Interpersonal Nonverbal 1 Verbal Communication Nonverbal Communication • The words we use • Actions, vocal qualities, and activities that typically accompany a verbal message 2 The Nature of Nonverbal Communication • Affective • Ambiguous • Continuous • Multi-channeled 3 Functions of Nonverbal Communication • Substitute • Complement Verbal Communication • Contradict 4 Nonverbal Communication • • • • • • • • Facial expression and eye contact Kinesics (body motion) Proxemics and personal space Artifacts Touch (haptics) Paralanguage Chronemics (time) Physical characteristics 5 When nonverbal and verbal contradict, we tend to accept the nonverbal inference. 6 Uses of Body Motion • • • • • Emblems Illustrators Affect display Regulators Adaptors 7 Emblems Microsoft Photo • Nonverbal gestures that take the place of a word or phrase 8 Illustrators Microsoft Photo Nonverbal gestures that complement what a speaker is saying 9 Affect Displays Microsoft Photo • Facial expressions and gestures that augment the verbal expression of feelings 10 Regulators Microsoft Photo Facial expressions or gestures that are used to control or regulate the flow of a conversation 11 Adaptors Microsoft Photo • Body motions that are used to relieve tension 12 Facial expression is the strongest nonverbal communicator Of the face the eye communicates more than any other feature. 13 Microsoft Photo Eye Contact The majority of people in the United States and other Western cultures expect people to look them in the eye when communicating. 14 Microsoft Photo Eye Contact • Japanese direct their gaze to a position around the Adam’s apple. • Chinese, Indonesians, and Mexicans lower their eyes as a sign of deference. • Arabs look intently into others’ eyes showing keen interest. 15 Paralanguage Vocal communication minus the words • • • • Pitch Volume Rate Quality 16 Microsoft Photo Touch • Touching and being touched are essential to a healthy life • Touch can communicate power, empathy, understanding 17 Microsoft Photo Self-Presentation • What message do you wish to send with your choice of clothing and personal grooming? 18 Microsoft Photo Time • How do we manage and react to others’ management of time – duration – activity – punctuality 19 Polychronic and monochronic variations of time exist within cultures. Should we ask polychronics to conform in the workplace? 20 Proxemics - how we use the space around us - our environment • Intimate distance, up to 18”, is appropriate for private conversations between close friends. • Personal distance, from 18”- 4’, is the space in which casual conversation occurs. • Social distance, from 4’ – 12’, is where impersonal business such as job interviews is conducted. • Public distance is anything more than 12’ 21 Personal Space at Work Microsoft Photo • Your office • Your desk • A table in the cafeteria that you sit at regularly 22 Color Influences Communication Yellow cheers and elevates moods Red excites and stimulates In some cultures black suggests mourning Blue comforts and soothes In some cultures white suggests purity 23 Nonverbal Signals Microsoft Photo Vary from culture to culture 24 What does this symbol mean to you? • In the United States it is a symbol for good job • In Germany the number one • In Japan the number five • In Ghana an insult • In Malaysia the thumb is used to point rather than a finger -Atlantic Committee for the Olympic Games 25 To improve our communication . . . We need to monitor our own nonverbal communication and exercise care in interpreting that of others. 26 27