Intentional Interviewing and Counseling: Facilitating Client Development in a Multicultural Society 7th Edition Allen E. Ivey University of Massachusetts Mary Bradford Ivey Microtraining Associates Carlos P. Zalaquett University of South Florida Copyright © 2009 Chapter 11 Reflection of Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing: Helping Clients Restory Their Lives Then I spoke of the many opportunities of giving life a meaning. I told my comrades . . . that human life, under any circumstances has meaning. . . . I said that someone looks down on each of us in difficult hours—a friend, a wife, somebody alive or dead, or a God—and He would not expect us to disappoint him. . . . I saw the miserable figures of my friends limping toward me to thank me with tears in their eyes. Viktor Frankl Chapter goals ▲ Introduce key influencing skills to help clients discover alternative ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving (restory). ▲ Reflection of meaning enables clients find deeper meanings and values and achieve a vision and sense of direction for their lives. ▲ Interpretation/reframing provides a new way of restorying and understanding thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, which often results in new ways of making meaning. ▲ Both skills are central in restorying, creating the New, and developing new neural networks in the brain. Competency objectives ▲ Understand reflection of meaning and interpretation/reframing and their similarities and differences. ▲ Assist clients, through reflection of meaning, to explore their deeper meanings, values, and discerning their goals or life purpose. Important in this is the process of discerning life’s mission. ▲ Realize the power of perceptions. The way you perceive things affect how you feel and behave. ▲ Help clients, through interpretation/reframing, find an alternative frame of reference or way of thinking that facilitates personal development. ▲ Understand how these skills bring about measurable change on the Client Change Scale. The Case of Charlis Charlis, a workaholic 45-year-old middle manager, has a heart attack. After several days of intensive care, she is moved to the floor where you, as the hospital social worker, work with the heart attack aftercare team. Charlis is motivated; she is following physician directives and progressing as rapidly as possible. She listens carefully to diet and exercise suggestions and seems the ideal patient with an excellent prognosis. However, she wants to return to her high-pressure job and continue moving up through the company; you observe some fear and puzzlement about what’s happened. The Case of Charlis Reflection Questions ▲ What do you think is going through Charlis mind? ▲ How might you help Charlis? ▲ What thoughts occur to you? ▲ What do you see as the key issues that relate to the meaning and purpose of her life? INTRODUCTION: DEFINING THE SKILLS OF REFLECTING MEANING AND INTERPRETATION/REFRAMING ▲Both interpretation/reframing and reflection of meaning: Seek issues and meanings below the surface of client conversation. Help clients find their “center of being.” Restory INTRODUCTION: DEFINING THE SKILLS OF REFLECTING MEANING AND INTERPRETATION/REFRAMING ▲ Meaning: purpose or significance of something. Reflection of meaning is from the client’s worldview. ▲ Interpretation: an explanation of the meaning or significance of something. Interpretation is from interviewer observation and perspective. INTRODUCTION: DEFINING THE SKILLS OF REFLECTING MEANING AND INTERPRETATION/REFRAMING Figure illustrates the centrality of meaning. ▲ Consider the relationship of reflection of meaning to other skills. ▲ All four dimensions are operating simultaneously and constantly in any individual or group. ▲ We are systems and any change in one part of the system affects the total. INTRODUCTION: DEFINING THE SKILLS OF REFLECTING MEANING AND INTERPRETATION/REFRAMING ▲ Eliciting and reflection of meaning is both a skill and a strategy. As a skill, elicit meaning “What does . . . mean to you, your past, or future life?” As strategy, you use all the microskills to bring out client stories, past, present, and future but the focus remains on client’s meaning and purpose in life. Reflection of Meaning Skills If you use reflection of meaning as defined here, you can predict how clients respond. Reflection of Meaning: Meanings are close to core experiencing. Encourage clients to explore their own meanings and values in more depth from their own perspective. Questions to elicit meaning are often a vital first step. A reflection of meaning looks very much like a paraphrase but focuses beyond what the client says. Often the words “meaning, values, vision, and goals” appear in the discussion. Predicted Result: The client discusses stories, issues, and concerns in more depth with a special emphasis on deeper meanings, values, and understandings. Clients may be enabled to discern their life goals and vision for the future. Interpretation/Reframing Skills If you use interpretation/reframing