lesson The discipline Company and spring sunshine Have me confidence to sow the seeds then plant them out side and watching them grow Getting up A good group - not too "heavy" intellectually Eating and making different varieties She feels everything best Seeing that the children were happy to be with me Gave me some belief knowing we're going to a better place provision of group leader & equipment keeping up with it winning performing being with others in fresh air Selling what was produced Now attending monthly drop-in Not thinking about my illness raised a lot of money role play help me through a mugging having a look, see what is to offer music & being with others of a similar mind Meeting new people and spending time with my daughter Learn new things/useful information accurate information about the course brain stimulation find out more about things meet new people Getting a certificate Having fun and learning a new skill I learnt how to swim learn and a lot of new things Learning and making friends learning new things Learning not being in the dark regarding computers Lots of advice and information Made me think Make mind fresh making friends being encouraged to write. I gained a lot of knowledge from caring staff Mental stimulation Taking part in courses Talking/listening to others, learning new things The best thing is about getting knowledge about the course 102 to get some knowledge To learn something different Training and courses using brain using my brain Keep active / fit / healthy being healthy and active felt fitter getting the exercise keep fit class Keeping fitter Keeping herself active and busy keeping herself busy and fit Mixes physical activity with social activity physical activity sessions Stay healthy to keep herself active (x2) to keep herself bit active To meet people and stay healthy Meeting similar people talking, reminiscing, having a coffee Good company Fellow M.S. Sharing a common aim - social contact Own age group Meeting Asian People, easy to communicate I like Social gatherings and meeting people my our age being with others of a similar mind Supportive / understanding/ freedom to talk generally New friends and general support Care and support Meet people talk to people that understand me Being listened to and understanding people company, care, brain stimulation other people knowing how I feel Keep busy/pass time Keeps me occupied To pass the time To keep herself busy Keeping herself active and busy 103 Being busy keeping herself busy and fit Feel good / better Feel good I felt better He feels better Made me feel better after feeling good - losing weight Make me feel good to get out Fun Good fun and company days more enjoyable having good time - a laugh & nice food Excellent evenings entertainment Having fun and learning a new skill just enjoy it Relaxing Relaxing (x2) Not doing anything I could relax and have some "me" time the relaxation Food talking, reminiscing, having a coffee Eating and making different varieties having good time - a laugh & nice food sharing lunch & taking turns at providing the soup nice friendly people, cozy & friendly day in & coffee Trips out / get out day out from home with people going out, day trips Make me feel good to get out getting out Keep in touch with community Keeps me informed about Community 104 keeps in touch with social community Confidence Have me confidence to sow the seeds then plant them out side and watching them grow Confidence building Bingo Playing bingo (x2) Lose weight Losing weight (x2) 105 What was missing? Nothing Can't think of anything (x2) Missing nothing n/a (x2) Nil (x2) No (x5) no can't think of anything none Not really (x2) Nothing (x43) Nothing - very pleased about everything nothing at all nothing I liked it Nothing really Other Activities Money Transport I still smoke Wondering if mum is happy venue to big for amount of people acceptance of situation by myself missed my home our MD retiring & the choir disbanded 106 Are there any other opportunities to improve wellbeing that you are aware of but don’t use? What activities do you know about? Number Rank No comments Physical activity Walking Learning Specific groups Other Creativity Drop in centre / day centre Volunteering/ caring Food Dance Therapy / treatment Yoga / tai chi Age concern Aromatherapy / massage /beauty therapy Shopping U3a Asian elders Don't want any more opportunities Social activities Friends/ family Spirituality Reading Local activities 38 27 13 12 9 8 7 7 7 6 4 4 4 4 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 7 7 10 11 11 11 11 3 3 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 2 15 15 15 15 15 15 21 21 21 21 Why don't you get involved? Number Rank No comments Health / mobility No time Other Transport Confidence / motivation Information Not interested / no need Already do this activity Time not convenient Other commitments Not available locally Too busy Nobody to go with Just not done it yet Didn't enjoy Used to do it 47 19 18 17 10 8 7 7 6 5 5 4 3 3 2 2 1 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 7 9 10 10 12 13 13 15 15 17 107 How did you find out about this? Number Rank No comments Friend / family Newspaper / magazine Adverts/leaflet / poster Other Health professional Community centre etc At event Involved before Befriending Social services Asian elders CVS Library Tv 61 22 13 12 11 8 6 5 5 4 3 3 2 2 2 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 8 10 11 11 13 13 13 How comfortable would you feel? Number Rank Yes Partly No Don't know 31 25 17 10 1 2 3 4 What is the best thing about this? Number Rank No comments Seeing others Support Other Don't know Feel good / fun Exercise Learning Something to do/ keep busy Health Go outside/ fresh air There if you need it Confidence / motivation Nothing 84 16 9 8 7 6 6 4 4 4 4 4 2 2 1 2 3 4 5 6 6 8 8 8 8 8 13 13 108 What might be missing? Number Rank No comments People/ friendliness Don't know Nothing Other Support Information/advice Might not be able to do it Transport Different times/ time Finding something you want to do Me Starter group 93 13 11 10 7 4 