Nervous Conditions Dialogues Notes Links Teaching Citations Nervous Conditions, written by Tsitsi Dangarembga in 1989, is a semi-autobiographical coming of age story about a young woman in modern Africa. The story takes place in Rhodesia in the late 1960s and early 1970s. The story centers around Tambu and Nyasha, female cousins who, until their early teens, lead very different lives. Tambu was raised on her family's farm in Umtali where she was responsible for household chores, gardening, and caring for her younger siblings. Tambu's dreams of getting an education are only fulfilled when her brother dies and she becomes next in line for school since she has no other brothers. She is allowed to stay with her aunt and uncle while she attends school at the mission. While there, Tambu shares a room with her cousin, Nyasha and the girls teach each other many lessons. Nyasha spent most of her formative years in England while her mother and father were getting their education. When she comes back to Africa she realizes the vast differences between European culture and African culture--especially where women are concerned. She experiences inner turmoil as she tries to come to terms with being a woman in Africa. As we see Nyasha's struggles through the eyes of Tambu, we begin to understand the continuing devastation countries are experiencing as a result of colonization by another culture. About the Author Tsitsi Dangarembga was born in Rhodesia, now called Zimbabwe in 1959. She lived in England from age two through age six. She then returned to Rhodesia and finished her schooling in a missionary school there. She returned to England to pursue a degree in medicine at Cambridge University but homesickness soon drove her back to Africa. She continued her education in Africa studying first psychology and eventually film production and direction. Nervous Conditions is Dangarembga's first novel. She has also written a play entitled She No Longer Weeps. Top Dialogues The Duality of Oppression: African Women Fighting for Voice Women in Africa must not only liberate themselves from the influences of colonial rule--they are also fighting the effects of patriarchal traditions in the history of their culture. Tsitsi Dangarembga's portrayal of five women in her novel Nervous Conditions is a striking reminder that African women are under a double yoke when it comes to making their voices heard. Pauline Ada Uwakweh, in her essay, "Debunking Patriarchy: The Liberational Quality of Voicing in Tsitsi Dangarembga's Nervous Conditions," proposes three categories of women characters in the novel: " the 'escaped' females, the 'entrapped' females, and the rebellious females" (Uwakweh). Uwakweh presents Tambu and Lucia as escaped females, Tambu's mother and Aunt Maiguru as entrapped females, and Nyasha as the rebellious female although there has been some discussion of whether Lucia is truly "escaped" because she is still dependent on Babamukuru's money to gain her independence. Tambu's mother is one of the entrapped females. She is bound both by the laws of her culture and the social stratification of colonialism. Because of her gender she will never be seen as more than a possession of the men in her family even though it is through the fruits of her labor that her son is able to go to school and food it put on the table. Because of her poverty, she will never reach an equal status with whites or the educated Africans. In addition, she is consumed with the fear of the fatal attraction of Englishness which, in her eyes, is devouring her family one by one. Maiguru, although educated, is as entrapped as Tambu's mother. Her education only serves to make her more resentful of her entrapment. Maiguru is still subjected to the demands of her husband and the men of her community. She knows and understands the "European way" but years of ingrained culture and patriarchy force her to keep silent and obedient. Maiguru's education is viewed as an oddity. The people of her village assume she was simply taking care of her husband and her family while they lived in England. Nyasha is the rebellious female. She has had the benefit of a British education and knows first hand what kind of lives women in Europe lead. She is ever aware of the differences in the way Shona women are treated compared with the treatment of British women. Unlike her mother, Nyasha has no memories of traditions and customs to silence her voice. Instead she finds herself caught between two worlds. Her schoolmates shun her for her white mannerisms and she has no Shona mannerisms to fall back on. Nyasha is truly a woman without a home, and as she struggles to make a place for herself in society, she finds that the effort just may kill her. Lucia can be seen as either escaped or entrapped. She is escaped because she doesn't care what people think. She is set on gaining an education and