Outstanding communication skills Housekeeping › › › › © smallprint mobile phones break times toilets emergencies 2 Workshop overview At this workshop the following will be addressed: › › › › communication skills communication difficulties verbal and non-verbal communication writing and electronic communication © smallprint 3 Workshop expectations What do you know about the topic? What do you need to know? What outcomes do you expect from this workshop? © smallprint 4 Introductory activity Unlocking your ability to communicate well © smallprint 5 Topic 1 Communication concepts © smallprint 6 ‘The greatest problem in communication is the illusion that it has been accomplished.’ (George Bernard Shaw) © smallprint 7 ‘Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind.’ (Rudyard Kipling) © smallprint 8 Body language ‘The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said.’ (Peter F. Drucker) © smallprint 9 Activity © smallprint 10 Topic 2 Preventing poor communication © smallprint 11 ‘The greatest compliment that was ever paid to me was when someone asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer.’ (Henry David Thoreau) © smallprint 12 Listening skills © smallprint 13 Opportunity ‘When written in Chinese, the word "crisis" is composed of two characters. One represents danger and the other represents opportunity.’ (John F Kennedy) © smallprint 14 Activity © smallprint 15 Consider this procedure © smallprint 16 Topic 3 Effective communication strategies © smallprint 17 Assertiveness ‘The basic difference between being assertive and being aggressive is how our words and behaviour affect the rights and well being of others.’ (Sharon Anthony) © smallprint 18 ‘Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough.’ (Josh Billings) © smallprint 19 ‘Feedback opens your eyes.’ (Vadim Kotelnikov) ‘Asking the right questions takes as much skill as giving the right answers.’ (Robert Half) © smallprint 20 Difference is…. Diversity - the quality of being different and unique at an individual or group level. Valuing diversity - appreciating and respecting the worth and contribution of human differences. © smallprint 21 The Johari Window Known to self and others Unknown to others © smallprint Quadrant 1 Quadrant 2 OPEN AREA BLIND AREA Information shared with others Information known to others but not to self Quadrant 3 Quadrant 4 HIDDEN AREA UNKNOWN AREA Information we choose not to share Sub-conscious or unconscious information Unknown to self Unknown to self and others 22 Changing quadrants At the start of a personal or work based relationship: Known to self and others Uncertainty, anxiety or fear. Need to develop trust. Unknown to others © smallprint Quadrant 1 Quadrant 2 OPEN AREA BLIND AREA Information shared with others Information known to others but not to self Quadrant 3 Quadrant 4 HIDDEN AREA UNKNOWN AREA Information we choose not to share Sub-conscious or unconscious information Unknown to self Unknown to self and others 23 Building trust Known to self and others Quadrant 1 Quadrant 2 OPEN AREA BLIND AREA Communication Feedback Unknown to self Relationship. Working together. Disclosure Reliability Trust Quadrant 3 Unknown to others © smallprint Quadrant 4 UNKNOWN AREA Unknown to self and others HIDDEN AREA 24 Requests The act of asking for something to be given or done, especially as a favour or courtesy. A solicitation or petition. © smallprint 25 Promises A declaration or assurance that one will do a particular thing or that guarantees that a particular thing will happen. © smallprint 26 Activity © smallprint 27 Topic 4 Electronic/ written communication © smallprint 28 ‘Telephones are a point to point communication system whose most basic function is to allow two people separated by large distances to talk to each other.’ (Wikipedia) © smallprint 29 Writing © smallprint 30 Electronic mail Email - a method of exchanging digital messages from an author to one or more recipients - using the Internet. © smallprint 31 Activity © smallprint 32 Summary Before leaving today please share: › 1 thing you learned › 1 new practice you will undertake at work › 1 activity you enjoyed Thankyou for your attendance and participation. © smallprint 33