May 2013 Newsletter Topics: Mother's Day, Memorial Day, Cinco de Mayo, Herb of the Month (motherwort, daisy, lily, red raspberry), Class theme(s), Women's health, healthy aging, new mothers to grandmothers, etc. Article 1 - Healthy Aging: Lots of concern about this area of general health. And rightfully so. So many Americans are taking pharmaceutical medications for chronic health conditions. [Insert data, CDC, NIH, etc]. Ask yourself, do you want to live a long time or do you want to live well? Both? Are you looking for a long, simple, quiet life or a long, adventurous, activity-filled life? Is this really how we want to live the rest of our lives? My patients worry about how their skin, their hair, their bodies, are handling the test of time. Women ask me how to deal with and prevent wrinkles, why their skin is drying out, how to lose the weight that suddenly appeared at their midline with menopause, how to keep their hair healthy and how to stay active with achy joints and back pain. The truth is, anything that’s worth having is worth planning for. Good health, at any age, doesn’t just happen. And there really is no miracle diet, workout regimen or mantra that keeps us from aging. Those people who seem to enjoy good health at 60 and 70 and older have established lifelong habits and practices. They invite routine, a certain amount of discipline and a measure of self-love into their daily lives. There’s plenty of room for good times and good foods, but ‘moderation in everything’ is a pretty good maxim. 1) Work – do something you love and you’ll never work a day in your life 2) Let it go – don’t hold onto grudges and things you have no control over – AA prayer is appropriate here 3) Approach life with curiosity 4) Be flexible – adapt quickly to change, especially where death is concerned 5) Easy on the sugar 6) Eat food that looks a lot like it does where it grows 7) Get moving – adopt a daily practice and stick to it. Qi gong is one of the best. Yoga is also excellent. But even walking, swimming, tennis or 8) Laugh at yourself – when you take yourself too seriously, you drag yourself and everyone else down What can you do from an herbal or natural standpoint to maintain good health? Nettle tea Green tea Red clover Adaptogens: Ashwaganda, Rhodiola, Eleuthero, Damiana, Ginseng Drink water, but don’t go crazy Eat your vegetables, lots of color Use a smaller plate – eat less, especially if weight gain is your concern Cut back on coffee, especially if you’re loading it with sugar and cream Article 2 – Healthy Moms are Happy Moms Mother’s Day, birthday, Christmas, Valentine’s Day. That’s 4 holidays, maybe, we moms spend any amount of time allowing ourselves to receive love, attention and nurturing. We spend the other 361 days of the year virtually on-call to the needs of our children, spouse, parents, school, job, and 100 other forces pulling on us for attention. “That’s what I signed up for when I became a mom,” you’re saying. Really? Where does it say that popping a child out of your vagina means an end to your spiritual life, a workout routine, good eating habits and regular time with friends? Of course it’s harder. It takes some effort to stay connected to a community, to family, and to the person you’re here to be. Your priorities definitely shift. It’s normal to put kids’ needs before your own sometimes. But here’s what I wish someone had told me 20 years ago: it’s ok to get your basic needs met as a new mom. Radical, I know. What kind of person puts a fussy baby in the hands of a babysitter and leaves to get a massage? A healthy one, I’d say. It’s not your responsibility to fulfill every need for everyone all the time, not even your baby, your partner or your parents. You might be a mom now, but you still need sleep, friendship, sex, healthy food, time off, and exercise. Probably less for a while. And that’s ok. But if you neglect these needs for too long, you’ll find yourself overweight, unhappy, burned out and probably in a stressed out relationship. Make time for yourself and your body will thank you. Your children will thank you. Your partner will thank you, if they’re paying attention. And you’ll be setting a good example for your children – you know the old saying…if momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy. It’s still true. Take care of you. The rest will take care of itself. You’re gonna thank me for this. Herb of the Month: Red Clover I started taking this because I knew it was in all the old-timey herbal formulas for cancer, and that it’s considered a premier blood ‘purifying’ herb. Then I realized that red clover is not only that pretty purple (not actually red) weed we used to pull apart and suck on for its sweetness as a child. And all the female herbalists I admire say it’s a women’s herb (well, sure that makes sense, since it’s a blood purifier and we women, we have a love-hate relationship with our blood). And then when you REALLY get thinking about it, if an herb is known to do anything to improve the quality or function of blood in the body, it has to be good for the heart, which pumps all that beautiful red stuff around and makes sure we get plenty of it in the right amounts. And blood, like any fluid in the body, is naturally going to wash over, lubricate and drop its nutritional load into the organs and tissues it surrounds. So that means that healthy blood gives our organs and tissues good nutrition for healthy functioning. And all that from a little flower I knew as a kid…hmm. Sharon Tilgner: Sweet, cooling. The mental picture is a debilitated person with spasmodic cough, salivary gland congestion, pharyngeal inflammation and chronic skin eruptions. Specific for swollen hard nodes, a stiff neck and cramping in sternomastoid muscles relived by heat and massage. Not for pregnant women or those on blood thinners (due to the presence of coumarins). Michael T: Sweet, salt, cool, Isoflavones, flavonoids, coumarins, resins, minerals, vitamins. Alterative, antispasmodic, expectorant, antitumor. For the treatment of tumors and cancers of various types. Effective for skin eruptions, psoriasis and eczema…useful for coughs, colds and diseases with mucus congestion. David Winston: Long history of use in cancer formulas. Contains ‘genistein’, which inhibits cancer cell growth. Mild lung, lymphatic and liver remedy for irritable cough, whooping cough, cough from measles, lymphatic congestion and tonsillitis. Susun Weed: “world’s safest and most respected anti-cancer herb. 2-4 quarts a week. She says it helps men with LUTS – Lower Urinary Tract Symptoms like frequent nighttime urination, weak flow, difficulty urinating, urgency with little result, dribbling, straining and incomplete emptying. Aviva Romm: Teen acne, conjunctivitis (tea), coughs, whooping cough. Menopausal symptoms, hot flashes, vaginal dryness, Osteoporosis prevention, hypercholesterolemia, acne and chronic skin disease. Acute and chronic cough, asthma and pertussis. Do you need a speaker or presentation for your business, church or school? Some topics I’m excited about right now include: Herbal First Aid for Summer, Sassy Savvy Health for Women Over 50, and Creating Your Herbal Medicine Chest from 10 Herbs. I’m passionate about natural healing and healthy living – I’d love to speak to your small, medium or bigger group! Short Quiz: 1. How many hours of sleep does the average mother of a newborn get? 2. How many hours of sleep does the average menopausal woman get? 3. How many hours of sleep does the average 45 year old male get? 4. How many hours of sleep do the Chinese, Ayurvedics and European medical professionals say is a healthy amount? Here are some of my personal herb & food favorites: Drink Nettle leaf tea - 2 cups a day Take red clover -read about this one below. It's my herb of the month! Easy on the sugar - sugar suppresses the immune system, our body's best disease prevention tool Eat real food that looks a lot like it does where it grows Adaptogens: herbs like Ashwaganda, Rhodiola, Eleuthero, and Damiana help the stresses of daily life take less of a toll. And they can gently boost energy without a buzz Drink water, but don’t obsess about it. I like to keep a glass of water on my desk to remind me Eat a colorful plate of food (yellow and brown don't count as much as green, blue orange and purple :) Serve yourself on a smaller plate – and you'll eat less Cut back on coffee, especially if you’re loading it with sugar and cream