bettering herself and will use any means available to achieve those goals. She is entrapped, however, because she still relies on the men in the family, primarily Babamukuru, to fund her education. Tambu is the promise of the escaped female. She views the cultural differences in social status and gender equality from a vantage point. She has experienced secondhand through her female relatives the effects of patriarchal rule on women's self-worth and the effects of cultural conflict when Africans allow colonial ideals to displace their African roots. Tambu comes close to forgetting her culture but her mother's caution always returns to remind her and ground her in the reality of her ethnic heritage. Dangarembga chooses to portray these five women in this way because she is one of them. She is an African woman trying to find her voice in a male dominated world. Considering the double yoke of the effects of patriarchy and colonization that African women must overcome, it is little wonder that more and more African women writers are creating characters like those in Nervous Conditions. The Effects of Gender on Education in The Joys of Motherhood and Nervous Conditions "Can you cook books and feed them to your husband? Stay at home with your mother. Learn to cook and clean. Grow vegetables" (from Nervous Conditions by Tsitsi Dangarembga). In contemporary America it is often difficult for us to comprehend the acceptance of status relative to gender, yet, in both of these books we are hit in the face with the reality of gender "discrimination" in the African education system. (I put discrimination in quotation because I am viewing this from an ethnocentric background which believes in equality regardless of race, religion, gender, etc.) In The Joys of Motherhood, Nnu Ego and her husband, Nnaife, give up everything so that their eldest son, Oshia, can have the benefit of an education. The leftover money, if there had been any, would go to educate their second son, Adim. There was never any thought given to educating their daughters. Daughters were looked at as an investment. Hopefully, they would marry well and bring in a good bride price (which would most likely go towards their brothers' education). Nnu Ego assumes that her sons will come home to live and will care for her as she ages. "Nnu Ego realized that part of the pride of motherhood was to look a little unfashionable and be able to drawl with joy: "I can't afford another outfit, because I am nursing him, so you see I can't go anywhere to sell anything." One usually received the answer, "Never mind, he will grow soon and clothe you and farm for you, so that your old age will be sweet"" (Emecheta 80). Nervous Conditions, although it takes place in an entirely different area of the African continent, reflects the same values of gender education. Nhamo, the only male heir, was selected by the elders of his family to receive an education. He was then expected to get a good job and provide for his family. When Nhamo dies, the family eventually decides that it will be acceptable for Tambu, the eldest daughter, to receive an education since there were no more male sons. Tambu is also expected to provide for her family after she graduates and there is quite a bit of discussion among her family members about the worthlessness of her education since she would eventually only be helping out her husband's family and not her own. Both of these books seem to reflect the experiences women have had all over the world as they fought for their independence and equality. We have a difficult time accepting that these beliefs are still being practiced in some areas of the world. Adeola James goes so far as to suggest that "the real reason for the tragic disruption of society depicted in Things Fall Apart [by Chinua Achebe] is because the female principle is neglected whilst the male principle, with its strong-headedness and inflexibility, is promoted above all else" (James 42). In her interview with James, Buchi Emecheta responds to James' assertion: "I discussed that idea in my latest book, The Rape of Shavi, which is about the rape of a culture. At the end of that rape we find it is women who bring things together. Whereas, if they had allowed women to take part all along, maybe the rape would not have taken place" (James 42). Through their writing both of these authors attempt to bring to light the unfairness that still exists between genders regarding education in Africa. Although both writers were able to eventually receive an education, they realize that many of their African sisters do not and will not have the same opportunities unless someone speaks up for them--at least until they learn to speak for themselves. Top Notes Why Dangarembga Chose Anorexia There has been a lot of discussion over Dangarembga's choice of Anorexia as Nyasha's disease. Anorexia is usually not associated