4 3 2 2 2 2 1 1 2 3 4 5 6 6 8 9 9 9 9 13 109 What activities do you know about? Physical activity Swimming Farnworth Pool Swimming (x2) Swimming baths Free access to a swimming pool at the Jubilee Centre Gym Going to the Gym Gym (x2) gym & exercise, other group activity Bolton Council, Sport Health Inclusion Bolton Metro Sport & Inclusion Health inclusion Bolton metro Other Exercise programmes educational courses Exercise classes Exercise Exercise groups for older people Sport Chair exercises Going to physical activity schemes physical activity schemes lots of things ie dancing & exercise More of the above, physical activity exercise classes Bowling physical exercise classes keep fit swimming, yoga, keep fit classes health club keep fit, swimming Walking Crompton Lodge Warden walks Health walks (x2) local walks Walking (x3) Walking clubs (x2) Walking group - Moss Bank Park - Wednesdays Walking groups Walking locally Walking round town centre 110 Learning Computers classes for computers etc IT course More training (computers) computer, skills, again Try computers - was shorthand typist. English for Speakers of Other Languages different ESOL and other course language course (ESOL) Other Art & other courses in the Village Bromley X educational courses painting courses sewing classes training courses Specific groups Parkinson and Osteoporosis Society Activity Some societies e.g. Local History St Georges activities : Woodwork Samaritans Ladies class and salvation army Self help group for widows band mhist Brazley day centre age concern / over 50 s forum etc Other Several activities Getting out and about Several Various Countless Other day time activities bridge soc interest groups drop in befrienders, have attended in the past 111 Creativity theatre groups Art & other courses in the Village Bromley X St Georges activities : Woodwork painting courses sewing classes Theatre workshops, make up artist, and hair backstage flower arranging group Drop in centre / day centre drop in drop in befrienders, have attended in the past drop in centres Drop in, day care drop ins, day centres Drop-in centres luncheon club - drop in Volunteering/ caring All kinds of volunteering Voluntary work Volunteering (x4) volunteering at mosque Food Attending luncheon clubs Luncheon clubs (x3) lunch clubs luncheon club - drop in Dance Dancing (x2) lots of things i.e. dancing & exercise Bowling tea dance Therapy / treatment Therapy Therapeutic earnings Have used the old Park Lodge (Occupational Therapist) 112 counselling Yoga / tai chi Tai chi Yoga (x2) yoga, meditation Age concern Active aging centre Have heard about Age Concern Age Concern (x2) Aromatherapy / massage /beauty therapy Aromatherapy Aromatherapy/Massage beauty therapy Shopping Walking round town centre more extensive shopping facilities shopping U3A U3A groups U3A (x2) Asian elders she knows any activities offered by Asian Elders Asian Elders Asian Elders initiative Don't want any more opportunities Not interested anything No I have done all my physio and that has helped me a lot physically and mentally I feel I have enough opportunities 113 Social activities social activities (x2) socialising events (outdoor) Friends/ family Social events with family I used to like meeting my friends at the pub Spirituality Church activities volunteering at mosque, different ESOC and other course Reading Mobile library reading groups, Local activities Art & other courses in the Village Bromley X local community activities 114 Why don’t you get involved? Health / mobility Too tired because of ME I tire quickly Feeling tired too tired after work because of my health problems Other Because I could not join in and do the things Have done for several weeks - walks were too difficult for me Health restrictions I have an arthritic knee and am not sure how it would react deafness Mainly due to my physical problems Mainly restricted mobility My health problems my mobility Not fit enough now. not fit enough to attend anymore poor mobility restricted movement, lack of confidence Too much pain - can't keep up - embarrassing unable - post-operative was shorthand typist. Worked at Town Hall - couldn't go back after brain operation No time because of lack of time (not able to come) can only do so much Finding the time Lack of time (x2) mainly lack of time Mainly time issues Mostly lack of time no time (x4) Not enough time (x2) not found the time as yet not much time Time (x2) Other Don't enjoy crowds Already walk with family locally Too cold because as stated I am trying to come to terms with everything Football tennis Can't afford bus fares Don't socialise much outside my family Feel I want to do it myself 115 Change of format. But was introduced to gold again Won't have carers in house There is a waiting list feel they are more for over 65s Doesn't feel safe or confident also needs supervision when going out too lazy I suppose too soon struggling trying to make new life for myself not sure Transport lack of transport Not fit enough now. Don't enjoy crowds or going out evenings Now am without a car and buses are not always available Transport difficulties will not go out due to fear of going But don't know how to get there Can't afford bus fares Confidence is lacking and transport transport can't walk very far Confidence / motivation not clever enough will not go out due to fear of going motivation Confidence is lacking Doesn't feel safe or confident also needs supervision when going out lack of confidence My… motivation Shyness Information can't be sure that the route is suitable But don't know how to get there or get involved Lack of information Don't know how I am finding out about this Finding the time and lack of opportunity Don't know where there is one Not interested / no need Not interested (x2) Just like looking at it 116 Don't really need to don't need don't want to I already have enough interests/ activities Already do this activity I do get involved where appropriate I do (x2) I do sometimes Time not convenient Was learning lip reading at the same time It clashes with Speaking Club she