Lopez 1 Giovanni Lopez Mr. Craig ENG 1201 11 November 2013 Bullying The word “bully” was first used in 1530, but had a more respectable denotation. When the word was first used it actually meant sweetheart. A few hundred years later it became a derogatory word and today still carries an unpleasant meaning. There are different types of bullying to include verbal, physical and social. Unfortunately both the bully and the victim might suffer irrevocable effects. Bullying can occur in both underprivileged and affluent communities. Just recently a 16 year old boy from Centerville, the school I recently graduated from, was arrested due to comments he posted on his twitter account. The boy supposedly made comments that he was going to bring a rifle to school and shoot all the bullies that were making fun of him on Twitter. Luckily other students seen his post and reported him to a resource officer at school. Even though he did not have access to guns and indicated he was not serious, Centerville police still arrested him. Since this happened at the high school I graduated from, it sparked my curiosity as to why one becomes a bully and another becomes a victim and about the impact of bullying. If others had reported the bullies and their comments initially then the student may not have felt the need to threaten violence against the bullies. Even though bullying goes back hundreds of years, it wasn’t until around 1999 that people realized the impact of bullying. This was when two high school seniors from Littleton, Colorado killed 12 classmates and a teacher and then turned the gun on themselves. There are many theories as to why these two young men committed such a heinous crime. One of these Lopez 2 theories is that the killers were frequently bullied by athletes and other students. Several witnesses indicated that the principal at Columbine High School did not believe that bullying was a serious issue in his high school. Many students were fearful of what would happen to them if they brought their concerns to school officials. Since the massacre at Columbine there have been numerous other school shootings that are thought to have occurred because of bullying. According to Gerald Newberry, director of the National Education Association (NEA) Health Information Network ‘The kids who pulled the trigger weren’t who we thought they were. They were not the bullies – they were the kids who had been bullied. That’s what changed the focus of the schools and the nation” (Greenya). There are many negative effects that are directly related to bullying such as school shootings, suicides and depression. People should be encouraged to do the right thing and realize that they themselves could be the victim of bullying. If others reported the bully and/or helped the victim then there might be less school shootings, suicides and depression. Since the horrendous school shooting that occurred at Columbine High School in 1999 there have been numerous other school shootings that are believed to the be the result of bullying. Izzy Kalman, a nationally certified school psychologist, notes that during the six weeks prior to the tenth anniversary of the Columbine shootings there were more high profile mass shootings than any other six week period in history (Kalman). Bullying can start as early as elementary school. Schools are trying to be proactive by showing anti-bullying videos especially during the month of October which is national Bullying Prevention Month. Unfortunately after an elementary school in Nevada showed a documentary entitled “Bully”, a twelve year old brought a gun to school and killed two of his classmates, his teacher and then himself. “They are trying to be very proactive [about bullying], but I don’t know if it is Lopez 3 coming across to the kids that way. Because at this age, children can be influenced by many things” (Pearce and Mason). Students that commit school shootings might want their bully to feel the pain that they feel. They might think it is the only way to deal with their “problem” because no one will confront the bully. “The U.S. Secret Service and U.S. Education Department soon began studying school shooters. In 2002, researchers presented their first findings: School shooters, they said, followed no set profile, but most were depressed and felt persecuted” (Kalman). Bullies pick on others for a variety of reasons including the thought that another student might be gay. “Barry Loukatis, a quiet 14-year old honor student, shot and killed two classmates and a teach at his school in Moses Lake, Washington, in 1996. He said other students had bullied him and called him “faggot” (Greeya). A 15 year old student named Charles “Andy” Williams who was charged with killing two classmates and wounded 13 others told a judge a year after being charged, “Regardless of whether I ended up killing myself or killing others, a gun seemed like the only way to escape the bullying I endured almost every day” (Viadero). Other shootings that are believed to be a direct result of bullying include a 14 year old girl who shot a cheerleader at their school and a 14 year old boy who shot his classmates. Several years ago the US Secret Service did a study on 37 school shootings and found that two thirds of them were caused by bullying. “According to the agency, the attackers in those cases all felt they had been persecuted, bullied, threatened, attacked, or injured by others” (Viadero). “I am not insane! I am angry. I killed because people like me are mistreated every day. I have no mercy for humanity, for they created me, they tortured me until I snapped and became what I am today” (Polman, Cawthen, Dubin). These writings were found in a notebook by 16 year old Luke Woodham, who shot nine classmates, killing 2 of them. According to one of his Lopez 4 classmates he was a kid that was picked on for years. “I remember when we started kindergarten. He got picked on every day. They called him fat, chunk and chubby, and they used to jump him all the time. When we got to the ninth grade, everybody still picked on him, and I guess he finally blew up. He just got fed up with it all and snapped” (Polman, Cawthen, Dubin). Perhaps school shootings are the most negative effect of bullying because it affects more people than suicide. When a child is picked on by a bully it can very detrimental to that child leading to mental issues including suicidal thoughts. “Bullying victims are more likely to experience suicidal thoughts, and suicide is the third leading cause of death for teenagers. According to the National Center of Injury Prevention and control statistics from 2000 to 2010, 300 to 450 children ages 12 to 15 killed themselves every year – about one a day” (Pearce and Mason). Some victims of bullying do