Articles with Questions and Great ideas for Great Dates
There are many ideas for great dates below. Just click or ctrl-click on the title that is most interesting to you and read
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Check the articles with !!. They are best. There are some topics for girls and some for boys and some for both. I hope
you have some great dates during Christmas, New Years and the winter vacation! Happy dating !
Professor Bissell
Best Questions for Speed Dating (or first dates) .......................................................................................... 3
!!Twenty good questions to ask your partner on your first date ............................................................ 4
!!102 questions to ask your boyfriends or girlfriends ................................................................................. 7
50 Intimate Questions to Ask your Partner ..................................................................................................... 9
!!101 Ways to Show You Love Someone (for married people, but many are good for dating) 13
Creative Dating Ideas for Married Couples .................................................................................................... 19
Sweet things to tell your girl - romantic lines sure to charm your girlfriend! ................................. 21
80 Sweet Text Messages to Send to Your Girlfriend .................................................................................. 23
!!50 things to do when you're getting bored ................................................................................................ 25
!!Cheap dating ideas - Inexpensive dating for those on a budget ....................................................... 31
How to be more charming to women - tips and advice to charm and sweep women off their
feet................................................................................................................................................................................. 34
Sweet things to say to your boyfriend ............................................................................................................ 37
40 fun questions to ask your partner .............................................................................................................. 38
Cute things to do for your girlfriend ................................................................................................................. 40
First Date Questions - A guide to conversation on the first date ......................................................... 42
!!Ideas for dating - Where to go on a first date .......................................................................................... 44
Things to talk about with your girlfriend ........................................................................................................ 45
How to win at the dating game .......................................................................................................................... 47
How to make a good impression on a first date .......................................................................................... 50
Conversation tips for your next date ............................................................................................................... 53
Random questions to ask a guy - fun questions for someone you're dating ................................... 54
Questions to avoid on a first date ..................................................................................................................... 56
How to find a boyfriend in a week .................................................................................................................... 58
Shy with girls? How to overcome shyness and talk to women of all ages! ...................................... 62
Does she love me? Signs that she loves you ................................................................................................ 64
Tips on how to get a boyfriend - where to look for the perfect boyfriend ........................................ 66
10 Signs That Tell you a Man is Serious About you ................................................................................... 68
10 Reasons Why You Must Get Married Sooner or Later ......................................................................... 71
10 Ways to Charm a Girl on the First Date ................................................................................................... 73
20 conversation starters that will almost always work when talking to strangers ........................ 76
BEST IDEAS ON FINDING A DATE, PLACES TO DATE, QUESTIONS, HOW TO MAKE IT STRONGER. .... 79
Conversation Starter Tips for Dating ............................................................................................................... 79
100 Dating Conversation Starters ..................................................................................................................... 80
How to list 100 questions to create and maintain great conversation by Ivymere ....................... 85
12 Ways to Plan a Perfect Date by Elena Rover with Matt Titus (adapted by Bryan Bissell)
Getting ready for your first date? A blind date? A date to know each other better? Here are some tips.
Three Tips for the Perfect First Date
1. For a first date, you want to know each other better. Avoid concerts and movies. You can’t talk very much during
those kinds of dates. You need time to talk and focus on each other.
2. Don’t make the date too dramatic. Show your personality without an impressive event. Go back to basics: effort
and charm.
3. Always schedule the first date for the daytime. The nighttime has a lot of romantic connections and more pressure.
Going out during the daytime is more relaxed.
Blind Dates
Plan a group activity in a quiet location. If you don’t like one person, then go talk to another person. If you have good
chemistry with someone, you can focus on that person and talk easily. Try going to a museum, an exhibition (at
Bexco) or a coffee shop.
Perfect First Dates
Why it works: Go bowling. It’s a casual, public place. Almost everyone can do it (and almost nobody is an expert).
You can talk, sit and eat, and you’ll probably laugh a lot. It’s low pressure and easy, and not many distractions.
Alternate options: A weekend brunch is good too. It’s casual, not loud, more relaxed than dinner and you have time
to talk. You don’t have to wear fancy clothes. Plan a picnic or explore a new part of town.
Three Tips for Later Dates
1. When you want to make a better relationship (maybe hoping for a first kiss), make the date a little sexier. The
locale should be quieter and more time for talking.
2. Date at night. This makes any date sexier. There’s more chance of a good-night kiss ;).
3. Don’t be too sexy. Maybe you could start with a group and then go off together to be more private.
Perfect Next Date: Museum Event
Why it works: Many museums are now having lectures or music on Friday evenings. Some have food and drinks.
It’s the perfect place to talk, be affectionate and flirt. There are some interesting things to talk about. You can share
your view about the event and see what your partner thinks.
Alternate options: Go to a restaurant, a show or a nice concert. Go to a place you can dance in the crowd and then go
off in a corner and get away.
Serious Dates
Go to a spa and get a couple’s massage. Bring your date home and cook a meal. Do something your date loves and
plan a day so you can share it.
Three Tips for Making Any Date Perfect
1. Always have a backup plan so that you can change if there are problems (for example if you go bowling and many
school kids are there, or your date doesn’t seem to be enjoying it very much.)
2. Be positive and don’t expect everything to be perfect.
3. Be able to laugh. Don’t take it too seriously (even if you put tons of effort into it). Dating is trial and error, and it’s
supposed to be fun. Sometimes you will make mistakes. Keep practicing and keep dating.
Best Questions for Speed Dating (or first dates)
Ask questions about things like on family experiences, personal goals, music, favorites (sports, music, TV, books,
foods, etc.) school, hobbies, habits (good and bad), sports, movies, TV, etc.
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1) What do you do for work?
2) Where are you from?
3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like
me to know? More insight into personality.
4) When was your last relationship and how long did it last?
5) What are you looking for in a relationship?
6) What do you think is the most important value in a
relationship?
7 ) Do you want to marry or have you ever been married?
8) What do you look for in a husband/wife?
9) Do you want/do you have any children?
10) What do you do for fun?
11) What are you most proud about?
12) Is religion important to you?
13) Do you follow politics?
14) Do you believe in love at first sight?
15) What is your most treasured possession and why?
16) What is your favorite month of the year and why?
17) Which is your favorite book/movie?
18) Which is the last book you read?
19) Which is the one job in the world that you would love to
do?
20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite
singer/band?
21) Do you like animals/keep pets?
22) How do you spend your spare time?
23) Where do you see yourself in five years time?
24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be?
25) Do you believe a cup is half empty or half full?
26) If you could travel back through time, what single
mistake would you correct in life?
27) You have got six months to live, what will you do first?
28) Is sexual compatibility important to you?
29) Who was your hero, as a child?
30) If you won a lottery, how would you spend your
millions?
31) Which was the first crush you ever had?
32) What makes you laugh/cry?
33) If you have friends coming over, what would you cook?
34) Describe your perfect holiday.
35) Which T.V. program would you never miss?
36) What is the last CD you bought?
37) Are you a morning person or a night person?
38) Would you like to climb a mountain or trek across a
desert?
39) What adjective would a close friend use to describe you?
40) If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it
be?
41) Into which personality’s shoes would you like to step for
a day?
42) Who is you favorite actor/actress/celebrity and why?
43) Who is your favorite sportsperson?
44) What is your favorite sporting activity?
45) Which is your favorite genre of movies comedy/thriller/action?
1) It is an introductory question. It may reveal the professional status of a
person but little about his personality. So move on to another question.
2) This reveals background. It throws better light on the person.
3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know?
More insight into personality.
4) A probing question that will open up the communication.
5) You can both instantly compare whether you match in this area.
6)
7 ) This is important, as it will reveal if both are moving in the same direction
- towards or away from marriage.
8) Try to elicit an honest answer.
9) An important question if you are looking for a long-term relationship and
your partner is not.
10) This will throw light on whether your leisure activities match. Are you a
bookworm and she an outdoorsy person?
11) This reveals the basic values of the person - whether he/she values money
or adventure/ intellectual pursuits.
12) 24x7 living together means understanding on certain basic issues like
religious beliefs.
13) Are you a Democrat or a Republican? You can spar on your political
affiliations.
14) You can decide whether he/she is a romantic person or not.
15) What a person is sentimental about reveals a great deal about his
personality. Is it his bike or a locket presented by a sister?
16) Does he like to sweat it out in summer activities or curl up like a cat in
winter?
17) Both of you can discuss why you like a book or a movie - throws further
in sight into personality.
18) A conversation starter.
19) Throws light on likes and dislikes.
20) Do you share musical tastes?
21) Are you going to clash on this issue - one an animal hater, the other a pet
lover?
22) This is important, as it will really help if both love to do the same things
in spare time.
23) Watch out if he/she has no definite goals for the future and is in a rut. A
positive mark for her if she has her life and career planned out positively.
24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be? Silly, amusing
question to get the laughs.
25) Are you an optimist or a pessimist?
26) What are the deepest regrets of a person?
27) Insight into personality.
28) Do opinions match?
29) Insight into personality.
30) Amusing question just for laughs.
31) Reminiscing sentiments.
32) Really important and throws light on personality.
33)
34) One thinks frozen Alaska, the other sunny Australia.
35) Do our tastes match?
36)
37) We will never spend common time.
38) We will never agree on holidays.
39) Friendly or idiotic.
40)
41) Says a lot about your taste.
42)
43)
44) 45)
!!Twenty good questions to ask your partner on your first date
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Going for a first date can be pretty intimidating for most people. Your mind may be overcome with fears and
insecurities. You may be afraid of rejection, failure, saying the wrong things and coming across like a loser in
front of your date. In this context you would really love to know what are some good questions to ask your
partner on your first date.
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for a long term relationship.
Though most of us have the capacity for smooth, easygoing conversation with friends and family we maybe
tongue-tied on a first date. This could be a pretty embarrassing situation. You could take a hard copy of
prepared list of questions, which is simply gauche and shows your lack of confidence and good manners.
On the other hand some men complain that women are ballistic, bombarding them with personal questions and
often putting them on the defensive. Some women may be inquisitive by nature and may adopt a
confrontational style on the first date itself. Men are advised to adopt humor to deflect such questions and
women are asked to steer clear of such questions if they don’t want to see their first dates bolting at the
slightest chance.
So, what are some good questions to be fielded around on a first date? Here are twenty such conversation
ideas:
1) What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why
According to some relationship experts this is the most important question to ask on a first date. Once this is
asked, it is out there, making it evident to you what you are getting into. You put your profile, on the dating site.
In your profile you clearly mention that you are looking for a committed relationship. Now after you meet
someone who is positive, you have to pop the big question nonchalantly into the conversation. Your tone must
not be inquisitional or confrontational. After you get the answer you must double-check by asking, why? These
are good questions on the first date because you don’t want to go on a boat ride with both of you rowing in
opposite directions.
2) What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships?
The answer to this question will reveal what turns him/her off about people and what are his/ her ideas about
men and women.
3) What are the qualities of your ideal relationship
This is one of the good questions to ask on a first date. Men and women reveal what they are looking for in life,
what kind of relationships they expect out of each other and the marriages that they dream of.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
The more attractive/defensive the person the more likely the answer will be, 'No'. But a majority of honest
individuals will say 'Yes'. This reveals their humility.
5) What scares you the most about opening your heart to your partner?
This is a question to break the defenses of your date and lay his/ her feelings bare, so that you grow closer
emotionally.
6) Has any book or movie made an impact on you?
Book and movies are important influences of popular culture and you can have an interesting and animated
discussion on books and movies that inspired or influenced you. This is a good question to ask on a first date..
7) What is the most annoying thing that someone could do to you?
You could share a laugh about what annoys you in other people and get to know others likes/ dislikes better.
8) If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?