with African women and that is precisely why it was chosen. Most African cultures encourage their women to have rounded curves. Weight is often seen as an indicator of wealth. Some cultures even had a traditional "fattening-room" where adolescent girls were sent to be groomed into "robust marriageable maidens" (Uwakweh). Nyasha, on the other hand, had spent her formative years in Europe where the fashion industry and media promote thinness as a virtue. What disease could better portray the anxiety that Nyasha was experiencing? Used as a metaphor, the cultural ideals of the colonizers were virtually killing the colonized. The Importance of Hygiene When Tambu's brother, Nhamo, comes home to visit, he brings his toothbrush which he "brandishe[s] as a weapon of civilization" (Bhana). Cleanliness and hygiene are symbols of progress in the beginning of the book. Another instance is when Tambu doesn't want to wash her menstrual rags in the toilet because she doesn't want to dirty it. By the end of the story, however, these instruments of civilization become instruments of destruction. The toothbrush becomes the tool that Nyasha uses to make herself vomit, and she "was grotesquely unhealthy from the vital juices she flushed down the toilet" (Dangarembga 199). Dangarembga's use of two highly sterilized and valued, yet common commodities of the European lifestyle as the instruments of Nyasha's destruction shows the reader how pervasive and subversive the elements of colonization are in the lives of the colonized. Two African Novels Jessica Powers, a Master's degree student studying African History at the University of New York, has written an essay for Suite 101.com comparing Dangarembga's Nervous Conditions and Emecheta's The Joys of Motherhood entitled "Two African Novels." Recurring Themes in Stories about Colonization The following theme pages may further develop your understanding of post colonial literature as it relates to Tsitsi Dangarembga's Nervous Conditions. Assimilation The question of assimilation is omnipresent in post colonial literature. How has being colonized affected the colonized? The colonizer? When is someone "assimilated" into a new culture? How do they influence the culture they are assimilated into? Audience The audience an author has in mind for a written work inevitably influences the way in which the author writes it. Here we will start to look at how authors' intentions can be discussed in relation to the audience they address. Literary Influences Books fit into the evolution and progression of a preexisting body of literature. Where do they fit? How have they been influenced by previous literature? How do they influence literature to come? Emancipation Many authors utilize written material to influence social and political currents. Here we will begin to look at different means of social change authors write about, and how they are differently portrayed. Literary Style or Historical Fact Here we will begin to examine how authors--James, Equiano, and Zinn in particular--combine techniques of historical documentation with literary styles, and the effect this has on the interpretation and impacts of their works. Top Links ***All Africa is a website that is continually updated with stories from over 80 African news agencies. You can search the site by region, by country, or by subject matter. There is a site dedicated to African books and a site for women and gender issues. ***Zimbabwe Page through the African Studies Library at Columbia University has many researched links to enhance your understanding of Zimbabwe past and present. **Another page about Zimbabwe is presented by the University of Pennsylvania. This site includes a map of Zimbabwe. Top Teaching Teaching African Literature Books: The book, Long Drums and Canons: Teaching and Researching African Literature by Bernth Lindfors, is a good resource for any teacher who wants to incorporate African Literature into the curriculum. ISBN 0865434379. Another excellent book is African Novels in the Classroom edited by Margaret Jean Hay. ISBN 1555878784. Video: Africa is My Home: Atlantis Productions. This film follows the life of an African girl who is born at the time of Nigerian independence and grows to maturity while Nigeria confronts the issues and conflicts of a developing nation. Born Into Two Cultures: BBC. R.K. Narayan and Chinua Achebe read excerpts from their works and discuss their experiences as writers--what it means to be born into one culture and language yet to write in the English language. They gives special insights into the problem of operating in two distinct cultures. In Search of Myself: United Nations, Narrated by Alistair Cooke. Discusses the art and life of Nigeria; includes dancing and folk opera sequences, from works by Nigerian musicians and authors. With These Hands: How Women Feed Africa: A documentary presenting the stories of three women from three African countries: Burkina Faso, Kenya and Zimbabwe. Each woman tells in her own words of the struggle to feed her family. Discussion Questions For Nervous Conditions 1. Why does Dangarembga choose Anorexia, a disease very rarely found in African women, as the way for Nyasha to exert her rebellion? 