Prison Fellowship - SA C Winter Edition June – August 2011 Down To Earth Families Worker hildren and Families Worker Sally Graham has been helping to restore families for almost three years this October. A former prisoner with her own story as told in her book ‘As black from white’, Sally has been giving hope to many children, their mothers, fathers and caregivers and this includes a growing number of grandparents. Our secure database is approaching 400 children of prisoners. Every opportunity to visit families with a food hamper or help with school uniforms, shoes and clothes is the beginning to restoring a family with hope and support through difficult times. "All my kids have different dads. I see peoples’ looks. I feel their disapproval. But I love my kids and I am trying hard to give them what they need. I suppose I grew up, now I need to help them to do the same. I buy what I can from the pension but the kids have to take turns. Thanks to Prison Fellowship for helping my kids all have a new pair of shoes. On that day they all got a treat!" "We never expected our boy would go to jail. Even at the last court date I don’t think I really understood what was happening. After sentence our boy was moved to YLP. It all seemed so harsh. I gave Sally a call and it helped to know some of the things were just part of the process. It doesn’t bring him home but It helps to know someone cares." "When my husband went to jail money was so tight for us that all I could afford for the kids was one set of clothes each. My kids were always at me about how embarrassed they were wearing the same clothes every day. I could not believe that you would care so much. My children have new clothes and shoes for winter. Thank you so much." "My kids said they were embarrassed always wearing the same clothes, I tried my best to wash them each night but sometimes it is hard to get them dry by morning and to put the heater on costs more money again. I swapped the boys clothes so they looked a bit different but of course they are different sizes. It means so much to me to go shopping with you and be able to buy my kids clothes and feel… normal”. "I was pretty ashamed really to ask for help and I have had such a lot of trouble dealing with this all, since my son was sent to prison. My husband left me with the 3 younger boys and I just don’t know what to do with all my feelings sometimes. It doesn't help that I can’t read, but you made me feel less stupid, you made it ok for a little while and my boys are proud to have new shoes and school clothes." RESTORING FAMILIES Sally is now really 'down to earth' because she has relocated offices from an upstairs location to a ground floor location in Salisbury - welcomed by Salisbury Uniting Church.' We are extremely grateful for the dedicated funds provided by Morialta Trust which has allowed Sally to purchase essential items to benefit children of prisoners. Celebrate good times, come on! Celebrating Life After Parole I t is important to stop to celebrate ‘the moment’ at special times in life; the birth of a child, graduation, marriage, anniversary, special milestone birthdays and school, club and family reunions. Taking time to reflect on what advances have been made is an attitude of gratitude; checking out the old photo albums and visiting former schools, universities and places. For the Christian it is about seeing what the Lord has done; His blessings, favour, grace and provision. Teen Girls go high - to Mt. Lofty I t’s not every weekend a young teen gets to go to new heights with friends and leaders to learn new things. It’s a four kilometre return trek to the top of Mt Lofty and they did it! Flanked by beautiful bushland scenery along the steep dirt track, they were easy to spot in their hot pink polo shirts. Horse riding, a trip to nearby historic Hahndorf, tasting Indian food for the first time and making homemade Mexican tacos, helped the girls have fun and strengthen relationships formed at the previous Teen Girls camps. Thanks to CMV Group for their souvenir pink polo shirt. The Father of the prodigal knew how to celebrate the return of his long lost son. After all, he was presumed dead. The best garment, sandals, ring, fatted calf and party were laid on because the son who was ‘lost’ was now ‘found’. In PFSA we focus on milestones of reintegration into the community; crime free, drug free, taxpaying citizens determined never to return to crime or prison again. There is a young man who has spent a large part