Interpersonal Behavior and Group Processes PSY 750 Advanced Social Psychology Outline Interpersonal Circumplex Prosocial Behavior Groups Interpersonal Circumplex A model for understanding social behavior (Leary, 1957) Consists of two orthogonal axes Agency (ranging from Communion (ranging from dominant to submissive) nurturing to hostile) Nearly all social behaviors can be conceptualized as a combination of these orthogonal dimensions 1 Complementarity The basic idea of complementarity is that there is a tendency for individuals to have positive interactions with each other to the extent that their interpersonal styles “fit” together (Carson, 1969; Leary, 1957; Sullivan, 1953; Tracey, 2004) One model defines complementarity as corresponding (or similar) styles on the warmth dimension but reciprocal (or opposite) styles on the dominance dimension (Carson, 1969; Leary, 1957) Other models suggest that complementarity is defined by correspondence (or similarity) on both the warmth and dominance dimensions (e.g., Byrne, 1971) Models of Complementarity Prosocial Behavior Oskar Schindler saved more than 1,200 Jews during the Holocaust at great personal risk 9/11 - Ed Emery escorted 6 colleagues out of the South tower and returned to the 97th floor to get more Feb. 22, 2008 - Stranger donates kidney to 8-year-old girl Why do humans behave in helpful and cooperative ways even when it is not in their own self-interest to do so? 2 What is Prosocial Behavior? Doing something good for someone or society Builds relationships Allows society to function Includes helping others Obeying the rules Conforming to socially acceptable behavior Cooperating with others Factors in Prosocial Behavior Effective rule of law People respect and follow rules Correlates positively with happiness Societies with no rule of law tend to be more dangerous Fairness and justice Public circumstances People behave better when rules are perceived as fair Wanting to make a good impression Satow (1975) Participants donated more money (7 times more!) when they believed they were being observed Reciprocity Obligation to return in kind what another has done for us Reciprocity norms found across cultures and species e.g., “You scratch my back, and I’ll scratch yours” Kunz and Woolcott (1976) received Christmas cards in return when they sent them to strangers e.g., Requests for charitable donations often include small ‘free’ gifts like address labels You are likely to feel obligated to return the favor with a donation Willingness to accept help from others may depend partly on whether one feels like they can pay it back 3 Fairness Norms Standards established by society to tell its members what types of behavior are typical or expected Norms that promote fairness Equity Each person receives benefits in proportion to what he or she contributes e.g., the person who did the most work gets the highest pay Equality Everyone gets the same amount Notice that these fairness norms directly contradict each other In evolutionary terms, it is important to be accepted by the group Fairness Ability to reproduce is affected by group inclusion and status One who takes without giving back may experience negative repercussions from the group People desire a system based on fairness and social exchange Underbenefited: Getting less than you deserve Overbenefited: Getting more than you deserve Fairness requires recognition of both types of unfairness and has only been found in humans Relationship between inability to give back and depression Produces anger Produces guilt (only in humans) Although monkeys protested when they were underbenefited (received cucumber slice instead of grape), they were unconcerned about being overbenefited (de Waal & Davis, 2003) Cooperation and Forgiveness Cooperation Forgiveness: Ceasing to feel anger toward or seek retribution against someone who has wronged you When is forgiveness more likely? Each person does their part and works toward a common goal Important for groups Communication improves cooperation Must overcome automatic tendency towards competition Minor offense Offender apologizes Who is more likely to forgive? Religious people People committed to a relationship Not self-centered or narcissistic people “Too proud to let go” 4 Why Do People Help Others? Evolutionary benefits Kin selection More likely to help others who share our genes Inclusive Fitness Our genes can survive in one’s own offspring and in the offspring of one’s relatives Life-and-death helping is affected more strongly by genetic relatedness The closer genetically related the kin, the more likely we are to help Age is also a factor Why Do People Help Others? Egoistic helping Wanting something in return for helping John will help Mary with her math homework because she will help him with his English paper Negative state relief theory Help to reduce your own distress Providing a homeless man with some money to buy a meal to relieve your distress at seeing him hungry Altruistic helping Expecting nothing in return for helping Millie anonymously donates $500 to a local charity Motivated by empathy Reacting to another person’s emotional state by experiencing the same emotional state Studies of brain activation have shown similar activation when one is receiving shocks and one’s loved one is receiving shocks Who Helps Whom? Helpful Personality Research with gentiles who helped the Jews in Nazi Europe had higher ethical values, stronger beliefs in equity, greater empathy, and were more likely to see all people as equal Similarity Gender We help people similar to us more than dissimilar others because similarity promotes empathy Males are more helpful in the broader public sphere, toward strangers, and in emergencies Females are more helpful in family sphere, toward close relationship partners, and in repeated contacts Women are more likely to receive help Beautiful Victims Beautiful people are more likely to receive help than less attractive people True for both men and women in emergencies and nonemergencies 5 Belief in a Just World The belief that life is essentially fair and that people generally get what they deserve Can lead to blaming the victim (e.g., blaming a rape victim for dressing provocatively) People who believe the world is just may only help if they think people deserve help …or these people may also help to be a good person and therefore deserve good things themselves Students who believed in a just world were more likely to volunteer their help to another student just before exams Why? Possibly building up future rewards for themselves Bystander Helping in Emergencies 78-year-old Hartford man hit by car and no one helps 49-year-old woman collapses and dies on the floor of a waiting room at a Brooklyn psychiatric hospital