THE BENEFICE OF THE LOWER SWALE United Parish of KIRKBY FLEETHAM with FENCOTE, LANGTON and SCRUTON NEWSLETTER FOR DECEMBER 2015 SERVICES DECEMBER 6th Advent 2 Purple 10.00 am KIRKBY FLEETHAM United Holy Communion Mr Garner DECEMBER 13th Advent 3 9.30 SCRUTON Holy Communion 11.00 am FENCOTE Holy Communion 2.30 pm LANGTON Carol Service Mr and Mrs Exelby Mr Perkins DECEMBER 20th Advent 4 11.00 pm KIRKBY FLEETHAM Carol Service 6.30 pm SCRUTON Carol Service Mrs Calder and Mrs Lawther DECEMBER 24th CHRISTMAS EVE 11.30 pm SCRUTON Midnight Eucharist Mr and Mrs Clarke DECEMBER 25th CHRISTMAS DAY 10.00 am KIRKBY FLEETHAM Family Service with Holy Communion Mrs Kettlewell DECEMBER 27th 9.30 am SCRUTON Holy Communion 11.00 am KIRKBY FLEETHAM Morning Prayer Dr and Mrs Ewart Mrs Garner JANUARY 3rd 2016 10.00 am SCRUTON United Holy Communion Mrs Elmer and Mrs Lawther FROM THE RECTORY 01609 773346 Christmas Blessings: Let’s go on a Journey! A journey of faith and discovery awaits every one of us at this time of year. And it would seem that the danger and trauma often involved in making a journey is still as sharp and potentially dangerous even in today’s sophisticated world as it was for the Blessed Joseph and Mary! Travelling today is full of risk! and sadly fear and trepidation has crept into our potential travelling plans as the world comes under attack from others who do not value the sanctity of life and the freedom of movement which we have become accustomed to. I seem to remember how Joseph and Mary at a very difficult time in their personal lives were forced to make a journey by others. A journey which was to lead them both into glory but also into great uncertainty. A journey filled with the joy of the Christmas story but also a journey which had to take them away from family, from their home and eventually from their own country in order to keep their child free from harm. Many today are being compelled to go on a journey like that of Joseph and Mary, but this time it is one which they are seeking to attempt in order to seek a better and safer life for their families. Refugees have dominated the press for many months and we have been appalled at the struggles they have had to undertake to seek to find just a glimpse of acceptance and welcome from the people they seek to make their home with. Our Bishops have been encouraging us to seek to respond to this need and I think we can do this but how best should we respond. The Inn was too full for the innkeeper to take Mary and Joseph in that night but he did at least give them some temporary shelter. We can of course do the same but is temporary shelter really what refugees are seeking? I think not! They want the same as we have and rightly so, they want to be loved, accepted, be given a permanent home and to be a valuable part of society. They don’t want to be treated as something temporary, an inconvenience which might go away and not disturb us if we just encourage them to carry on journeying somewhere else. Our world is a very different one from the place where Jesus was born and the sense of welcome and hospitality which was part of the society in which he lived is so far away from the individualized society we now find ourselves in. We cannot open our homes to strangers, we cannot place our own families at risk simply by taking people in, and even if we did! this would be temporary and temporary is not what Refugees need. We need our government to use our resources effectively to help in positive ways to keep people safe and to welcome them and to provide permanent solutions for their well-being not temporary ones. So my Christmas message is one of prayerful reflection: as we remember the journey of the Blessed Joseph and Mary, let us also remember the current journeys of today’s refugees and to hold them all in our prayers so that the Christmas Joy of peace and love for the world may truly be both ours and theirs. A very peaceful and love-filled Christmas to you all. Clive FROM THE REGISTERS CHRISTENING 29th November at Kirkby Fleetham Sonny Daniel Wild BURIALS 13th November at Fencote Jean Appleby 14th November at Kirkby Fleetham Jean Wilson NOTICES Advent Study Group; Clive will run these on the following four dates at The Rectory at7.30 pm: Monday 30th November Monday 7th December Tuesday 15th December Monday 21st December. We will use the next set of materials from The Pilgrim Course KIRKBY FLEETHAM A cheque was sent off to Herriot Hospice Homecare for £103 after the November coffee morning in the village hall. Thank you to all who helped to raise this money. Please note there will be NO COFFEE MORNING in DECEMBER or JANUARY. . SCRUTON £300 was collected for the Devon Donkey Sanctuary on 21st November. Many thanks to all who contributed There will be no coffee morning in December Village Christmas Card:- this year it will be organised by the Church. A card will be left at the back of the church for all who would like to sign it. Please leave donations in the wall box on the left hand side of the door. It will also be at SLED, The Christmas Market on November 28th and at the Cinema Club. Donations will go toward the cost of roof repairs to the church. If you have any notices for the newsletter, please contact Katherine Lawther (748287), or on rjlawther@btinternet.com - I usually start typing during the third week of the month