skills as defined here, you can predict how clients respond. Interpretation/Reframe: Provide the client with a new meaning or perspective, frame of reference, or way of thinking about issues. Interpretations/reframes may come from your observations; they may be based on varying theoretical orientations to the helping field; or they may link critical ideas together. Predicted Result: The client may find another perspective or meaning of a story, issue, or problem. The new perspective could have been generated by a theory used by the interviewer, from linking ideas or information, or by simply looking at the situation afresh. Reflection of Meaning Skill Function ▲ Find the deeply held thoughts and feelings (meanings) underlying life experience. ▲ Expect self search into deeper aspects of client life experience. ▲ Facilitate clients’ interpretation of their own experiences. ▲ Assist clients to explore their values and goals. ▲ Understand deeper aspects of client experience. ▲ Relate this skill to person-centered counseling. Reflection of Meaning Predicted Result ▲ Encourage clients to explore meaning and value in depth. ▲ Use questions to elicit meaning. ▲ Pinpoint “meaning” words—meaning, value, vision, goals… ▲ Reflection of meaning is a paraphrase with “meaning” words. Reflection of Meaning Predicted Result ▲ Generally, paraphrases speak to thoughts. ▲ Reflections of feelings to feelings. ▲ Attending behavior and client observation to behaviors. ▲ Reflection of meaning to meaning. ▲ Adherents of different helping methods view different areas of the model as most important. Reflection of Meaning Predicted Result ▲ For practical purposes we divide the client and the counseling interview into component parts. ▲ We must remember the interaction of all the parts of both the client and the interview. ▲ Remember, any change in one part of the system affects the total. Reflection of Meaning ▲ Meaning can be the central issue and where the most profound change can occur. ▲ Meaning-oriented therapies include psychoanalysis, logotherapy, and person-centered therapy. ▲ Integrative approaches consider meaning as a central aspect. Developmental counseling and therapy Multimodal therapy ▲ Other therapies, than meaning oriented, may be more useful for some clients. Alternative Meaning and Value ▲ Meaning is closely tied to thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and significant life experiences. ▲ What does “this” mean to the client? ▲ How does what the client is doing reflect a value structure? ▲ Can we find values that become the instrument of positive change and development? Comparing Reflection of Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing Reflection Questions ▲ How did reflection of meaning and interpretation worked for Charlis as she attempted to understand underlying issues around her heart attack? ▲ What differences did you noticed between both skills? Comparing Reflection of Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing ▲ Both help clients generate a new and helpful way of looking at things. ▲ Reflection of meaning focuses on the client’s worldview, seeks to understand what motivates the client, and provides more clarity on values and deeper life meanings. ▲ Interpretation/reframe results from interviewer observation and seeks new and more useful ways of thinking. ▲ Reflection of meaning gives client more control of the process. ▲ Both help clients work on the difficult questions of the meaning and direction of her future life. If the client does not respond to reflective strategies, move to active reframing or a theoretical interpretation. Interpretation/Reframing ▲ We use them together because both focus on providing a new way of thinking or a new frame of reference for the client. ▲ “Reframe” is a gentler construct that comes from your here and how observations. ▲ Interpretation relies more heavily on theoretical orientation of interviewer. Interpretation/Reframing ▲ Facilitates generation of new perspectives from which the client may act. ▲ Value of interpretation depends on the client’s reaction. ▲ Integrate other skills: Restorying, learn to talk about problems in a new more positive way. Reflection of meaning, except the interviewer is more actively involved in reinterpretation. Focusing may provide multiple perspectives. Linking ▲ Is an important part of interpretation. ▲ Two or more ideas are brought together, providing the client with a new insight. EXAMPLE INTERVIEW: TRAVIS EXPLORES THE MEANING OF A RECENT DIVORCE ▲ Travis is reflecting on his recent divorce. When relationships end, the thoughts, feelings, and underlying meaning of the other person and the time together often remain an unsolved mystery. EXAMPLE INTERVIEW: TRAVIS EXPLORES THE MEANING OF A RECENT DIVORCE Reflection Questions ▲ How was interpretation/reframe and reflection of meaning used to help Travis in this session? ▲ Why did Terrell introduce the concept of “relationship” in this session? ▲ How is the concept of self-in-relation perceived by different cultural