likes to go swimming but time doesn’t suit her had quite a lot of hospital appointments - land on same days starts too early Other commitments Have to look after my wife do a lot of the moment work still working I already have enough interests/ activities Not available locally Not in my area Because it doesn’t happen in the centre No sessions available at home Doesn't come to scheme Too busy I'm too busy (x2) busy Nobody to go with Feeling unsure about going on my own Nobody to go with or meet there Nobody to go with 117 Just not done it yet Will I have yet to start this Didn't enjoy Tried did not enjoy Can't handle it Used to do it Used to 118 How did you find out about this? Friend / family a friend (x2) A variety of networks… friends etc Already know heard from friends daughter Friends (x4) Husband Introduced by a friend Leaflets/word of mouth my community my friends neighbours People have told me about it sister in law Through mutual friends via friends Wife's involvement Word of mouth (x2) Newspaper / magazine A variety of networks, publications Advert in Bolton News Adverts in Bolton Scene Bolton Scene local paper Local press usually Media (x3) Newspaper (x2) press read in newspapers Adverts/ leaflet / poster advert advertisement advertisements Adverts (x3) Leaflet Leaflets local advertising posters and leaflets and flyers posters on notice boards Publicity - leaflets 119 Other Got a prospectus Work Newspaper and age concern Organisations offered inclusion warden SSO and posters on notice boards through the Bolton branch of NOS [National Osteoporosis Society] not sure classes at Leverhulme Park/Physio voluntary organisation that runs it advertised in gym Health professional Hospital GP, CPN From the Aspen Unit via Heart surgery after care Talking to nurses, 2/ws etc classes at Leverhulme Park/ Physio community nurse GP Community centre etc In the centre from day centre Through St Georges or BAND local UCAN centre community centre (x2) At event through a speaker At a meeting of the charity retirement course event was told about it at meeting Involved before Have done it in the past Always done it used to take part in some groups (x2) member 120 Befriending Halliwell Befriending Service (x2) befriending service befriending Social services Social Services Social worker (x2) Asian elders through Asian elders resource centre from Asian elders centre through Asian elders CVS CVS mostly through contacts with CVS Library Info in libraries library Tv in tv TV 121 If you did take part, how comfortable would you feel? Yes a lot Comfortable (x2) excited Feel alright about Fine Good (x2) happy I enjoy going once a week I feel happy I like to do it I would feel better I would feel good I'd love it much more comfortable than I am now she feels pretty comfortable Very (x3) Very comfortable (x4) Welcomed With the lip reading class met a good friend would feel comfortable would feel good Would love it yes yes ok Partly 50-50 a bit A bit distance at first Awkward at first till I got to know someone don't know - proably ok Fairly comfortable (x2) fine It would depend on the circumstances Ok (x8) ok I think ok most of the time probably a bit more Probably a little better, but not a significent difference probably not if I went on my own quite reasonably Very as long as I had not pain No Anxious 122 Felt uncomfortable not sociable I cannot Inadequate Not at all Not very (x2) Not very comfortable (bladder trouble) Uncomfortable (x3) very down & lonely Very uncomfortable needs get home Worried I couldn't finish wouldn’t would be nervous Wouldn't feel comfortable Don't know do not know don't know (x4) Don't know until I've tried it Not sure (x2) Unknown very because I would be resuming my stories 123 What is the best thing about this? Seeing others companionship company Excellent... social network gets people talking together like minded groups fighting for older people meeting other people meeting others (x2) meeting people socially mixing with other people seeing people I don't normally see, talking to others Social Interaction Socialising Socialising with other people you can socialise with other people you have company Support Support for families Support of staff/ Clients are listened to (unload) and exercise Understand illness talk to you about your illness if urgent they come help with benefits and support Supports people Excellent care Therapy and companionship Having a guide Other To feel as if I exist Hot meals and drinks I would be able to finish my story of my husbands R.A.F. yrs Fresh air and relaxation Not having to go out like minded groups fighting for older people feeling needed I am aware that only I can deal with it Don't know Don't know until I've tried it Don't know (x3) don't know yet don't know haven't tried it I don't understand the question really 124 Feel good / fun Stay healthy and stress free Enjoyed myself good experience confidence & character building good make me feel good Exercise Helps you keep supple Gets people active Exercise (x2) Fresh air and exercise (x2) Learning Learning something new Learning using your brain etc English improves Something to do/ keep busy activities to keep busy & occupied keeping herself busy Something to do Health Stay healthy and stress free Getting over the anxiety keep energy level up good for physical health 125 Go outside/ fresh air get out of house Fresh air and exercise (x2) Fresh air and relaxation There if you need it Fulfilling a need if possible Understand illness talk to you about your illness if urgent they come available if needed an opportunity for the future when not tied up with volunteering Confidence / motivation Begins motivation confidence & character building Nothing can't see anything No best thing for me 126 What might be missing? People/ friendliness Family Again - lack of involvement from others Company Residents should be encouraged to make non residents welcome Friendship More interaction between members when you first go My wife other people my age not knowing other people welcome group for introductions a good mix of ages from 