This helps you discover what drives him or her - money/ adrenaline/domestic bliss.
9) What do you like to do for fun?
This will help you to know if you can share leisure activities. Also, whether he/she is an indoor/ outdoor person.
10) What is the biggest mistake that people make on a first date?
Lets you into trade secrets of the opposite gender.
11) What do you look for in a guy/ girl?
These questions, along with the previous, one are good questions to ask on a first date. It will reveal the
dreams and romantic aspirations of the person… But some may deflect honest answers by saying the usual,
like," Good looks, sense of humor". etc.
12) Define a truly successful relationship
An ideal answer would be one where both men. as well as women share responsibility/credit for success.
13) What happened with your lastrelationship?
You can look for danger signs like blaming and whining rather than owning up half the responsibility for a
doomed relationship, which reveals a lot about the person’s nature.
Here are some unique, fun and good questions to ask on your first date:
14) What were your life-changing moments?
15) What is the weirdest thing about you?
16) Are you cheap or thrifty?
17) Which is the one book that has really impressed you?
18) Would you have plastic surgery done on your body?
19) What was your most embarrassing moment?
And
20) Tell me about your family/ best friend.
These are some good questions to break the ice on your first date and lead you to possibly a second, third and
more dates. After a few dates, the conversation will flow smoothly!!
!!102 questions to ask your boyfriends or girlfriends
1. Are there any causes you strongly believe in?
2. Are you a member of any societies or associations?
3. Are you a people's person or do you prefer your own company?
4. Are you a virgin? If not, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
5. Are you addicted to anything?
6. Are you afraid of ghosts?
7. Are you afraid of heights?
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8. Are you short tempered?
9. Can you dance? Do you like dancing?
10. Can you keep a secret?
11. Do you believe in life afther death?
12. Do you believe in marriage? Why?
13. Do you believe in monogamy?
14. Do you consider yourself a neat or messy person?
15. Do you consider yourself lazy?
16. Do you drink?
17. Do you have a role model?
18. Do you have any siblings? If yes, are they older/younger to you? Are they male or female?
19. Do you have many friends? Are you in touch with friends from school/college? How close are you?
20. Do you like cooking?
21. Do you like eating out at restaurants?
22. Do you like going window shopping?
23. Do you like partying? Attending parties? Giving parties?
24. Do you like pets?
25. Do you like to go dancing?
26. Do you like to travel? Which has been your best vacation so far? What made it so special?
27. Do you love children?
28. Do you own or use a desktop computer or a laptop?
29. Do you read newspapers?
30. Do you read? Has any particular book influenced you or left a life-changing impact?
31. Which are your favorite authors?
32. Do you see your father as the head of the family?
33. Do you smoke?
34. Do you want to have children? Why?
35. Have you ever been on a blind date?
36. Have you ever been on the wrong side of the law?
37. Have you ever been part of a not-for-profit organization and done volunteer work?
38. Have you ever been to a school or college reunion?
39. Have you ever had a narrow escape from death?
40. Have you ever taken a sabattical?
41. Have you ever undergone therapy of any sort?
42. How ambitious are you?
43. How do you like to celebrate your birthday?
44. How do you feel about divorce?
45. How do you like to spend New Year's Eve?
46. How important is money to you?
47. How important is your family to you?
48. How is your relationship now with your siblings?
49. How long are you on the internet every day?
50. How many credit cards do you own?
51. How many lovers have you had so far?
52. How often do you meet your parents?
53. How old were you when you started dating
54. How patient are you?
55. How religious are you? Do you pray regularly?
56. How romantic are you?
57. How tall do you want your mate to be?
58. If a relative died and left you a million dollars, what would you do with the money?
59. If you could change one event in history what would it be?
60. If you could go on a vacation anywhere in the world where would it be? What stops you?
61. If you could know one historical figure very intimately, who would that be?
62. What are your political leanings like?
63. What did you do during the summers when you were growing up?
64. What do you consider the five biggest drawbacks of your personality?
65. What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality?
66. What do you consider your biggest achievement to date?
67. What do you do for a living? What would you rather do, if money was not a consideration?
68. What do your parents do?
69. What has been your most generous act of charity, whether in cash or kind, yet?
70. What is the most adventurous thing you'ver ever done?
71. What is the most expensive gift you've ever bought for someone?
72. What is the most stupid thing you've ever done?
73. What is the movie you've loved the most and would watch again, given a choice? Why?
74. What is your favorite sport?
75. What is your idea of a perfect evening?
76. What is your relationship like now with your father?
77. What is your relationship like now with your mother?
78. What was it like, growing up with with your siblings?
79. What was your relationship like with your father when you were growing up?
80. What was your relationship like with your mother when you were growing up?
81. What would you do if your best friend disapproved of me?
82. What's the best compliment you've ever received?
83. What's the highest educational qualification you obtained?
84. What's the worst thing you ever did to a friend?
85. What's your earliest childhood memory?
86. When is your birthday?
87. When was the last time you cried
88. When was the last time you felt really proud of yourself?
89. When was the last time you really laughed?
90. When was the last time you told a lie?
91. Where you see yourself in five years time?
92. Which body part are you more likely to notice first in someone of the opposite sex?
93. Which celebrity do you admire?
94. Which has been your longest romantic relationship, so far?
95. Which is the largest loan you've ever taken?
96. Which is the largest purchase you've ever made?
97. Which is your favorite magazine?
98. Which personality traits do you want your partner to have? Which of these are an absolute must?
99. Which religion do you belong to?
100.
Which was the last really impulsive thing you did? Are you an impulsive person?
101.
Would you prefer to marry someone who belongs to the same religion as you?
102.
Would you rather live in a large urban city, a small town or in the countryside? Why?
50 Intimate Questions to Ask your Partner
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When you're in a relationship with someone, certain conversations become accessible that would have never been an option
if you weren't in one. Having romantic and intimate talks with your partner can be both fun and informative. It can help
strengthen your bond, as you and your partner will speak of things that don't typically come up in platonic relationships. It
can also enhance your love life, teach you about your partner's thoughts, and increase the level of overall intimacy within
your relationship.
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The depth of any romantic connection is defined by how well you and your partner know the inner workings of each other's
minds: those central thoughts that stay locked away from everyone except for one's self. The following is a group of
intimate questions to ask of your partner. In conversations like these, unpleasant memories and feelings are bound to arise
from time to time, so remember to treat the questions with delicacy and consideration.
1) If all of life's constraints were eliminated, what would you want to do every day?
2) How long do you see our relationship lasting?
3) How important is marriage to you? How important are children and family? Do you have a personal timeline set for such
things?
4) How would you like for your life to change in the next five years? Do you see me as a part of this change?
5) What about me stands out the most to you?
6) Do you have needs in your life that are not being met? What can I do to help with those needs?
7) Would you remain with me if you discovered that I couldn't bear children? If I had a criminal record? If I had a lot of
debt? If I had a terminal disease?
8) Would you stay with me if I were in an accident that scarred my appearance for life?
9) Have I ever hurt you in any way that you haven't told me about?
10) What thoughts make you unhappy?
11) What could I do that would make you believe that I love you?
12) What could I do that would make you love me more?
13) Have you ever questioned the existence of love?
14) Is there a point in your past that you regret more than anything else?
15) Do you ever dwell on past occurrences? Would you like to erase certain memories from your mind?
16) Do you feel as though you could tell me anything?
17) Do you still have feelings for someone from your past?
18) Why were you initially attracted to me?
19) How important is physical attraction to you?
20) Would you be hurt if I had still had feelings for someone from my past?
21) When did you have your first kiss?
22) When did you lose your virginity? How did it happen?
23) How many people have you slept with?
24) Have you ever cheated in a relationship? Why? What were the circumstances? If not, how close have you come to doing
so?
25) Do you ever have dreams about sex? What specifically?
26) What do you fantasize about? Is there any particular fantasy that you'd like to make a reality? How would you feel about
role playing?
27) How would you define a good sexual relationship?
28) Do you masturbate? How often?
29) Would you be hurt if I masturbated, fantasizing about other people? What if I only masturbated fantasizing about you?
30) In an ideal intimate relationship, how often would you have sex?
31) How do you feel about the merits of pornography?
32) How was your parents' marriage? Would you have considered theirs a good relationship?
33) What about me would you change?
34) What would you change about yourself?
35) How would you define love?
36) When you talk about me to others, what do you say?
37) When I talk about you to others, what would you like for me to say?
38) What moment in your past would you like to return to? Why?
39) In which of your past relationships were you the happiest? Why did that relationship end?
40) When a conflict arises, how do you react?
41) What would you consider the greatest obstacle you've ever had to face? How did you overcome it?
42) What would you consider your greatest accomplishment in life? What would you like to be the greatest accomplishment
of your entire life?
43) What moment in your past would you most like to forget?
44) Do you have nightmares? What happens in them?
45) Have you forgiven yourself for your wrongdoings?
46) Do you believe in a power greater than humanity? How do you incorporate this belief, or lack thereof, into your life?
47) Do you ever wish to escape reality? Do you have a way of doing so?
48) What do you most want to tell me?
49) Have you ever loved anyone more than you love me? Can you see that changing?
50) Is there anything particular that you don't know about me but would like to know?
When asking these questions always listen closely to the answer and respond accordingly. Intimate questions are meant to
incite meaningful conversations, not just give you true or false type knowledge about your partner. The questions are just a
gateway into the powerful communication which can serve to bond you and your partner in such a way that the two of you
are forever intertwined. Love often begins simply with attraction, mutual interests, and a shared sense of enjoyment which
allows two people to be happy in each other's company, but love grows through conversation. When you tell someone things
about yourself that you've never told anyone, you make yourself vulnerable. Trusting someone wholly with this vulnerability
is true love.
!!101 Ways to Show You Love Someone (for married people, but many are good for dating)
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Couples who have been in a relationship for some time, often feel that they have run out of ideas to express their love for
each other. If you feel the same way and want to bring the zing back into your love life, go through this list of a hundred
and one ways to show your love.
1. Begin the day by giving your mate a huge bear hug.
2. Tuck an “I love you” note in his lunch box or in her handbag.
3. Have a messenger deliver a bunch of flowers for your lover at work.
4. Go for a walk in the park and hold hands.
5. Write a letter to your partner’s parents, complimenting them on bringing up such a fine person.
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6. Really listen to your partner when he or she talks of an interest, even if it may not concern you.