groups? ▲ What are the similarities and differences between reflection of meaning and paraphrase? INSTRUCTIONAL READING 1: THE SPECIFIC SKILLS OF ELICITING AND REFLECTION OF MEANING ▲ Eliciting Client Meaning ▲ Reflecting Client Meanings Reflect Meaning ▲ Structure similarly to a paraphrase or reflection of feeling. ▲ Use the exact, key words the client uses. ▲ Reflect meaning, value and how the client makes sense of the world. Reflection of Meaning Predicted Result ▲ Client discusses stories, issues, and concerns in more depth. ▲ Client emphasizes meanings, values, understandings. ▲ Clients may be able to discern their life goals and vision for the future. Strategies for Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning A general understanding of the client is the critical first step: ▲ Use attending behavior, client observation, and the basic listening sequence. ▲ Reveal explicit and clear behaviors, thoughts, and feelings. Strategies for Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning Use storytelling to discover the back-ground of client’s meaning-making: ▲ Critical illness or loss force people to face deeper meaning issues. ▲ How do meanings internalized from this experience serve or conflict with current life experiences? ▲ Generating a new story may help resolve the issue. Strategies for Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning Questions may orient toward meaning: ▲ What does this mean to you? ▲ What sense do you make of it? ▲ How have your values been implemented? ▲ What is important (unimportant) to you? ▲ Which of your values support/oppose that action/thought/feeling? Strategies for Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning Reflecting the key meaning and value words: ▲ Use the exact, key words the client uses. ▲ Reflect meaning, value and how the client makes sense of the world. ▲ Structure similarly to a paraphrase or reflection of feeling. Discernment Identifying Life Mission and Goals ▲ Discernment: to separate, to determine, to sort out, or when the spirit is at work in a situation. ▲ Determining the origin of our interior and exterior experiences. (Farnham, Gill, McLean, & Ward, 1991) ▲ Describes therapists’ work with clients at deeper levels of meaning. ▲ Process where clients focus on future vision. Discernment Process Questions Leading to Discernment ▲ Here and now body experience and imaging Sit quietly and allow an image to form. What is your gut feeling? Get in touch with your body. What feelings & thoughts occur? Discernment Process Questions Leading to Discernment ▲ Concrete questions = story telling Tell me a story about this image. What are some blocks to your mission. What spiritual stories influence you? Name the feelings that relate to your goal. Discernment Process Questions Leading to Discernment ▲ Self reflective exploration What have you done right? What are your life goals? What does spirituality mean to you? What might you change? Discernment Process Questions Leading to Discernment ▲ Self-in-relationship and multicultural issues Family Friends Community Cultural groupings Significant other(s) Spiritual Discernment Process Questions Leading to Discernment ▲ Self-in-relationship and multicultural issues Issue Sample Question Family What do you learn from your parents? Friends How important are your friends to you? Community Culture Significant Other Spiritual How have people served as role models? How does race and gender impact you? What does she or he mean to you? How might you want to serve? Multicultural Issues and Reflection of Meaning Meaning in a broader life context includes… ▲ Race/ethnicity ▲ Gender ▲ Sexual Orientation ▲ Physical ability ▲ Language ▲ Socioeconomic background ▲ Age ▲ Life experience(s)/trauma FRANKL’S LOGOTHERAPY: MAKING MEANING UNDER EXTREME STRESS ▲ Frankl, a survivor of the German concentration camp, Auschwitz, could not change his life situation, but he was able draw on important strengths of his Jewish tradition to change the meaning he made of it. ▲ The Jewish tradition of serving others facilitated his survival. Frankl counseled his entire barrack, helping them reframe their terrors and difficulties, pointing out that they were developing strengths for the future. FRANKL’S LOGOTHERAPY: MAKING MEANING UNDER EXTREME STRESS ▲ Shortly after his liberation, he wrote his famous book Man’s Search for Meaning (1959). ▲ Frankl believed that finding positive meanings in the depth of despair was vital to keeping him alive. ▲ During the darkest moments, he would focus his attention on his wife and the good things they enjoyed together; or, in the middle of extreme hunger, he would meditate on a beautiful sunset. INSTRUCTIONAL READING 2: THE SKILLS OF INTERPRETATION/REFRAMING Microskill of interpretation/reframing ▲ Listen to the client story. ▲ Learn how the client makes sense of the world. ▲ Provide the client with a new perspective or frame of reference. ▲ Interpretation/reframes may… Come from therapist’s observations Be based on theoretical orientations Link critical ideas together INSTRUCTIONAL READING 2: THE SKILLS OF INTERPRETATION/REFRAMING Predicted Result ▲ Client may find another perspective. ▲ Client may find a new meaning attached to her or his story, issue or problem. ▲ Intervention can be evaluated (CCS). Client Change Scale (CCS) The Creation of the New Denial 1 Full Examination Decides to Live With But No Partial Incongruity Change Examination 2 Denies or Discusses fails to hear part, but not incongruity. all of incongruity. 