Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia notes Contents Page Homophobia 3 Biphobia 5 What training participants have come up with when asked to define homophobia 7 What causes homophobia, bi and transphobia? 8 What fuels homophobia? 9 What different forms do homophobia, bi and transphobia take? 10 Growing up 10 Homophobic bullying survey reported (ITV news 2007) 11 Homophobic bullying and its effects on young people 12 Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 2 Homophobia Definition and Roots Homophobia is the irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. Homophobia is the hatred, hostility, or disapproval of LGBT people, or cultures, or presumed sexual behaviours and is generally used to assert bigotry. People who are homophobic generally attempt to justify their aversion to LGBT people through stereotyping and dehumanising LGBT people. Stereotypes which have the purpose of dehumanising are based on ignorance and false assumptions about LGBT people. Homophobia is basically a fear of any behaviour, belief or attitude which does not conform to rigid gender-role stereotypes. It is this fear that enforces sexism and heterosexism. Homophobia has its roots in heterosexism and sexism (see Heterosexism fact sheet for further information on heterosexism). How Homophobia Manifests Homophobia manifests itself in many ways, from so called “jokes” in the office, to insults, tirades of verbal abuse, or actions like graffiti, or even extremes of violence, including the nail bombing of a gay bar called the Admiral Duncan in Soho, London in 1999 and other violent attack and murder. A survey of 924 lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in Scotland in 2002 showed that 68% of respondents had been verbally abused or threatened by someone who assumed they were LGBT, and 23% of respondents had experienced a physical assault by someone who assumed they were LGBT1. Laughing at homophobic jokes, or even remaining silent in the face of homophobia, reinforces homophobic attitudes in society and will be interpreted as acceptance. 1 Beyond Barriers, FMR; First Out, A Report on the Findings of the Beyond Barriers Survey of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People in Scotland, 2002. Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 3 Impact and Health Consequences of Homophobia Homophobia hurts everyone. Like sexism, racism and other forms of prejudice, homophobia makes society a much more unsafe and restrictive place for people to live. Some lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people experience harassment and bullying at school, in work, rejection from family and friends, and even when using services such as the NHS. (expand this section) What You Can Do About Homophobia Homophobia can be challenged by refusing to collude with homophobic comments and so called jokes, by challenging them and by refusing to tolerate such discriminatory attitudes. (expand this section) Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 4 Biphobia Definition and Roots Biphobia is the irrational hatred, intolerance and fear of people who are bisexual. It is important to distinguish biphobia from homophobia and to acknowledge bisexuality as a valid identity in its own right. Even although bi people can be as adversely affected by homophobia as lesbian and gay people are, bi people still experience prejudice specifically because they are bi. How Biphobia Manifests Sometimes biphobia comes from lesbian and gay people just as much as heterosexual people. This is usually, if not always, based on stereotypes and assumptions about bi people being “untrustworthy” or “greedy”, or that bi people are always looking for sex with someone else when they are in relationships. This is nonsense. Betraying trust and looking for sex with other people when in relationships happens no more or no less with bi people as it does with any other sexual orientation. It's often naïvely assumed that homophobia affects bi people only when they are in same-sex relationships. This is equivalent to suggesting that homophobia has no effect on lesbians or gay men who aren't currently in relationships. Impact and Health Consequences of Biphobia There has been a lack of research aimed specifically at the health and wellbeing of people who are bi. However, it is well known that social exclusion adversely impacts on health and wellbeing. Workshops held in Scotland in 2004 with bi people showed that the most significant issues included feeling their identity was ‘invisible’ and ‘not fitting in’ with either lesbian and gay or heterosexual groups. The fact that there is a lack of research reinforces the notion that bisexuality is not a valid identity in its own right and further marginalises people who are bi.2 Biphobia aims to silence bi people and contributes to the invisibility of bi people. 2 Laird.N; Exploring Biphobia; A report on participatory appraisal research workshops in Glasgow and Edinburgh, 2004. Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 5 Fear of rejection from heterosexual and lesbian and gay people can lead to some bi people feeling isolated and unable to ‘fit in’. It is often assumed that bi people are confused and are either “really gay” or “really straight” when in a relationship. For example, a bi man in a monogamous relationship with a woman is still bi if he identifies as bisexual, even if he never has sex with another man. What You Can Do About Biphobia Challenging biphobia means acknowledging bisexuality as a valid identity, not colluding with derogatory comments and jokes, challenging them and refusing to tolerate such discrimination. See Transphobia by Dr Surya Monro Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 6 What training participants say when asked to define homophobia What is Homophobia? Irrational fear that spans a range of behaviours from discomfort to hatred, aggression and violence Lack of knowledge, understanding, ignorance Discrimination, treating people differently Prejudice, unfounded, irrational Fear of homosexuals Queer/gay bashing Victimisation/harassment against ‘homosexual’ behaviour Association with fear of intimacy Portraying/devaluing LGBT people and their relationships as ‘lifestyle choices’ It’s their own fault (blaming) Translates into a dislike (i.e. nothing against them as long as they keep away from me Can result in persecutory acts Ignorance plays a part Irrational fear of LGB people Mistrust Non-acceptance Dehumanising views of LGBT people Devaluing of one’s own orientation Discomfort with sexual orientations to what someone considers ‘normal’ Focus on same-sex stereotypes While most participants will have heard of Homophobia, they may well not have heard of Biphobia or Transphobia, which mirror homophobia in the various ways that they manifest. They differ in that they describe the stigma, prejudice and discrimination faced by bisexual and transgender people. Biphobia centres on a devaluing of bisexual identities (i.e. emotional and sexual attraction to people of the same and opposite gender), in which bisexual people are portrayed as ‘emotionally immature’, ‘sitting on the fence’ or ‘wanting the best of both worlds’. People can hold positive views of lesbian and gay people but not see Bisexuality as a valid sexual identity. Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 7 Transphobia centres on discomfort through to hostility, aggression and violence directed at people whose gender identity and gender expressions do not conform to society’s ‘norms’. See Sex and Gender and Stereotyping Others can view lesbian, gay and bisexual people positively, but regard transgender people as sick or mentally ill. Beyond superficial notions that all LGBT people are accepting of each other, it is also important to acknowledge that some lesbian and gay people can hold and express biphobic and/or transphobic views. Similarly, bisexuals may view lesbian or gay people less favourably, and transgender people (particularly if they identify as straight) may have discomfort with LG and B people. What causes homophobia, bi and transphobia? Heterosexism as a system has stereotyped, pathologised, legislated against and prosecuted, persecuted and (often with the complicity of the Media) variously dismissed, belittled, ridiculed, stereotyped and even actively campaigned against LGBT rights and the struggle for equality. Society’s institutions have historically reflected and reinforced this (e.g. the Law, Medicine, the Church, Education) and although anti-discriminatory and equalities Legislation is now in place critics of LGBT equality remain. Legislation and Social Policy has changed in recent years and there is increasing focus on including the needs of LGBT people in service delivery and employment. However, a drip-feed of salacious, sexualised, stereotyping portrayals of LGB people in the media as abnormal, unnatural, perverse, deviant continues to this day See Power of the press case studies Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 8 What fuels Homophobia? This is an interesting perspective from an American-based faith organisation, ‘Religious Tolerance’ www.religioustolerance.org The desire to discriminate against gays and lesbians, and thus to reserve special privileges to heterosexuals, appears to have many causes. Some are: Inability or unwillingness to change the information received during childhood Fear of people who are different Promotion of homophobia by a religious group A heterosexual's natural feeling of repulsion at the thought of engaging in same-sex activity. Realizing that homosexual behavior is ‘unnatural’ for them, some people generalize this feeling into the belief that homosexuality is wrong for everyone Actual homosexual feelings that a person cannot acknowledge or handle Low self esteem leading to a need to hate other group(s). Homophobia, biphobia and transphobia span a wide range of attitudes and behaviours. While the most extreme forms can involve aggression and violence, subtler aspects – such as the jokes that are commonplace in ‘workplace banter’ - can be every bit as damaging and can be more difficult to identify and challenge. Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 9 What different forms do homophobia, bi and transphobia take? When asked how homophobia manifests, training groups have identified the following: What different forms can homophobia, bi and transphobia take? Flipchart work from LGBT training participants Unsolicited, unwelcome and/or hurtful ‘joking’, banter, teasing Comments, tittle-tattle, ‘whispering’ campaigns, rumour-mongering Not including, leaving out, marginalising, ignoring, excluding Ridicule, lampooning, mimicking, imitating Stereotyping; e.g. ‘all lesbians look like…’ Discrimination in employment, training Name-calling, verbal abuse Bullying, persecution, victimisation Emotional, psychological abuse Threats and acts of exposure, ‘outing’ people or the threat of ‘outing’ Physical threats, aggression, violence Queer or gay-bashing Rejection (from family, friends, peers at school, colleagues) Growing up Homophobia, bi and transphobia have an insidious and pervasive impact on LGBT people that often starts early in life. The following extract is from a research report commissioned by the Scottish Executive into the experiences of young people, in partnership with LGBT Youth Scotland and the Centre for Education for Racial Equality (CERES) at the University of Edinburgh. Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 10 Homophobic bullying survey reported “Around 150,000 gay pupils have been targeted by school bullies with some even receiving death threats, a survey has found. Equality organisation Stonewall said two-thirds of lesbian and gay pupils have experienced homophobic bullying, ranging from verbal abuse to violence with some pupils claiming that their teachers even joined in with the abuse. The study of 1,145 gay, lesbian and bisexual young people found that 41 per cent had experienced physical abuse, 17 per cent had received death threats and 12 per cent had been sexually assaulted. And the study claimed around 50 per cent of teachers failed to intervene when children used homophobic language like "dyke" or "queer". Stonewall chief executive Ben Summerskill said the figures suggested about 156,000 pupils had suffered homophobic bullying in Britain's schools. He continued: "These deeply disturbing figures should serve as a wake-up call to everyone working in education. This is a damning legacy of Section 28, which deterred schools from tackling anti-gay bullying for so long." Mr Summerskill added: "This remains one of the few sorts of bullying about which too many schools still take no action. It blights the lives not just of gay children but of thousands of pupils perceived to be lesbian or gay too." Almost all the pupils surveyed said they heard derogatory phrases in school, such as "poof", or "that's so gay", the report said. Stonewall said three-quarters of gay pupils in faith schools were bullied over their sexuality while around 70 per cent of victims said homophobic bullying affected their school work. A Department for Education spokesman said: Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 11 "All forms of bullying are unacceptable. We are pleased that Stonewall have highlighted this important issue and we look forward to continuing to work with them in the future. "It is important that pupils tell someone when they are being bullied and that teachers take firm action. That is why we have given new powers to teachers to ensure they can do so. No pupil should suffer the torment of bullying." Source: ITV news, 26th June 2007 Homophobic bullying and its effects on young people Homophobic bullying is when individuals are victimised as a result of being LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender), being perceived to be LGBT or having LGBT parents, relatives or friends. It is said to have taken place: … when general bullying behaviours such as verbal and physical abuse and intimidation is accompanied by or consists of the use of terms such as gay, lesbian, queer or lezzie by perpetrators. (Douglas et al., 1997) In the school setting, homophobic bullying can be expressed through namecalling, social isolation, public ridicule, the spreading of rumours, teasing, having belongings stolen and being sexually assaulted. This can take place in all areas of the school and its surrounding areas but ‘low level’ bullying such as namecalling is thought to take place most frequently in the classroom and the corridors (Rivers, 2000). Constant victimisation may mean that young people internalise these homophobic attitudes and the names or labels repeatedly used become an integral part of their identity at school (Rivers, 1998). It is unsurprising then that many LGBT young people feel unable to ‘come out’ at school, a decision which can leave them isolated and unsupported. This isolation is often compounded by a fear of rejection from parents and other family members. ‘Coming out’ is not only a task for the individual who identifies Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 12 as LGB or T, the process also has an impact on the collective identity of the family. As the majority of heterosexual parents assume that their children will also be heterosexual, the family is often an inadvertent source of negative attitudes towards, and stereotypes of, lesbian and gay sexualities long before young people identify as such (Valentine et al. 2003). Indeed, a UK survey found that 61% of violent acts committed against lesbians and gay men were carried out by family members (Hunter, 1990). Rejection from the family home also puts many LGBT young people at risk of homelessness and risk taking behaviours (O’Connor and Molloy, 2001). A life of secrecy and lies can hinder young people's emotional development, reinforce their own homophobia, undermine their self-esteem and confidence, and inhibit them from connecting with the lesbian and gay `community'. (Valentine et al., 2003)… In addition, long-term mental health issues can be triggered by bullying and continue into adult life; suicide and attempted suicide are far more likely in those young people who identify as LGB or T than in the general youth population. In one study, over 50% of LGB people who had been bullied at school had considered self-harm or suicide and 40% had attempted self-harm at least once (Rivers, 2001, Remafedi et al. 1996, Remafedi, 2002)… From Guidance on dealing with homophobic incidents LGBT Youth 2006 Also see Transphobic Bullying in Schools Addressing LGBT health inequalities an educational resource 2007 13