50-65 loneliness at end of group session Don't know ? Don't know (x5) Don't know until I've tried it don't know yet No idea (x2) not sure Nothing don't think so no Nothing (x5) Nothing I was grateful to her nothing is missing Nothing, to finish my projects would be therapeutic Other More training People’s awareness of these activities more information more GP informed Not enough groups not engaging easy to lapse Not being able to attend Support Extra care for ones who can't keep up The support needed Facilities i.e. transport & assistance 127 Having support Information/advice People’s awareness of these activities Again more information more information Professional advice regarding my knee Might not be able to do it Extra care for ones who can't keep up finding something that I… am capable of might not be fit enough Transport Getting there facilities i.e. transport Different times/ time wrong opening hours time Finding something you want to do An activity I would like finding something that I really want to do Me brains on my part me Starter group A lower level walk to allow you to build up 128 Some people suffer with mental health problems or mental illness and need to access services that help them to recover What did you access? Nothing used GP practice CPN Psychiatrist Hospital Counselling Voluntary sector Psychologist Social services Number 168 54 17 17 16 11 11 4 1 How did you find out about this? Health professional Other Social services General knowledge Been involved before Friends/ family Halliwell befriending Work Poster Band Day centre Asian elders centre Church/mosque/temple Warden Council UCAN St George's road Tv CVS Volunteer bureau Library College Leaflet Newspaper/magazine Number 52 8 4 4 2 1 1 1 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 Did you feel comfortable? Yes partly No Rank 1 2 3 3 5 6 6 8 9 Rank 1 2 3 3 5 6 6 6 6 - 68 11 9 129 What was the best thing about this? No comments for best thing/ missing thing Talking / being listened to Received treatment Other Checkup Good attitude / understanding problem Socialising / company/ nice people Nothing Being looked after Helped person to cope / make changes Good service Food Able to stay at home Language support Number 183 21 11 11 8 8 8 5 5 5 5 2 2 2 What was missing? nothing other more sessions problems with understanding/ communicating more time problems with appointments Number 40 7 5 Rank 1 2 3 3 5 5 5 8 8 8 8 12 12 12 Rank 1 2 3 4 4 4 2 4 6 130 What did you access? GP practice GP (x41) and my GP I think Doctor (x2) Doctors Dr Wilde GP blood test GP counselling service. GP Physiological services GP service support officer GP/aches + pains/diabetes GP/nurse Nurse (x2) CPN 38 years - psychiatric nurse CPN (x9) CPN (for my mother) CPN on someone else's behalf CPN visits monthly CPN, support workers EMI team, CPN Psychiatric nurse The CPN is involved with my wife Psychiatrist Consultant Psychiatrist also attended Day Hospital for 12 months Psychiatric Psychiatric Hospital (x9) Psychiatrist (x4) Psychiatrist appointment See Psychiatrist - social worker don't help 131 Hospital Bolton General Hospital Christies, Bolton hospital Hospital (x2) hospital doctor for my mum hospital due to anxiety Psychiatric Hosp Psychiatric Hospital (x7) Psychiatric hospital, GP Physiological services hosp. The Aspen Unit Counselling Counselling (x5) counselling / how to pace my life Counselling services GP counselling service. Hypnotherapy and counselling relate Talking therapies. Voluntary sector Asian elders resource centre Befriending service dementia support, carers support Mhist Voluntary Sector CAB, voluntary sector - Mhist Band Patients council Voluntary sector organisation (x2) voluntary sector organisations voluntary service, church volunteer dementia group Psychologist Psychologist (x2) Psychological services (x2) Social services social worker 132 133 How did you find out about this? Health professional GP practice from GP (x3) GP (x25) GP referred to consultant My own GP but had to be reminded by GP GP & work she found out about this from her GP she was missing about not knowing about the mental illness through GP (x6) Hospital Hospital Hospital Psychiatrist K1 ward Consultant through hospital Told at hospital Other CPN (x2) Doctor (x3) through doctor Physiotherapist Referred Other W/A Carer appointment card With our foster link Appointment Volunteer work Mhist dementia visitors monitoring "Aricept" (occupational therapists) All accessed by the Halliwell Befriending society except Marie Curie nurses Social services Social Services Social Worker (x2) Organised by hospital social worker 134 General knowledge my own own knowledge at home General knowledge Been involved before Registered regular checks Friends/ family family Halliwell befriending All accessed by the Halliwell Befriending society except Marie Curie nurses Work work Poster notice boards around Bolton 135 What was the best thing about this? Talking / being listened to being able to talk Feeling believed Meeting other people especially with people I could communicate with Being heard/believed/understood Communicating Understanding - confident and counted as a person Talking to someone To have someone who listened to me Understands me and my illness Ventilating my feelings, feeling of a trouble shared is a trouble halved To discuss Being able to talk about things (Psychologist) Being listen to people helping me sort out my life hard work but its working for me Someone who listens talking Talking and help with time to discuss issues troubling me being able to discuss things it made me admit openly that I do too much someone who would listen & not get bored someone to talk to Received treatment Help that I got seeing the doctor The treatment I got getting a good / correct diagnosis getting a diagnosis Hypnotherapy worked for a while Helps Treatment/checks successful most of the times blood test received medication for depression Other Reminding of medicine accompanied by support worker 136 Regular visits by friendly careful people Learned how to help others in the beginning changes