School Safety Tips
Bullies
Signs of Being Bullied
Of course, bumps and bruises are telltale signs your child has been physically bullied, but
you can watch for other less obvious hints, too:
Inventing mysterious illnesses to avoid school (for example, stomachaches,
headaches, etc.)
Missing belongings or money
Sleeping problems
Bedwetting (http://kidshealth.org/parent/general/sleep/enuresis.html)
Irritability
Poor concentration
Unexpected changes in routine
Problems with schoolwork
How to Deal With a Bullied Child
Be a good listener and let the child know you care
Don’t let the child know you are angry. This can be misinterpreted as
disappointment.
Reassure the child that they are not the one to blame for what is happening.
Explain that bullies are often confused and unhappy people with self-esteem
issues.
Also consider asking your child thoughtful questions, such as:
What's it like walking to the bus stop or home from school?
What's it like on the bus ride to and from school?
What happens on the playground during recess or before or after school?
What happens in the hallways at school or during lunchtime?
Have any bullies in the neighborhood or at school threatened anyone you
know?
Do some kids you know get emails, instant messages, or text messages that
are upsetting, threatening, or insulting?
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To help ward off bullies, give your child these tips:
Hold their anger and not get upset while the bully is present. This will show
confidence and possibly deter the bully.
Never get physical or bully back. Let the child know they are better than that.
Act brave, walk away, and ignore the bully.
Use humor. Make light of the situation to throw the bully off. However,
don’t make the mistake of making the bully believe you are making fun of
him/her.
Tell an adult.
Talk about it.
Use the buddy system. There is strength in numbers.
Develop more friendships by joining social organizations, clubs, or sports
programs.
Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Department - Crime Prevention
601 East Trade Street Charlotte, NC 28202
For more information, visit www.cmpd.org or call us at 704.336.2310