Sociology Chapter 12 Lecture Questions Section 1 (pages 296-304) Revised May 2011 1. What is the most universal social institution? The family. Every society organizes its members into families. However, what constitutes a family varies widely from culture to culture Despite this variety, families throughout the world follow similar organizational patterns and fulfill common functions. A family is a group of people who are related by marriage, blood, or adoption and who often live together and share economic resources. Probably what sociologists call the nuclear family. A nuclear family consists of one or both parents and their children. ◦ The nuclear family is the family form most recognizable to Americans. An individual’s family of orientation is the nuclear family into which the person is born or adopted. › This family is composed of the individual and his or her siblings—brothers and sisters—and parents. When an individual marries, a new nuclear family is formed. › The new nuclear family is now a family of procreation, consisting of the individual, his or her spouse, and their children. 4. Describe an extended family. In many societies the nuclear family is embedded in a larger family group called an extended family. It consists of two or more generations. In an extended family, grandparents, parents, children, uncles, aunts, and cousins may all live in one house or grouping of houses. 5. USING THE VISUAL ON PAGE 296, WHAT SOCIOLOGICAL NEEDS DO YOU THINK AN EXTENDED FAMILY MAY FULFILL? Extended family members may provide additional support, such as emotional and childrearing support. In addition, extended families may be able to live together for less expense than the different nuclear-family units could live separately. Family trees illustrate and trace the specific connections among the members of a kinship system. 7. What does kinship refer to? Kinship refers to a network of people who are related by marriage, birth, or adoption. Kinship systems can be quite large with as many as 200 possible categories of relatives. 8. List the three (3) categories of kinship and some examples of each. Primary— Mother, father, sister, brother, spouse, daughter, and son. Secondary— Grandparents, grandchildren, in-laws, aunts, uncles, nephews, and nieces. Tertiary— Great-grandparents, great-grandchildren, great aunts, great uncles, and cousins. 9. What is meant by the term marriage? Sociologists use the term to refer not to the married couple but to the set of norms that establishes and characterizes the relationship between married individuals. Because marriage often marks the beginning of a family, this set of norms influences the ways in which societies answer the questions of family organization. 10. WHAT ARE THE FOUR (4) QUESTIONS OF FAMILY ORGANIZATION? How many marriage partners may a person have? Who will live with whom? How will family membership be determined? Who will make the decisions in the family? 11. WHAT IS MONOGAMY AND POLYGAMY? The marriage of one man to one woman is called monogamy. Marriage with multiple partners is called polygamy. This practiced by a majority of pre-industrial societies around the world. 12. Using the article on pages 298-299, how has marriage and the family life changed in Egypt since Hamida was young? Do you think the interviewed women are happy with these changes? Explain your answer. Arranged marriages are rarer, and women have taken on more authority and gained greater freedom. Older women, such as Hamida, may view these changes more negatively. If only the father works, then he must make enough money to support two wives and several children. If all three parents work, then they will make more money than a dual-earner family. POLYGAMY Polygamy is the more common marital system in the majority of preindustrial societies around the world. Nevertheless, most people in polygamous societies take only one spouse. Why? First—It is very expensive to have more than one marriage partner. You are expected to marry only those spouses you can support. Second—Most societies tend to produce roughly equal numbers of men and women. If a substantial number of people in a society took multiple spouses, there simply would not be enough eligible partners to enable everyone to marry. 14. What is polygyny? Polygyny is the most common form of polygamy. Man is married to more than one woman. Generally occurs in preindustrial societies when there are large areas of land available to cultivate. A husband who has two or more wives gains additional workers for the land. With multiple wives, the husband is likely to produce more children, who can also work. These factors add to the man’s prestige and economic wealth. 