pgs. 440-456
“Not Afraid”
Eminem
“Dog Days are Over”
Glee Cast
1 . Definition of Emotion: 3 Components a) Subjective/Cognitive b) Physiological c) Behavioural
2. Expression of Emotion a) Nonverbal communication b) Cultural universals c) Individual differences d) Detecting Deceit e) How to cope with our feelings
3. Experiencing Emotions a) Fear b) Anger c) Happiness
4. Theories of Emotion
“Every feeling has its value and significance…”
Our basic driving force is to seek pleasure and avoid pain.
1. Definition: 3 Components a) Subjective:
Pleasant/unpleasant internal state + Associated thoughts & questions
Appraisals/focus shape emotional experience
Thoughts can intensify emotions b) Physiological:
Activation of the sympathetic nervous system (p. 441)
Changes in breathing, perspiration, heart rate
p. 443
p. 441, Fig. 10.20
C) Behavioural Reaction:
Visible bodily expression
E.g. change in facial expression and body posture
a) Nonverbal expression:
80 facial muscles involved
Distinct patterns associated with particular emotions http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TrgNKGjSyxA
Gender differences in reading and expressing emotions b) Cultural Universals
Facial expressions represent a universal language
For primary emotions: fear, anger, joy, disgust, surprise, sadness/distress
Display rules vary according to culture
Some individuals are naturally more expressive than others (see ACT items)
Others are conflicted about showing their emotions (see AEQ items)
Expression has health benefits!
Diary studies
Polygraph:
Measures autonomic arousal (emotion detector) heart rate, blood pressure, respiration rate, GSR
Lie detector has serious limitations (p. 442)
Micro-expressions may leak emotions
Be aware
Allow and accept
Regulate: What do you need?
Fear:
Can paralyze
Can also lead to adaptive response
Conditioning and observational learning explain acquisition of fears (mediated by amygdala)
Anger:
Appraisal is critical: Perceived offense against us involving a responsible agent.
What to do with angry feelings?
Hostile outbursts often lead to escalations
Brewing/holding-in also detrimental
1) Clarify misunderstanding
Assert how you feel, what you need
2) Try to see it from the other’s perspective
Allows forgiveness to occur
How happy are YOU? p. 450
Would more money make you happier?
Student aspirations
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FXFydMKIZRA
External events have short-turn impact
After some time, lottery winners are not much happier than paraplegics
GNP and subjective well-being across countries
Average American is three times as rich as he was in the 60’s but no happier
Relationship between wealthy and happiness is tenuous at best … Yet people aspire to make more money!
(p. 450-454)
Strong Predictors:
Love
Married people report higher levels of happiness
Work Satisfaction
Substantial association with general happiness
Personality and temperament
50% or more heritable, but not genetically fixed
Moderate Predictors:
Health
Particularly important later in life
Social Activity
Strong personal relationships foster better health and mood
Religion
Provides meaning
Comfort and support
Especially in times of stress
Nurture your relationships/ Find love
Practice Acts of Kindness
Find meaning and purpose in your life:
Through work or spirituality
Derive meaning from adversity
What doesn’t kill you will make you stronger
Practice self-compassion
Work on your outlook:
Don’t compare yourself to others
Focus on what you have (rather than what you don’t have)
Count your blessings; keep a gratitude journal
Don’t dwell on your setbacks
Distract yourself after a disappointment
Take care of your body
Does your heart pound because you are afraid, or are you afraid because you feel your heart pounding?
Fig. 10.25, p. 447
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