Table Manners for Young Ladies Source: Comber, Jan and Rosemary Evans. Women Changing Canada. Don Mills: Oxford University Press, 1997. • Take your seat quietly at the table • Sit firmly in your chair without lolling back, drumming, or any other uncouth action • Unfold your napkin and lay it on your lap • Eat soup directly with a spoon • Be careful to make no noise in chewing or swallowing your food • Cut your food with your knife, but the fork is to be used to convey it with your mouth • Break bread, do not cut it or bite it • Your cup was made to drink from, and your saucer to hold your cup • When you have finished the course lay your knife and fork upon your plate with the handle toward your right hand • Wipe your nose if necessary but never blow it at the table • It is almost unnecessary to mention that the tablecloth is not the place for your salt