15. WHAT IS POLYANDRY? A woman is permitted to marry more than one man at a time. It is found primarily in parts of Asia. Appears to arise in response to extreme poverty and a shortage of women. For example, the Toda of India practiced female infanticide—the killing of female babies. Polyandry is much rarer form of polygamy. As a result, there were not enough women to provide monogamous partners for all of the men in the society. Because of this shortage the Toda developed a system of polyandry. When a woman married a man, she became a wife to all of his brothers. This practice also served to keep the birthrate down, which is important in a poverty-stricken society that cannot afford to support a large population. 16. Describe the following residential patterns: patrilocality, matrilocality, and bilocality. Once individuals are married, they must decide where to live. Patrilocality (patri means “father” in Latin) locality means location. In some societies the couple is expected to live with or near the wife’s parents. Patrilocality is the rule of residence found most commonly around the world. This is called matrilocality. Bilocality—bi means “two”—allows the newly married couple to choose whether they will live near the husband’s or the wife’s parents. Neolocality—neo means “new”. Married couples are free to set up a residence apart from both sets of parents. Neolocal residence is most commonly associated with nuclear-family living. 17.Using the visual on page 301, how might matrilineal descent affect the organization of these societies? Family members probably have closer connections with wives’ parents and relatives than with husbands’ parents and relatives. Societies that trace kinship through the father’s family follow the rule of patrilineal descent. Common in preindustrial societies in which men produce the most valued resources. In a patrilineal society, property is passed from father to son. Matrilineal descent—the tracing of kinship through the mother’s family—is much less common. Most industrial societies practice bilateral descent, kinship is traced through both parents, and property can be inherited from either side of the family These images show both parents equally involved in household chores or sharing chores and child care. Patriarchy is where the father holds most of the authority. ◦ The vast majority of societies around the world are partiarchal. Matriarchy is where the mother holds most of the authority. ◦ Very rare. Egalitarian is where both the mother and father share authority. ◦ The United States and other industrialized societies are moving toward more egalitarian authority patterns, but for many patriarchal authority is still the cultural norm. ◦ American couples are increasingly sharing the demands of domestic chores, earning income, and raising children. A 1950's magazine article on a wife’s place. An interesting article, taken from "housekeeping Monthly" May 13 1955. A Good Wife’s Guide •Have dinner ready. Plan ahead even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time, for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed. •Prepare yourself. Take 15 mins to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with allot of work weary people. •Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it. •Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. •Gather up school books, toys, paper etc and then run a dishcloth over the tables. •Over the cooler months of the year, you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by.Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction. •Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces ( if they are small) comb their hair and, if necessary, change their cloths. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival eliminate all noise of washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. •Be happy to see him. •Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him. •Listen to him. you may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first. Remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours. •Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax. •Your goal: Try and make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can renew himself, body and spirit. •Don't greet him with complaints and problems. •Don't complain if he is home late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count that as minor compared to what he may have gone through that day. •Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. •Arrange his pillow or offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low soothing and pleasant voice. •Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. you have no right to question him. •A good wife always knows her place. Regulation of sexual activity ◦ All societies regulate the sexual activities of their members to some degree. ◦ At the very least, they enforce some type of incest taboo. An incest taboo is a norm forbidding sexual relations or marriage between certain relatives. ◦ The incest taboo is found universally, but the relatives that are included in this taboo vary from society to society. For example, in the U.S. a person cannot marry his or her parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, nieces, or