7. Mouth the words "I love you" to your partner, across a room full of people.
8. Indulge a whim of his or hers, when there is no occasion to do so.
9. Go for a movie which has an actor/actress, your partner is a fan of.
10. Give your love a foot massage, after a long day at work.
11. Admit that you made a mistake, when you actually make one.
12. Offer to take the dog out, when you know your lover is tied down with work.
13. Look at your partner when he or she is speaking to you.
14. Whisk your lover away for a waltz, if a romantic number is playing on the radio.
15. Ask if your partner is free, before inviting your friends over for a drink/dinner at home.
16. Compliment her on her new hairstyle or him on his new set of golf clubs.
17. Wish your partner luck, before an important day at work.
18. Ask him or her to show you how to do something new.
19. Call your partner, if you are going to come home late.
20. Surprise your lover with tickets, for a romantic cruise.
21. Write a short poem expressing your love.
22. Take the phone off the hook for an intimate evening.
23. Whip up a three-course meal for your lover.
24. Go to a place of worship and pray together.
25. Pursue a hobby together over the weekend.
26. Stay close to your partner at a social event.
27. Ask your lover what he or she would like to do before you get intimate.
28. Read out an interesting piece from the newspaper or magazine, to your partner.
29. Ask his or her opinion on a matter that concerns the society at large.
30. Don’t interrupt your partner when he or she is talking to guests.
31. Laugh at your lover’s jokes, even if you have heard them a hundred times before.
32. Take a shower together.
33. Smile at your partner when your eyes meet, even if you have nothing to say.
34. Go out on an unplanned date.
35. Watch an old, romantic, classic movie together.
36. Serve your lover breakfast in bed on a Sunday morning.
37. Snuggle up close.
38. Set the table for a candlelight dinner even if you are having pizza.
39. Rent a DVD or book from the library, that you know is your partner’s favourite.
40. Fill up his/her car at the gas station, without being asked to do so.
41. Carry your lover’s photo in your wallet.
42. Say ‘Good Morning’ first thing in the day.
43. Meet for lunch once in a while.
44. Share sexual fantasies together.
45. Accompany your partner on a shopping trip, even when you don’t have anything to buy for yourself.
46. Kiss him or her for no apparent reason.
47. Play your lover’s favourite songs on a rainy day.
48. Be polite to his or her co-workers, even if you don’t personally care for them.
49. Try out a new restaurant or a new dish together.
50. Offer to work out with your partner when he or she feels too lazy to go to the gym.
51. Buy a present, however small, for your lover, even when there is no occasion.
52. Praise your partner in front of others.
53. Compliment your lover on his or her choice of a restaurant.
54. Tell your partner to take a night off and hang out with friends.
55. Cheer lustily when your lover scores in a game.
56. Compile a list of romantic quotations from the internet and mail it to your lover.
57. Find a quiet moment and tell your partner what you like about him or her.
58. Rub his or her back after a particularly gruelling day.
59. Book tickets to a game featuring your partner’s favourite sports team.
60. Whisper in his or her ear that you love the new perfume.
61. Try out or buy sexy lingerie to surprise your lover.
62. Call up your partner’s favourite radio show and dedicate a song to him or her.
63. Play a word game together and let your lover win.
64. Ask your partner about his or her dreams.
65. If your lover seems upset, hold his or her hand.
66. Be a gracious host when your partner’s boss is invited for dinner.
67. Take your lover’s siblings or cousins out for a pizza.
68. Do the weekend laundry without being told to.
69. Fly to Hawaii for a romantic weekend.
70. Mail a joke or a funny video.
71. Tell your lover that he or she looks more attractive with every passing day.
72. Appreciate your partner’s voluntary activities for the church or community.
73. Discuss your future together.
74. Be ready with a cool drink when you can hear your partner returning from work on a hot day.
75. Pick his or her favourite dessert on your way home.
76. Send your lover a post card with a romantic message.
77. Go through your old photos together.
78. Watch home videos that his or her family may have sent.
79. Be a secret admirer and invite your lover to a mystery date.
80. Politely agree to differ, on controversial topics.
81. Pull up the covers as he or she sleeps.
82. Attend an art or photography course together.
83. Lend a hand, when you see your partner in the midst of some heavy work.
84. Offer to buy the week’s grocery supplies.
85. Plan a vacation together.
86. Ring up your partner’s parents to ask how they are.
87. Send him or her a hand-written letter on scented paper.
88. Watch your partner’s favourite TV show together.
89. Gift him or her a luxurious spa session.
90. Take a hot air balloon ride together.
91. Come up with silly nicknames for each other and use them only when you are alone.
92. Customize a mug or a mouse pad with your picture for his or her desk.
93. Get your lover’s favourite painting or photo framed by a professional.
94. Hike to the mountains and watch the sun coming up together.
95. Leave a note or a lipstick kiss on the bathroom mirror.
96. Recreate your first date.
97. Take your partner home to meet your family.
98. Designate a song or poem as “ours”
99. Buy a subscription to his or her favourite magazine
100.
Let your partner have the morning paper first, on a weekend.
101.
Hold your lover close and let your hearts beat together.
Creative Dating Ideas for Married Couples
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With the hustle and bustle of everyday life demanding us to always be on the move, some times we forget to take a time
out for ourselves, and our marriage. Coordinating schedules can be quite hectic nowadays, but some times fate works in our
favor, and a free night appears.
So, the two of you have a free evening, now what? Are you one of those couples that don’t know what to do with free time
when it appears? Something that only comes along once in a blue moon must have a bit of unfamiliarity attached to it. Here
are several creative scenarios for the married couple who just don’t know what to do.
TIP: Read 'Tell Me Honey...2000 Questions for Couples' , the best-selling book for couples. Ask your partner questions and
discover new sides to each other! It's available as an instant download ebook as well as paperback from Amazon.com.
1. Picnicking in the Playground
So tell me, when is the last time you tumbled down a giant slide? Swung from the monkey bars? Flew high in the sky in a
swing? Sometimes, it’s the simple things in life that make our memories so wonderful. Create a romantic evening at a local
park or playground for just the two of you. Carry your picnic basket full of goodies with you, and don’t forget the blanket. If
it’s a slightly windy day, you may even want to bring along some kites!
2. Down at the Drive-In
Ahh, the nostalgia is rushing over me as I picture a young couple in love, sitting in the front seat of the car, watching an old
drive-in movie. He starts to put his arm around her, but wait…is he being too fresh? Don’t worry; it’s okay if you are
married! Just don’t forget the popcorn!
3. Sail Away
Do the two of you enjoy the water? Then it might be a fun idea to partake in a fancy dinner cruise. Good food, good
entertainment, good company…what more could you want? A more luxurious spin on this date would be to rent your own
yacht for the day, and cruise out on the water alone...but only if one of you know how to maneuver the thing!
4. Night at the Museum
You are never too old to learn, and museums never stop being fun to visit! Check out a local museum that is featuring an
interesting, new exhibit, and maybe a stroll through an art district afterwards.
5. Moonlight Madness
Going back to the simple things, how about a nice dinner under the stars? Grab some take-out from your favorite restaurant,
and spend the night in a park, on the mountain, or even in your own back yard, just talking and gazing at the stars. See if
you can spot all the constellations!
6. Grab Your Dancing Shoes
Check out the scene at a local dance or jazz club. Everyone says they can’t dance, but I believe there is a small part of all of
us just dying to cut a rug! You never know just how much fun you can have out on a dance floor.
7. Take Me Out to the Ball Game
Who said dates had to be all mushy and romantic? This idea has got to be every man’s dream date! Grab some hot dogs at
the snack bar, and root on your favorite team. If the two of you are split in your opinions of who will win the game, maybe a
little friendly wager could come into play!
8. Just Drive
Love the feeling of the wind in your hair? Get your hands on a convertible (maybe you own one, know someone who owns
one, or can get a rental), let the top down, and just go for a drive with no destination in mind.
9. Rolling in Love
Bring out the kid in you (and test your balance!) at the local rolling rink. Don’t have a rink nearby? Then just grab a pair of
skates at a sporting goods store, and zoom down the sidewalk. If you want to try this idea in the winter, you can visit an ice
skating rink, or just use a frozen pond!
10. Whoa Horsey!
Horse drawn carriage rides are one of the most romantic activities to partake in. Why not treat your lady to a nice stroll
through the park in one?
11. Helicopter Ride
This idea is for the more daring, fearless couples. Being high in the air, but still close enough to see the land, is an excellent
sightseeing experience. Try to do this one in a big city. Flying around the landmarks and skyscrapers is a rush!
12. Dinner for Two
This is the more traditional date idea, but it is no less romantic. Reserve a table at the most expensive restaurant in your
area, don your most formal clothing, and dine like a king and queen! Rent a limo to pick you up and take you home…trust
me, it will make you feel, and look, like a celebrity!
13. Surprise, Surprise!
This is one of my favorite ways to organize a date…by having only ONE person plan it! Decide who it will be this time, and
the only thing the other can know is when to be ready. Use any of the above ideas, or incorporate your own!
14. Hiking
The mountains are a wonderful place to relax and see some of nature’s most beautiful qualities. Strap on a pack and spend
the day wondering down trails, and be sure to bring a camera. Stop at all the overlooks for some great pictures, and don’t
forget to pack a lunch!
15. Bicycling
This is a spin of the hiking idea, but instead you venture through the mountains on bicycles. If you are not much of an
outdoorsman (or woman), rent a two-seater and ride through the park instead.
16. Fore!
No, I am not talking about the sport Tiger Woods participates in (though it could be an idea as well), but the child version:
Miniature golf! Put your putting skills to the test, and then make a stop at the ice cream shop afterwards.
17. Weekend Getaway
Who said dates have to last one night? Rent a cabin out in the middle of nowhere, and enjoy the peaceful time spent alone.
The most important thing about a date is that the two of you have fun. You two are the only ones who know what you will
and will not like to do. Plan something you will both enjoy, and maybe even something that neither of you have done before.
The worst that can happen is you learn that you never want to do it again!
Sweet things to tell your girl - romantic lines sure to charm your girlfriend!
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Women love getting compliments. Men, especially the unromantic ones run out of things to say, very soon! With some help,
you can say beautiful things to the object of your affections, make them feel special and wonderful about themselves and
the relationship. The words you choose will set the tone of your relationship, making it blissful and romantic.
TIP: Read 2000 romantic questions you can ask your girlfriend
Some of the sweet things you can tell your sweetheart are as follows:
1. I love your smile and the way you make me smile.
2. I love the way you walk, talk and laugh.
3. You just make me feel so good.
4. I will call you honey, darling, sweetheart...
5. You are the best, you are amazing!
6. I can’t get enough of you...You drive me wild!
7. You know me so well, inside and out.
8. I love you so much...
9. I love you with my heart and soul...
10. I love everything about you, inward and outward
11. You make me laugh all the time!
12. You keep my spirits so high
13. You have a wonderful sense of humour, you are so funny...
14. I love the way you brighten up a room...
15. I love the way you love me
16. I love the way you make me feel
17. You make me feel at the top of the world!
18. I never want you to stop loving me
19. I cherish your love for me
20. I don’t know what I would do without you in my life
21. You fill my world with hope and love...
22. You complete me so well
23. You make me feel so special and lucky
24. I need you so badly...
25. You just made my day
26. You make my days beautiful and nights wonderful
27. I can’t get enough of your hugs and kisses...
28. I am sorry if I ever hurt you
29. I promise to love and cherish you forever
30. You are the one for me, my soul mate...
31. I don’t need anyone else in my life
32. You satisfy me completely
33. Marry me and make me the luckiest man in the world!
34. I have always loved you and will always love you
35. I miss you terribly.
36. I am so lonely without you...
37. My world is empty without you.
38. I can’t wait to be with you.
39. I want to be with you forever.
40. I love the way you hold me.
41. I cannot bear to part with you for so long.
42. I feel like I am dreaming when I am with you.
43. I have never been loved like this before...
44. I would like to wake up next to you forever.
45. It hurts to see you in pain.
46. I’d rather not be with anyone than you.
47. You are my Juliet.
48. A kiss for your every wish
49. You have changed my life completely
50. I can’t be thankful enough for the time we have been together...
51. I will lay down my life for you!
52. I’d rather not live than live without your love.
53. I love the way you look up to me.
54. I trust you with all my heart
55. I can't thank you enough for your love...
56. I cannot express my love for your love completely.
57. ‘I love you’ is not enough to describe my feelings for you.
58. You make me feel like the luckiest guy in the world
59. I enjoy every moment with you.
60. You make every other girl pale in comparison.
The main thing to remember is that she is special and she must be made to feel special. You must be perfectly honest with
your feelings and do not say 'I love you' if you do not mean it. All the endearments knit you closer together. Verbally
expressing your love is important, as many a love affair doesn't make it to the altar because the man didn't say as much as
he should have. A girl must be made to feel beautiful, special, wanted and loved. So if you are tongue-tied usually, learn
these endearments and quote them at appropriate moments so as to pleasantly surprise your girlfriend and make her feel
wonderful.
