All school policies embody the commitment of Governors and Staff to the principles of: equality of opportunity, student and staff wellbeing, both mental and physical striving for excellence in all that we do transparency and accountability SEX AND RELATIONSHIP EDUCATION POLICY November 2013 Vice Principal – K. Lumley RATIONALE Leasowes places a very high value on all those aspects of personal and social education which inform and support students' growth into fully rounded young people, able to make informed choices and build good relationships. Sex education is an educational entitlement of all students. In framing its policy for sex education, Leasowes has taken due regard of the Authority's Statement "Sex Education in Schools" November 1994, revised National Curriculum September 1999, and of the National Healthy School Standard. AIMS To encourage students' sense of personal responsibility in all forms of behaviour. To build self-esteem and self-awareness, and at the same time the respect and consideration for others which underpin sound human relationships. To provide a programme which supplies information for students and their parents, and encourages the acquisition of skills and attitudes which will allow students to manage their lives in a responsible and healthy way. To ensure that students are protected from teaching and materials which are in appropriate, having regard to the age, religion and cultural background of students. GUIDELINES Sex education is taught primarily within the frameworks of the PERSONAL AND SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT and DESIGN FOR LIVING programmes, in the lower and upper school respectively. The treatment of the content and concepts is tailored to the years in question. Due regard is taken of information from Primary colleagues on their work in this area through informal liaison within Bridge Curriculum arrangements. Key Stage 3 (Lower School) - Puberty, friendship and love, family life and relationships, gender issues, conception and birth, contraception, HIV/AIDS, safer sex, helping agencies, sex and the law. Key Stage 4 (Upper School) - Developing relationships, conception, contraception, pregnancy and abortion, fostering and adoption, genetic inheritance, early parenting, sexually transmitted diseases including HIV/AIDS, advice on health checks, sexual lifestyles, helping agencies, prejudice and stereotyping, different faiths and cultures. The work is reinforced in other curriculum areas as appropriate, for example, the biological aspects of sex education are studied in greater depth in Science. The contents of all syllabuses/schemes of work, which include sex related topics, are kept under review, and the school is sensitive to all legislative and other changes related to this area of the curriculum. Monitoring of the sex education programme is carried out on an on-going basis by PSD/DFL co-ordinators and the Vice Principal, and their review must ensure that all the resources and materials used are appropriate and up to date, and that teachers are receiving appropriate training and support. Review of policy takes place in Governors Curriculum Committee, and this work is summarised in the Governors' Annual Report to Parents. A summary of policy is in the school prospectus, and the full policy is available on request to parents, LEA, OFSTED through the Vice Principal/Principal. The PSE/DFL course aims to place sex education within the wider context of students learning the abilities, skills, knowledge and understanding of themselves and others which are contained in the courses above. Concepts like good health, morality, relationships, self-awareness and personal responsibility underpin the course. The following skills are recognised and encouraged in all aspects of the PSE/DFL course:Communication, including making and keeping relationships Assertiveness Decision making Recognising and using opportunities to develop a healthy lifestyle Specifically, the course examines the physical and emotional changes associated with puberty, the development of relationships, and also the significance of marriage and stable relationships as key building blocks of community and society. The course will deal honestly and sensitively with matters of sexual orientation without any direct promotion of any sexual orientation. Many delicate issues may arise from or through the sex education programme, both directly and indirectly. Staff, parents and students need to understand the school's procedures. Students need to know that some information cannot be held confidential, and made to understand that if certain disclosures are made, certain actions will ensue. At the same time, students must be offered sensitive and appropriate support. The College will also deal with homophobic bullying, should it present itself, through the appropriate pastoral mechanisms. In the event of disclosure or suspicion of possible abuse, child protection procedures will be invoked. In the event of disclosure of pregnancy or advice on contraception being sought, students will be encouraged to talk to their parents first, and seek professional advice and guidance from a health professional, either the school nurse or their G.P. Students should be asked if they need help in telling their parents. If this is refused, they should be referred to a health professional and the Principal informed, who will consult with the health professional about informing the parent(s). In all such cases, staff are encouraged to seek the student's permission to share the confidence with an identified senior member of staff from the outset. The responsibilities which must be associated with sexual activity, and the consequences of it, are clearly discussed. The facts about contraception, birth, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV and AIDS are dealt with, in addition to moral issues associated with marriage and parenthood. Facts are presented in an objective and balanced way, with students being encouraged to consider their attitudes and values. They will be made aware of the difference between fact, opinion and religious belief. The value of family life and concepts of stability, mutual respect, caring and support will be particularly considered. Some understanding of the law in relation to sexual activity, particularly pertaining to young people of school age, is included in the programme. Leasowes recognises the sensitive nature of many of the issues, and when appropriate, calls in the services of outside agencies to enhance the quality of the course. The College also recognises youngsters' natural curiosity about sexual matters, and seeks to provide them with not only factual knowledge, but also some understanding of the complex moral frameworks within which sexual behaviour operates, and the importance of forming a stable and supportive relationship. Students will be encouraged to appreciate the physical, emotional and moral risks of promiscuous sexual behaviour, and also to understand and counteract social or peer pressure which could have negative consequences. Parents are fully informed of the imminent onset of the sex education sections of the PSD/DFL course, when a letter of consent is posted to them. At this time alternatively they can exercise the right to withdraw their child from the sex education programme. The child will not begin the sex education programme until the letter of consent has been received. Under the Education Act 1993, parents have the right to withdraw their children from all or part of the sex education programme, other than those elements which are required by the National Curriculum Science order. Parents wishing to exercise that right are asked to make an appointment to meet the PSD/DFL coordinator to discuss the issues, and though they are under no obligation to do so, it is hoped that at this stage any difficulties about the nature of the sex education provided by the school can be resolved. Once withdrawn, they cannot take part in later sex education without parental approval. Arrangements for the supervision of students whose parents have withdrawn them from the programme are made by the PSD/DFL co-ordinators. Leasowes welcomes parents contacting the School with any matters of concern to them arising from the sex education programme. CONCLUSION Leasowes hopes, through the delivery of a well planned, resourced and sensitive sex education programme, to give its students relevant and up-to-date information, and the skills that will enable them to make sound life choices in this area. Policy date: November 2013 Review date: November 2014 Vice Principal: KLumley