of his life in various institutions for stealing cars, breaking and entering and running away from police. Those days are over. Zinedine has successfully completed his four year parole period, now married, has a son, a management traineeship and is surrounded by two supportive families – his own and his wife’s plus the wider family of Prison Fellowship SA. We want to celebrate this important chapter with him to reaffirm his new life post-parole which finishes 17 June. Will you join us to celebrate with Zinedine? Come, meet him and hear his story for yourself. Next Friends: Saturday 18 June 7pm for 7.30pm at BCSA 176 Wattle Street Malvern. It is also the half way mark for the three year ADRA partnership – let’s celebrate! Come and hear Andrew Cornell tell us what he’s achieved in his first 18 months as Manager Prison Ministry. Helen Glanville Executive Director BRINGING HOPE THE WAY Mentoring S ince its inception last April The Way Mentoring Project has been a significant strategy, instrumental in building relationship and creating a bridge for some of our families even with their local Church. Wonderful reports have been received as relationships have been formed with our young mentees enjoying the benefits of the mentor relationship. Our goal was to match 18 young people (aged12 years plus) with a suitable mentor but the start was slow as surprisingly mentors found it difficult to commit in the first few months. We matched 10 mentors with mentees and these are ongoing. Reports from mentors back to Sally Graham helped her care for the families more. One mum was overwhelmed to receive cooked meals from a local Church after her operation. ‘Mentoring is a life fulfilling experience for mentors’ says Sally. With comments like; ‘I got completely drenched by the water pistol.’ ‘Beaten in mini golf, every car racing game, and in the water slide races’. ‘In amongst it all we talked and RESTORING FAMILIES THE WAY laughed, and a young boy opened up about his family and life. I am honoured to be a part of the Prison Fellowship mentor program - “The Way”’ said one enthusiastic mentor. Lack of literacy and changing family circumstances make it difficult for mentoring to work effectively. As a direct flow on from mentor feedback families have been assisted with new sports shoes for children, school uniforms, furniture provided by our ‘Second Chances’ Op Shop, counseling and sporting program assistance. From our observations and experience we need to positively influence them before they reach their challenging teen years. This year PFSA will continue to strengthen relationships in particular mentoring 8 – 12 year olds under the Paving the Way Mentoring Project which will be a direct continuation of mentoring for younger children. SECOND CHANCES THE WAY Let's celebrate. Come on! Camp For Kids No. 8 The physical activities of high/low ropes, giant swing and making a waterproof crossing presented challenges and taught them lessons in trust and team work. Autumn 2011 Big Dinner Celebration Fellowship Australia with Jonathan Aitken Prison 30th Anniversary Dinner I nternationally acclaimed author and humorous after dinner speaker Jonathan Aitken is returning to Adelaide. He drew over 400 people in 2005 and we expect to exceed this number in October. He was a former British Cabinet Minister and ex-prisoner. Today he is a broadcaster, columnist, lecturer and campaigner for world-wide prison reform. He is the author of twelve books including the Award winning biography of President Nixon (Nixon: A Life) and two volumes of autobiography Porridge & Passion and Pride and Perjury. Jonathan Aitken was a Member of British Parliament for twenty three years. His ministerial posts included Minister of State for Defence Procurement and Chief Secretary to the Treasury. Before entering Parliament Jonathan Aitken was a war correspondent in Viet Nam, the Chairman of a City of London merchant bank and a director of several public companies. He is a Director of Prison Fellowship International and Caring for Ex-Offenders. In 2009 he was chair of Centre for Social Justice’s Study Group which published an acclaimed report: Locked Up Potential: A Strategy for Reforming Prisons and Rehabilitating Prisoners. When: Time: Where: Saturday October 15 6.30pm for 7.00pm Fogolar Furlan Function Hall Briars Road, Felixstow Dinner is a three course meal Tickets: $40 pp Special early bird deal $380 table for 10 people Jonathan Aitken has visited Australia many times. He was the author