UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION OF INDIVIDUALS WITH DISABILITIES presents Parenting with a Mental Illness An Innovative Teleconference Co-sponsored by Mental Health America May 9, 2007 UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION After the Teleconference, please visit our web site at www.upennrrtc.org Parenting with a Mental Illness Teleconference Presenters Katy Kaplan, M.S.Ed. (moderator) Joanne Nicholson, Ph.D. Rebekah Leon, BA, C.S.W. Edie Mannion, M.F.T. UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION Please Note: The Teleconference Presenters have generously made their PowerPoint presentations available on this web site. Any information used from these presentations must be cited, and proper credit given to the author. Thank you! UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION Parenting with a Mental Illness Teleconference Presenter Joanne Nicholson, Ph.D. UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION Creating Options for Families Joanne Nicholson, Ph.D. Center for Mental Health Services Research University of Massachusetts Medical School Worcester, Massachusetts, USA Joanne.Nicholson@Umassmed.edu 508-856-8712 www.parentingwell.org May 9, 2007 Toni Wolf, Executive Director 82 Brigham Street Marlborough, Massachusetts 01752 USA 508-485-5051 twolf@employmentoptions.org Who We Are at UMMS: Multidisciplinary group: psychology, occupational therapy, public policy, mental health law, rehabilitation Researchers, clinicians, advocates, family members Parents with mental illness Strategic Planning Group EO, Inc. Mission Statement: Through inspiration, support & encouragement, Employment Options creates a home-away-from-home, where people can overcome barriers to employment and discover personal growth, selfsufficiency, and hope. Our Partnership 1995 –UMMS focus group at EO Members started talking Toni started listening Family Project began 1996 – DMH supported housing contract for services for 7 families First Steps Identified parents in club Began to identify needs Christmas presents Suggestions for visits Held holiday party The (original) Family Project DMH supported housing contract Parent is “identified client” Need for DMH eligibility Difficult to obtain Requires major functional impairment(s) Our Partnership (cont’d.) 1997 – NIDRR-funded Parenting Options Project Regional Clubhouse Parenting Consortium ParentLink Newsletter Parent Work Groups “Parenting Well When You’re Depressed” Family Project Developments Supervised visitation Home visits Collateral contacts Crisis on-call Social activities Advocacy for children Lessons Learned Focus on entire families “Warm line” vs. crisis on-call Aggressive care management Respite services Flexible funds Knowledge of adult, child & family systems “Messy” legal issues Long-term involvement optimal Our Partnership (cont’d.) 1999 – Clubhouse Family Legal Support Project (CFLSP) NAPIL funding 2002 – DMH funding 2003 – Massachusetts Bar Foundation funding Clubhouse Family Legal Support Project Consultation to adults re: custody & family situations Direct representation Attorney at Mental Health Legal Advisors Committee in Boston Attorney, parents & clubhouse advocate work together Our Partnership (cont’d.) 2002 – SAMHSA-funded “Strengthening Families” Community Action Grant Develop consensus re: families’ needs Consider feasibility of models like Invisible Children’s Project (ICP) Activities of SAMHSA-funded Strengthening Families Project Stakeholders recruited Champions created Data re: needs collected Community resources identified Relevant model (ICP) examined Agreement to adapt & implement family model achieved Outcomes of SAMHSA-funded Strengthening Families Project Concept paper Advocacy plan Exploration of funding alternatives Development of key stakeholder relationships Proposed model Strategic Relationships Formed MA Dept. of Social Services MA Dept. of Mental Health – children’s services MBHP – Medicaid MCO Family Network (early childhood) CMHCs Clinics Homeless Services Boys & Girls’ Clubs Early Intervention Local hospitals Parents Family Options “Building resources and relationships to promote resilience and recovery in parents with mental illness and their children” Intervention Innovation Involves entire family, including children of all ages (<18) who may or may not have “problems” Draws from what we know about evidence-based practice for adults with mental illness & parenting Builds on what we have learned works best in a clubhouse setting Requires shifting agency focus Theoretical Foundation Psych rehab (e.g., Nicholson & Henry, 2004) Attachment theory (Mahler et al.) Self-efficacy theory (Bandura et al.) Motivation/behavior change theory (Miller et al.) Strengths case management (Rapp et al.) Wraparound model (SOC) Resilience/developmental assets (Search Institute) Family Options Key Concepts Family-centered Strengths-based Family-driven & selfdetermined Recovery & resilience Family Options Key Processes Engagement & relationship building Empowerment Availability & access Liaison & advocacy Family Options Team Supervisor & 3 Family Coaches Clinical Consultant Provide: Intensive outreach Strengths assessment & goal setting 24-hour availability Flexible funds Liaison & advocacy Family Options Outcomes Parent & Child Well-being Functioning Supports & Resources Family Empowerment Supports & Resources Implementation Study Study process of implementing Family Options Examine impact of required paradigm shift within agency from focus on individual adults to families Challenges to Implementation – Program Level Staffing, hiring, and training Actualizing innovative concepts Working with complex families Allocating scarce resources Challenges to Implementation – Agency Level “Integration” of new program in existing agency Sustainability “We didn’t anticipate…..” Challenges to Implementation – Community Level Nurturing and educating community