were made Aerobics class given by Sheila Brooks The safe enviornment Getting well and coming home from hospital Food, (Occupational therapist) Home visits available if cannot manage to get to surgery support & learning Checkup Check over check up (x3) Regular checks Treatment/checks req checks Blood pressure checks Good attitude / understanding problem He knows me Being heard/believed/understood Regular visits by friendly careful people nurse Graham was so good to us very supportive Understanding - confident and counted as a person Understands me and my illness understanding of your problem knowing they are their to help and that they have a good understanding of what the care is going through Socialising / company/ nice people Going to Lounge and Socialising Kind and considerate Meeting other people especially with people I could communicate with Company The Staff Visitors welcomed friendly sympathetic people 137 Nothing Nothing (x5) Being looked after Support service looked after (feels) knowing they are their to help and that they have a good understanding of what the care is going through the comfort of support support & learning Helped person to cope / make changes in the beginning changes were made Being listen to people helping me sort out my life hard work but its working for me Talking and help with it made me admit openly that I do too much it helped me cope Good service I need my social worker very much good advice overall good was good, no problems good doctor 138 Food free food / drinks Food, (Occupational therapist) Able to stay at home Getting well and coming home from hospital Being able to stay in own home Language support Speaks own language Interpreter available 139 What was missing? Nothing Don't know n/a (x2) No (x5) Nothing (x30) nothing, she was like a helpful family friends for yrs Other Endurance by me Home comforts Seeing other people dosed highly in a worse mental condition than myself - scared me!!! speaking language warmth more information about illness They are not very helpful when you are not well they just tell you to take your tablets More sessions More sessions if needed, help in between. PSYCOLOGIST Sessions - when I'm feeling desperate. When seeing CPN had telephone back up. None with psychology service at night or weekend Once every 6 months not enough follow-up care/ time the therapy was over too quickly rushed because of xmas. I think it should have been more spread and maybe more sessions not enough sessions Problems with understanding/ communicating I did not understand the purpose of the meetings Lack of understanding Communication and being made to feel that decisions were made over my head Doctors not telling you things More time More time to talk Feeling I could go back again Not long enough time spent with visitors time 140 Problems with appointments Not always an appointment available - sometimes have to wait a week nothing - sometimes appointments are late 141 Are there any other services to help people to recover from mental health problems or mental illness that you are aware of but don’t use? Heard about Number Rank No comments Other GP Counselling Hospital Community nurses Voluntary organisations Band Mhist Drop in Psychiatrist Various Befriending Council St George's centre Support groups Church / mosque Therapeutic arts CBT 89 14 11 10 10 7 1 2 3 4 4 6 6 5 5 4 4 4 3 2 2 2 2 2 1 7 8 8 10 10 10 13 14 14 14 14 14 19 Why don't use Number Rank No comments No need Do/did use Other Don't want to No time Not offered before Travel 93 30 8 5 4 3 3 2 1 2 3 4 5 6 6 8 142 Where heard from Number Rank No comments Friend / family Health professional Work Just knew Leaflets/ advert Newspaper / magazine Other Day centre Befriending Approached by service Mosque 98 10 10 7 6 5 5 5 3 2 2 2 1 2 2 4 5 6 6 6 9 10 10 10 Comfortable Number Rank Partly Yes No Don't know 21 11 8 5 1 2 3 4 Would be good Number Rank No comments Support / good service/ make you feel better There if needed Other Seeing others Affordable A break Don't know 109 21 8 7 2 2 2 1 1 2 3 4 5 5 5 8 Would be missing Number Rank No comments Don't know Need improved service Nothing Other Language problems 114 8 1 2 8 8 7 2 2 2 5 6 143 What services do you know about? Other Need more services BAND, making space Complimentary therapy Hosp Admiral Nursing Service/Bolton MB part time care workers Supporting people MH network I don't know of any services Outreach, crisis resolution mhist, St George Centre, Steps B Friendly society, social workers, church etc Neighbourhood network team outreach befriending, activity groups, social groups, interest groups day care respite care dementia support GP Doctor Dr GP (x9) Counselling Counselling Service (x4) counselling / talking therapy Counselling (x4) counselling at BCOM, GP, hospital Hospital Farnworth Hospital Hosp Psychiatric hospital Meeting at RBH inc trips etc Aspen unit at Bolton Hospital Royal Bolton Hospital (Special Dept for mental support and counselling) Voluntary Sector Secondary Care at hospital Hospital (x3) Community nurses Health Visitors/Nurses specialising in care of elderly/prevention of certain conditions Community Nurse community nurses Admiral Nursing Service CPN Community psychiatric nurse Community Psychiatric Nurses 144 Voluntary organisations Voluntary Sector (x2) Carers Support voluntary organisations (x3) BAND BAND Drop-Ins BAND (Drop-ins) BAND (x3) MhiST MhIST (x5) Drop in BAND Drop-Ins BAND (Drop-ins) Other drop ins Drop-in Centres Psychiatrist Psychiatrist (x4) Various various Most of them All facilities for mental health care All of them Befriending Halliwell Befriending Society Befriending service befriending Council Local council Bolton MB part time care workers St George's centre St Georges Day Centre St George Centre 145 Support groups Supporting people MH network Help support groups Church / Mosque church etc counselling at Bcom Therapeutic arts Creative Support Therapeutic Arts CBT CBT 146 Why don't you use this? No need Because I don't need to Do not need it at present and hopefull never Doesn't feel appropriate Don't bloody