Family Functionalists • I. Functionalists argue their are 5 functions of the family • A. Regulation of Sex B. Reproduction • C. Socialization • D. CARE AND PROTECTION • E. SOCIAL PLACEMENT • EVALUATION: --ignores diversity in family life in US • --overlooks some of the controversies of family life (violence, patriarchy) CONFLICT PERSPECTIVE • • • • • A. PROPERTY AND INHERITANCE B. PATRIARCHY C. RACE AND ETHNICITY EVALUATION: --reveals another side of the family that is usually ignored. • --but the family appears to carry out many social functions that are not easily accomplished by other means. INTERACTIONISM • A. Symbolic interactionist • people actively construct family life, and all view it differently depending on their construction. B. Social exchange analysis • depicts courtship and marriage as forms of negotiation. • EVALUATION: • --gives us sense of individual version • --misses the big picture • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • DEFINITIONS I. Nuclear family: household of spouses and offspring II. Extended family: household of several generations and their children. Core: blood relatives III. Family of orientation: the family you are born into IV. Family of procreation: the family you create V. Endogamy: marriage between people of the same social category VI. Exogamy: marriage between people of different social categories. VII. Monogamy: marriage involving 2 partners VIII. Polygamy: marriage that unites three or more people. IX. Patrilineal Descent: view as relatives only those related to the male parents and fathers pass on property to their sons. X. Matrilineal descent: define only the mothers kin as relatives and mothers pass on property to daughters. XI. Bilateral descent: tracing through both SEVEN ELEMENTS OF A FUNCTIONAL FAMILY • • • • I. Families change over time, they EVOLVE II. Communication III. Affirmation and Respect IV. Humor, play and leisure V. Responsibility and Morality • VI. Creating traditions and family history • VII. Seek help when need it. Dysfunctional Families • Dynamic of dysfunctional families is FAMILY SECRETS. • Generally there is a great deal of energy put into keeping this secret. • I. Alcohol drug abuse • • II. Abuse in the household Stages of Family Life • Courtship and Romantic Love – Cognitive obsession – Reciprocity – Concern with sexual passion and interest – Shared identity After about 90 days the couple reintegrates themselves into the group Marriage • 90 percent of Americans will marry – Undermines romantic love – Social class – Gender differences Child Rearing • Industrialization has changed children from being an asset to being an economic burden. The expense of raising one child is $300,000 (includes a college education). Child Rearing by Class Blue Collar/working class • More authoritiarian • Physical discipline • Obey parents • Neat • Average student • Good manners Middle class • Emphasis on self control • Curiosity encouraged • Responsibility • Understanding how lucky they are • Less physical discipline Family in later life: • • • • Empty nest Sandwich generation Retirement Widowhood Divorce • 9 out of 10 people in America eventually get married. But today, many of these marriages unravel. USA has highest divorce rate in the world. • 4 out of 10 marriages divorce (for A.A.’s this rate is 6 in 10). • 4 out of 5 people remarry within 5 years after a divorce Divorce Factors • I. Individualism is on the rise: • II. Romantic love often subsides: • III. Women are less dependent. • • IV. Stressfulness of today’s marriages: • • V. Divorce is more socially acceptable • • VI. Divorce is easier to obtain. • Alternative Families • • • • I. One parent families II. Cohabitation III. Gay and Lesbian couples IV. Singlehood