Resting Place of Saint Dymphna – Gheel Belgium William Stride wrstride@aol.com December, 2007 Bill in front of Cathedral of St. Dymphna; Gheel Belgium It was the summer of 2001 when I was first introduced to Saint Dymphna. I was at a peer education training at Westborough state hospital; there were about forty of us gathered there. A senior psychiatrist came to our meeting and delivered a talk on Saint Dymphna. Upon hearing what he had to say I felt something stir deep inside; a kind of awakening of my faith as this man must have felt when he was younger. He told us that he was so moved by the story of Saint Dymphna that he arranged his yearlong post doctorial work in Gheel Belgium which is the 1 Resting Place of Saint Dymphna – Gheel Belgium resting place of Saint Dymphna. When I heard this story I vowed that one day I would travel to Gheel Belgium and stand beside the tomb of Saint Dymphna. The Dymphna story. . . . Dymphna was a Celtic princess who lived in 800 AD. Her father, the king, went insane when his wife died and became obsessed with marrying his daughter Dymphna. Dymphna fled the kingdom with a Priest and servant. They made their way to the continent and ended up in Gheel Belgium. Her father tracked her to Gheel. As the legend goes a shop keeper gave the king a coin from the king’s home province and he knew Dymphna was nearby. He found her and beheaded her for refusing to marry him. The local people of Gheel built a tomb and placed the body of Dymphna inside. The story of Dymphna and her tomb became a local tourist attraction in Gheel. Many people who traveled through Gheel were directed to visit the tomb. It was soon realized that many mentally ill travelers who visited the tomb were miraculously healed by simply gazing upon the bones of Dymphna. Her tomb became a pilgrimage for those with mental illness all over Europe and the rest of the world. Eventually the people of Gheel began taking in persons with mental illness to live in their homes and work 2 Resting Place of Saint Dymphna – Gheel Belgium My first experience with Saint Dymphna came in the summer of 2004 when I was planning a trip to Gheel; a trip that for various reasons got cancelled. It was very late at night and I had just completed extensive research on Saint Dymphna via the Internet. The things I read about her were interesting and the whole story was fascinating. When I was done with the research I went for a walk. I walked out to a dark place not far from my apartment and stopped there to look around. Suddenly it was as if a swarm of many large black insects emanated from my midsection and swarmed in a circle around me. After not more than a second or two they dispersed and were gone. I was startled by this spectacle but I was not afraid of it either. I came to the conclusion that this miraculous experience must somehow be connected to the plans for the trip and the Internet research I did that evening. It was just the kind of experience that William James wrote about. In the days that followed I came to realize that I had less anxiety and other negative feelings were less. Whatever happened that night, it had left me in a state of greater well being and that was the proof, for those who want proof. The actual trip to Gheel came in November, 2007; A couple of weeks before the trip I had a conversation about Saint Dymphna with my doctor. I was describing the story of Saint 3 Resting Place of Saint Dymphna – Gheel Belgium Dymphna and how people with mental illness have been miraculously healed when approaching her tomb. As I was describing the approaching of the tomb she said in a loud voice “Go for it!” That marked the end of our meeting. Excited, I left and went outside. While standing on the sidewalk I began entertaining images of being healed as I approached the tomb of Saint Dymphna. As I stood there thinking about these things I began to realize that I felt differently. I began taking stock of my internal sensations and did so often for the rest of the day. By the end of the day I became convinced that I had been healed when the words “Go for it!” were uttered by my doctor. In the following days it became apparent that I was in a better state, a permanent and lasting state of greater well being. Before departing there were more of these experiences. Trip to Gheel with my sister Laura . . . On the fifth of December, 2007 my sister Laura and I departed from Paris on the Euro Rail and traveled to Brussels where we took two other trains to reach Gheel. On the day of our travel a bomb was detonated at a law firm in Paris, killing two people. We did not find out about this until the following day. When we were changing trains a spontaneous smile came over my face. I could not remember when I had a smile like that before; it had been years. We arrived in Gheel in the pouring rain. A waitress in the café next to the train station told us how we could reach the Cathedral of Saint Dymphna. We dilly-dallied looking for a hotel and then ended up in a restaurant to order lunch. My anxiety was climbing because I thought it bad luck to do anything except go straight to the Cathedral. I told Laura that I wanted to go there and she agreed; we cancelled lunch and went back out into the pelting rain and headed for the Cathedral. Next I stood with my head resting against the steel doors at the entrance of Cathedral of Saint Dymphna. After so many years, so much anticipation, meditation and thought I had finally reached this destination. It was not the reaching of the Cathedral that was great but all the things that happened to me along the way. 4 Resting Place of Saint Dymphna – Gheel Belgium I now know that religious faith transcends space and time. The response to the request comes in many different forms and is always a surprise. The excitement I felt upon first hearing of Saint Dymphna had accompanied me for years. As the trip grew near, these feelings intensified. For anyone whom this story has the ring of truth follow that road for it is a road that really does lead to a good and real place. William Stride – December, 2007 5