2. Why did Lucia, who seemed so self-centered throughout the book, spend time and patience caring for her sister when she was ill? What lesson, if any, does Dangarembga want us to learn from her acts of kindness. 3. What would Tambu's fate have been if she had another brother? Would she have received her education? If so, at what cost? Lesson Plans McDougal Littell has a site dedicated to providing teaching resources for many different literature texts including Nervous Conditions. They give a summary of the text, some activities to use as theme openers, some crosscurricular activities, and some ideas for research assignments. Relevant Information Learn more about missionary activity in South Africa during the 19th century by clicking on the above picture of a missionary complex in Zuurbraak, Western Cape. Teaching Links Central Oregon Community College's Humanities 211 class has an extensive site dedicated to Tsitsi Dangarembga and Nervous Conditions. The site contains excerpts from interviews with the author; links to information about Zimbabwe, Southeast Africa, and the Shona culture; a study guide that explains the characters, family relationships, and places mentioned in the book; several chapter by chapter reading and study questions; links to scholarly articles available online; and a list of additional sources. Top Citations Dangarembga, Tsitsi. Nervous Conditions. Seattle: Seal Press, 1988. Emecheta, Buchi. The Joys of Motherhood. New York: Braziller, 1979. Uwakweh, Pauline Ada. "Debunking Patriarchy: The Liberational Quality of Voicing in Tsitsi Dangarembga's Nervous Conditions." Research in African Literatures 26:1 (Spring 1995): 75-84. Colonial & Postcolonial Literary Dialogues Home -- Themes -- Texts -- Links -- Search -- About Us Page Created by: Vicki L. Whisler Last Updated: June, 2001 By Tsitsi Dangarembga I can't seem to get an image from Michelle Cliff's "If I Could Write This in Fire, I Would Write This in Fire" out of my mind. She tells a story from her school days of classmate who had a grand mal seizure during the morning singing of hymns. "While she flailed on the stone floor," writes Cliff, "I wondered what the mistresses would do. We sang 'Faith of Our Father,' and watched our classmate as her eyes rolled back in her head." The white mistresses offered only their typical response as aid: "keep singing." The grotesque hypocrisy of these missionaries leaves me, as a Christian, frustrated and angry. Reading Nervous Conditions only makes me madder. Early in the novel, Tambu tells the story of her Uncle Babamukuru's rise to success. In doing so, she makes her message clear: "endure and obey, for there is no other way." By twisting the words of the popular Christian hymn, Dangarembga gives the reader a glimpse of the colonized view of faith. Christian love is replaced with obedience, hope is abandoned for endurance, and redemption is more like punishment. In Postcolonial Representations, Francoise Lionnet writes of how the Christian era transformed traditional representations of the body (the Greco-Roman emphasis on health and beauty) to those that emphasize suffering and death (Christ being the ideal representation). "The body," writes Lionnet, "thereby becomes a text on which pain can be read as a necessary physical step on the road to a moral state, a destiny, or a way of being" (88). Necessary? It repulses me to think so. Yet throughout Nervous Conditions Lionnet's thoughts are exemplified as Tambu, Babamukuru, and the other African characters are dehumanized by the whites. Baba is called a "good boy, cultivatable in the way that land is, to yield harvests that sustain the cultivator" (such a beautifully detestable metaphor). He is forced to take his family to England so that his position might not be given to "another promising young African." And he is taught to breed "good African children." Similarly, when Tambu receives the great honor of attending Sacred Heart (the Roman Catholic Church being the one which creates the most virtue), she is quickly relegated to a cramped room with the other Africans. Those professing to be servants of God, charitable workers, treat the Other collectively. There is no Tambu, Nyasha, Baba, or even Zimbabwean. There is only African. The other snapshots of religion offered in Nervous Conditions are equally disturbing. Through Tambu we see a child's image of God. She speaks of being caned on Monday mornings for not attending the previous day's Sunday School class. She waits in line as she and the other Africans are