sign in especially if you are on waitlist for another ministry session. G donate Session 1: ConceptionReclaiming Joy and Passion Session 2: Intra Utero DevelopmentReclaiming Peace and Security (KEEP SHARINGS CONFIDENTIAL!!!!!). prenatal After birth • (Not in Erickson’s staging) Who am I? What am I doing here/Am I safe? Where am I going? • How do I get there? (Do I lean on others or myself?) • Basic Trust vs. Mistrust 0-2y/o • Can I trust the world/anyone? • Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt 2-4y/o • Is it okay to be me? Do I have autonomy and choice? • Initiative vs. Guilt 4-5y/o • Is what I do okay? Is what I do “good” or “bad”? • Industry vs Inferiority 5-12y/o • How can I make what I do “good” and acceptable? 13-19y/o • Identity vs Role Confusion • Who am I? Who do I want to be? Who can I be? 20-39y/o • Intimacy vs Isolation • Can I love/interact with others? 40-64y/o • Generativity vs. Stagnation • Does my life count? Can I make it count? 65y/odeath • Ego integrity vs. Despair • Can I make it in the world? • Teens are looking at • who they really are • what roles in society they can pledge their allegiance to. • Fidelity—the ability to sustain loyalties freely pledged in spite of the inevitable contradictions and confusions of value systems. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. I Thes 5:23 It's a mistake to simply look at Heart Sync as: • SPIRIT = ORIGINAL SELF • Emotion of the soul = Emotion ID • Mind = Function ID • Will = Guardian (gateway) • BUT!!! THIS IS NOT A COMPLETE UNDERSTANDING. • • And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. Mark 12:30. And immediately when Jesus perceived in his spirit that they so reasoned within themselves, he said unto them, why reason ye these things in your hearts(kardia)? Mark 2:8 (Luke 5:22 similar) For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Hebrew 4:12. Though we want to know and tease out what is what, we don't know exactly where the soul and spirit, mind or heart begin and end. LET'S GO BACK AND LOOK AT THE HEBREW CONCEPT. And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath (neshamah) of life; and man became a living soul (Nephesh). Gen 2:7 • Nephesh: Soul. • Neshamah, Ruwach: Breath, sprit. • However, animals and humans have both. What differentiates is the heart. • • • • • • My days are past, my purposes are broken off, even the thoughts of my heart (lebab). Job 17:11 The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart(leb), O God, thou wilt not despise. Ps 51:17 Reproach hath broken my heart(leb); and I am full of heaviness: and I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; and for comforters, but I found none. Ps 109:16 A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart (leb) the spirit (ruwach) is broken. Prov 15:13 He healeth the broken in heart (leb), and bindeth up their wounds Ps 147:3 A merry heart (leb) doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones. • • • • • • • • Strongs H3820 Leb לֵ ב, H3824 Lebab לֵ בָ ב Inner man, Mind/knowledge/thinking/reflection/ memory/ understanding will/inclination/resolution/determination, Conscience Heart/moral/character Soul Seat of appetites, emotions, passions, courage • • • • Functional Self Emotional Self Guardian Original Self • • • • • Functional Self Emotional Self Guardian Original Self Rejected Selves • • • • • • • Other People My culture My career goals Money Time God Sin at work in me (the sin nature)/the devil I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it. Romans 7:15-20 • • • • • Functional Self Emotional Self Guardian Original Self Rejected Selves • • • • • • • Other People My culture My career goals Money Time God Sin at work in me (the sin nature)/the devil • • • • • Can I trust? Is it okay to Is what I do good or bad? (There was no sense of good or bad.) How can I make what I do “good”? At the end of my life, is it okay to have been me? (There was no death.) What was the main source for knowledge, wisdom and understanding to answer these questions in God’ original design? • • Can I trust? (Trust is built on relationship and not evidence. Confidence and faith is in what is what is not always seen in the natural realm but in what God said.) Is it okay to be me? Do I have autonomy and choice? Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent. John 17:3. • …the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship.[f] And by him we cry, “Abba,[g] Father.” 16 The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. 17 Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. Rom 8:14-16 That none shall perish. Each is out of slavery of this dark world. • • I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them. John 17:25 Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me… John 17:23 To be loved by us. First commandment. My prayer is … that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you… I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one— 23 I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. John 17:20-23 To love each other. 2nd commandment. Emmanuel Method Emmanuel Method • • Can I trust? (Trust is built on relationship and not evidence. Confidence and faith is in what is what is not always seen in the natural realm but in what God said.) Is it okay to be me? Do I have autonomy and choice?