80 Sweet Text Messages to Send to Your Girlfriend
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Since technology is advancing with every passing minute, sending your girlfriend love letters and notes are a thing of the
past. Today, almost everybody uses a cell phone and communicates either by sending text messages or calling, of
course. Text messages sent during occasions serve as a reminder that one is being remembered on that day.
Conversational and romantic messages are exchanged plenty of times during the day and to help you choose the perfect
text for your girl friend, you can take a look at these.
TIP: 'Tell Me Honey...2000 Questions for Couples', the best-selling book has 2000 questions you can ask your girlfriend.
1. Good morning Sunshine (To wake her up and keep her cheerful all day).
2.
I’m thinking of you and wanted to tell you that I love you.
3. Every day would be as beautiful as this moment if you were with me.
4. If I could describe you in one word, I’d call you my life.
5. You make my heart beat faster and slower at the same time.
6. Check Love Compatibility with Your Girlfriend on your Mobile Phone and show it to her if you're a perfect match!
7. If it were up to me to rearrange the alphabets, I would keep U & I together.
8. I tried but I can’t stop thinking about you!
9. My world has no meaning without you.
10. You are the reason for my smile.
11. Words aren’t enough to tell you how wonderful you are. I love you.
12. You make my heart melt!
13. Life has never been better, thanks to you, sweetheart!
14. I miss you, we should get together soon!
15. If I had to, I would wait for an eternity to be with you.
16. I will love you forever and always.
17. Waiting for you at home, come back soon. I miss you.
18. When I close my eyes, I see you. When I open my eyes, I see you. There is nothing I can do without thinking of
you.
19. To have you as my girl is my honour. Be with me always!
20. They say love hurts, but I’m ready to take that risk, if I’m going to be with you.
21. I would climb a thousand mountains to see you smile.
22. I’d like to wake up next to you every morning!
23. You take my breath away.
24. My life is perfect, but it’s because I am with you.
25. I love yo_. All I need is ‘U’
26. If I was your bed, you’d sleep on top of me!
27. If I could hold you close again, I’d never let you go.
28. There are three steps to complete happiness: 1) You 2) Me 3) our hearts for eternity.
29. You are IN my mind every second of the day. But if you want, you can be IN my house right now.
30. If you see a shooting star, close your eyes and make a wish. It worked for me, I wished for you!
31. You’re my angel.
32. My love for you is never ending!
33. You are my star on a dark night, you are my hope when all is bleak, if it wasn’t for you, I’d never be me!
34. My life is a jigsaw puzzle and you’re my missing piece.
35. You bring sunshine into my life! You aren’t the sun, but you’re just as hot.
36. I can’t wait to be with you again. Loves and hugs.
37. They say love gives you wings but is that why I’m in seventh heaven?
38. You complete me.
39. I could attempt to live without you. But I would fail miserably.
40. Life is beautiful because of you.
41. For you I may be just one person, but for me you are the world.
42. I can’t live without you.
43. Thank you for supporting me today. If it wasn’t for you, I’d be lost.
44. When words aren’t enough to tell you how great you’ve been, remind me to come and kiss you.
45. Loving you is like breathing. I can’t stop and it’s necessary for my survival.
46. You + me = Happiness forever.
47. If loving you was against the law and kissing you was a crime, I’d happily spend my life in prison doing time.
48. I will love you for the rest of MY life.
49. It took me years to find perfection; I’m never going to let you go!
50. I’ll love you like no other. Be with me always!
51. People come and go, but you and I will stay together, forever.
52. On this special day of your life, I want to tell you how much I love you. Happy birthday, baby!
53. If I was a planet and you my moon, I’d stop spinning just by looking at you.
54. The world can cry foul by seeing you with me, but everything is fair in love and war.
55. You are the one for me.
56. A date is a formality I need to complete, before I can tell you how much I love you!
57. Our marriage officially binds us together. Love you.
58. You are my number 1!
59. Every time I see you, I love you more than before.
60. You take my breath away.
61. I hope you have a good night. Kisses and hugs!
62. When you are with me, the world feels right.
63. I want to cuddle up with you. Get home soon!
64. I can never be wrong, because loving you feels so right!
65. I miss you; I want to be near you again!
66. When I have you, I have everything I need.
67. Every minute I spend away from you is a minute I waste.
68. To stay away from you is something I can’t do. Come home soon.
69. I will miss you while you’re gone and will wait for you to get back.
70. Just wanted you to know that someone is thinking of you!
71. My world is a happier place because of you.
72. We are a perfect match. I love you.
73. For the last 24 hrs, 1440 minutes, 86400 seconds, I’ve missed you.
74. I’m the luckiest man in the world to have you as my girl!
75. You have my heart, keep it safe.
76. I’m never going to let you go.
77. I’ve been thinking about you.
78. Every minute spent with you is a minute well spent.
79. If I’m the reason for your smile, you’ll never get a reason to frown.
80. I love you, I miss you and I can’t wait to see you today!
Even with a text message, saying I love you is easy. So take your pick from the above text messages and send some
love right away!
!!50 things to do when you're getting bored
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There can never be a dull moment in your life if you know what you like to do in leisure time. There are tones of fun things
to do - so go ahead and choose your favorite activity- from jet skiing to just snoozing under the sun:
1. Read a book
Pick up a good book to read- a current best seller- a classic from yore- a science fiction /crime story/ some romantic poetry/
or just a handbook on your vehicle. The idea is to have an enjoyable read to fill up the time.
2. Visit bingo websites and play bingo.
Visit bingo websites, play bingo and befriend people in the bingo chatroom.
3. Watch a movie at the theatre
Nothing like watching a movie on the big screen, along with a crowd hooting and whistling, with lots of hot buttered popcorn
and cola and getting lost in the special effects. With multiplexes offering better movie experiences, watching a movie has
become a really enjoyable experience.
4. Download your favorite ringtones
Visit ringtone websites and download your favorite ringtones.
5. Visit an internet chat room
There are several internet chat rooms that are teeming with people chatting with each other on topics ranging from serious
issues like climate change to lighter ones such as hairstyles. There are Spicygirl, Oldygoldy, Daredevil, and Lazydaisy and
many such interesting people of all ages and from all places on the planet. The flip side is that spicygirl might be a 60-yearold Japanese man from across the world!! If you are comfortable with the unwritten rules of chatting (assumed identities/
new lingo- like a/s/l or smilies), then you can while away many hours on harmless chatting on the Internet.
6. Visit an astrologer or psychic
Wouldn’t you like to know your future? So if you have time to kill, visit an astrologer to have your hand and chart read. It is
a really interesting way to spend time by listening to his predictions and examining your charts. Even if you are a skeptic,
hearing his predictions is a harmless pass time.
7. Go to the mall
You can spend time at the mall doing different things. You can go shopping, or
not spend a penny and just window shop or
better still, just spend time watching the people thronging the mall.
8. Go to a coffee shop
Coffee shops are filled with interesting people with whom you can strike up or renew friendships. It is filled with friendly
banter over cups of steaming coffee.
9. Visit internet dating websites
Dating websites on the net are fun to explore. Create a profile just for fun and start surfing and contacting interesting people
for some online dating. Chatting with people you met on the sites can be a fun activity.
10. Play a prank on someone
How about playing a harmelss prank on some one to liven up the atmosphere. Maybe you can use anonymous telephone
calls or e-mails to pull gags on a friend and really have a good laugh. The idea is not to hurt some one but to share some
laughs at the end.
11. Throw a party or attend one
If you really want to have a wild time, you could throw a party. It could be a theme party like Hawaiian nights or Halloween
dress up. You can organize fun games/good food and drinks/ music and dance etc to liven up the party. You can also have a
nice time attending someone else’s party.
12. Take out your old clothes and donate them to poor
Take out all those relics of the past from your wardrobe and pack them all up. Present these packets to the Church or the
local charity home or to the poor you meet on the street. This is a really good way to spend your time.
13. Learn dancing
Go for dancing classes and learn to move a few graceful steps whether square dancing, salsa or ballet. You will learn to be a
good dancer as well as keep your body fit and meet interesting people who share the same passion of dancing.
14. Do some knitting/crochet
Learn some hand skills like stitching, knitting, crochet etc, which are not just for grandmothers. You can create wonderful
patterns and pieces like tablecloths, jumpers, socks, shawls, and lots more. Only limit is your imagination.
15. Make up a humorous poem / limerick/joke
Share or just enjoy making up funny poems, songs or jokes. You can entertain yourself or share a few laughs with friends.
16. Compile jokes
Have a fun time putting together jokes collected from books/ magazines/ radio/ TV. /Internet. Makes for a valuable
collection.
17. Collect cartoons
Collect favorite cartoons-newspaper cutouts/comic books/ movies and VCD’s/dolls/pictures.
18. Go sporting on the beach
Play beach volleyball- head out to the beach and have fun playing ball on the beach/ have fun people watching/join jet
skiing or surfing/go swimming/play Frisbee on the beach
19. Get a sun tan
Get a tan, resting in the sun with lots of suntan lotion on your body /at the beach/ or on your lawn in the backyard/in the
bright sunlight.
Read aloud to children-read aloud books/stories to children at local library or bookstore. It is an immensely satisfying
activity and the kids will keep you entertained.
20. Go babysitting
If you have a way with kids, go babysitting occasionally. You and the kids will entertain each other and you will earn a few
bucks too.
21. Play cards
Play cards with friends/ strangers on long train rides/ yourself. There are so many games with cards, for money or no
money to be played for lots of fun. You can also learn card tricks and impress your friends with them later.
22. Play some music
Feeling down and out? Blast some of your favorite music- it will jolt your senses and keep you rocking and rolling.
23. Make a trip to the beauty parlor or salon
Go through the facial/ pedicure/ manicure routine to feel clean and refreshed.
24. Get a new haircut/ hairstyle
How about sporting anew hairstyle from clean-shaven to long curly tresses, do creative things with your hair that leaves you
feeling confident and smart.
25. Sing out loud even if you cant
Be a bold bathroom singer. Try singing your favorite songs even if you are tone-deaf, entertaining yourself. Ignore the
shrieks from neighbors.
26. Dress up in something silly
Once in a while dresses up in fancy outfits just to look outlandish and silly and to invite stares from people.
27. Doodle or cartoon
You can create minor artwork by doodling and cartooning. Secretly doodling and cartooning can save a boring lecture.
28. Write letters to famous people
If you are a crazy fan or you are just plain bored you can write e-mails/letters to famous personalities. Some people make it
a daily obsession out of this activity. If you are lucky, you might get a reply.
29. Cook up a storm
Bring out those cook books and grandma’s recipes and roll up your sleeves- try your hand at cooking exotic dishes copied
from these books. Never mind if it bombs, you can serve them to your pets. If the pets don’t want it, use it as organic
manure in the garden.
30. Learn new words in the dictionary
Flip through the dictionary and have a fun time learning new words and their meanings. Try them out in conversation t
sometime in the future. It is a fun way to build up your vocabulary.
31. Plan a trip
Take a trip to someplace interesting- somewhere uphill to the mountains or down hill to the seaside. Maybe just plan a
picnic to the lake nearby.
Watch T.V. with sound off- Great fun watching shows on television with sound on mute. For more fun, you can mouth the
dialogues.
32. Karaoke in public
Have the guts to Sing to music (Karaoke) at the local club. Make sure you have had plenty of practice before you display
your singing skills.
33. Watch a foreign film
Watch an out- of- the- ordinary film like a Swedish/ Chinese/Serbian film. Have fun reading the subtitles in English. You may
discover some fantastic movies in other languages.
34. Climb a tree
Renew childhood memories. Scramble up a tree and enjoy the view from top or pluck a few fruits from the heights.
35. Watch a magic show
There is some interesting magic tricks that you can watch and some you can learn. So watch and learn magic tricks or
simply be mesmerized by some magician.
