Little Flowers Are Budding On Ballet's Family Tree Kisselgoff, Anna The New York Times December 03, 2002 There is an extra family feeling to the cozy Christmas party in ''The Nutcracker,'' now in New York City Ballet's annual run at the New York State Theater. Rarely have so many dance dynasties been represented in one ballet in one season. Libby Coleman's grandmother is the former City Ballet star Melissa Hayden. Alexandra Warrick's mother is Helene Alexopoulos, who retired this year as one of the company's ballerinas. Nicholas Fokine's great-grandfather Mikhail Fokine was one of 20th-century ballet's greatest choreographers. Alexandra is 8 while Libby and Nicholas are 9: all are ballet students who are performing this year in George Balanchine's beloved 1954 version of ''The Nutcracker.'' Nicholas, a ''Star Trek'' fan, calls the convergence of descendants ''Ballet: The Next Generation.'' Ask la Cour, 20, is in a different category, already a professional dancer in the Royal Danish Ballet. Yet his debut with City Ballet is also set for ''The Nutcracker'' and he, too, is part of a famous ballet family. His mother is Lise la Cour, formerly associate artistic director of the Royal Danish Ballet, where she started her dancing career as a child. She is also the mother of Ask's half brother, Nilas Martins, a principal in City Ballet, whose father is Peter Martins, the company's artistic director. The weight of history lies lightly on the smallest shoulders. In rehearsal, Nicholas has been instructed by the children's coach and teacher, Garielle Whittle, to speak naturally if sotto voce at the 19th-century Christmas party in Act I. When Fritz, the young host, inquires about his guests' journey, Nicholas said he replies: ''It's been such a long way. It's cold outside.'' ''Then when Fritz asks me, 'How did you get here?' '' he continued, ''I say, 'I just took the 66th Street crosstown.' '' Nonetheless the children, pupils at the company's School of American Ballet, take their heritage seriously. Asked which ballets he likes best, Nicholas's impish expression turned grave: ''Greatgrandfather's,'' he said, picking out landmark ballets that Fokine choreographed early in the 20th century in Russia and for Diaghilev's Ballets Russes. These include ''Firebird,'' ''Les Sylphides'' and ''Scheherazade,'' which he has seen live or on video. Making a case for a strong gene pool, he added: ''I like to make up dances in my head and do them with fingers. I already have 100 ballets in my mind, some with music, some without.'' Alexandra, whose twin brother, Grayson, was also accepted at the School of American Ballet but who prefers tennis, started at 4 in a pre-ballet class in another studio. ''I said, 'This isn't ballet,' '' she recalled. Rising from a chair to demonstrate what she had rejected, she waddled and jumped with legs parallel rather than turned out the classical way. ''I wanted to do what my mother was doing. It wasn't dance to me, and if my mother could do it, so could I.'' Ms. Hayden, who retired from City Ballet in 1973, is the dancer Libby admires most. Libby has seen her grandmother dance on film and has watched her sister, Emma, a 15year-old student at the school, perform in ''The Nutcracker'' and in the garland waltz in ''The Sleeping Beauty.'' Libby's aunt, Jennifer Coleman, danced with the National Ballet of Caracas and John Clifford's Los Angeles Ballet. She is the sister of Libby's father, Stuart Coleman, who is a lawyer and on the board of the school. Mr. Coleman and his wife, Alice, met on a blind date at City Ballet. ''His tickets were in Row K, center,'' Ms. Coleman said. ''I knew this was for me.'' Libby's brother, Teddy, 13, plays in chess tournaments. Although Mr. Coleman and his lawyer father, Don Coleman, were immersed in Ms. Hayden's dance career, he and the other parents said they did not push their children into studying ballet. ''It's a hard life,'' he said. Libby said, however, ''I do want to be a dancer because I love it and because I have gone through so many generations of watching my sister, my grandma and my aunt.'' This is her second year in the party scene in Act I, and she is also one of the candied angels who scoot around in Act II in the Kingdom of the Sweets ruled by the Sugar Plum Fairy. Both she and Alexandra take naturally to the unison gliding with bent knees