not retaliate against the bully, but instead inflict harm and even death upon themselves. Many people believe that bullying is “just kids being kids.” Some people don’t want to accept the connection between bullying and suicide. The truth is that it isn’t just the victim that commits suicide, sometimes the bully himself commits suicide. One of the high profile suicides that are believed to be the direct result of bullying occurred in 2010. A fifteen-year old high school student named Phoebe Prince hung herself and six of her classmates were charged with her death (Billiterri). Since there have been numerous suicides related to bullying many states have implemented anti-bullying laws. Rachel Copans, a 16 year old student, started an online support group for victims of bullying where they can share their own personal stories. She started the group because she felt kids would feel more at ease sharing their experiences with other kids. “Despite current efforts to stop bullying in many schools, students are critical of what they see as a lack of real caring Lopez 5 from school administrators. They need more outside sources or someone closer to our age, something more interactive than a PowerPoint presentation” (Billitteri). Some victims of bullying find it easier to write about their experiences instead of trying to talk to their parents, their teachers or to school officials. Recently a 15 year old boy, named Jordan Lewis, killed himself just one day after his school presented a video about bullying. The video displayed photos of several bullying victims who took their own life. Some believe that these anti bullying videos might be to blame for influencing adolescents that suicide is the only answer. According to a research study conducted by the University of Texas-Arlington, “students attending schools with bullying prevention programs were more likely to have experienced peer victimization, compared to those attending schools without bullying prevention programs” (Pearce and Mason). Jordan left a suicide note behind blaming those at school for bullying him. Jordan’s father posted a video on Facebook, where he stated: “The bullying has to stop. People have to stop treating other people the way they do, because some people just don’t have the strength to overcome the humiliations, the continuation of being picked on constantly, every day, to the point that they have no outs” (Johnson and Watkins). Bullies pick on others for several different reasons including their physical appearance and their sexuality. A twelve year old boy whom recently hung himself believed others picked on him because he was small. Although the boy did not leave behind a suicide note and there were no reportable incidents of bullying to school officials, others have reported knowledge of him being bullied on numerous occasions both in and out of school. Several months prior to his death the family had to notify the police because several of his classmates were throwing items at Lopez 6 their house. Just the day before he committed suicide, several boys were harassing him at a local park and even followed him to a friend’s house (Linderman and Wilson). “Studies show that one –third of gay students are physically harassed due to their sexual orientation, one in six is beaten badly enough to need medical attention and gay teens are four times more likely to be threatened with a weapon at school than straight kids” (Greenya). With the advancement of technology, bullies have found other methods of inflicting anguish upon their victims. A college freshman, Tyler Clementi, was recorded kissing another male by his roommate and others were given access to the recording to prove that Clementi was gay. With the knowledge that he had been violated by his roommate, Clementi committed suicide by jumping off of a bridge (Billitteri). This type of bullying is referred to as cyberbullying. “When bullying is more frequent students have a lower sense of safety. It was reported that an estimated 160,000 students on any school day stay home because they are afraid of being bullied” (Austin, Reynolds and Barnes). Kids that are bullied tend to be afraid to attend school. If the victim fails to attend school then they ultimately have poor academic achievement. With the struggles of doing poorly in school combined with being the victim of a bully, the victims tend to be at a higher risk for depression. In a recent federal bullying summit hosted by the Education Department, the Secretary made the following comment: “a school where children don’t feel safe, is a school where children struggle to learn” and “kids dropout, tune out and get depressed” (Billitteri). Depression is a mental disorder and the effects of depression can carry on into adulthood. Parents, teachers and school officials need to be trained to recognize the subtle signs of depression. A child who is depressed needs medical intervention because it isn’t something that they can fix on their own. If the victim receives medical intervention then perhaps it would decrease the number of suicides and school shootings. “Bullies made sixth Lopez 7 grade a living hell for Jacob Rubin, an honor student in Oakland, California, but he kept silent. The daily insults gave him stomachaches and affected his grades, but it was only after several boys beat him up that his mother finally realized what had been happening” (Greenya). In conclusion, if schools want to see less school shootings, suicides, and depression among their students. Schools need to give their teachers more training on how to deal with bullying and take the right action. Bullying shouldn’t be accepted in schools, schools need to take a big stand and stating that they are not putting up with bullies. Bullying starts and end with us as a nation parents need to make sure they are playing a big role in there children’s life. Children with a big parental support at home are less likely to be victims or even bullies. As a nation we need to come as a whole and take a stand on bullying that we will not allow it. Lopez 8 Works Cited Austin, Shelia M., Glenda P. Reynolds, and Shirley L. Barnes. "School leadership and counselors working together to address bullying." Education 133.2 (2012): 283+. Opposing Viewpoints in Context. Web. 25 Nov. 2013. Billitteri, Thomas J. "Preventing Bullying." CQ Researcher 10 Dec. 2010: 1013-36. Web. 25 Nov. 2013. Greenya, John. "Bullying." CQ Researcher 4 Feb. 2005: 101-24. Web. 25 Nov. 2013. Johnson, Chuck, and Tom Watkins. “A day after a class on bullying, a suicide." CNN Wire 18 Oct. 2013. Opposing Viewpoints in Context. Web. 25 Nov. 2013 Kalman, Izzy. "Bullying Contributes to School Shootings." Juvenile Crime. Ed. Louise I. Gerdes. 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