nephews. However, 20 states allow marriages between first cousins. Six (6) states allow under certain circumstances. People 50 or older. Twenty-five states prohibit this kind of marriage, including Kansas. To survive, societies must replace members who die or move away. In every society the family is the approved social unit for the performance of this function. Consequently, societies establish norms governing childbearing and child rearing. These norms determine such things as who is eligible to marry and to bear children, the number of children that is considered appropriate, and the rights and responsibilities of parents. Children must be taught the ways of the society into which they were born. The family is the first agent of socialization that most children encounter. As a result, most children first learn about the values and norms of society from the family. Parents, siblings, and other relatives usually serve as the earliest role models for children. The family acts as the basic economic unit in society. ◦ In most societies, labor is divided on the basis of gender—some tasks in the family fall to males while others fall to females. ◦ Most societies also have a division of labor based on age. These specific roles vary from society to society. Emotional support The family is expected to guide the individual’s psychological development and to provide him or her with a loving and caring environment. Sociology Chapter 12 Lecture Questions Section 2 ( pages 305-317) 1. USING THE VISUAL ON PAGE 305, HOW COMMON DO YOU THINK THIS TYPE OF FAMILY WAS IN THE 1950S? Probably not as common as television and other forms of American popular culture make it seem to have been. Traditionally the popular image of the “typical” American family includes a working father, a stay-at-home mother, and two or three children. Since the 1970s the percentage of married women with children and careers has grown. The majority of American adults marry at least once during their lifetimes. In 2000 about 56 percent of American men and 52 percent of American women. However, marriage rates are declining, particularly among younger Americans. Among Americans between the ages of 25-34 are the prime marrying years. Marriage statistics There were 2.23 million marriages in 2005, down from 2.28 million in 2004. Despite an increase in population of 2.9 million in the same time period. Divorce rates in 2005 was 3.6 per 1000. Compared to 4.2 in 2000 and 4.7 in 1990. The peak was 5.1 in 1981. Nevada had the highest divorce rate at 6.4 per 1000 in 2004. Massachusetts had the lowest at 2.2. Americans tend to get married more often between June and October, than any other time of the year. Only 63% of American children grow up with both biological parents. This is the lowest figure in the Western world. 3. Define homogamy and how it is related to marriage. Americans overwhelmingly marry individuals who have social characteristics similar to their own. Homogamy is based on characteristics such as age, socioeconomic status, religion, and race. In general, Americans marry individuals who are close to them in age, with the husband slightly older than the wife. Americans also marry within their own socioeconomic class. This is called homogamy. When differences do occur, it is often the women who is of a lower socioeconomic standing. In the case of religion, marriages between individuals from different Protestant denominations are relatively common. However, it is less common for Protestants to marry non-Protestants. The same is true for Catholics, Jews, and people of other faiths. 4. Explain how homogamy in marriage is related to race. Only 2.4 percent of all marriages are between individuals who are black and white. However, the number of interracial marriages in the United States has grown by almost 10 times since the late 1960s. Before that time, at least a dozen states had laws that made interracial marriages illegal. In 1967 a Supreme Court ruling struck down those laws designed to “prevent the mixing of the races”. Loving vs Virginia, 1967. 5. USING THE CHART ON PAGE 306, WHAT IS THE MOST COMMON TYPE OF HETEROGAMOUS MARRIAGE? Hispanic and other non-Hispanic Family violence Until relatively recently, it was considered a fairly rare phenomenon. Now, it is considered a serious problem among all social classes and racial/ethnic groups. Includes child abuse and spousal/intimate-partner abuse. 7. USING THE VISUAL ON PAGE 307, HOW DOES THIS IMAGE ILLUSTRATE THE EFFECTS OF FAMILY VIOLENCE ON CHILDREN? It shows a scene associated with family violence that children might see. Government figures indicate that battering is probably the most underreported crime in the United States. This type of violence can perpetuate itself through generations if it is not stopped. In most states, police will not make an arrest unless they have physical evidence that abuse has taken place. 