3 Discusses incongruity completely, but will not change. 4 Discusses and is fully aware of decision impact. Decides to Change From Incongruity 5 Discusses and alters choices when faced with incongruity. Theories of Counseling and Interpretation/Reframing Interpretation From Different Counseling Theories ▲ Decisional Theory: helps clients find new ways of thinking about their decisions. ▲ Person-Centered: helps clients build on their strengths and find deeper purpose. ▲ Brief Counseling: helps clients find quick ways to reach central goals Theories of Counseling and Interpretation/Reframing Interpretation From Different Counseling Theories ▲ Cognitive-Behavioral Theory: helps clients link thinking and behavior. ▲ Psychodynamic Theory: helps the client link ideas about how the past influences the present. ▲ Multicultural Counseling and Therapy (MCT): helps clients reframe their concerns in relation to their multicultural back-ground. SUMMARY ▲ Eliciting and reflecting meaning is a complex skill that requires you to enter the sense-making system of the client. ▲ Full exploration of life meaning requires a self-directed, verbal client willing to talk. ▲ The skill complex is most often associated with an abstract, formaloperational interviewing style. ▲ With clients who are more concrete, you will still find that eliciting and reflecting meaning is useful. the approach to meaning taken by the cognitive-behavioral therapists is more useful with these clients. ▲ Highly verbal or resistant clients may intellectualize and take no action. SUMMARY ▲ Meanings are organizing constructs that are at the core of our being. Mastering the art of understanding meaning will take more time than other skills but you will find that completing exercises with reflection of meaning result in better understanding of your client. ▲ Before interpret or reframe be sure you have heard the clients’ story or concerns, and then draw from personal experience or a theoretical perspective to provide the client a new way of thinking and talking about issues. ▲ Focusing and multicultural counseling and therapy is the most certain way to bring multicultural issues into the interview. ▲ The effectiveness of an interpretation/reframe can be measured on the Client Change Scale. Key Points Meaning ▲ Meaning is not observable behavior, although it could be described as a special form of cognition that reaches the core of our being. Helping clients discern the meaning and purpose of their lives stimulates change and provides a direction of that change. Meaning organizes life experience and serves as a metaphor to generate thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. A person with a sense of meaning and a vision for the future often work through or live with difficult issues and problems. Reflections of meaning are generally for more verbal clients and is found more in counseling or therapy than in general interviewing. Key Points The how of meaning ▲ A well-timed reflection of meaning may help many clients facing extreme difficulty. ▲ It can help clarify cultural and individual differences, as the same words often have varying underlying meaning for each client. ▲ As meaning is often implicit, it is helpful to ask questions that lead clients to explore and clarify meaning. Key Points The how of meaning ▲ Eliciting meaning: “What does ‘XYZ’ mean to you?” Insert the key important words of the client that will lead to meanings and important thoughts underlying key words. “What sense do you make of it?” “What values underlie your actions?” “Why is that important to you?” “Why?” (by itself, used carefully) Key Points The how of meaning ▲ Reflecting meaning Essentially, this looks like a reflection of feeling except that the words “meaning,” “values,” or “intentions” substitute for feeling words. For example, “You mean . . . ,”“Could it mean that you . . . ,” “Sounds like you value . . . ,” or “One of the underlying reasons/intentions of your actions was. . . .” Then use the client’s own words to describe his or her meaning system. You may add a paraphrase of the context and close with a check-out. Key Points Interpretation/reframing ▲ The counselor helps clients obtain new perspectives, new frames of reference, and sometimes new meanings, all of which can facilitate clients’ changing their view and way of thinking about their issues. This skill comes primarily from the counselor’s observations and occasionally from the client. Key Points Interpretation/reframing ▲ Theoretical interpretations These come from specific counseling theory such as psychodynamic