need it Don't feel the need Don't need it Don't need them (x2) Don't need to (x4) Getting support from other sources I don’t need to at the moment I don't have mental problems I don't my son does I'm not in need of the service mentally, I regard my health to be ok no necessity No need (x2) No need, not crazy yet! not got a mental health problem Not necessary in my case not needed (x2) not needed YET Not really relevant to my needs Use for people in my care Work involvement Do/did use Does use the Service I have done this I do use them I did I use steps Have used v sector - have to be referred to secondary care I do Have just finished a period going there Other I go to my sick mothers Awaiting an appointment Don’t know the criteria to ring them Learning difficulties Don't trust the therapies/doctors Don’t want to she knows all about this but she has no interest in doing anything about it Choose not to Don't feel ready to use this service 147 don't want to leave him yet No time Too busy Not had time Lack of time Not offered before Have used v sector - have to be referred to secondary care Never had opportunity not been offered until recently Travel Doesn't live close by Can't get there 148 How did you find out about this? Friend / family Talking to a niece who has benefited from same local community Wife experiences Through listening to others friends conversation Word of mouth Family, GP, friends People Word of mouth mother used it Health professional From Hospital from GP GP Social Worker Information in Doctors Psychiatrist GP (x4) admiral nurses Work 13 yrs working Work (x2) Trained as H.V./District Nurse years ago colleague via working as a mental health professional Work in area Just knew General knowledge (x2) known life experience Just new about them As care developed become aware of different services Leaflets/ advert Leaflet/publicity advertisement leaflets in town hall Leaflets (x2) Newspaper / magazine I read about it 149 Newspaper and Bolton Carers magazine everywhere (mosque, newspaper etc) Other GP Social Worker don't know service support officer CVS volunteer bureau Day centre St Georges Day Centre At the day centre Staff at the day centre Befriending Befriending Service (x2) Approached by service They came to visit me at my home I was approached Mosque Mosque (x2) 150 If you did use this service, how comfortable would you feel? Partly 50-50 a bit a bit more Feel alright Feel ok I'd be concerned that other users might feel concerned about me as I worked as a professional in mental health for many years It would depend on my experiences there Not convinced about it Not sure Ok (x9) ok I think OK once settled if I knew mum was alright probably no difference worried husband may not accept Yes A lot Comfortable (x2) Good (x2) Happy - excited great Very (x3) Very comfortable very helpful No Guilty it if means leaving my wife Pretty uncomfortable no difference not very different worried in case he missed me not at all Uneasy at first A bit anxious Don’t know Don't know (x3) Don't know yet not sure 151 What is the best thing about this? Support / good service/ make you feel better Not asking questions It was good Friendly relaxed, caring service That they do help people It may be beneficial The kindness and understanding they gave and how they informed me of other agencies I could use helping vulnerables Jackie was very supportive to my husband and myself Stepping stone to personal wellbeing Support and Social events They look after you it is successful helped my son Making me feel good about myself Talking how to do things to make you feel better gives you confidence excellent way to deal with problems feel listened to and heard. Vent out emotions helps those who need it, doesn't cost a lot Helps you get better helps a lot There if needed That it is available if needed You know there about if you need them Place to get help know that they will help Something to look forward to helps those who need it, doesn't cost a lot something to look forward to in the future it's available and I know how to access it A lot available Other Prevention is always better than cure All the community no what happening The kindness and understanding they gave and how they informed me of other agencies I could use somewhere to go Contact with others, able to obtain things ie shopping etc not in a hospital 152 Seeing others Contact with others, able to obtain things ie shopping etc Support and Social events Affordable counselling at BCoM is free helps those who need it, doesn't cost a lot A break free time a break for me Don’t know Don't know 153 What might be missing? Don’t know I would have to find out don't know (x5) no idea (x2) Need improved service Things have changed (Not always for the best!) Some more improvement more help Quick consultation - being seen quickly not waiting months Too many different services all people don't get treated the same when you in hospital after overdose you are sent home to cope and family have to put up with you. Have to demand help and then wait long time to be seen. Don't need see Psychiatrist. The system just is so different if you try and help yourself Personal 1-1 support Professionalism and expertise on behalf of many of the staff supplying the service More staff, more finance Nothing Nothing (x5) Nothing, it was a valuable service - they provides people to sit in so the carer couldshop in my case No (x2) Other Acceptance Not enough knowledge about who, how, where to contact them I enjoy visits from friends unfamiliar surroundings close companionship opportunity to drop in / stay 1 hour co-operation of husband Language problems language problems (x2) 154 Some people become very unwell, they may not completely recover, and they need specialist care to meet their physical and mental health needs What did you access? Nothing used Voluntary sector Other Home care Residential care Hospital Respite Intermediate care Gp Sheltered housing Social services Daycare District nurse Cpn Psychiatrist Counselling Hospital Psychologist How did you come to use this service? Health professional