Champions of Character Godinez Grizzlies Respect: Always treat others the way you want to be treated What is Respect? esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability: I have great respect for her judgment. Taking correction as something helpful, not as a criticism Giving 100% / 100% of the time Keep a positive attitude Avoid put downs Ten Ways to Demonstrate Respect 1. Listen. Acknowledge what other people have to say. 2. Support those around you. Your words of encouragement make a difference. 3. Represent the community well. Your actions reflect on your parents & siblings. 4. Ask questions. Show your interest! 5. Be honest. Integrity is the basis of all strong relationships. 6. Speak politely. Avoid putdowns and express a positive attitude. 7. Take care of property and the environment you live in. 8. Set a good example for others to follow. 9. Care for yourself and your body. Your health is an important asset. 10.Share your feelings. Communicate with your loved ones. How can you show respect to yourself & others? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to selfdiscipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that's real power. ~Clint Eastwood They cannot take away our self-respect if we do not give it to them. ~Mahatma Gandhi Responsibility: doing what is expected of you. Responsible 1.answerable or accountable, as for something within one's power, control, or management (often fol. by to or for): He is responsible for following the rules at Godinez Fundamental. 2.involving accountability or responsibility: a responsible position. Focusing attention and effort. Recovering quickly from mistakes. Staying positive no matter what. Accepting Responsibility No matter where you are – or who you are – take responsibility for your actions – what you do and what you didn’t do. Making the right decisions What kinds of decisions are you making? Are your decisions going to take you where you want to go? -Make your decisions work for YOU! What’s important to you? What are your priorities? Do your decisions support these priorities? Respect Differences What’s right for you might not be right for another person. Respecting differences is part of growing up. Priorities What do you do spend your time on? _______________ _______________ _______________ _______________ _______________ _______________ What is important to you? _______________ _______________ _______________ _______________ _______________ _______________ How do your priorities match up to your actions? Priorities What do you do spend your time on? Homework & studying Babysitting my brother Video games Friends Soccer practice What is important to you? Family #1 School #2 My team #3 Friends #4 How do your priorities match up to your actions? Ten ways to show responsibility in your community. 6. Take the initiative – Don’t wait for someone else to take charge. If you see 1. Speak up – if you see something that needs to be something wrong, say so. done, do it. 2. Volunteer – Whether it’s 7. Look out for you neighbors – working in an organized Taking care of each other is group or by yourself, make key to being a responsible a difference. community member. 3. Take care of your property 8. See the big picture – – ownership means Understand your place in responsibility. you community and your community’s place in the 4. Teach others – Share your world. knowledge and skills. 9. Be a role model – Whether 5. Learn from other you realize it or not, community members – someone looks up to you. Know that there is 10.Say thank you – Be grateful something to learn from for your gifts and everyone around you. opportunities. How can you show responsibility at School? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ The willingness to accept responsibility for one's own life is the source from which self-respect springs. ~Joan Didion I believe that every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty. ~John D. Rockefeller, Jr. Integrity What is integrity? adherence to moral and ethical principles; soundness of moral character; honesty. Doing what is right, even when it is not popular. What does integrity look like? 1. Integrity keeps commitments. 2. Integrity tells the truth. 3. Integrity takes a stand for what’s right – even when its not popular. 4. Integrity has a strong sense of self. 5. Integrity respects others, their beliefs and their skills. 6. Integrity is dedicated to a code of ethics. 7. Integrity has inner strength. 8. Integrity associates with people who have strong morals. 9. Integrity lends a helping hand. 10.Integrity has discipline and selfcontrol. How can I show integrity? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ Living with integrity means… Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Speaking the truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Integrity requires courage Standing up for what you know is right takes guts; you may be going against what all your friends are doing It can be lonely at times You may not be doing what is popular in doing what is right. Rosa Parks Servant Leadership What is a leader? 1. a person who leads. 2. one who guides or directs, as in an army, movement, or political group What is a servant? a person in the service of another Servant Leadership – putting your team or school first in every decision Tips for building servant leadership skills Know yourself. Know your strengths & weaknesses Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. No one is perfect; people make mistakes Find a role model. Focus on others. The best leaders are servants – they do things for others. Listen. Listen. Listen. Successful leaders listen to the those around them. Set goals. You need to know what you want and the resources you have available to help you achieve your goals. Ten ways to practice servant 6. Show respect. leadership. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Servants must respect leaders and Put the group first. True leaders must respect leaders know that the team servants. is a priority. 7. Find a need and fill it. Have confidence. Know Have courage to make that you will make the right positive changes. choices for your group and yourself. 8. Make a commitment. Plan for the future. Set a good example. Lead by example. 9. Think of your family. Avoid anything that would Communicate. Include embarrass your loved everyone in your group. ones. Be a friend. Treat everyone as you would like 10. Develop a sense of community. Work to to be treated. connect the people in your group. How can I Show Servant Leadership? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ Sportsmanship What is sportsmanship? 1. the character, practice, or skill of a sportsman. 2. sportsmanlike conduct, as fairness, courtesy, being a cheerful loser, etc. Reacting correctly even when others don’t. Good sportsmanship means good conduct. Know and follow the rules of the sport or activity. Respect officials and accept their decisions. Maintain self control at all times. Respect opponents, even when they win. Cheer and communicate positively React appropriately, even when others don’t. What does sportsmanship look like? 1. Encourage teammates. Cheer them on and applaud their efforts. 2. Know and follow the rules of the game. 3. Give your best effort everyday. 4. Respect the officials (teachers, parents…) and their decisions – even when it isn’t what you want to hear. 5. Respect our opponent. Avoid name-calling and dirty play (watch your language in general). 6. Accept responsibility for your actions and those of your team. 7. Avoid arguments. 8. Play fair. Respect yourself, your opponent and the game. 9. Follow the directions of your coach (teacher, principal, counselor, parent…). 10. Set a good example for others. Remember you are a role model. How can I show sportsmanship? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ Sportsmanship means good conduct!