POWERFUL QUESTIONS S I M P L E T R U T H : A S K I N G QU E S T I O N S C R E AT E S MOVEMENT ...SIGNIFIC ANT MOVEMENT. ALBERT EINSTEIN said, “If I had an hour to solve a problem and my life depended on the solution, I would spend the first 55 minutes determining the proper question to ask, for once I know the proper question, I could solve the problem in less than five minutes.” F O R C ES AT WOR K I N T H E WOR L D Robert’s Rules of Order The Myth “I am not creative.” Resistance to Change The Focus and Reward is on the “Right” Answer Our Educational System is based on Answers not Questions Our Vocations Emphasize Fixing Problems not Fostering Breakthroughs Our Preferred Perspective is Probability not Possibility PRESENTED BY NICOLE GREER, PPCC PRINCIPAL COACH AND FOUNDER VIBRANT COACHING 70 4- 502 -49 53 N IC O L E@ T HEV IBR A NT COACH .COM QU E S T I O N S E D I F Y Creating a Climate of Discovery Suspending Premature Judgment • BELIEFS • HABITS • HUMAN TRAITS Exploring Beliefs Listening for Connections Capturing Ideas YOU Encouraging Diverse Perspectives COMFORT ZONE Honoring Everyone’s Contributions Articulating Shared Understanding Harvesting and Sharing Discoveries ENVIRONMENT FEELINGS T H E D I M E N S I O N S O F A P OW E R F U L QU E S T I O N CONSTRUCTION SCOPE ASSUMPTIONS YOU 1 01 YOUR CO M FO RT Z ON E A ND THE LEARNING ZONE Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best with your own life. -The Message PRESENTED BY NICOLE GREER, PPCC PRINCIPAL COACH AND FOUNDER VIBRANT COACHING 70 4- 502 -49 53 N IC O LE@ T HEV IBR A NT COACH .COM CONSTRUCTION The construction of a question can make a critical difference in either opening our minds or narrowing the possibilities we consider. Review the following key question construction words on a continuum from less powerful questions to more powerful questions: Yes/No Why Which Who When Where What How Tell Me What is it like... What would it be like... What If Now consider the construction of the following questions: • Do you have a dream? • What support does your dream need? • Why aren’t you pursuing your dream? •What is your dream like? • What if you lived your best life? What is it like? As you move from simple yes/no questions to what if, the question stimulates more reflective thinking and more creative responses. PRESENTED BY NICOLE GREER, PPCC PRINCIPAL COACH AND FOUNDER VIBRANT COACHING 70 4- 502 -49 53 N IC O L E @ T HEV IBR A NT COACH .COM SCOPE The scope of a question must match the need we are addressing or the discovery that we’re trying to make. Note the impact of scope below: How does your dream impact your future life? How does your dream impact your family’s/friends future life? How does your dream impact the future of the world? A S S UMP T IO N S Assumptions—Almost all questions, explicit or implicit, have some degree of assumptions built into them. Review and discuss the assumptions imbedded in the following sets of questions: A. Why don't you see that things need to change? B. What are the changes you need to make? A. What is going wrong, and who is responsible? B. What can you learn from what has happened, and what are the possibilities now? A. How can you address the lack of action? B. What are all the possibilities for you? Which questions assume a solution? Which assume error or blame, leading to narrow discussions or defensiveness? Which stimulate reflection, creativity, and/or collaboration among those involved? Examine each question for any unconscious beliefs it may introduce: • What assumptions or beliefs are you introducing with this question? PRESENTED BY NICOLE GREER, PPCC PRINCIPAL COACH AND FOUNDER VIBRANT COACHING 70 4- 502 -49 53 N IC O L E@ T HEV IBR A NT COACH .COM A QUES T I ON A question is most powerful when neither the asker nor the responder knows the answer until the question is answered. Think about it. If we can ask questions that bring out fresh information, we’ve brought about transformation and growth. LISTENING LEVEL ONE I NT ER NA L • Listening to the words instead of the other person with the focus on what it means to me. • Assessments, judgments, discernment, and analysis are going on in my head. • The impact is on me -- my own thinking and clarity. I am wondering what to say next. • Fact: This does not lead to insights about the other person. L I S T E N I N G L E V E L T WO FO CU S ED • Listening for understanding - what is behind the words (values & qualities) • Attention is with the other person - being more open and intuitive • Acting like a mirror - being reflective about what is seen and heard LISTENING LEVEL THREE E X PA N S I V E • Being fully present and feeling free to explore possibilities. • Listening with all my senses. • Noticing whatever wants to be noticed and offering it to the other person without attachment. A NATO MY OF A QU ES T I ON • Emanates from the heart of genuine curiosity. • Is shaped by the mind into a format that is direct, simple and usually open-ended. • Generates creative thinking and surfaces underlying information. • Encourages self-reflection. YOUR CHALLENGES Questions for Focusing Attention Questions for Connecting Ideas and Finding Deeper Insight Questions that Create Forward Movement PRESENTED BY NICOLE GREER, PPCC PRINCIPAL COACH AND FOUNDER VIBRANT COACHING 70 4- 502 -49 53 N IC O LE@ T HEV IBR A NT COACH .COM