36. Watch a circus
Circuses are great fun with their flying trapezes, dancing elephants, daring mobikes and crazy clowns. Go with a few kids
and have a whale of a time.
37. Learn hypnosis
Learn to hypnotize people. Great way to get at the center of their thoughts and desires. Also allow yourself to be hypnotized
to cure any hang-ups you may have.
38. Stay up 24 hours
Stay awake for 24 hours to watch that football game being played across the planet, with lots of friends, food and fun.
39. Play silly games
Like hoops, skipping rope, go carting or go to theme parks and go on wild rides like roller coasters and giant wheels.
40. Volunteer for a charity
Spend time usefully by volunteering fro a local charity. Help them in collecting funds/old clothes/ furniture/toys/ and help in
doing chores for senior citizens like mowing their lawns or reading to lonely seniors.
41. Dial wrong numbers
Dial up strange people and have a conversation with them. Make sure you do this from a cell phone. Be careful you don't
give out personal information!
42. Set up an aquarium
Get plenty of gold fish and set up an aquarium at home. Have fun watching the fish/ feeding the fish/ looking after the
aquarium.
43. Learn basic office skills
Learnt to type/ short hand/ handle computers. This is very interesting to many people and has even become a necessity for
some.
44. Learn crazy body tricks
Learn to stand upside down, to do cartwheels, to make a long jump, to stand on one leg for long, to sit with legs crossed for
a long time and to do martial arts like Judo and Karate.
45. Compile an address cum birthday book
Cannot remember phone numbers or keep losing numbers saved on mobiles and palm tops? - Get those numbers down in a
book and also note down birthdays of important people. You can also save this information in your online-mail box.
46. Go hot air ballooning or kayaking or rock climbing
Those who love the outdoors have a wide choice of activities like trekking the wild jungles, climbing steep hills, kayaking
gushing rivers and floating in hot air balloons.
47. Go for meditation/ yoga
Give rest and rejuvenation to the senses by attending a meditation session or doing yoga.
48. Play virtual reality games
Play virtual reality games like Second life or World of Warcraft.
49. Get in touch with an old friend
This is a really useful way to spend time. Renewing friendship with an old pal and catching up on old times is really fun way
to spend your time. It may be through a phone call/ a letter/ an e-mail. Nothing more fun than sharing a few laughs and
memories with an old friend.
50. Rent a DVD/ VCD at home
Have a few hours to spare? If you’re a movie buff, a great way is to rent DVD’s at home especially to catch on movies you
didn’t get time to watch on screen or movies you want to watch again and again/ movie collections of your favorite stars.
There are hundreds of fun, satisfying and interesting activities to do when you are bored.
!!Cheap dating ideas - Inexpensive dating for those on a budget
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When you date someone, you want to make an impression on her. This is especially if it's one of your first few dates and
you would like to take it further. But what if money is tight and you just don't have the means to do fancy stuff and wine
and dine her? Yet, you don't want to seem like a cheapskate and have her think that she's anything less than special to you.
But whoever said that to have an enjoyable time with someone, you had to spend a lot of money? You can enjoy each
other's company even on a shoestring budget. Some couples have had great dates with little money but a lot of imagination.
Maybe you can learn from them.
Some of the all-time favorite cheap date ideas:
1. A walk in the park
Take a leisurely stroll with your date through rambling paths and lush greenery. Walk hand-in-hand and talk about your
interests, family, trees, nature, anything! The cost for leading her up the garden path - zilch!
2. Go for a jog
If you and your date are up for it, put on your track pants and running shoes and head out for a jog. While the jog itself
won't give you much opportunity to talk, it's always great to work up a sweat together. And afterwards, you can stretch
together and maybe you can even give her an impromptu massage to soothe those aching muscles. That's called 'Giving her
a run for (no) money'!
3. The beach
This one's an all-time favorite. You don't need to shell out any entrance fee and it is one of the most romantic places to be.
Whether you take a walk on the sand, lounge around on a chair tanning yourself, surf or just fool around in the water, the
beach must surely be one of the most popular 'cheap date' locations.
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4. Sports
If you and your date both happen to be the athletic types and love a particular sport, this could be the ideal alternative for
you. Indulge in a little competitive activity to get the adrenaline pumping. It could be table tennis, badminton or even
squash. But be a man and take it in the right spirit if she beats you!
5. Go for a swim
You might like to go for a swim together at the local club. This gives you the additional advantage of checking her out in a
swimsuit! And if you're a good swimmer and she's not, you can impress her with some cool strokes or maybe even teach her
some. Different strokes for different folks! If you're more adventurous, you could even go skinny dipping.
6. A picnic
Picture a cozy brunch or lunch for two in a nice meadow. You could spread out a cool picnic mat, take some sandwiches and
if you're really lucky, she may even feed you some of those grapes you've carried along. Only, make sure you pick a spot
where you don't get attacked by an army of ants!
7. Community center activities
Check out some of the activities at your local community center and ask your date if she'd be interested in anything. You
could have a really good time, and in the process, discover a fun side to your date, that you never knew existed.
8. Go sight-seeing
Sometimes you discover historic landmarks in your city that have minimal or no entrance fee. It could even be a museum, if
either of you are into that kind of thing. Either way, it gives you a lot to talk about and it makes for interesting conversation.
One of you may even decide to play tourist guide and ask for payment..in kind!
9. Movie/meal at home
Check out the Top Ten Movie list and rent one your date will enjoy. Make sure you find out what his/her taste in movies is,
you wouldn't want to choose an action movie if she really prefers a romantic comedy. Or invite him over to a home-cooked
meal, or even better yet, prepare it together. It might be great to see how you work together as a team and you'll be
surprised how much fun you have in the process. In this case, even if 'Too many cooks spoil the broth', you wouldn't really
mind!
10. Window-shopping
If it's the festive season, enjoy the originality and creativity of the window displays with your date. Or go shopping together
and pick out stuff you think you might like to buy, but don't buy it. It's great to see what the other person's tastes are, and
this way, when you do have some money and you're stuck for gift options, you know exactly what he/she fancies.
11. Coffee shop
Coffee and a couple of doughnuts won't cost you too much. So linger over your cuppa, inhale the aroma of freshly brewed
coffee and enjoy the company of your date in a relaxed and friendly setting.
12. Book reading/Library
If your date is the literary type, take her along to a book reading; she might really appreciate the effort taken on her
account. Or visit the library together and spend some quiet time just being with each other or exchanging love notes!
13. Go for a drive
You could take your date for a drive to a quiet place or somewhere that has a picturesque view. Sit in the car just holding
hands and talking or doing whatever you do best! Or sit on the bonnet with your arms wrapped around each other, watching
the sun go down. One of the most romantic views, and all it costs is the fuel it took you to get there.
14. Go trekking
If you like adventure, and you think your date might be up for it, go hiking. Choose a scenic route so that it's not all huffing
and puffing and you can stop and admire nature at her best. Carry along enough supplies and choose a nice spot, like
maybe a waterfall or somewhere with verdant pastures to catch your breath and relax in each other's company.
15. Go camping
This one requires your date to be the down-to-earth type or at least open to roughing it out. If you don't already have
camping equipment, borrow it from a friend and brush up your boy-scout skills. Enjoy the chirruping of the birds and the
beauty of the wild outdoors with your date.
16. Bicycle ride
If you don't own one, rent a couple of bicycles and take a leisurely ride in the countryside. Have races; enjoy the breeze in
your hair and the sun shining down on your face!
17. Visit a park
Choose a park that has an area for kids and act silly together. Have a whale of a time on the seesaws and maybe enjoy the
lulling rhythm of the bench swings.
18. Try out something new
If your date is up for adventure, try out a new sport, hobby or activity like ice-skating. Providing you don't take any nasty
spills, it could be a great way to have a few laughs together. It also gives you the chance to keep holding on to your date on
the pretext of steadying her (or yourself!).
19. Sit by the fireplace
Invite your date over and get a roaring fire going. Roast marshmallows together and get cozy on the rug by the fireplace.
Easy on the pocket, isn't it?
20. Play games
There are a variety of board games like Scrabble, Dominoes, Monopoly or even a game of cards that provide light-hearted
entertainment, without making even a dent in your wallet.
21. Go fishing
You might like to laze around in the sun in an idyllic spot, on the pretext of fishing. But if you do happen to be lucky enough
to catch some trout, that's your meal guaranteed as well!
22. Sit by the lake
Settle down on a bench by the lake, to feed the geese and carry along some snacks to munch on as well. Chat about life and
soak in the peaceful scenery, all for free.
23. Bird-watching
If you're a nature buff, grab your binoculars and your date and head out to a nature park or a popular bird-watching site. On
the pretext of showing your date some rare bird, enjoy a few close encounters! And what you may lack in your wallet, you
can make up for with your eloquence. Turn your binoculars on her and tell her that you're looking at the rarest bird of all!
In fact, no matter where you take your date or what you decide to do, don't be perturbed by what you think is a cheap
alternative. You don't even have to be a scintillating conversationalist. If you treat a lady right and show her that you've
made an extra effort to make her feel special, even if it doesn't cost much, she'll still feel like a queen!
How to be more charming to women - tips and advice to charm and sweep women off their feet
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Some men have a natural, easy manner of scoring with women. Ever notice how some men just walk into a room and sweep
women off their feet? For women though, it’s not always about looks. Honestly, how many times have you said, “What does
she even see in him<”. Haven’t we all seen really stunning women fall for complete toads?
TIP: The surest way to charm a woman is to ask her questions about herself. This is no rocket science and doesn't require
long courses or love gurus. Just get this book 'Tell Me Honey...2000 Questions for Couples' from Amazon.com or as an
ebook and get started. Have her miss you when you're not around!
So if you’re not devastatingly good looking, don’t fret. Fortunately for men, women are not visual creatures. Women are
more pragmatic and level headed when it comes to choosing a man. So when you see a hottie with a non-descript man,
don’t question logic. Understand that the guy is probably intelligent and funny, and she has a great time with him. The same
logic applies to smaller situations like parties, offices and virtually any other group dynamics. If you’re fun to hang out with,
you will score with women. Follow a few basic guidelines, and you’ll definitely see a difference in the way women react to
you.
1) Don’t be a shy boy. Most girls like assertive and confident men. Don’t be so shy that it becomes debilitating when you
interact with women. My colleague Ryan always complained of being ignored by women at work, parties, gym, etc. Now,
Ryan wasn’t bad looking, and he was reasonably intelligent. But he was painfully shy, and he hardly spoke to any women at
work. Shy and introverted people do very well, one to one. So if you’re one of them, speak to the girl in your office when
you see her alone at the coffee machine. Talk to the girl in your gym, when you know no one’s around. When you’re
successful in these small interactions, you will find it in yourself to gradually be able to hold your own in bigger groups.
2) Women feel comfortable with men who have no agenda. If she thinks you’re not pursuing her, she will be at ease with
you. Striking a friendship with a woman can be a great way of making the foundation for your relationship. A large
percentage of women claim to fall in love with men who they have been friends with. Be sure to strike the right balance
between being a friend she can trust, and being her man Friday. Do not assign yourself the role of her personal chauffeur,
dog walker and cabana boy. If you feel she’s using you, be a man and tell it like it is.
3) Be yourself. By this, I do not mean pick your nose in front of her, or chew with your mouth open. Be comfortable with
yourself, and don’t try too hard to be something you’re not. Trying to be something else is always a pressure, and it shows.
If you make up your mind to be yourself, you will be more at ease, and the confidence will show.