inspected for missing buttons and dirty socks. She sees her beloved uncle chastise his daughter for the embarrassment she causes him at church. And worst of all, she accepts it. Tambu (representative, obviously, of all colonized) is a character fighting to find her place in two worlds. She struggles to reconcile the traditional beliefs of the homestead with the teachings of the missionaries (and their contradictions). Her family says grace to begin a celebration then offers "much clapping of hands" and "praising of the gods for their providence." When Tambu eats dinner with her aunt and cousin she only knows that their prayer has ended when she hears "Amen." This white God, it appears, only hears the white language. The results, unfortunately for the colonizer and colonized, are miscommunication, confusion, and damage. For Tambu, this means that she mistakes the message of the whites for the message of the Bible. (Actions, they say, speak louder than words.) It's no wonder that she is unable to comprehend the stories of the Prodigal Son and Mary Magdalene. Undeserved forgiveness is as alien to her as physical resurrection. Trinh T. Minh-ha redefines anthropology as "gossiping,"—us talking about them. She criticizes anthropologists for their "prejudices as well as scientifical-professional-scholarlycareerist hypocrisy" and recommends that they(we) write "close to the other." In my discussion of religion, this means (I think) that it is ridiculous for whites to plan ways of converting the natives (to use a cliché). They(we) should instead examine critically what they believe and live accordingly. It seems that this is what Tambu begins to do at the close of Nervous Conditions. A dramatic change occurs when Baba decides that Jeremiah and Mainini must marry: Tambu disagrees. She struggles with her opinions of Baba and her understanding of sin ("It had to be avoided because it was deadly, I could see it. It was definitely black, we were taught"—wow). She struggles with the notions of witch doctors and marriages. But she is persuaded by her family pride, by the thought of her parents made comic relief, by the absurdity of the idea. In one passage, Tambu examines her beliefs and begins to grow: Babamukuru did not know how I had suffered over the question of that wedding. He did not know how my mind had raced and spun and ended up splitting into two disconnected entities that had long, frightening arguments with each other, very vocally, in my head, about what ought to be done, the one half maniacally insisting on going, the other half equally maniacally refusing to consider it. I knew it was not evil to have endured all that terror in order to be sure of my decision, so when Nyasha asked whether I would go, I was able to tell her clamly, 'No.' But I accepted that I had forfeited my right to Babamukuru's charity. Focus on Zimbabwe: Nervous Conditions (2) Tambudzai: While this is the central character of the book, I held on to her until this point because she puzzled, excited and reminded me of me so many times I felt dodgy and guilty. Tambu has (had) so much spirit and ambition, and did not mind her brother dying for her to achieve her dreams (not the part that reminds me of me). But Tambu’s sense of rebellion is mapped around a concept of progress that has been handed to her by circumstances. First, she sees the poverty in which her family exists, and is given ample opportunity to discover the other side of the coin through her observation of her uncle’s family. She is constantly comparing herself with those who are celebrated as being worthy, and questions why she herself has not been found so. One has got to admire her determination when she makes that trip to the town centre to sell maize that she has painstakingly planted, even against Nhamo’s evil attempt to destroy what she had worked so had for. One has also got to admire how much she wants to get into school, for she is able to see that it is because of education that Babamukuru has been able to achieve all that she has. Of all the characters in the book, she is surprisingly the one who most resembles Babamukuru. She is a real rags-to-riches case, but has a whole lot of determination that drives her towards her goal. The author of The Secret and any Obamaniac would be proud of Tambu!!!!!!!!!!! But Tambu, like Maiguru is a tragic figure. In all her determination, and in all her willingness to obey Baba, she is under-appreciated by him. He refuses to see her potential beyond the fact that she will get a good husband and be in a position to help the rest of her family. Also, and this is the part of her that most reminds me of me, she is quite uncritical of what is going on, and when she knows she should be critical, she struggles to push these thoughts to the back of her head. I say it reminds me of me because often, I found that fighting the system was so much