85% of domestic violence victims are female Historically, the subordinate status of women probably has the most to do with wife battering. ◦ “Rule of Thumb” doctrine in England permitted the use of a stick to “discipline” your wife. The stick could not be any larger in diameter than your thumb. Some states in America permitted the disciplining of women, similar to England. Every 30 seconds, a woman is abused in the United States. There are approximately 4 million women beaten by their husband or boyfriend every year in the U.S. ◦ 6500 reported cases in Sedgwick County every year. 18 per day average One-third of female homicide victims are killed by their husband or boyfriend every year. ◦ This is approximately 1200 homicides or about 3 per day in the United States. (1 every 8 hours) 8 female victims killed in Sedgwick County (2007) Of those 8, all but 1 were trying to leave their abuser. 22% of police fatalities (deaths) and 40% of police injuries occur during a domestic dispute call. Alcohol is implicated in 74% of all domestic dispute calls. Women beaten once have a 65% chance of being beaten again. 16% of women are beaten in a given year. 28% of women are beaten during the course of their marriage. ◦ 12% of women will experience physical “dating violence”. 25% of women will experience psychological abuse from their dating partner. Vast majority of women return home three (3) times before leaving for good. Phase One – Tension-building ◦ Tension is in the air. ◦ She tries to do her job well. ◦ Minor battering may occur. Phase Two – The Explosion ◦ ◦ ◦ ◦ He loses control and becomes violent. Sometimes she will start it, “to get it over with”. He sets out to teach her a lesson. This is the shortest phase. Phase Three – In Love Again ◦ Tension is released. ◦ Batterer begs for forgiveness and promises to never do it again. Low in self-esteem. Believes in traditional home, family, and sex-role stereotypes. Usually emotionally immature, jealous, and unable to accept responsibility for his actions. May have a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personality. Uses wife-battering and often excessive drinking in response to severe stress. Wants to “control” his wife/girlfriend. Economic dependence. Religious pressure. “The children need a father”. Fear of being alone. Belief in the American Dream. Pity Guilt and shame Duty and responsibility Fear for her life Love It shifted economic activity from the home to the factory, limited the functions of the family, and changed roles within the family. Men became breadwinners, and women became homemakers. Women’s status within the family diminished, and adolescence emerged as a life stage. For example, telecommuting might increase the amount of time that parents can spend with children and lead to more equality of gender roles within the family. The U.S. divorce rate is approximately 50%. Rates of divorce vary among different segments of the population. ◦ Couples who marry during their teenage years have a greater risk of divorce than those who wait until after the age of 20. ◦ Couples who are college-educated have lower divorce rates than those who have not attended college. Divorce also varies by race and ethnicity. ◦ African American women are more likely than white women to be separated or divorced. ◦ Hispanic women, on the other hand, are less likely to be divorced than white women. Divorce has major consequences for former partners. In economic terms, divorce has greater effects on women than on men. ◦ One study found that after divorce, women’s incomes fell by 30 percent. ◦ In contrast, men’s incomes showed a 10 percent reduction. Conversely, women seem to make better emotional adjustments to divorce. ◦ Rates of suicide, alcoholism, dug abuse, depression, and anxiety are all higher among divorced men than among divorced women. Each year, more than 1 million children under the age of 18 witness the breakup of their parent’ marriages. ◦ Like their parents, children of divorce often struggle to adjust to their new situations. ◦ Studies suggest that children of divorced parents have more emotional problems and are lower achievers than children of parents who have not divorced. ◦ Some 40 percent of these children are still struggling to adjust 10 years after their parents divorced. 10. Why are divorce rates so high in the United States? Laws governing the divorce process have become less complicated. The cost of obtaining a divorce has decreased. No-fault divorce laws where neither party has to state a specific reason for seeking the divorce. These laws first emerged in the early 1970s, consequently the divorce rate has skyrocketed since then. The increase of dual-earner families has decreased the economic dependence of women. Society in general has become more tolerant of divorce, much more than it was 20 or 30 years ago. People expect more of marriage and are less ready to accept marital problems. 