4) Do be funny. Women love a great sense of humour. Women are always looking for a man who can make them laugh. But
don’t start memorizing knock-knock jokes just as yet. Try to see the humour in situations. Observe what tickles your special
female friend. Whether it's self-deprecating humour or sarcasm, you’ve got their attention when they’re doubling up with
laughter. Steer clear of racist and sexist jokes.
5) Please do not be the overbearing smooth talker, with lame-ass pick up lines. This is a stereotype that all women hate and
avoid. Please leave the obvious lines to Daniel Craig. Women like men who are direct. A simple “You look great tonight” or
“You smell really nice” will probably be remembered. If your opening line is, “This must be the beautiful people section”, you
need a “conversation makeover”.
6) Do not over-compliment. Contrary to popular belief, women aren’t comfortable with too many compliments all the time.
Say something nice about her hair or her smile. That should tell her that you’re attracted to her. My friend Ethan has a sly
compliment-giving trick that you could try when you’re really confident. He waits for the third or fourth date for this.
Typically, his date would have spent a lot of time getting dolled up. But he doesn’t say anything when he picks her up. She’s
a tad disappointed. At dinner, he seems to notice everything, and smiles, but says nothing. She’s even more perplexed. He
drops her home, and he kisses her goodnight, but not a word about how hot she looked today. By now, the woman is
confounded. So he reaches home, calls her and whispers, “You look amazing in red”.
7) Be observant, and a good listener. Ask her questions about her career, life, childhood, etc. Do not probe about things that
would make her uncomfortable or stuff she doesn’t want to discuss. For example, avoid asking her about ex-boyfriends,
childhood trauma, etc. Be genuine, and listen to what she has to say. Don’t start mentally undressing her when she starts
talking, because a woman will always know when you’re not listening.
8) I cannot begin to tell you how important grooming is. Wash, scrub, trim and shave. Slap on cologne and you’re set. Wear
clothes that suit you. Develop your own style statement. A few wardrobe classics will always save the day, like blue jeans
and white shirts, linen day suits, etc. Do not be too sloppily dressed or too formally dressed all the time. A well-dressed man
dresses just right for the occasion.
9) Asking a woman out, is not an art like it’s made out to be. Make it casual and snappy. Something simple like “Let’s get a
drink sometime” is neutral, and doesn’t require a commitment from her.
She will say yes. Now, swoop in and say “How about Thursday?”. Don’t look at her with tension mounting up on your
forehead. Keeping it simple like this will never embarrass, you since you have not asked her out on some elaborate romantic
outing. The first date should be a coffee or a drink. This gives you more time to talk. Graduate to dinners, lunches and
movies with the second date.
10) All women complain of men staring at their breasts or butt. When you talk to a woman, look into her eyes and do not
stare south of her neck. If you must check her out, please do it when she or her friends aren’t looking. Nothing is worse
than a man making the woman aware of his lecherousness.
11) Women like being protected and cared for. When they’re out with a man, they like it when the man seems to have
control over the situation. So if you get drunk at a random party, and make a scene, or get into a brawl, don’t be surprised
if she doesn’t take your calls.
Once you open up with women and develop a natural confidence, you won’t think twice before talking to an attractive
woman. Sweaty palms and butterflies in your tummy will be a thing of the past. If you’re the average Joe and you dream of
chatting up women with confidence, try it by doing one thing at a time and you’ll see that you can be Prince Charming as
well.
Sweet things to say to your boyfriend
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Guys love being loved, praised and appreciated by their girlfriends. Here're some of the sweetest things you can say to you
boyfriend to make him smile!
1. I can be myself when I’m with you.
2. You love me with all my faults.
3. You are the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me.
4. You never make fun of me even when I look like a clown.
5. You never get bored of things I go on saying again and again.
6. You are so caring.
7. After my father, you are the best man I have ever come across.
8. You are such an inspiration to me; you are the light of my life.
9. You understand me even when I’m sobbing.
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10. You listen to all that I say, but you understand all that I don’t.
11. You at least pretend to do what I suggest.
12. All the things you do, whether small or big, make a very big difference in my life.
13. You make me feel like the most beautiful woman in this world even when I’m not.
14. You are like my pillar of support; I can fall back on you at any time.
15. You are always there with the warm hug when I need it the most.
16. You know how to bring a smile on my face.
17. I cherish the faith you have in me, I promise never to break it.
18. The best thing in you is your common sense, not many have it these days.
19. I love the way you play the guitar. (if he does)
20. I love all the sweet night talks and the feeling of you being around.
21. You add color to my life, a sparkle to my eyes.
22. You shower me with flowers and gifts.
23. You are never too busy for me.
24. Just the thought of spending time with you excites me.
25. You say all that I want to hear.
26. You are perfect.
27. I love the way you say, “You are mine”.
28. I love the way you hold me, so close to your heart.
29. I love the way you play with my hair.
30. I love the way you appreciate all the not-so-big things I do for you.
31. I feel so lost without you.
32. I am in love with you so truly, madly and deeply.
33. You have taught me the meaning of life.
34. I love your sense of humor
35. You never complain when I am late, you say that you came early.
36. I love it when you sing for me.
37. You are more thoughtful about my comfort before yours.
38. You do not complain even when I fall short of your expectations.
39. You have seen me at my worst and you still love me.
40. You are that someone who makes happiness happen.
41. You are my best friend.
42. You know just the right way to spoil me.
43. You never snore while I’m talking to you.
44. Just the mention of your name makes me blush.
45. You always make me feel so special.
46. Holding your hand gives me strength and comfort.
47. You are not the one who makes empty promises. (Conditions apply).
48. I like the way you shield me from the evil eyes.
49. Ooh-la-la, you’re a great kisser.
50. There are endless sweet things to say to you, but the sweetest one is that “I love you”.
40 fun questions to ask your partner
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As you embark on a new relationship, there are many things you’d like to know about your partner. Some things come up in
the course of conversation. But there are many things that don’t just crop up in idle conversation. Or at other times you just
want to have some fun with your lover and are curious to know what he’ll say in response to something.
Sometimes the questions may or may not have anything to do with your relationship, but they may still provide valuable
insights into your partner’s psyche and personality. It can be a fun way to discover more about each other. You could decide
to target two questions a week and both of you write down your answers to them on paper or email them to each other. Or
simply share the answers verbally with each other, which has the added advantage of being able to laugh together at the
responses you get. It can be especially fun if you’re just getting to know each other.
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1. What was your first impression of me?
2. How accurate do you now think it was? On which counts do you think you were totally wrong and on which were you
right?
3. What is your idea of a truly romantic evening?
4. If I promise not to get upset, can you tell me something that you’d like to change in me but don’t have the nerve to
tell me?
5. If you weren’t in the profession you are, what would be your other dream profession and why?
6. Apart from the most obvious one, which other two areas of your body are the most sensitive and responsive?
7. Which three parts of my body are your personal favourites and why?
8. Can you name three qualities that attracted you when you met me/got to know me?
9. Which is your dream destination and why?
10. Which is your favourite movie of all time and favourite scene in it? (If the other hasn’t seen it, narrate in detail.)
11. Which fruit/vegetable do you think I resemble and why?
12. Can you remember your earliest childhood memory of happiness and that of fear?
13. Your favourite aunt/uncle/cousin and why?
14. What are the qualities that draw you to people that you can base a friendship on?
15. Can you give me a mock session of how you would discuss sex education when you have a child?
16. Your first crush – what drew you to her/him?
17. Your first date – where did you go, what did you do and how long did the relationship last?
18. How have you coped with break-ups in the past?
19. What has been your scariest dream? Which has been your most frequently recurring one?
20. Which has been the best decision you ever made?
21. Which is the decision you regret the most?
22. Can you narrate to me your proudest moment?
23. If you won the lottery, what are the first three things you would do and which are the five things you’ve been most
longing for, that you would buy?
24. If your house was on fire and you had a chance to grab only five things before leaving, they would be…
25. If you were asked whom you would like to be born again as, the answer would be…
26. Which is your favourite flavour of ice cream, your favourite junk food and your favourite dessert?
27. Whose wardrobe would you most like to possess and why?
28. The one argument your parents had, that you would try and avoid with your partner, would be over…
29. Which is your favourite asset/body part on a man/woman and why?
30. The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you was…
31. Your most wicked fantasy has got to be… (Be open to this one, if you react adversely, he/she will never feel free to
confide in you again.)
32. If our relationship doesn’t work out, do you think we can remain friends? If no, why not?
33. Who are you closer to – your mum/dad - and why?
34. Your favourite song of all times and why – is it because of the lyrics, because of the memories associated with it or
just the whole package?
35. If somebody handed you a magic lamp and gave you three wishes, what would they be?
36. What upsets you most in a relationship and what makes you the happiest?
37. What is your perception of how people see you?
38. If someone told you they saw me with another guy, what would your first reaction be – she’s cheating on me, he’s
probably an old friend or I need to get to the bottom of this?
39. Can you think of something you craved for when you were young and were denied?
40. Have you ever found yourself attracted to someone of the same sex?
A word of advice. Don't be judgmental of the responses you get, and try and be truthful when answering. This can be a
wonderful way to just have fun or really get to know your partner more deeply.
Cute things to do for your girlfriend
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Actions speak louder than words... So it’s not only about the sweet things that you say to your girlfriend, its all about the
things that you can do for her. Here’s a list of the cutest ways to make your girlfriend happy:
1. Call her as soon as you wake up just to say a good morning!
2. Have a busy day ahead? Meet up with your girlfriend for breakfast.
3. Call her at least once in the day to find if she was doing fine.
4. If she’s angry with you, get her flowers and chocolates.
5. Girls expect their boyfriends to listen to their problems: so just listen and do not offer solutions.
6. Give her time to be with herself; there are times when girls like to be alone.
7. Give her time to be with her girlfriends; you could catch up with your guy friends at the same time.
8. Take your girlfriend shopping.
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9. Plan a surprise dinner for just the two of you at her favorite restaurant.
10. Paint her nails...she’ll love it.
11. If you are having a bad time and are upset about something, talk to your girlfriend about it; don’t expect her to
understand your silence.
12. Try to sort out misunderstandings before they grow into something big.
13. Don’t force your girlfriend to do something she is not ready for.
14. Tell her that it is alright if she is not ready for something; more importantly, mean it.
15. Care for her, love her like no one else does.
16. You should have a unique way of telling her that you love her.
17. Girls are delicate, handle them with care.
18. Compliment her and you’ll see her look more beautiful.
19. Loving her is not only about mushy-mushy things; you could even play a game of scrabble together.
20. Go cycling or maybe, swimming together.
21. Get tickets for the latest movie; preferably the top row, and don’t forget the popcorn.
22. What about taking her for a picnic?
23. Cook a meal for her; preferably edible!
24. Candle-light dinners are the best way to cheer her up.
25. Catch up on a cup of coffee with your girl, if you have been busy for some time.
26. Share all your secrets with her.
27. Talk to her about your day - girls feel involved this way.
28. Girls love giving suggestions, at least pretend that it helped.
29. Honesty is the best policy - be honest to her and more importantly, to your relationship.
30. Give her the support and comfort she needs.
31. She loves you, you are her best friend - stand by her as her pillar of strength.
32. If you are good with the brush, you could paint a picture of your girlfriend.
33. Small words of appreciation will help for what she does for you.
34. Love her for what she is and not what you want her to be.
35. Sing her favorite song to her on the phone.
36. Enroll for salsa classes together.
37. Out of town for work, drive down and surprise her.
38. She has an important day ahead, make sure you see her before that and tell her that everything will be fine, she is
perfect.
