Sexuality (Refusal Skills) 7th Grade What is Sexual Harassment? Unwelcome behavior of a sexual nature that makes you feel uncomfortable, fearful, or powerless. Can happen to anyone, male or female. Examples of Sexual Harassment Sexual comments about your body Sexual advances/propositions/suggestions Sexual touching or gestures “Dirty” jokes Spreading rumors about other’s sexual activity Ways to Say “NO!” Avoid the offer Do not enter a situation where you may be pressured Escape the Offer… Walk Away Give an Excuse Cold Shoulder Refuse the Offer… Simple Rejection (No, No thanks, etc..) Self-Statements (I do not want to have sex, I have too much going for me to do that, etc..) Consequences (Having sex can cause pregnancy) Broken Record (No thanks, No thanks, No thanks) Refuse the Offer (cont..) Strength in Numbers (Look for others, stay with friends) Reversing the Pressure (No thanks, I thought you were my friend) Activism (I don’t want to have sex until I find the right person, and you should do the same) Conclusion…. Saying “NO” may not always be easy but there are many ways to refuse anything you do not want to do. Make decisions based on your morals, values, and a positive outcome