and interpersonal, family therapy, or even Frankl’s logotherapy. Clients tell the story or speak about their problems and issues. The counselor then makes sense of what they are saying from their theoretical perspective. Key Points Interpretation/reframing ▲ Reframes These tend to come from here-and-now experience in the interview or they might be larger reframes of major client stories. The reframes are based on your experience in providing the client with another interpretation of what has happened or how the story is viewed. Effective reframes can change the meaning of key narratives in clients’ lives. The positive reframe is particularly important. Key Points Interpretation/reframing at the deepest level ▲ Meaning affects interpretation. Viktor Frankl constantly reframed his experience in the German concentration camp, integrating here-and-now positive reframing with meaning. The major reframe of such traumatic experience, of course, is “I survived” or “You survived.” Despite the traumatic experience (war, rape, accident), you are still here with the possibility of changing a part of the world. COMPETENCY PRACTICE EXERCISE AND SELF-ASSESSMENT Chapter 11 Individual Practice Group practice Self-assessment Individual Practice Exercise 1: Identification of Skills IIC Read the following client statement. Which of the following counselor responses are paraphrases (P), reflections of feeling (RF), reflections of meaning (RM), or interpretations/reframes? I feel very sad and lonely. I thought Jose was the one for me. He’s gone now. After our breakup I saw a lot of people but no one special. Jose seemed to care for me and make it easy for me. Before that I had fun, particularly with Carlos. But it seemed at the end to be just sex. It appears Jose was it; we seemed so close. Individual Practice Exercise 1: Identification of Skills IIC ____ “You’re really hurting and feeling sad right now.” ____“Since the break-up you’ve seen a lot of people, but Jose provided the most of what you wanted.” ____ Sounds like you searching for someone to act as the father you never had and Jose was part of that. ____ Another way to look at it is that you unconsciously don’t really want to get close; and when you get really close, the relationship ends. ____“Looks like the sense of peace, caring, ease, and closeness meant an awful lot to you.” ____“You felt really close to Jose and now are sad and lonely.” ____“Peace, caring, and having someone special mean a lot to you. Jose represented that to you. Carlos seemed to mean mainly fun, and you found no real meaning with him. Is that close?” Individual Practice Exercise 1: Identification of Skills IIC List possible single-word encouragers for the same client statement. You will find that the use of single-word encouragers leads your client to talk more deeply about the unique meanings underlying behavior and thought. Search carefully for key words, repeat them, and then reflect meaning. Individual Practice Exercise 2: : Identifying Client Issues of Meaning IIC To identify underlying meanings for yourself, talk with a client, or someone posing as a client, observing his or her key words. Use those key words as the basis of encouragers, paraphrasing, and questioning to elicit meaning. This should be done with considerable sensitivity to the client and her or his needs. Record the results of your experience with this important exercise. You will want to record patterns of meaning-making. Individual Practice. Exercise 3: Questioning to Elicit Meanings IIC Assume a client comes to you and talks about an important issue in her or his life (for instance, divorce, death, retirement, a pregnant daughter). Write five questions that might be useful in bringing out the meaning of the event. Individual Practice. Exercise 4: Practice of Skills in Other Settings IIC During conversations with friends or in your own interviews, practice eliciting meaning through a combination of questioning and single-word encouragers, and then reflect the meaning back. You will often find that single-word encouragers lead people to talk about meaningful issues. Record your observations of the value of this practice. What one thing stands out from your experience? Individual Practice. Exercise 5: Discernment: Examining One’s Purpose and Mission IIC Using the suggestions in this chapter, work through each of the four sets of questions. You can do this by yourself, using a meditative approach and journaling. or with a classmate. Allow yourself time to think carefully about each area. Add questions and topics that occur to you—make this exercise fully personal. What do you learn from this exercise about your own life and wishes? Individual Practice. Exercise 6: Individual Practice in Interpretation/Reframing IIC Interpretations provide alternative frames of reference or perspectives for events in a client’s life. In the following examples, provide an attending response (question, reflection of feeling, or the like) and then write an interpretation. Include a check-out in your interpretation. Individual