harder, such hard work. It was often easier just sitting back and accepting what was going on. No, I am not proud of this, but that is the truth. Often, you want to get there so badly, you are willing to ‘suffer’, punish yourself to reach there. Always, an invisible hand is swinging opportunities in front of you, and you have to humiliate yourself to get there. Sounds pathetic but that’s exactly what Tambudzai and to a large extent most of us have had to go through to get to where we are. But I do not necessarily blame myself for it, just like I do not blame Tambu. What were her options? Defying Babamukuru like Nyasha did is a luxury of course she could never have afforded! Only Nyasha, whose blood ties disabled Babamukuru’s powers had the audacity to challenge that blanket god-like power when no one else could. Perhaps also, Tambu’s being a child also worked against her. Look at Lucia who countered Babamukuru all the way but still got what she wanted out of him. I suppose the weakness of Tambudzai is even more tragic because she was helpless in her limited knowledge of what she could or could not do. Like an overwhelming power against her, she had to suffer an intense patriarchy to get to what she wanted. Eventually, Tambudzai just suffers from the fate of ending up in a catholic boarding school. I remember going to a catholic boarding school, and some of those things that Tambudzai heard about these places are actually true. There were often young girls who were marked for entry into the convent. Their school fees were paid by the church and when they were ‘ready’ they would discreetly be recruited into the schools. It was always funny when some of them actually fell pregnant because that always meant the end of their careers in the nunnery and of course a huge disappointment on the part of the nuns. But maybe we are yet to uncover new forms of resistance! One last focus on Tambudzai: her relationship with Babamukuru. Particularly that fateful day when she dared to say she did not want to be part of the wedding procession!!! Babamukuru’s generosity is finally and completely put to the test at that point: he begins by torturing Tambudzai with ways in which he had been generous to her, and Tambu can only stammer in reply. That GUILT that she feels at that point would be a source of interesting reflection. It is a guilt filled with fear, the fear of that invisible hand taking away everything you had ever dreamed of…. But in the end, just like in the case of all the other women, Babamukuru decides not to push it too far, because he knows deep down, Tambudzai is so much more than he had expected. However, he punishes her, because she dared to defy him, a god! The character of Tambudzai is therefore one of guilt, fear and most of all extreme punishment and humiliation that she has to endure just to get to where she wants to go! Mppph! Nyasha: I had to leave her for last. There is a book I read in my high school, it was a set book, chosen for purposes of being examined on it at the end of the year. I think it was called Mashetani, ‘The Devils’. The details of it are hazy now, but I remember someone who suffers from a nervous breakdown because he or was it a she could not understand why everyone was so readily accepting socialism when he could see through the evil behind the architecture. I think it was that. The book was written by a famous Tanzanian writer whose name I forget now, but it was a stunning book, the kind we should be reading more and more rather than watching sex and the city:-) Anyway, what I got from that book reminded me of Nyasha, or is it that Nyasha reminded me of that book? Either way, it is with great sadness that I regard such characters, the geniuses who think ahead of their times, the intellectual who suffers because she can see beyond what is blanketing the truth. While the theme of the alienated intellectual is pretty common in African writing, it is still normal one of the most tragic characters. Mohammed Said Abdallah. That is the name of the author of Mashetani. (Sorry, had to put that in). Anyway, Nyasha is a beautiful creation. She says and identifies those aspects that are wrong with the system, the colonial and patriarchal systems. Unlike Tambu, she has the language and tenacity to identify these things and naturally falls out of favour with her father. However, the author refrains from using her forcefully as the voice of reason but uses her to explore the dilemma of the intellectual born way ahead of her time. In a tightly and unapologetically patriarchal society such as hers, clearly there’s no winning the war with Babamukuru and the rest of the men (and women, think of Tete), but she goes ahead and says what she thinks is right. Unfortunately she has a nervous breakdown, and during her moments, it’s clear she takes issue with the system and how people are accepting what in her mind is