partners Identifying suitable community resources Respite Housing “I think my children had difficult experiences being raised by a mother with mental illness. I’m not going to pretend that it’s all been easy. But there isn’t anything that we experience that doesn’t come with some blessing. And I think there has been blessing, even in the hard stuff.” -Mother of two, living with mental illness Parenting with a Mental Illness Teleconference Presenter Rebekah Leon, B.A., C.S.W. UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION The Consumer Parent Support Network; A Comprehensive New Jersey Program Presenter: Rebekah Leon, BA, C.S.W. How to Support Parents with a Mental Illness Wednesday, May 9, 2007 The Consumer Parent Support Network: a Successful Program for Parents Coping With Mental Illness and Their Children The purpose of the Consumer Parent Support Network is to support parents with a diagnosis of mental illness in their parenting efforts and to promote the healthy functioning of the family unit. Learning Objectives At the end of this presentation the participant should be able to: • Identify challenges specific to parents with mental illness • Recognize risk factors associated with untreated parental mental illness • Understand the Consumer Parent Support Network Program We know a great deal about children from studies: • Children whose parents have a mental illness are at greater risk for developing problems than children whose parents do not. • Many children whose parents have mental illness do well. (Nicholson, 1999) Challenges Specific To Parents With Mental Illness • • • • • • • Medication Hospitalization Relationships with helpers Advocacy Child’s perception of parent’s illness Child’s role in illness management Communicating with child about mental illness (Nicholson, 1999) Parental Mental Illness Risk Factors • Decreased responsiveness/withdrawn from the child • Limited ability to nurture • Less positive and more negative behavioral interactions • The more severe and chronic the mental illness the greater the risk Risk Factors Continued • Inappropriate responsibilities placed on the child • Multiple separations from the child • Poverty • Lack of social supports Critical Components to Program Success • Individual Consultation • Parenting Education • Advocacy and Support • Linkage and Referral • Planning for Crisis Events • Workshops • Cross Systems Collaboration • Play and Recreation • Assistance with Household Management • Parent Mentor • Case Management Key Components to Service Delivery • Flexible Hours • Outreach Based Services • Bilingual Staff • Strong Collaboration • Services Free of Charge • Individualized Planning • Advocacy • Utilize Parent Advocates • Mental Health Education • Full Involvement of Parent • Entire Family Involved • Hands on Demonstration Ethnicity • White 19 • African American20 • Hispanic 39 • Other 2 (n = 80) Age of Participants • • • • 21 to 30 31 to 40 41 to 50 51 or older (n = 80) 18 31 23 8 Marital Status of Participants • • • • • Single, never married Married Divorced Separated Widowed (n = 80) 37 20 14 8 1 Number of Children • • • • • One child Two children Three children Four children Five children (n=167) 33 21 19 5 3 Income of Participants • • • • • • Receiving AFDC/Cash Assistance Working, Income Below $17,050 Working, Income Below $25,575 Working, Income Below $34,100 Working, Income Above $34,100 Financial Support from Family (n = 80) 50 18 0 0 6 6 Organizational Structure • • • • • • • • • • Board of Directors Executive Director Associate Executive Director Director Of Consumer Parent Support Network Assistant Director of Outreach Services Support Specialist Parent Advocates Administrative Assistant Volunteers Interns Parent Challenges Prior to Involvement with CPSN • 57 out of 80 parents were not receiving consistent mental health treatment • 80 out of 80 parents had many concerns regarding interactions with their children • 73 out of 80 parents were in significant financial distress • 61 out of 80 parents are raising their children without support from other parent Parent Challenges • 34 out of 80 parents speak Spanish only or minimal English • 36 out of 80 parents did not graduate from high school • 68 out of 80 parents had not effectively interacted with their child’s school • 45 out of 80 parents are facing critical housing problems Parent Challenges • All of the parents had reported significant social isolation for themselves and their children • The majority of parents have had some form of legal issue (e.g., debt, evictions, child support, custody, domestic violence) • All the parents reported significant difficulties with structuring their time and household routines • Many parents had not been following up with or aware of their children’s medical, behavioral, developmental or learning disabilities Outcomes • Parents will improve general parenting skills • Parents will attend to their children’s basic needs • Parents will learn how their mental illness affects their children • Parents will create a plan for their children’s care in the event their symptoms significantly interfere with their ability to parent • Parents will identify and create a system for social and family support Contact Information Mental Health Association in Passaic County Consumer Parent Support Network 404 Clifton Ave. Clifton, NJ 07011 Rebekah Leon BA, CSW Associate Executive Director 973-478-4444 Parenting with a Mental Illness Teleconference Presenter Edie Mannion, M.F.T. UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION How Case Managers Can Help Behavioral Health Consumers with Parenting & Child Custody Issues Edie Mannion, Mental Health Association of SE PA Barbara Granger, The Matrix Center at Horizon House UPENN Collaborative on Community Integration …What Should BH Providers Do about… • The responsibility to protect children and the mandate to report child abuse • The responsibility to support