Practice. Exercise 6: Individual Practice in Interpretation/Reframing IIC Example A I was passed over for promotion for the third time. Our company is under fire for sex discrimination, and each time a woman gets the job over me. I know it’s not my fault at all, but somehow I feel inadequate. Listening response Interpretation/reframe from a psychodynamic frame of reference (i.e., an interpretation that relates present behavior to something from the past) Interpretation/reframe from a gender frame of reference Interpretation/reframe from your own frame of reference in ways that are appropriate for varying clients Individual Practice. Exercise 6: Individual Practice in Interpretation/Reframing IIC Example B “I’m thinking of trying some pot. Yeah, I’m only 13, but I’ve been around a lot. My parents really object to it. I can’t see why they do. My friends are all into it and seem to be doing fine.” Listening response Reframe from a conservative frame of reference (one that opposes the use of drugs) Reframe from an occasional user’s frame of reference Interpretation from your own frame of reference on this issue_ Group Practice -- Exercise 7: Systematic Group Practice in Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning IIC Reflection of Meaning Separate into groups of four. Select a group leader. Assign roles for the first practice session. Interviewer Client Observer 1 Observer 2 Group Practice -- Exercise 7: Systematic Group Practice in Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning IIC Reflection of Meaning Select and plan a topic. My thoughts about spirituality… The center of my life is…. The most important event of my life… My thoughts about moving to… Conduct a 5-minutes practice session with focus on reflection of meaning Group Practice -- Exercise 7: Systematic Group Practice in Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning IIC Sample microskills for eliciting meaning: Open question – “Could you tell me more?” Encourager/Paraphrase – focus on key words. Reflect Feeling – be in touch with client emotions. Questions – specifically related to meaning. Reflect Meaning of the event back to the client. Group Practice -- Exercise 7: Systematic Group Practice in Eliciting and Reflecting Meaning IIC Reflection of Meaning Review the Session Observers use Reflection of Meaning Feedback Form. Observer 1 pinpoint client statements. Observer 2 pinpoint interviewer statements. Client uses Client Feedback Form. Rotate roles and repeat. CLIENT FEEDBACK FORM IIC (from Ch. 1) In practice sessions, it is very helpful to get immediate feedback. As you practice the microskills, use the Client Feedback Form. FORM IIC Reflecting Meaning Feedback Form (in this Ch.) In practice sessions, it is very helpful to get immediate feedback. As you practice the microskills, we encourage you to use the feedback forms provided. We provide feedback forms for each specific skill. Group Practice. Exercise 8: Interpretation/Reframing Practice IIC Interpretation/Reframing Follow Steps 1 - 3 as outlined in previous exercise. Separate into groups of four. Select a group leader. Assign roles for the first practice session. Interviewer Client Observer 1 Observer 2 Group Practice. Exercise 8: Interpretation/Reframing Practice IIC Interpretation/Reframing Select and plan a topic. Ask client to describe something that is frustrating at the moment. E.g., “having to move to a different residence hall," "having roommates with religious beliefs different than yours," "trying to adopt healthier eating habits," "taking a challenging course," and "finding that you tend to procrastinate." Goals: listen to client’s story, learn how he or her thinks about frustrating issue, provide alternative interpretation, and link critical ideas together. Conduct a 5-minute practice session using the skill. Group Practice. Exercise 8: Interpretation/Reframing Practice IIC Interpretation/Reframing Review the Session Observers use the Interpretation/Reframing Feedback Form. Observer 1 pinpoint client statements. Observer 2 pinpoint interviewer statements. Client uses Client Feedback Form. Rotate roles and repeat. Remember to share time equally FORM IIC Interpretation/Reframing Feedback Form (in this Ch.) In practice sessions, it is very helpful to get immediate feedback. As you practice the microskills, we encourage you to use the feedback forms provided. We provide feedback forms for each specific skill. Group Practice. Exercise 9: Discernment Practice IIC Take another person through the discernment procedure, working carefully with each step. Share the list of questions and ideas with your client. Ask her or him to suggest additional questions and issues that may be missing in this list. Have the client define which questions he or she may wish to discuss. Use all your listening skills as you help the client find personal direction and meaning. What do you and the client learned? PORTFOLIO OF COMPETENCE What Is Your Level of Mastery of this Skill? IIC Active listening is one of the core competencies of