poison to their society. That she is Babamukuru’s biggest critic should not go unnoticed. She criticizes the power of capitalism, male power, presence of white people, the way in which the system is all for consuming the minds of the natives. Perhaps the whole book is about her, and Tambu and their inner turmoil’s, as they are the two characters most explored in this regard. I think I need to re-read the Wretched of the Earth before I undertake the arduous task of reading the sequel to this book, The Book of Not. Eish! Genre Novel (204 pp.) Keywords Acculturation, Adolescence, Aging, Body Self-Image, Child Abuse, Chronic Illness/Chronic Disease, Colonialism, Communication, Death and Dying, Depression, Developing Countries, Disease and Health, Domestic Violence, Eating Disorder, Family Relationships, Father-Daughter Relationship, Freedom, Human Worth, Illness and the Family, Individuality, Loneliness, Love, Marital Discord, Memory, Mental Illness, Mother-Daughter Relationship, Mother-Son Relationship, Poverty, Power Relations, Racism, Rebellion, Sexuality, Society, Women's Health Summary Tambudzai, the heroine of this female bildungsroman, travels from her small Rhodesian village to live in Umtali town with her successful, British-educated uncle and his family. She gets this chance for change and formal education when her brother dies suddenly from a mysterious illness a year after entering the mission school. The novel, set in 1968, unites a classic coming of age narrative with the particular tensions of an African colony under European rule. While Tambu struggles to assimilate into her uncle's family, her cousin Nyasha becomes a compulsive student and develops a serious eating disorder while struggling with the biculturalism of her childhood, spent mostly in the United Kingdom. Tambu's university-educated aunt gradually rebels against her domineering husband. Commentary Illness, and particularly eating disorders, are both a literal and metaphoric result of colonialism in this novel. The title, the book tells us, derives from an introduction to Frantz Fanon's The Wretched of the Earth: "The condition of a native is a nervous condition." Nyasha's anorexia is convincing both as a sociologically oriented representation of an eating disorder, and as a metaphor for cultural imperialism, the subtle and insidious domination of one culture by another--in this case, Rhodesian village culture by British colonials. Dangarembga focuses not only on domesticity and family life (including the more complex hierarchical structures involving uncles and aunts), but also on education, as sites in which cultural imperialism takes place. It's a particularly interesting examination of the complicated dynamic between British-educated parents who want their children to surpass them but feel betrayed when those children are so successfully assimilated as to have shallow or no African roots. The connection between colonial Africa and anorexia surprises students, and as culturally specific as this narrative is, it also strikes a chord in particular with students, who have assimilated enough academic/pre-professional culture to become somewhat strange to their families and friends, while not yet familiar to established professionals in their discipline. Tsitsi Dangaremba exposes a different facet of this dynamic in her book, Nervous Conditions, as she reveals the struggles she experienced with her brother, who was allowed to go to school, while her own inability to attend school was not regarded with any seriousness. The traditional view of her family and tribe held that the woman’s place was in the home and the fields. According to such an ideology, she would not have the time to think about school after she had finished planting, harvesting, and housechores. In an effort to raise funds to attend school, she plants her own corn to grow and sell. Comparatively, Shaw addresses the woman’s role in the production and distribution of foodstuffs. The Lost Sister, which comes from the ethnographies that Shaw draws from, focuses on a brother’s dependence of his sister’s independence. This underscores the entire system in which the male becomes a “big man” because of the female’s hard work. A twisted example of this is presented when Ngamo gives away mealies to the other people in their age group, and gains favor from others by stealing them from Tambu. Ngamo makes himself look impressive to others at the expense of his sister. Between Tambu and Ngamo, an underlying kinship connection also exists. Ngamo’s death leads their mother to conclude that Western education not only deprived him of his native tongue, but that it also caused him to drift further apart from his family, from familial duties (which Tambu finds disrespectful and lazy), until it eventually claimed his life. For this reason their mother was opposed to Tambu “taking Ngamo’s place”.