Agenda Advice on Introductions Qualities of Interpersonal Communication and Perception Ethics in Communication Motives in Communication Overcoming Obstacles to Clear Thinking and Perception Checking Advice on Introductions Pause – Speak – Pause Introduction Mechanics Delivery- poise, volume, eye contact Communication Apprehension Agenda Advice on Introductions Qualities of Interpersonal Communication and Perception Ethics in Communication Motives in Communication Overcoming Obstacles to Clear Thinking and Perception Checking What are the Qualities of Interpersonal Communication? Not just face-to-face, but interactions that treat others as unique, authentic individuals rather than as someone as an object or performing a role Simultaneous Mutual influence Used to manage relationships Chapter 3: Perception Perception Experience Results of p. 74 activity Preconceived Explanations Results of p. 89 activity Agenda Advice on Introductions Qualities of Interpersonal Communication and Perception Ethics in Communication Motives in Communication Overcoming Obstacles to Clear Thinking and Perception Checking Ethics of Communication Ethics Judged by Ends Sought Problem 1: worthy ends can be found to rationalize anything Problem 2: ends may be defined in very different ways Ethics of Communication Ethics Judged by Means Used Problem 1: there may be competing goals Problem 2: strained when dealing with unethical or totalitarian societies Ethics of Communication Ethics Judged by Speaker’s Intentions Problem 1: may excuse disgraceful choices Problem 2: actually just relies on the ends sought Ethics of Communication Ethics Judged by the Situation Defined: the view that “the right solution to any moral problem depends much more on the situation itself than on any general, external code; and that the key to the solution is always love” Agenda Advice on Introductions Qualities of Interpersonal Communication and Perception Ethics in Communication Motives in Communication Overcoming Obstacles to Clear Thinking and Perception Checking Motives of Communicators Motives of Communicators Physiological Motives of Communicators Safety Physiological Motives of Communicators Belongingness Safety Physiological Motives of Communicators Esteem Belongingness Safety Physiological Motives of Communicators Self Actualization Esteem Belongingness Safety Physiological Exercise Application of Motives Agenda Advice on Introductions Qualities of Interpersonal Communication and Perception Ethics in Communication Motives in Communication Overcoming Obstacles to Clear Thinking and Perception Checking Barriers to Accurate Perception Ignoring Information Overgeneralizing Oversimplifying Stereotyping Imposing Consistency Focusing on Negative Perception Checking Describe the other person’s behavior Give your interpretation of the it Ask if the perceptions are accurate Take a Break! We will resume in 10 minutes