11. Using the visual on page 309, how might therapy help prevent divorce? • By helping couples learn to communicate better and to understand and address some of their problems better. Propensity for stability in marriage Study by M. Stephens (1989) • Factors ▫ Very reliable (class A) ▫ Less reliable, not tested extensively (class B) ▫ Least reliable, some things to consider (class C) Class A Factors • Age ▫ Optimal age is 23-26 ▫ 27 and higher have increased divorce rates However, not as high as teen marriages Class A Factors • Length of relationship ▫ Longer the better ▫ Lower (at least one year of dating) ▫ Upper (5-6 years) Class A Factors • Premarital pregnancy ▫ Increased divorce rate, if a child is born in the first year of marriage Class A Factors • Religiousity ▫ People of the same religious belief, have lower divorce rates. ▫ The larger the wedding ($), the lower the divorce rate. ▫ If married by a religious ceremony, the lower the divorce rate. Class A Factors • Social class ▫ The lower the social class, the higher the divorce rate. ▫ Similarity of class is important ! If a female marries below her class, there is an increased chance of divorce. Class B Factors • Level of education ▫ As the level of education rises, the chances of divorce falls. Class B Factors • Previous divorce ▫ If you have been previously divorced, your divorce rate is higher. Class B Factors • Divorced parents ▫ If your parents were divorced, your chances for divorce are higher. Class B Factors • Where you live ▫ Urban areas have higher divorce rates than rural areas. Class B Factors • Parental approval ▫ If the parents approve of the marriage, the divorce rate goes down. Class B Factors • Sociability ▫ The more outgoing you are as a couple, the longer the marriage will last. Class C Factors • Differences in age ▫ Larger the difference, the higher the divorce rate. Males shouldn’t be 7+ years older. Females shouldn’t be 1+ years older. Class C Factors • Siblings ▫ Only children have a greater risk of divorce. ▫ Best match up Eldest to youngest ▫ Worst match up Eldest to eldest Youngest to youngest Divorce statistics • Current divorce rate in the U.S. is between 4550% • Second marriages have higher divorce rates than do first marriages. • Only 5% of the population marry more than twice. • There are between 1.0 to 1.5 million divorces every year in the U.S. Divorce statistics (continued) • Most divorces are not contested ▫ 85-90% are settled out of court. ▫ Decisions must be made on the following Division of property Custody of children Divorce statistics (continued) • The first three years of marriage are the most “divorceprone.” • As the years of marriage increase, the chances of divorce decrease. • Teen marriages have about a 75% divorce rate. • Prior to 1974, in a divorce, one of the spouses had to be blamed for the divorce. ▫ Old legal grounds Adultery Desertion Non-support Mental cruelty Divorce statistics • No-fault divorce laws (1974) caused the divorce rate to escalate in this country. • Some states are “offering” covenant marriages. ▫ Covenant marriages require the couple to undergo counseling prior granting a divorce. ▫ They also require a longer period of time for the divorce to be final. Empty nest—some parents have a tough time adjusting to being alone without children. However, many feel a sense of increased satisfaction after their children have left home. Recently, children are leaving home later than in the past. Some are returning to their parents’ home after living on their own for a while. Death of a spouse—women are more likely to experience this disruption. 16% of men over 65 are widowers 40% of women over 65 are widowers Widowhood creates problems for some. Identity problems for many women. Economic problems. 13. What trends in American family patterns have sociologists been studying in recent years Delayed marriage Delayed childbearing Childlessness Dual-earner marriages One-parent families Remarriage 14. Using the visual on page 310, how does this cartoon illustrate the complexity and growth of stepfamilies? By humorously suggesting complex stepfamilies for both children. 15. Using the mapping on page 311, describe the trends shown in the various graphs. What do you think helped to bring about these trends? Fewer Americans are married, more are divorced, and more married women—both with and without children—are part of the workforce. Causes include industrialization, the women’s movement, a rise in the average age at marriage, and fewer social taboos against divorce. 16. What is delayed marriage? List five (5) statistics to support your answer. • 1890-median age at 1st marriage for women was 22.0 and 26.1 for men ▫ 1960-ages dropped to 20.3 for women and 22.8 for men ▫ 2000-ages rose to 25.1 for women and 26.8 for men • Some sociologists view this tendency toward later marriage as an indication that being single is acceptable socially. • Also, most sociologists note that most young people today are delaying marriage in order to finish their education and to launch their careers. • The numbers may be skewed due to the number of couples living together outside of marriage. ▫ Cohabitation numbers have increased from 523,000 in 1970 to 3.8 million in 2000. Cohabitation now precedes more than half of all first marriages. 