39. Going on a holiday with family? Make sure you get her something memorable. It doesn't have to be expensive.
40. After a hectic week, you could plan a weekend together to catch up with each other.
41. Lie down with your head on her lap - you’ll feel great and she’ll feel better.
42. Call her every ten minutes for not-so-important reasons, but make sure you do not overdo it.
43. Get a massage appointment just for the two of you.
44. Book the whole restaurant for just the two of you.
45. Take her for a long drive and maybe you could sit and admire the stars together.
46. A walk along the beach under the starry night sky is undoubtedly romantic.
47. Wear her favorite perfume all the time.
48. Admire her body as you give her a massage.
49. Some moments are best enjoyed in their own privacy; be sure of your timing.
50. Stay indoors on a wet Sunday evening and cuddle up together and watch a movie.
51. Meet up with her friends (obviously with her).
52. Be the ten-on-ten guy for her parents.
53. Don’t just love your girlfriend, respect her - it matters a lot.
54. Be proud of your relationship; flaunt it as the most expensive thing you possess.
55. Spend a night together in a tent at the beach.
56. Cuddle up on a couch and enjoy the feeling of just being together.
57. Everyone makes mistakes - forgive her if she makes one.
58. Celebrate your promotion with her - after all there’s a woman behind every successful man and she deserves to be a
part of it.
59. SMS her from work just to tell her how much you are missing her.
60. Love knows no rules. If you know any break them for her.
61. Don’t do anything to break her trust - it hurts.
62. Stay up all night planning your next date.
63. If you are making love to her for the first time, make sure it is love and not lust.
64. When she’s having a bad time, give her a warm hug - she needs it the most.
65. A sweet good night kiss on the forehead and a warm hug is the perfect recipe for a good night's sleep.
66. Take your girlfriend lingerie shopping.
67. Write a song about her.
68. Help her clean up the apartment after a party.
69. Praying together in a religious place or even at home.
70. If she’s not well, take a day off just to be at her side.
71. Send out seasons’ greetings together.
72. Frame a sketch of the two of you together.
73. Carry her shopping bags for her.
74. Compliment her in different languages.
75. Send her no reason flowers.
First Date Questions - A guide to conversation on the first date
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Somehow you managed to say all the right things and succeeded in getting her to come out on a date with you.
But now that you have, you find the classic "Cat got your tongue" feeling. You think that you’re going to open
your mouth and make some dumb gaffe or say the wrong thing and ruin the evening.
A first date is an unnerving experience, and worse still, the onus always seems to be on the man to prove
himself. While women have their own apprehensions about what to wear and how to impress, the buck stops
there. The pressure is normally more on the guy to do the right thing and more importantly, say the right thing.
And women have their antenna up observing the finer nuances of the conversation and reading between the
lines, anything that will give them a hint to what you are really like.
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What are the ideal first date questions and topics you should stick to?
1. No talk of exes …either hers or yours. This is one topic that definitely does not lend itself to a happy,
convivial first date atmosphere. Talking about exes inevitably brings in shades of bitterness, anger and
animosity, all feelings you should avoid at all costs on a first date. Instead ask her about her family. If she
doesn’t seem too forthcoming about her parents, it could be a sore point, or that she doesn’t get along too well
with them, in which case avoid delving too deeply. If she seems close to a kid brother or an older sister, ask
more about them. Or even her close circle of friends. Whatever makes her comfortable and takes the heat off
you.
2. Another ideal first date question is her chosen field of study. Ask her what made her choose the subjects she
has, what does she like most about it etc. Chances are she’s passionate about it and will wax eloquent about
the details. It will give you valuable insights into her mental faculties. She may not be the class topper, but it
can be a good thing if she’s academically inclined.
3. Professional pursuits and career plans are another good topic, if you’re both past your college years. If she
gets too carried away with how boring her job is, steer her deftly in the right direction by asking her what she
plans to do about it. If she’s content to only complain and sit tight, it will tell you a lot about her personality. If
she’s career-oriented and ambitious, it will give you an idea about her go-getting nature and focused approach.
4. It is also a good idea to have some entertaining anecdotes or amusing stories to narrate, to fill in potential
awkward gaps in the conversation. Run them by a good friend, preferably a woman or even your sister, to
check out their rib-tickling ability. What you may consider funny, everybody might not, and if you’re making the
effort to get her to laugh, no harm ensuring you’ve picked the right way to do it!
5. Talking about interests shared or otherwise, is another hot first date topic. Even if you or she doesn’t have a
particular hobby, you surely have something you’re passionate about. If she doesn’t show any inclination to talk
about sports or your favourite soccer team, take the hint. Remember, it is important to be clued in to her
interests and this is your opportunity to find out. You may even discover a common love for something. If you
are both voracious readers and have read a couple of the latest on the bestsellers list, you could have an
animated discussion on it. Or discuss a movie that caught your fancy. Find out what kind of music she likes and
whether she likes dancing, things that could give you ideas on how to catch her fancy if you are going to ask
her out again.
6. Catch her off-guard. When she least expects it, throw in a compliment that she will cherish, all the more
because it is unexpected. If for instance, she does talk to you about sports and is knowledgeable about it, you
could tell her how refreshing you find that in a woman. While complimenting her avoid making comparisons with
other women. Saying things like "Most of the women I know or have taken out..." will seem like you’re either a
Casanova, or surrounded by more women than she cares to find out. When you compliment her, do it
exclusively and wholeheartedly.
7. And a first date question you can never go wrong with is asking her in general about her likes and dislikes.
What she likes to do in her free time, does she enjoy cooking, is she a foodie, does she have a sweet tooth etc.
You could also find out if she has an adventurous streak or loves travelling and if she does, which places she’s
been to and which ones she’d like to visit. Share some of your experiences with her, and if you’ve been to a
place she’d like to visit she’ll be excited to find out your take on it.
Things to avoid talking about on your first date
1. Boasting about anything is taboo on your first date. Whether it is your success in business or with women. A
truly successful man knows that his success speaks for itself, without having to talk about it. His confidence
comes across instantly, and women can gauge it from his attitude and outlook.
2. Another thing to avoid is blatantly sexual remarks or foul language. It is a total turnoff. You might get away
with saying something tongue-in-cheek or naughty, but don’t go over the top. And avoid making cheap
references to "getting lucky" or "making your day".
3. Another first date no-no revolves around topics that could provoke an argument or a heated debate. It would
involve one person coming out the loser – if it's you, it will somehow dent your masculine pride and ego, and if
it's her, the temporary victory you feel will vanish when you realize that all you won for the evening was the
argument. In all probability, you've lost any chance you had with her.
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The first date determines whether there will be a second date, if at all. If the date turns into a long relationship
or perhaps marriage, the first date will always be cherished.
Successful first dates should revolve around common interests and hobbies. Before asking your newfound
girlfriend/boyfriend out on a date, it is wise to find out a little bit about the person, like their hobbies, interests,
family background etc. Based on any shared interest or hobby you can decide upon the venue.
In the initial stages of getting to know your date, there may or may not be a lot of conversation. Going for a
movie is generally a popular choice for a first date, because in case it's hard to make conversation, at least
you'd have watched a good movie. Here are some ideas...
1. Restaurant
Going to a restaurant for a dinner is known to be the most popular choice of venue when on a first date. Choose
a restaurant with a suitable ambience. No live band should be playing in the background if you and your partner
are the type of person who rather listen to each other's voices than the sound of music. For the romantic at
heart, a dimly lit place, with limited seats and offering the choicest spread of intercontinental cuisine, can be an
ideal beginning for the first date and probably many more in the future!
2. Concerts
It could be either an indoor place playing country music or an opera concert or your favorite rock or rap artiste
playing in an outdoor stadium. Bonding over music that interests both is sure to set the right note for a great
evening.
3. Go bowling or play pool
If eating out in a restaurant on a first date is not something that excites you, then choose a place which offers
both food and games. Playing pool or bowling preceding a dinner will give you ample time to know each other
better.
4. A boat cruise
If you happen to stay in a city or town which is blessed with a beautiful sea, lake or any kind of water body,
then splurge on a moonlight cruise or just go boating in a canoe or a row boat. Talking to your girlfriend under
the moonlit sky, with the warm sea breeze caressing both of you, can evoke a sense of romance even in the
most staid person.
5. Art gallery or museum
If you share a passion for art or architecture, then visiting an art gallery or a museum may be a learning
experience. You may not only learn about the nuances of the art works (which you may have otherwise not
discovered alone) but also discover the finer traits in each other!
6. Discotheque
If you love dancing and your date does too, then hit the discotheque on your first date. If you are a music lover
but prefer to enjoy it only when played in low decibels, then choose a hotel with a dance floor and which plays
old romantic numbers. Waltzing to the timeless music of the bygone era can be a great way to increase the
bonding between you and your partner!
7. Get sporty
If your date shares your craze for squash or basketball, then take him/ her to a game at a nearby stadium or
play a game of squash at a club. It is believed that active outings make great first dates; it not only helps you
to stay in shape but may raise the levels of intimacy.
Things to talk about with your girlfriend
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Whenever Sam has a date lined up with his girl, he has his heart thumping and blood pressure soaring! Talking
to his girlfriend and managing to hold her interest beyond two to three dates has almost become a Herculean
task for him.
The gelled hair, Levi's jeans with an expensive T-shirt and a cool pair of shades may do the initial trick of
attracting a girl of your choice, but what next? How do you proceed from there? Your exemplary sense of
dressing apart, communication and presentation skills play a key role in wooing a girl.
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your girlfriend!
For guys like Sam who believe that dating ultimately culminates into love and marriage, Valentines Day is more
like a doomsday. Valentine's Days have come and gone but far from Sam's dates culminating into friendship, his
girlfriends have never remained beyond two dates. So exactly what are the things you need to be talking to
your girlfriend/date to hold her interest beyond those customary 2 dates? Sam wonders. If similar woes bog you
down, then read on.
Good physical appearance with well-styled clothes is a sure-shot way of making an impression on a girl. At
times, the initial 'first impression' soon turns into disappointment the moment the guy opens his mouth and lets
a tirade of words tumble out, much to the dismay of his listener. These words, far from being pearls of wisdom
need not necessarily reflect the no-holds- barred trait in you.
Conversation means one person talks and the other listens, and remember it's also vice-versa. Proving to your
girlfriend that you are a great conversationalist does not mean that you talk continuously about your hobbies,
your interest or your goals.
Show her you care by also talking about things that matter to her and really listen to her answers.
Conversation can just start by asking her about her day at work/college. Listen to what she has to say and take
turns in talking. To build a good rapport, your discussion can center around mundane topics like movies, the
latest hot spots in town, sports etc. So the trick is to share issues, but at the same time, she need not
necessarily read you like a book. Pay attention and do not grill.
She must feel that you do have space in your life for her and her feelings. Sharing a joke or an anecdote with
your girlfriend is a great way of putting her at ease (if on a first date). It can also act as a de-stressor after a
hard day's work.
Talking about heavy-duty topics like crime, violence or things you hate can be unwise. The point is that
incessant chatter, however interesting or silly, will lead you nowhere. Do not be boastful about your previous
conquests.
Talking about your ex-girlfriends will make her feel that her presence in your life is of least importance. A date
with your girlfriend should be an experience to remember and cherish. Using your girlfriend as a punching bag
(metaphorical sense, please) leaves no scope for growth in your relationship. Avoid venting out your
frustrations, insecurities and dejections on your girlfriend. Instead, steer the conversation to the topics of her
interest, like her job or career.
Girls today work just as hard as boys do and they also treat their profession with utmost seriousness. So learn
to respect the ambition and profession of your girlfriend. If you know nothing about the profession your
girlfriend is in, do a little bit of research and background work about her job. This will reflect your level, of
interest in her and also in things that interest her. Talk to her about her career prospects, her rapport with her
colleagues, her future plans.