Social services Other Friends/ family Asian elders centre Church/mosque/temple Tv Been involved before BAND Day centre Warden Halliwell befriending Council UCAN St George's road CVS Volunteer bureau Work Library College Leaflet Poster Newspaper/magazine Number 209 13 13 12 7 5 4 3 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 0 0 0 Rank 1 2 2 4 5 6 7 8 9 9 9 9 13 13 13 - Number Rank 22 15 7 5 1 1 1 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 1 2 3 4 5 5 5 5 - 155 Did you feel comfortable? Yes Partly No 40 6 6 What was the best thing about this? No comments best thing / missing People friendly / caring / company Improve confidence/ feel secure Help round the house/ with chores Other Relieve pressure Nothing Feel supported Activities Someone's there / visiting regularly Meet people in same situation Advice / knowledgeable Good help They come to you Number 218 14 7 5 5 4 3 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 What was missing? Nothing Other Number 19 13 Rank 1 2 3 4 4 6 7 7 7 7 7 12 12 12 156 What did you access? Voluntary sector Age concern (x3) I have been to Age Concern in the past Age concern, Active choices MS Society Asian Elders Resource Centre (x3) Home care, daycare unit, crossroads she attends AERC regularly District nurses, befriending dementia support group Other Alzheimer’s Being supported by creative support team Rheumatology & GP He chose yoga and breathing exercise Physio Aerobics & Tai Chi Chiropodist housing Creative support diabetic clinic ADS meals on wheels due to physical disabilities if needed Bolton sensory centre Home care Assistance for husbands needs etc wash and shower care agency care services Domiciliary agencies Domiciliary care Domiciliary care agencies domiciliary home care for physical help Home care (x2) Home care help Home Care to help with physical needs Home help 157 Residential care Standworth Ave, Breightmet Care Home Residential care Residential care home (x2) Residential Care (short term) Lillian Hamer care home - respite residential care for my mum, 12 mths ago. care home Hospital Hospital MS Specialist she has been referred to hospital treatment by her GP. After taking treatment she is now better Bolton Royal Hospital Dr Seabourne Royal Bolton Hospital Hospital Respite Respite house new lane Lillian Hamer care home - respite respite care (x2) Intermediate care Darley Court Darley Court/Thicketfors House intermediate care GP GP (x2) Sheltered housing I moved to warden controlled accommodation residential care sheltered housing 158 Social services Registered disabled - social services for my mum, 12 mths ago. Respite social services, care home, age concern Daycare daycare unit day care District nurse District nurses CPN hospital CPN when required Psychiatrist Psychiatric services 159 How did you come to use this service? Health professional Hospital Following botched hip replacement hosp arranged all it was suggested on my last day in hospital hospital eye unit hospital via hospital Follow on from hospital stay Nurses hospital referred - befriending received by nurses GP Referral by GP GP (x4) Own doctor referral Other Became ill Deterioration my elderly relative’s health Referred Sectioned Through accidents and illness occupational therapist / admiral nurse admiral nurses CPN Social services Hospital social worker s/services Social Services (x6) Social Services, family Social worker (x4) Social worker, carer (wife) Through Social Worker Other Because I had anxiety Advertisement it was an agency Age Library, Steps 160 don't know I have a drink dependency problem Friends/ family because my mother had Alzheimer’s Deterioration my elderly relative health carer (wife) family through family Asian elders centre came to Asian Elders Resource Centre Church/ mosque/ temple through Church TV Heard from tv Been involved before she became a member a long time ago 161 What was the best thing about this? People friendly / caring / company Socialising Staff being friendly Meeting other people Activities, getting to know other people Meeting other people I get to meet people of my own age & culture Meeting people at centre who feel the same as me. Seeing somebody having company Company (x2) company for us both caring attitude Improve confidence/ feel secure confidence with planning healthy meals keeping my independence/feeling secure Helped build my confidence to be able to live independently again helping to recover and regain confidence the fact that they are there somebody going into the home on a regular basis took away some worry Help round the house/ with chores Cleaning, paperwork being helped around the house I can have a shower confidence with planning healthy meals Enable me to do my own shopping with support Other Provision of shoe insoles to align spine/help with falls Pain relief keeping my independence/feeling secure helping to recover and regain confidence provided with aids for seeing better 162 Relieve pressure Help me make time for myself Relaxing, confidence with planning healthy meals taking some pressure off me to help me as a carer, to keep me sane Nothing not much nothing Feel supported Being supported by the group and being helped around the house Someone's looking after me Found it difficult to manage my needs Meeting people at centre who feel the same as me. Experiences the same talking about Activities Very helpful, gets you out of the house Activities Class attend for 6 week Taking me out every Wednesday Someone's there / visiting regularly Knowing someone will be visiting every day always staff available 24 hrs he was very well looked after 24 hours a day Meet people in same situation I get to meet people of my own age & culture Found it difficult to manage my needs Meeting people at centre who feel the same as me. Experiences the same talking about people understood, company for us both Advice / knowledgeable Knowledge of MS 163 Advice Good help Good help he was very well looked after 24 hours a day They come to you They come to you (x2) 164 What was missing? Nothing everything ok No (x2) Not that I can think of