Organismic view of emotions

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Chapter 6
Emotions and Communication
Topics covered
• Emotional Intelligence
• Understanding Emotions
• Obstacles to Communicating Emotions
Effectively
• Social Media and Emotions
• Guidelines for Communicating Emotions
Effectively
After studying, you should be
able to…..
• Measure your emotional intelligence.
• Distinguish among theoretical perspectives on
emotions.
• Recognize reasons people may not express
emotions effectively.
• Identify the expression of emotion on a social
networking site.
• Apply this chapter’s guidelines to enhance your
skill in communicating emotions.
• oblivious to others’
feelings and his own
• hurts and offends
others
• emotional ineptitude
adds to fun
Emotional Intelligence = EQ
• The ability to recognize feelings, to judge
which feelings are appropriate in which
situations, and to communicate those
feelings effectively
Carol Saarni’s “emotional competence,”
• involves awareness of our own emotions,
including multiple emotions experienced
simultaneously,
• the ability to recognize and empathize with
others’ emotions,
• awareness of the impact of our expression
of emotions on others,
• and sensitivity to cultural rules for
expressing emotions
• Although some scholars think EQ is not part
of overall IQ but rather a distinct kind of
intelligence, there is broad consensus that
emotional intelligence is important for
interpersonal effectiveness.
Emotional intelligence is linked to wellbeing
• People who have high emotional intelligence
quotients are more likely than people with
lower EQs to create satisfying relationships,
• to be comfortable with themselves,
• to work effectively with others,
• and to have better overall health
Qualities of Emotional Intelligence
• Being aware of your feelings
• Dealing with emotions without being
overcome by them
• Not letting setbacks and disappointments
derail you
• Channeling your feelings to assist you in
achieving your goals
• •• Being able to understand how others feel
without their spelling it out
• •• Listening to your feelings and those of
Qualities of Emotional Intelligence
• Being able to understand how others feel
without their spelling it out
• Listening to your feelings and those of
others so you can learn from them
• Recognizing social norms for expression of
emotions
• Having a strong yet realistic sense of
optimism
Emotional intelligence includes more than
being in touch with your feelings
(like catching a cold…If we express anger, others are likely to
respond with anger or defiance. On the other hand, if we
express love or yearning for closeness, others are likely to
respond more positively)
Understanding Emotions
Although emotions are basic to human beings
and communication, they are difficult
to define precisely.
Some researchers assert that humans
experience two kinds of emotions:
* some that are based in biology and
thus instinctual and universal,
* others that we learn in social interaction
• Many scholars don’t find it useful to
distinguish between basic emotions and
learned emotions.
• Many scholars think that most or all
emotions are socially constructed to a
substantial degree.
(For example, we learn from particular
others and the generalized other
when to feel gratitude,
embarrassment, and so forth.)
Emotions
Our experience and interpretation of
internal sensations as they are
shaped by physiology, perceptions,
language, and social experiences
Physiological Influences of Emotions
• Organismic view of emotions: we
experience emotion when external stimuli
cause physiological changes in us
• For example, when people smile
(physiological action), their moods
(emotions) are more positive, and when
people frown, their moods are more
negative.
• Emotional expression begins with a
perception of something, perhaps seeing a
gift with your name on it or noticing that
someone with a weapon is running toward
you.
• After the perception, we experience
changes
• After the perception, we experience
changes in our bodies: We feel a tingle of
anticipation on seeing the gift;
• Adrenaline surges when we are approached
by someone with a weapon.
• Finally, we experience emotion: We feel joy
at the gift, fear at the aggressor.
The organismic view regards emotions as instinctual
responses to physiological arousal caused by
external stimuli.
Perceptual Influences on Emotions
• Perceptual view of emotions (appraisal
theory): subjective perceptions shape what
external phenomena mean to us
Perceptual Influences on Emotions
Continued
• Cognitive labeling view of emotions: our
labels for our physiological responses
influence how we interpret those responses
Social Influences on Emotions
• Interactive view of emotions: social rules
and understandings shape what people feel
and how they do or don’t express their
feelings
Social Influences on Emotions
• Framing rules
• Feeling rules
 Deep acting
 Surface acting
• Emotion work
Reasons We May Not Express Emotions
• Social expectations
• Self-protection
 The chilling effect
• Protecting others
• Social and professional roles
Ineffective Emotional Expression
• Speaking in generalities
• Not owning feelings
• Counterfeit emotional language
Guidelines for Communicating
Emotions Effectively
• Identify your emotions
• Choose how to express
emotions
• Own your feelings
• Monitor your self-talk
• Adopt a rational-emotive
approach to feelings
• Respond sensitively when
others communicate emotions
Rational-Emotive Approach to Feelings
Common Fallacies About Emotions
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