Empowering People Effective communicators We provide tailored services to meet organisational and individual needs. • Training & Capacity Building • Nationally Recognised Quality Standards • Bespoke Support & Facilitation • Research Aim of the Session Communication Promoting the work and activities of EDS UK One to One Communication: members/vols/staff Managing Group Sessions The Plan of Action! Promotional message - We are great! Effective communication » Body language and tone of voice » Effective explaining » Question Styles » Use of silence » Constructive feedback » Body space » Managing issues in a group » Being Assertive Ground rules for the session • • • • • • • Timekeeping Respect Confidentiality Safe Learning Environment Participation Flexibility Phones Name Role/Location Three words to describe EDS UK Communication Why choose EDS UK? ORGANISATION BRAND SERVICES/VOLUNTEERING PRODUCT What’s so good about your brand and product? Why should I believe in your brand? Why should I select a particular product from you? What’s so great! Promoting EDS Need of organisation, Target group Potential Volunteers/ Donors/ Members community or client IMAGE “MESSAGE” Recruitment method Medium of contact Volunteer role description Fundraising Event Plan Support Group Agenda/Plan Pierre’s Extensive Range of Local French Dishes Superb Value for Money Friendly French Staff Relaxed Family Atmosphere Extensive Wine List Please feel free to drop in or phone if you want further details. PIERRE’S EATERS URGENTLY NEEDED Pierre’s restaurant has loads of French food and free tables. Help support a local business. Come and eat at Pierre’s. We need you! If interested contact Pierre or call in on your way past Address/ Telephone Get your message across THE NEED The needs/problem/client group. What the org is trying to do…. THE SOLUTION What the volunteer/potential donor do to help etc. RELIEVE FEARS Eg provide all materials, you collect the money, give receipts, training and support provided BENEFITS UK profile, shows you’re forward thinking, meet new people, gain new skills and experience NEXT STEP How to get in touch. EDS UK, a charity raising awareness of Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, supporting people & research. Support, advise and inform those living with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. We aim to help them live a full, active and positive life. Communication Promoting the work and activities of EDS UK One to One Communication: members/vols/staff Managing Group Sessions TALK Face to Face Communication HOW DO WE CONVEY MEANING? Professor Albert Mehrabian's Communications Model Words Tone of Voice/paralinguistic/way words are said. Words Facial Expression 7% Facial Expression Tone of 55% Voice 38% Body posture Eye movements Personal habits Head and facial movements Facial expressions What could prevent effective communication? Sender Sender Encodes Message Received Receiver Decodes Receiver Responds Model of Communication Body Language.. ‘….facial expressions, eye behaviour, gestures, posture, and the like. Body language expresses emotions, feelings, and attitudes, sometimes even contradicting the messages conveyed by spoken language.’ Kinesics, the scientific study of body language, was pioneered by the anthropologist Ray L. Birdwhistell, who wrote Introduction to Kinesics (1952). Verbal Communication Vocal quality Content tone, mumbling, loud/soft, fast/slow, Know your audience. Use of jargon Know what you want to say Keep it simple, summarise – check others understand The Chinese character ‘to listen’ recognises that many aspects are important in the skill of listening. You Ear Eyes Undivided attention Heart Asking Questions YES or NO answer Multiple questions Several questions asked at same time. Feedback Positive Explaining Rules: 1 2 3 4 5 6 Give a step by step explanation. Clear language - no jargon. Summarise the explanation. Allow discussion & questions. Keep it concise. Remember ‘Tell them’ rule. Tell them what you are going to tell them. Tell them. Tell them what you have told them. I hear and I forget, I see and I remember, I do and I understand. Communication Promoting the work and activities of EDS UK One to One Communication: members/vols/staff Managing Group Sessions ASSERTIVENESS “The capacity to express our ideas, opinions or feelings openly and directly without putting down ourselves or others.” Turner Developing Interpersonal Skills. Dec 1983 BEHAVIOURS AGGRESSIVE PASSIVE ASSERTIVE AGGRESSIVE Non – Verbal signals Shouting Loud Voice Pointing Finger Folded Arms Still Posture Key words and sentences You’d better If you don’t Watch out Stupid You! PASSIVE Non – Verbal signals Whining voice Clenched, wringing hands Shuffling feet Downcast eyes Stoop Key words and sentences Maybe I guess I wonder Would you mind very much if…. Excuse me but I hope you don’t mind ASSERTIVE Non – Verbal signals Calm and controlled voice Relaxed posture Direct eye contact Upright posture Key words and sentences I think I feel I want Lets! How can we resolve this? What do you think? What do you see? The Plan of Action! Promotional message - We are great! Effective communication » Body language and tone of voice » Effective explaining » Question Styles » Use of silence » Constructive feedback » Body space » Managing issues in a group » Being Assertive Aim of the Session Dealing with problems Through supervision meetings…. 1. CLARIFY BEHAVIOUR & CONSEQUENCES 2. IDENTIFY BLOCKAGES TO SATISFACTORY PERFORMANCE 3. IDENTIFY MOTIVATION TO CHANGE - BENEFITS 4. AGREE WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE 5. OPPORTUNITY TO CARRY OUT NEW BEHAVIOUR 6. PRAISE /FURTHER ACTION This training has been designed by Volunteer Now Enterprises Ltd – Reasonable precautions have been taken to ensure information in this training is accurate. However it is not intended to be legally comprehensive; it is designed to give guidance in good faith without accepting liability. If relevant, we therefore recommend you to take appropriate professional advice before taking any action on matter covered herein. These materials are copyright to Volunteer Now Enterprises Ltd and may not be reproduced for any purpose without the express permission of Volunteer Now Enterprises Ltd