Nothing (x12) nothing - I found the service excellent nothing it was a good move Nothing really Other help from GP Cultural empathy My family of course These people don't have time to sit and chat with you as they are so thinly spread it was expensive, consistency lateness or not come at all warmth, genuine caring with interest people (known acquaintances) home comforts, privacy Medicine didn't work. Medicine makes stomach hot and caused digestive disorders my own commitment not enough staff my mum did not want any help not very assertive care worker 165 Are there any other specialist services to help people to manage a mental illness/condition and deterioration in health that you are aware of but don’t use? What services do you know about? No comments Residential care Home care Other Age concern Various Community nurses Ring & ride Day centre Crisis resolution Alzheimer’s society GP Band Number 105 16 9 8 8 6 4 2 2 2 2 1 1 Rank 1 2 3 4 4 6 7 8 8 8 8 12 12 Why don’t you use this? Number Rank No comments No need Not eligible Other 112 28 2 5 1 2 4 3 How did you find out about this? Number Rank No comments Family / friends Other Just knew Work Adverts GP Social services Can't remember 109 20 6 4 4 3 3 3 1 1 2 3 4 4 6 6 6 9 If you did use this service, how comfortable would you feel? Number Rank Partly No Yes Don't know 13 10 6 0 1 2 3 4 166 What is the best thing about this? Number Rank No comments There if needed Look after you Good Being with people Other 130 9 5 3 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 5 What might be missing Number Rank No comments Social life Other Nothing More money More staff Don't know 129 8 4 3 2 2 0 1 2 3 4 5 5 - 167 What services do you know about? Residential care care home (x4) care home and home Care homes (x5) Nursing home old peoples homes (x2) Residential residential Residential homes Home care Domiciliary Care Services Home Care (x6) home help (x2) Other visiting services e.g. church - other voluntary groups & carers group Some specialist centres for dementia sufferers self referral/active health Mhist, Steps Careline social services, work related care Active choices team community alcohol team Age concern Age concern (x8) Various Most of them specific services All of the above All mental health services provided by the Trust All of them Community nurses Admiral nurses - CPNs. - Macmillan nurses CPN Community M/health admiral nurses CPN Ring & ride Ring & Ride (x2) 168 Day centre day centre Day care Crisis resolution Crisis resolution (x2) Alzheimer’s society Alzheimers Society (x2) GP GP BAND BAND 169 Why don’t you use this? No need Do not need it Do not need to Do own cleaning and drive my own car Don't need it (x3) Don't need now Don't need them Don't need to (x4) got my own house, wife cares for me, other relatives and friends Have my family to look after me have my own home ruin my social life I am not mentally ill I don't need to I don't need to be looked after I have my own house, do not need help Mum isn't bad enough yet no need (x2) No need and family will support me No need to use no specialist care needed not needed Not needed yet Not eligible I have to be referred back Don't fit criteria Other motivation not ready to use have my own home ruin my social life too distant - postal contact, telephone. not sure what they do embarrassed 170 How did you find out about this? Family / friends a friend adverts and word of mouth Family (x4) friend Friends (x2) friends & families from friends (x2) from friends & relatives (x2) My daughter is a member of the team Neighbours people through being aware of other people's problems Through my sister she uses them word of mouth Other Enlisted as volunteer to active health. Now a mentor The Halliwell Befriending Service given me more than enough information Through meeting of mental health Asian elders & friends & families tv, papers by going to Halliwell luncheon (dinner) club for old people & it's very good I enjoy going very much they cannot do enough for you. Just knew Just know As personal care developed found out about them General knowledge everywhere Work Work as a carer Work in area I am a retired nurse Adverts Adverts (x3) GP GP (x2) from GP 171 Social services social services (x2) Social Services/SSO Can’t remember Can't remember 172 If you did use this service, how comfortable would you feel? Partly Ok (x3) If I needed the service I probably wouldn't mind Not very feel alright quite comfortable not a lot no difference probably not very probably no difference a bit If you need it you have to be comfortable No No need support When feeling suicidal where do you go left on own not very comfortable none probably sadder due to lack of familiar faces possibly guilty as I expect myself to cope totally embarrassed Not comfortable Not very would need to get use to it Yes Extremely happy FINE Very comfortable yes a lot very 173 What is the best thing about this? There if needed That they are available They look after people when they need help helps you when you are too old to look after yourself a lot of care available help when you need it the services can be accessed if needed A lot available That if needed it is available (x2) Look after you They look after people when they need help helps you when you are too old to look after yourself you are cared for this is excellent helps you I would feel that I was being cared for by professionals Good very good specialist care specialist care is good specialist care is excellent Being with people Being with other people Other gets people out 174 What might be missing? Social life social life will be disturbed my family and familiar faces maybe lack of social life good social scene social life interrupted family or people you don't know anyone do social life social life Other Groups still quite large No good contact service The referral for some services Motivation to improve Nothing Nothing (x2) No More money enough financially supported services to cope with everyone's needs More finance and more staff More staff More volunteers/staff More finance and more staff 175