intentional interviewing and counseling. Use the following as a checklist to evaluate your present level of mastery. Check those dimensions that you currently are able to do. Those that remain unchecked can serve as future goals. PORTFOLIO OF COMPETENCE IIC SELF-ASSESSMENT Meaning could be described as at the heart of interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy. Ultimately, many believe that our behavior, thoughts, and feelings are organized by meaning systems—our values, our important attitudes, and our beliefs. A key question we all face is "What sense does one make of life?" All else can be brought back to that central question. PORTFOLIO OF COMPETENCE IIC SELF-ASSESSMENT Moving more specifically, one of your clients has an important life experience. Asking them, "What sense do you make of that?" or "What does that really mean to you?" can transform an interview into depth exploration and clarify what occurred. What are your thoughts about meaning and interpretation/reframe? Can you help your clients explore meaning? How comfortable are you providing an interpretation or reframing one of your clients’ issues? SELF-ASSESSMENT Exercise: Self-Evaluation of Reflecting Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing Competencies IIC Go to Chapter 11 for a full description of these levels Level 1: Identification and classification. Level 2: Basic competence. Level 3: Intentional competence. Level 4: Psychoeducational teaching competence. SELF-ASSESSMENT Exercise: Self-Evaluation of Reflecting Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing Competencies IIC Level 1. Identification and Classification Identify and classify the skills. Identify and write questions that elicit meaning from clients. Note and record key client words indicative of meaning. SELF-ASSESSMENT Exercise: Self-Evaluation of Reflecting Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing Competencies IIC Level 2. Basic Competence Elicit and reflect meaning in a role-play interview. Examine yourself and discern more fully your life direction. Use dereflection and attitude change in a role-play interview. Use interpretation/reframing in the interview. SELF-ASSESSMENT Exercise: Self-Evaluation of Reflecting Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing Competencies IIC Level 3. Intentional Competence Use questions and encouragers to bring out meaning issues. When you reflect meaning, use the client’s main words and constructs rather than your own. Reflect meaning in such a fashion that the client starts exploring meaning and value issues in more depth. In the interview, switch the focus as necessary in the conversation from meaning to feeling (via reflection of feeling or questions oriented toward feeling) or to content (via paraphrase or questions oriented toward content). Help others discern their purpose and mission in life. SELF-ASSESSMENT Exercise: Self-Evaluation of Reflecting Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing Competencies IIC Level 3. Intentional Competence (cont.) When a person is hyperreflecting on the negative meaning of an event or person, find something positive in that person or event and enable the client to dereflect by focusing on the positive. Provide clients with appropriate new ways to think about their issues, helping them generate new perspectives on their behavior, thoughts, and feelings. Provide a new perspective via interpretation/reframing, using your own knowledge fromthe interview, helping your clients use these ideas to enlarge their thinking on their issues. Use various theoretical perspectives to organize your reframing. SELF-ASSESSMENT Exercise: Self-Evaluation of Reflecting Meaning and Interpretation/Reframing Competencies IIC Level 4. Psychoeducational Teaching Competence Teach clients how to examine their own meaning systems. Facilitate others’ understanding and use of discernment questioning strategies. Teach reflection of meaning to others. Teach clients how to interpret their own experience from new frames of reference and to think about their experiences from multiple perspectives. Teach interpretation/reframing to others. DETERMINING YOUR OWN STYLE AND THEORY: CRITICAL SELF-REFLECTION ON REFLECTING MEANING AND INTERPRETATION/REFRAMING CRITICAL SELF-REFLECTION ON INTEGRATING LISTENING SKILLS Meaning is a central issue in interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy. Interpretation is an alternative that achieves similar outcomes but with more interviewer involvement. What single idea stood out for you among all those presented in this chapter, in class, or through informal learning? What are your thoughts on multicultural issues and the use of this skill? What other points in this chapter struck you as important? How might you use ideas in this chapter to begin the process of establishing your own style and theory? Are you able to fine new meanings and reinterpret/reframe your own life experience? What have you learned about discernment and its relation to your own life? Write your ideas in your journal.