17. What is delayed childbearing? List three (3) statistics to support your answer. What is a sandwich generation? In the 1960s the average length of time between marriage and the birth of the first child was 15 months. By the 1970s that interval had increased to 27 months. Women between the ages of 30 and 34 accounted for 23 percent of all births in 1998. Women between the ages of 35-39 accounted for 12 percent of all births during the same time period. Today it is not at all uncommon for women to have their first child after the age of 30. The reasons for this delay is simple—to allow time to complete education and to establish a career. Delayed childbearing can lead to caring for young children and at the same time caring for an aging parent. This is called the sandwich generation. A little less than 5 years. 18. Using the graph on page 312, how many years has the median age of marriage for women increased between 1960 and 1998? Finding time to do their work, spend quality time with their family, and handle domestic tasks. 20. Describe childlessness and voluntary childlessness. Childlessness can be the result of delayed childbearing too long or the result of infertility. Some couples choose never to have children. This conscious choice to remain childless is called voluntary childlessness. In 2000, 22 percent of married women between the ages of 30-44 had no children. Among childless married women in their early 30s, a little more than 40 percent had no plans to have children in the future. Other studies have found that married couples who choose to remain childless often have high levels of education and income. The percentage of married women who work outside the home increased steadily for more than 50 years until the mid 1990s. ◦ In 1940 about 17 percent of married women were employed outside the home. ◦ This figure rose to 22 percent after WWII in 1948. ◦ By 1960 the number of married women in the labor force had grown to 31 percent. ◦ Today about 61 percent of all married women work outside the home at least part-time. The reason this number has risen is simple—economic necessity. ◦ Few families today can survive or live as comfortably as they want on a single salary. ◦ Education enables women to pursue more-attractive better-paying positions in the labor market. The Family Medical Leave Act was passed in 1993 and allowed women to care for their newborn children without dropping out of the labor force. ◦ The FMLA allows workers to take up to 12 weeks off of unpaid leave to care for children or family members. 22. Using the economics section on page 314, what two types of evidence do the studies use to suggest that gender roles in dual-earner families may be changing? What changes in the way people work do you think need to be made to make life easier for dual-earner families? Explain you answers. In many dual-earner families, the wife earns more than the husband does, and the amount of time women spend on housekeeping is on the decline. More flexible work schedules or telecommuting. 53 percent (22 percent non-relative + 31 percent day-care center/nursery school, etc.) 24. What is a one-parent family? List five (5) statistics to support your answer. • One-parent families are formed through separation, divorce, death of a spouse, births to unwed mothers, or adoption by unmarried individuals. ▫ However, in the U.S. most one-parent families are the result of divorce or of births to unwed mothers. ▫ One-parent families account for about 25 percent of the families in the U.S. with children under the age of 18. ▫ Women head about 8 out of every 10 of these one-parent families. • Single parents are subject to a special set of stresses and strains. ▫ ▫ ▫ ▫ Responsibility overload based on family decisions. Task overload based on home responsibilities like cooking and cleaning. Emotional overload in dealing with children. Financial stress. 31 percent (16 + 51 + 26=93; 93/3=31) 26. What is remarriage? List three (3) statistics to support your answer. We are seeing an increase in the rate of remarriage. In some 43 percent of the marriages occurring today, one or both of the partners have previously been married. The majority of the people who get divorced—about 75 percent—eventually remarry. The high rates of divorce and remarriage in the U.S. have led to a large increase in the number of stepfamilies. Stepfamilies, also called blended families, arise when one or both of the marriage partners bring children from their previous marriages into their new family. Estimates suggest that more than 50 percent of Americans have been, are now, or will be members of stepfamilies. Some studies suggest that it takes approximately four years for children to accept a stepparent in the same way that they accept a biological mother or father.