of Land of Fortune: A Study of the New Australia. In 2007 he was the principal speaker at the Australian National Prayer Breakfast in Parliament House, Canberra. Cards all Round Thursday before Easter we visited women at Adelaide Women's Prison blessing them with an Easter gift of a pack of 12 greeting cards beautifully painted and donated by local artist Jacqueline Haseldine. These were gratefully received by all women and staff as we gave them Easter greetings. Our Values Sally Graham and Helen Glanville armed with Easter gifts 2010-11 Annual Report - From Seed to Harvest Growth can be measured in various ways - financial, spiritual, emotional and character growth. Advances were made last year into uncharted waters; the ADRA partnership which supports Manager Prison Ministry and The Way Mentoring Project funded by Targeted Youth Grants were two ‘firsts’ for 2010-11 which are ongoing ministry endeavours. This new look A5 edition succinctly summarises the highlights of a 66% growth increase during that period. All growth comes from seeds planted and many have been planted by our wonderful donors. We are so grateful for every donor and sponsor who have participated in supporting programs benefiting children and families of prisoners. Furniture Warehouse - 17 Donegal Road Lonsdale If you are setting up a new place or needing good affordable second hand furniture we can help Second Chances is the Op Shop for Prison Fellowship SA. Monies raised help children of prisoners to attend Camp for Kids, Teen Camps, Angel Tree Christmas and Happy Birthday presents. Call Alan on 0410665858 for collection/delivery OR call Di at the shop on 8296 5588 We also receive and sell electrical goods which are professionally tested and tagged for safety. We are Christian. We are committed to crime prevention through changed lives. We believe in restorative justice and second chances. We are responsive to the needs of prisoners and their families. We recognise the needs of victims. We believe in prison reform. We are committed to good stewardship. SA State Council 2011/12 Chairman: Luca Mercorella Vice Chairman: Pr Dave Hamilton Secretary: Les Dennis Treasurer: Kevin Fielke Members: Bob Brooks, Peter Do Rev Bill Reddin, Meredith Yates. BOARD OF REFERENCE: Rev Rod James, Bob Brooks STAFF: Executive Director: Helen Glanville MBA Pauper’s Funeral for a Prisoner ‘Why bother giving a funeral for a prisoner who died in custody?' Every life has value to their Creator no matter their station in life. Andrew chose to return to SA to deal with outstanding Court matters. He had served many years in a Victorian prison, attended the PFVictoria course Lives in Transition and was strongly connected by phone and letter to a PF mentor for the past three years. There were only five people at his funeral all of whom except Finance Officer: Glenys Bennett his lawyer, were PFSA staff and volunteers. Words from PF Victoria volunteers were read and memories from visiting him in Mobilong prison were shared by PFSA Volunteer Chris Johnson. Andrew knew he was dying as he had an underlying condition of Leukaemia for 13 years. A Christian funeral is a peaceful farewell and those who saw him at the viewing said he radiated a strong sense of peace. PFSA worked with his lawyer unsuccessfully to obtain bail for him so he would not be handcuffed to his hospital bed in his final hours. Andrew is now finally and fully free. Yes Helen! Here's my gift for changing lives Here’s my gift of $ for: Address: Payment details: Please debit my Visa Mastercard Sally Graham Manager Prison Ministry: Andrew Cornell Project Officer: Geoff Glanville Business/Fundraising: Bob Brooks (Vol) Kid’s Camp Liaison: Les Dennis (Vol) Second Chances Op Shop: 397 Diagonal Road Sturt SA 5047 8296 5588 / 0410665858 Furniture Warehouse: 17 Donegal Road Lonsdale SA 5160 Donate direct to BSB: 105-148 Acc: 005092540 GPO Box 1636 Adelaide SA 5001 Phone 08 8272 0323 Wherever most needed Mentoring Children Families This gift comes from: Children & Families Worker: Expiry Date: American Express Email: sa.office@prisonfellowship.org.au Web: www.prisonfellowship.org.au/sa ABN: 85 005 883 161 Postal Address: Name of Cardholder Signature GPO Box 1636 Adelaide SA 5001 OR, I enclose my cheque/money order payable to Prison Fellowship If you give a gift electronically please email your postal address to glenys.bennett@prisonfellowship.org.au so we can post your tax deductible receipt. 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