5: Inter-Act, th 13 Edition Nonverbal 1 Verbal Communication Nonverbal Communication • Spoken or written words • Bodily actions and vocal qualities that support, modify, or contradict accompanying verbal messages 2 Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication • Intentional or unintentional • Primary • Ambiguous • Continuous • Multichanneled 3 Functions of Nonverbal Communication • To provide information • To regulate interaction • To express or hide emotion and affect • To present an image • To express status, power, and control 4 Regulate Interaction Microsoft Photo Facial expressions or gestures that are used to control or regulate the flow of a conversation 5 Express Emotion or Affect Microsoft Photo • Facial expressions and gestures that augment the verbal expression of feelings 6 Types of Nonverbal Communication • • • • Body language Paralanguage Spatial usage Self-presentation 7 Body Language: Kinesics • Eye contact • Facial expressions • Gesture • Posture • Touch 8 Microsoft Photo Body Language: Touch • Touching and being touched are essential to a healthy life. • Touch can communicate power, empathy, understanding. 9 Paralanguage • • • • • Pitch Volume Rate Quality Intonation 10 Vocal Interferences • Extraneous sounds or words that interrupt fluent speech: – “uh,” “um” – “you know,” “like” • Place markers • Fillers 11 Spatial Usage • Personal space: the space that surrounds a person, moves with that person, and changes with the situation as well as moment to moment – Intimate distance: up to 18” – Personal distance: 18”-4’ – Social distance: 4’-12’ – Public distance: more than 12’ 12 Spatial Use • Acoustic space: area over which your voice or other sounds can be comfortably heard • Territory: space over which we claim ownership • Artifacts: objects we use to adorn our territory and communicate about our space 13 Personal Space at Work Microsoft Photo • Your office • Your desk • A table in the cafeteria where you sit regularly 14 Color Influences Communication Yellow cheers and elevates moods Red excites and stimulates In some cultures black suggests mourning Blue comforts and soothes In some cultures white suggests purity 15 Self-Presentation Cues • Physical Appearance – Race and gender – Facial features – Size and shape of body – Clothing and personal grooming – Body art 16 Microsoft Photo Self-Presentation • What message do you wish to send with your choice of clothing and personal grooming? 17 Use of Time Chronemics • Monochronic • Polychronic Time Orientation • Past • Present • Future 18 Microsoft Photo Time • How do we manage and react to others’ management of time? – duration – activity – punctuality 19 Use of Smell – Perfume – Cologne – Aromatherapy – Body odor Microsoft Photo • Olfactory Communication through: 20 Cultural and Gender Variations • • • • • • • Eye contact Facial expressions Gestures Touch Paralanguage Space Self-presentation 21 Nonverbal Signals Microsoft Photo Vary from culture to culture 22 What does this symbol mean to you? • In the United States it is a symbol for good job • In Germany the number one • In Japan the number five • In Ghana an insult • In Malaysia the thumb is used to point rather than a finger -Atlantic Committee for the Olympic Games 23 Improving Nonverbal Sending Skills •Be mindful of your nonverbal behavior. •Adapt nonverbal behaviors to your purpose. •Adapt nonverbal behaviors to the situation. •Align nonverbal and verbal communication. •Make sure nonverbal cues do not distract from your message. •Eliminate distracting nonverbal behaviors. 24 Improving Nonverbal Interpretation Skills • Be mindful that most nonverbal cues do not have set meanings. • Recognize culture, gender, and other diversity when interpreting nonverbal cues. • Pay attention to all of the nonverbal cues and their relationship to the verbal message. • Use the skill of perception checking. 25