Sermon Notes A Christian’s Response to Death and Dying M. Mazzalongo bibletalk.tv Intro-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, 1969 5 Steps in Grief Cycle: 1. _____________________________________________________________________________ 2. ______________________________________________________________________________ 3. ______________________________________________________________________________ 4. ______________________________________________________________________________ 5. ______________________________________________________________________________ *There is a Biblical model for the believer’s response to death and dying in the book of Job. I. Job’s response to death and dying Job’s story.__________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Job’s story brings out the believer’s response to the problem of death and dying. Step #1________________________________________________________________________________ Job 1:20a_______________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ Mourning is necessary.____________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ Step #2_______________________________________________________________________Job 1:20-21 _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ If trouble doesn’t drive us to our knees, what will?______________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ Step #3_________________________________________________________________________Job 1:22 _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ *Kubler-Ross’ description of normal reactions are those of the flesh not the spirit. Job’s initial response was to: A. Mourn________________________________________________________________________ B. Pray__________________________________________________________________________ C. Contemplate___________________________________________________________________ Step #4_________________________________________________________________________Job 3-42 _______________________________________________________________________________________ Job learns that his experience of suffering is “worth it” if______________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Enlightenment is more valuable than______________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Suffering for believers brings them face to face______________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Philippians 1:21______________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Step #5______________________________________________________________________Job 42:10-17 God didn’t restore Job’s past.____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Restoration here______________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Restoration later______________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________ Summary/Invitation Kubler-Ross described_______________________________________________________________________ Job describes_______________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ We don’t control death and dying, we only decide___________________________________________! What is your decision?_________________________________________________________________