SELF CONCEPT Communication Applications Self Concept Notes •What is Self Concept? Self Concept Theories of How our Self Concept is Formed 1. Social Experiences 2. Social Comparisons 3. Reflected Appraisals Social Experiences • The thoughts that I embrace about myself as a result of my experiences with others. Social Experiences cont’d • The Circles of Influence – During certain periods in our lives we are influenced by the people and experiences they bring to our lives. Circles of Influence cont’d 1 – 2 yrs. 2 – 5 yrs. 5 – 12 yrs. 12 – 17 yrs. 17 - Social Comparisons •The thoughts I form about myself as I compare myself to others. We compare ourselves physically, socially, academically, etc. Reflected Appraisals • The thoughts I develop about myself based on what I think others are thinking about me. Self Confidence • Self Confidence: Belief that you have the ability to do things and to do them well. Self Confidence • What are some things that build up a person’s self confidence? Self Confidence • What are some things that destroy self confidence? Self Esteem •The value you place on yourself. Your self worth. Perception • A process of taking in information from your surroundings through the five senses. Perception • The way we see the world around us from our point of reference. Perception • The five senses are: Perception •How do you see yourself? •How do others see you? Perception • List 5 adjectives that you would use to describe yourself: • List 5 adjectives that your parents would use to describe you: Perception •What do you think is the most common mistake that people make when they form a perception of you? Name calling •Labeling “Geek”, “Nerd”, “Jock”, “Emo”, “Blonde”, “Goth”, etc. Stereotyping •A fixed or conventional expression, notion, mental pattern, etc. •Mind set •Mold How do stereotypes affect communication? Stereotypes •What are some ways that you stereotype others? •Have you ever been stereotyped? Mutual Respect •An understanding and acceptance of another’s point of view.