Kitty Genovese Employees ignored her for more than an hour http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lKUwBC IBzA http://youtube.com/watch?v=JuxGh5axb2k Died after a 35 minute attack where 38 of her neighbors watched but did not call for help Why didn’t any of the 38 witnesses to Kitty Genovese’s murder help? Latane & Darley (1970) suggested that the witnesses did not help BECAUSE there were so many witnesses!! Bystander effect: People less likely to help when they are in the presence of others Pluralistic ignorance: Looking to others for cues about how to behave, while they are looking at you Bystanders to an emergency, trying to look poised, give misleading cues to others that no help is needed http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KE5YwN4NW5o&feature=related 6 Too Busy to Help? People in a hurry tend to help less Darley and Batson (1973) had seminary students in low, moderate, or high timepressure groups (late for giving a talk) pass a man who needed help (confederate) Those who were in a hurry were less likely to help even if they were on their way to give a talk about the parable of the good Samaritan as they passed him People were more likely to help if they had time to do so…regardless of whether they were going to talk about the good Samaritan parable or not How Can We Increase Helping? Getting Help in a Public Setting Pick out one person and make it clear that you need help and what you want that person to do Educate Others When people know about the steps to helping they are more likely to offer help Provide Helpful Models Teach moral inclusion Give children examples “We” rather than “Us” and “Them” Groups Henry Ford Initially, 2-3 men worked together to build each car (slow and expensive process) Broke the process into 84 specialized steps with workers moving in a circuit to the various cars which were mounted on saw horses (better but not completely efficient) Led to increased standardization Eventually introduced the assembly line which consists of stationary workers and moving products (much more efficient because of stockpile of parts) Workers were unhappy with the repetitive tasks but Ford paid them more than twice the average wage at other similar jobs Can groups outperform individuals working by themselves? What does the story of Ford’s success with the assembly line exemplify about the social psychology of groups? 7 What is a Group? Groups are two or more people doing or being something together Examples: Groups feel similar to one another Presence of an outgroup Students in this class Members of the Britney Spears fan club Faculty members in psychology Members of my family Just because people are near each other does not necessarily mean they constitute a group (ex. students in a computer lab working individually) How Do Groups Help Us? In evolutionary terms… Safety in numbers Help us find food Accomplish tasks that are too difficult for the individual In cultural terms… Preserve information and pass it along to future generations Use information to organize themselves Benefit from role differentiation and division of labor Individuals in the Context of Groups Optimal distinctiveness theory (Brewer, 1993) Tension between the need to be similar to group members and distinctive from them Identifying people in groups and holding them accountable produces better results For example, identifying the contributions of specific individuals decreases the tendency to engage in social loafing Videotaping individual football players during games Tracking production at a factory based on individual workers rather than collections of workers (e.g., shifts) 8 Social Facilitation Theory of social facilitation (Zajonc, 1965) Presence of others increases arousal Arousal increases dominant response Presence of others can improve people’s performance, especially on easy or well-learned tasks Social Facilitation average and above average pool players were observed by 4 individuals while playing pool (Michaels et al., 1982) Percentage of Shots Made Below 90 80 70 60 50 40 30 20 10 0 Before Being Observed While Being Observed Below Average Above Average Skill of Player Shared Resources and the Commons Dilemma Tragedy of the Commons Depletion of resources that are collectively owned The Fisherman’s Problem (Gordon, 1954) Enough fish must survive the season in order to reproduce and replenish supply Restraint must be shown but nobody is ultimately responsible If you don’t catch the fish, someone else will Leads to depletion of resource Impossible to maximize both private and common interests e.g., Lunchroom refrigerators 9 Shared Resources and the Commons Dilemma Costs of private ownership Cost of communal ownership Lack of preserving care Commons dilemma Squandering of shared resources Conflicts within commons dilemma Inequality Ambition, greed Social conscience versus selfish impulse Time (Now versus tomorrow) Factors influencing commons dilemma Communication Behavior of others How Do Groups Think? Brainstorming People often enjoy the process and evaluate it favorably …but the output is generally lower (and of poorer quality) than individuals working alone Collective wisdom of a group is often better than individual experts For this to emerge, individuals must act as independent members of the group and share their diverse information instead of falling victim to groupthink Groupthink Tendency of group members to think alike Factors that encourage groupthink Group may cling to shared but flawed view rather than being open to the truth (Janus, 1972, 1982) Basis may be in the desire to get along Fairly similar and cohesive group at the start Strong, directive leader Group is isolated in some sense from others Group regards itself as superior Signs of groupthink Pressure toward conformity Appearance of unanimous agreement Self-censorship Illusion of invulnerability Sense of moral superiority Tendency to underestimate opponents 10 Group Polarization and Risky Shift Are groups less cautious than individuals? When making decisions, groups often give riskier advice than single individuals This was originally thought of as the “Risky Shift” It was later found that discussion typically strengthens the average inclination of group members toward either extreme …whether it is risky or not! This is referred to as the “group polarization effect” How Does Group Polarization Work? Informational Influence Group discussion leads to a pooling of ideas, most of which favor the dominant viewpoint Active participation increases attitude change (just repeating someone else’s ideas may lead you to adopt their stronger position) Normative Influence People want others to like them and may express stronger opinions after discovering others share their views 11