that gives the illusion of angels floating by. Ms. Whittle, who has picked and taught the children's casts since 1984, told them to move on the odd count. ''The angel ahead of me goes on the first count and I go on 3,'' Libby said. The children, scheduled to perform in alternating casts during the 46-performance run, are to be paid $10 for each appearance. As Alexandra noted: ''They pay us for dress rehearsals, so it's 25 nights. Now that my brother found out we're getting paid, he wants to be in it, too.'' Taking the long view, Alexandra added: ''I love being onstage. I have always wanted to act and dance. I've always wanted to be in musicals.'' When she said candidly, ''I had high hopes of a main part in a ballet,'' her mother reminded her this was her first year in ''The Nutcracker.'' In recent years Alexandra has traveled on tour with her mother and her father, Lance Warrick, a lawyer. Her schedule is full. Ms. Alexopoulos, who speaks Greek, sends her daughter to Greek school at their church. ''First I have church, then I go to soccer and then to ballet rehearsal,'' Alexandra said. ''My legs are pretty much tired, but when I dance, my legs just won't stop.'' Ms. Alexopoulos has coached her and said that through Alexandra she discovered details in ''The Nutcracker'' that she had missed while dancing its ballerina roles. ''There were all sorts of things I was not aware of,'' she said. Michael Fokine, Nicholas's father, said his son had never seen the City Ballet's ''Nutcracker'' onstage although he had seen the video of the production many times. On the other hand, those who think ''The Nutcracker'' is not the only way to introduce children to ballet would agree with the unusual scope of Nicholas's dancegoing. He is especially enthusiastic about Peter Martins's ''Jeu de Cartes,'' a work set to Stravinsky that even adults would see as sophisticated. The playing cards on the backdrop reminded Nicholas of solitaire, one of several games he plays on the computer. He also likes William Forsythe's ''Herman Schmermann'' and Paul Taylor's parody of psychoanalysis, ''The Sorcerer's Sofa.'' It was his own idea, Nicholas said, to study ballet. His sister, Alexandra, 14, studies art, and his father, Michael Fokine, studied dance but has now gone back to graduate studies in philosophy after working in market research. Nicholas's father and his aunt, Isabelle Fokine, license Mikhail Fokine's ballets and administer his estate. They are the children of Phyllis and Vitaly Fokine, a dancer and teacher who was the son of Mikhail and the dancer Vera Fokina, who settled in New York after the Russian revolution. Nicholas noted that his mother, Ursula, is of German descent, which tied in with the German setting of ''The Nutcracker.'' Asked what kind of families were at the Christmas party, he said: ''I think they're rich. I have gold on my buttons, and I feel like I'm in a fancyshmancy mood.'' In Denmark children usually take their first steps onstage not in ''The Nutcracker'' but in August Bournonville's 19th-century ballet ''Napoli.'' Mr. la Cour, speaking by phone from Copenhagen, said he had nonetheless danced in Flemming Flindt's version of ''The Nutcracker'' as a boy. Originally involved in soccer, he started ballet at the Royal Danish Ballet school at 9 rather than 8. His mother, who is currently teaching at the school of the San Jose Ballet in California, said that Mikkel, Ask's 18-year-old brother, takes after their father, the conductor Frans Rasmussen, and is studying music. But both Ask and Nilas Martins, her eldest son, wanted to dance. Ms. la Cour agrees with Ask's decision to accept Peter Martins's invitation to join New York City Ballet. ''A dancer's career is short,'' she said. ''New York City Ballet is a place where, if you want to be a dancer, you can dance a lot.'' Ask added: ''I like most of what we're doing here in Copenhagen. But I would really like to do Balanchine and Peter Martins's ballets because there's a lot of energy there.'' He is aware that he is in for a change of pace. ''We have a month to rehearse one ballet in Copenhagen, and we don't dance as fast,'' he said. ''But I'm not afraid of it. Maybe I would not be coming if it weren't for my big brother Nilas and Peter Martins. But I'm looking forward to it.'' __________________ Copyright New York Times Company Dec 3, 2002