clients and develop an alliance CASE SCENARIO: A case manager is trying to help a client who is struggling to parent her sons, ages 5 and 3. She tells the case manager that her kids sometimes seem “possessed” because they throw themselves on the floor and use curse words. When visiting her apartment, the apartment seems dirty and disorganized, and the mother admits she has not cleaned it for the last few months because she is too “stressed out” from watching her “bad kids” all the time. The children seem to be of average weight for their ages and do not appear to have any signs of physical abuse, although their hygiene seems poor. They get their mom’s attention when they yell, throw things or bother each other. She claims she’s never had any involvement or services from the child protective service system, and angrily tells the case manager, “I don’t want nothing to do with them!” 1. Show Sensitivity to Parenting Issues • Ask your consumers about their children! • If they share parenting concerns or feelings about parenting or child loss, balance empathy with hope for having their parenting needs addressed • Validate how many parents with illness or disability worry about parenting or fear losing child custody • Reassure parents that if they want help with parenting concerns, you can link them to resources. 2.Will they commit to work on parenting issues? “ DO YOU WANT TO WORK TOGETHER ON YOUR PARENTING CONCERNS?” 3. Assess Their Custody Arrangements • Use “Child Custody Assessment Form” to explore child custody arrangements, identify key contact information and identify any concerns related to their children • Offer to link them to resources that address their parenting needs 4. Identify Their Parenting Needs A. B. Are sexually active, but no children yet Do they want to discuss birth control and readiness to parent? Have children with no custody loss (yet): Do they want help avoiding the risk of being reported or losing child custody? C. Are being investigated for child abuse: Do they want to know the do’s and don’ts? D. Have lost legal custody of a child: Do they want help with reunification? E. Have lost parental rights: Do they want counseling or support? Helping Parents Avoid Being Investigated Help parents understand state child abuse laws so they can plan ways to avoid unintended neglect or abuse of their children… Helping Parents Avoid Being Investigated (2) ● Help with organizing routines regarding school, health, dental, and play/social activities ● Linking them to resources that can help them understand & meet their children’s developmental needs ● Identifying respite childcare before needed ● Expressing concerns & problem solving if you observe warning signs of child abuse/neglect Helping Parents Under Investigation • Link to legal advice to learn their rights • Encourage them to allow DHS into their home • Discourage them from signing forms such as voluntary placement agreements or consents before consulting an attorney • Remind them that anything they say or do can be used against them • Identify any trusted family members or friends willing to take custody Helping with Family Reunification • Encourage clients to let you help them negotiate the child protective service system • Remember that any information you provide to DHS can be held against your consumer • Perhaps limit info to diagnosis, treatment recommendations, and compliance with treatment Helping with Family Reunification (2) • Provide information about your state’s laws and procedures for family reunification • Ask to see their Family Service Plan (FSP) • New federal laws mean that parents only have 12 months to achieve family service plan goals or risk losing their parental rights (adoption)! • Provide tips and resources for meeting their FSP goals FAST… Tips for Clients about Family Reunification • Meet Family Service Plan (FSP) goals fast, including any goals specifying treatment • Sign release forms that only allow treatment providers to release diagnosis, treatment recommendations and compliance with treatment • Help your child understand your illness and that you are getting help Tips for Consumers about Family Reunification (2) • Establish a good relationship with everyone involved (Anger Management!) • Educate your attorney about your illness • Maintain as much contact with your child as possible and keep up with visits • Keep notes of dates and events related to your case • Be prepared for all FSP meetings & court hearings Helping Parents Who Lose/Lost Parental Rights • Adoption can be one of the most traumatic human experiences for parents & children, especially if the adoptive parent does not agree to open adoption • Many parents will seek to have more children to replace the lost child, especially if their trauma and grief are not addressed… SO PROVIDE RESOURCES & SUPPORT FOR GRIEF/TRAUMA COUNSELING! You can help keep families together! THANK YOU! Coming soon… The UPenn Collaborative will be publishing a Guidebook to help parents with psychiatric disabilities in maintaining and regaining custody of their minor children. Parenting with a Mental Illness Teleconference Resources Custody Assessment Worksheet: http://www.upennrrtc.org/resources/view.php?tool_id=38 Understanding Child Abuse & Neglect in Pennsylvania: A General Guide that Can Be Adapted for Parents in Other States: http://www.upennrrtc.org/resources/view.php?tool_id=118 Child Welfare and Custody Issues: http://www.upennrrtc.org/resources/view.php?tool_id=36 Positive Parenting and Child Resilience: http://www.upennrrtc.org/resources/view.php?tool_id=37 Parenting Guidebook: This guidebook was developed as a comprehensive resource to help parents, providers, and advocates find information about possible programs in their area. It will be updated as new information and programs come to our attention. http://www.upennrrtc.org/resources/view.php?tool_id=128 UPENN COLLABORATIVE ON COMMUNITY INTEGRATION MAY 9, 2007