Your comfort level and compatibility with your girlfriend should reach a certain level where both of you talk
about anything and everything without any inhibitions. Talk about each other's fears or problems, together you
may probably find a solution. Be honest, if you have a hidden secret which may have a way of coming back and
jeopardizing your relations, then talk about it. It may not only boost your self-esteem but may help in
strengthening your relationship.
If you are brimming with creativity or possess an artistic streak in you, then why resort to the colloquial way of
wooing your girl? Put your feelings and thoughts into a poem or a haiku, a time-tested formula that has
impressed girls from the Roman era!
Last but not the least, talking to your girlfriend without any hang-ups about your emotions and feelings is
crucial . All said and done, at the end of the day, your girl may expect some kind of a compliment probably on
the way she looks, her dressing sense, a new hair-do or you can just compliment her choice of food or perfect
skills in communication! Giving your girl a bouquet of roses, a box of chocolates or a soft, cuddly toy, are some
of the pleasant interjections that should not be overlooked.
But bear in mind that words weave a magic of their own that no materialistic items can replace. Words, that are
honest and are a true reflection of your feelings, can trigger a mixture of intense emotions in your girlfriend.
These feelings can range from mere admiration to adoration or to even love!
How to win at the dating game
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How to make a good first impression
Dating can be a lot of fun if you play your cards right. It doesn’t have to be a nerve-wracking experience, but an
enjoyable one. Once you master the fine art of dating, you can be a winner all the way. The important thing is
to get the routine down pat and get yourself to loosen up and enjoy yourself while you’re at it. The idea is not
to desperately chase after women but to hone your skills in being subtle and get the desired results.
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Every dating game follows a set course, a pattern, and you have to follow through to be successful at it and
reach your final goal, whatever it be – a one night stand, a fling or a long-term relationship.
How to meet women
First, you have to provide yourself with plenty of opportunities to meet women. While bars and clubs might be
ideal for a one-night stand (or if you really connect, something more permanent), the perfect places to meet
women are where it’s not a one-off thing.
You need to frequent places where you get the chance to probably have more than just a passing encounter
with a woman – places like dance classes, language classes, the gym. These are places where you can gradually
build a rapport with a woman. You don’t have to be anxious about pinning all your hopes on one night, or a
standard pick up, where you have to do all the groundwork in the space of a single evening. Here, you can
make things appear casual; you may not even have to initiate anything. Dance classes, for instance, involve
close proximity and the initial awkwardness of learning new dance moves is an ideal icebreaker, something to
laugh about and get things going.
What will you say to her?
Something casual and innocuous should do the trick. You’ll probably have her running in the opposite direction
if you resort to standard pick up lines, unless you’re really good at doing it in a tongue-in-cheek kind of way and
you can get her to laugh about it. But it’s generally best not to show a woman you’re too eager to get to know
her. It works better if you don’t make it obvious you’re hitting on her, so you must wait for the right opportunity
and make it appear accidental. Once women know they have you on a leash, they’ll string you along, but if you
keep them guessing - whether you’re really interested or just being friendly - it will work in your favor.
Keep it light and entertaining. If you’ve given a woman the chance to approach you and she does, don’t let her
regret it. Get her to talk and remember, you don’t have to find out everything in one conversation. Unless she
asks you, don’t be too anxious to convince her what a great guy you are - women are very intuitive about such
things, they don’t need to hear it from you - they can sense it from the way you behave around them. So if it
helps, pretend you’re with a casual friend and be as natural and relaxed as possible. Don’t be overanxious to
get her to go out with you one of the first times you talk.
Make your first impression a lasting one. If your first few conversations and ‘casual encounters’ don’t go well,
she’ll probably start avoiding you and all will be lost. For this you have to strike a balance and capitalize on your
strongest assets. Combine impeccable grooming with a decent wardrobe and try and be as clued in to current
events as possible. Women are almost always impressed by intelligent talk. But once again, don’t get carried
away telling her about your latest project and blow her mind with technicalities.
The key lies in touching on interesting, relevant topics that allow her to participate in a stimulating conversation
and impress her with pertinent remarks at the right moments. If you think she doesn’t have much to contribute
or is waiting for you to do the talking, entertain her with a few humorous snippets that you keep handy for just
such an occasion. The idea is to get her to relax and have a lively exchange so that she actively seeks you out
again, or at least doesn’t avoid you!
What you shouldn’t do
There are certain absolute no-nos when you’re trying to hook up with a woman. Avoid nervous gestures and
drumming of fingers, dithering and indecisiveness. On the other hand, don’t go to the other extreme and act
arrogant or egoistic and brag about your job, car or luxury apartment. If you have to resort to talking about it,
you’re either going to come across as desperate or attract the wrong kind of woman, one who’s only looking for
what she can get from you.
Don’t get physical too early in the game. If she says ‘no’, back off, don’t persist. Avoid getting drunk or using
bad language. Also avoid bringing up any references to your past or relationships gone sour at this stage or you
run the risk of coming across as embittered and still wallowing in the past. Don’t be like a panting, eager, puppy
dog after a bone – play it cool.
What you should do
And just as there are things you shouldn’t do, there are certain musts. Give her all your attention when she’s
talking. Don’t worry about whether she’s a feminist, do all the gentlemanly things – stand up when she walks in,
help her on with her jacket or hold the door open for her. Be interested in what she has to say and respond
appropriately, and most of all, store it away for future reference. Women just love it if you remember some
apparently insignificant detail – to them it means you cared enough to listen.
Try and be a keen observer and pay attention to her body language, it will provide invaluable clues to how she
feels about you. If she leans towards you when she talks, brushes up against you more often than can be called
accidental or keeps touching you on your hand/arm, she’s definitely interested.
Secure vital information
Once you’re pretty sure where you stand, it's time to go for what you’re after – her contact details. Tell her
you’d like to call her sometime, or if you’re going for the direct approach, that you’d like to ask her out. Wait
and see if she’s willing to offer you her phone number without making you grovel. If she doesn’t or is still
waiting for you to say something more, ask her directly if she’d like to give you her number. If she says no, bow
out graciously or if you think she’s scared to give out her number, give her your's. Don’t ask her if she’d like it,
she may be uncertain whether to act coy or be honest. However, when you do this, you’re taking the chance
that she might not call you. Or if you don’t mind one last-ditch effort, ask for her email address. For safety
reasons, women sometimes prefer giving out email addresses, which buys them a little time to get to know you
better, while still retaining anonymity if they wish.
Calling her and asking her out
Don’t call her too soon; give it a couple of days after she gives you her number. Don’t leave it too late either or
you’ll be diluting the impression you made, especially if it was a really good one! Depending on how the
conversation goes, if she sounds relaxed like she’s got the time to talk, ask her out.
Avoid stretching out the conversation too long. Get to the point and if she says yes, don’t be lost as if you
weren’t expecting it. Have a date, venue, and a couple of alternatives in mind. And give her a little flexibility.
It’s important to be decisive, but not rigid. And if she says no, don’t beg. If she refuses, take the rejection with
a chin-up approach. If she agrees, don’t act like she’s handed you the moon.
The first date
On your first date, remember you need to create enough of an impression and give her a good time, but you
don’t have to overdo it. Choose somewhere casual like a café, or even a blues bar, or a tasteful (but not
necessarily expensive) restaurant – somewhere both of you can connect and get to know each other better.
Also, just because you have asked her out doesn’t make you the needy one. Remember, she may be equally
nervous about this date and you aren’t the only one under trial here. Putting her at her ease will serve to relax
you as well, and two relaxed people make for an enjoyable evening. If the date goes well and she’s giving out
positive body language signals, try for a light kiss at the end of the evening and if she reciprocates, deepen it.
But don’t push for anything more.
Calling her and asking her out again
If she doesn’t call you to tell you she had a good time, you could call her and tell her that you did. That’s if you
really did. If you didn’t, you wouldn’t want to ask her out again would you? And just to keep her guessing, don’t
ask her out again straight off. It will lead her to believe she’s your only option. End the conversation on a
positive note and wait a few days to call her again and ask her out.
And when you go out on your second date, do something totally different from the first one. Go bowling or on a
picnic, somewhere you can both let your hair down since the ‘first date pressure’ is over. Remember there’s a
lot to be said for being innovative when planning a date. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but it can be
adventurous and fun.
The art of loving
In addition to personal characteristics, it is an added advantage if you’re a good and considerate lover. Apart
from skill and technique that you get from experience, as you get to know her better you will learn about what
she likes best. Her erogenous zones, where she likes to be caressed, what turns her on. And that will help you
satisfy her on a sexual level. But remember that if you really like this woman and want to keep her, at least
long enough to explore possibilities of a relationship, you have to keep the spark alive on other levels too.
Compliment her, appreciate her and make her feel there’s nobody else who could make her feel quite the way
you do!
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So you actually got past your inhibitions to flirt with that drop-dead gorgeous woman and summoned up the
courage to ask for her number? And you’ve even successfully called her to fix up a date without bungling it up!
Now that you’ve got her where you want her, or at least where you can see her again, you don’t want all your
efforts to come to naught. You need some serious help on how to make your first date with her a success. How
do you go about making a good impression on a first date?
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Where…
...are you going to take her? While most first date options traditionally favored the candlelight romantic dinner
or such similar fare, experts are now re-evaluating their take on this. Research is now suggesting that first
dates benefit more from doing fun things together. Like going to a funfair or a rock concert. They say that the
thrill and excitement of a roller coaster ride, or the adrenaline rush that is brought on by rock music, lends itself
to spicing up the first date, thus making a good impression.
Since first dates can sometimes be awkward affairs, a casual setting like a comedy club or even a blues bar, can
provide an easygoing atmosphere to what could otherwise be a slightly tense experience. While a first date
should lend itself to conversation, if you are one of those types who is slightly nervous or edgy around a firsttime date, it would be a good idea to take her where you don’t have to initiate too much conversation.
When…
...are you planning the date for? Should you fix it straight away and seem too eager? Or should you play it cool
and act like it doesn’t matter? Taking the middle ground should do just fine. You don’t want to seem too anxious,
yet you don’t want her to get the feeling that it doesn’t matter at all or that you’re acting too laidback.
Suggest a date a couple of days away, while hastening to reassure her that should she not be available, a later
date would do. This way you’re showing her you’d love to see her, while also displaying the right amount of
concern for her plans. This will help you score points, as looking out for her needs and seeing beyond your
immediate concerns – a good way to set the stage for creating a good impression even before your first date.
How..
..do you plan to get there? Are you going to pick her up or agree to meet at the venue itself? Once again, you
don’t need to put yourself out or travel to the opposite end if the venue of your date is somewhere in between.
She’ll think she already has you where she wants you, at her beck and call, and half the fun is lost. You could
suggest meeting somewhere half way. But there are still women who feel very special if their date makes the
effort to pick them up, and you could throw it in for good measure without seeming unduly enthusiastic. If she
leaps in to take you up on it, you can be sure it will add up in your favor to do the chivalrous thing.
What…
...is the ideal code of behavior to make a good impression on the first date?
1. Should you take her something like flowers or a box of chocolates? It might not go amiss, but don’t overdo it.
2. Compliment her on how she looks and make it sound genuine, not as if you memorized it on the way.
3. If you’re meeting her at the venue itself, do the gentlemanly thing. Stand up when she walks in; make sure
she’s comfortably seated.
4. Be yourself, which doesn’t mean that you should take it to the other extreme and do things like swear or use
profanities. Act as naturally as possible, because that is not something you have to make an effort to do.
5. Be attentive, but don’t go overboard trying to impress her, it will only backfire. She will figure that you’re
already a sucker for her. Being a little elusive does wonders and makes a woman want to chase you a little too.
Doing all the chasing is no fun.
6. Put her at her ease. If you succeed in making her feel comfortable, it’s the surest way for her to enjoy your
company and the evening.
7. Be decisive and confident, but seek her opinion too. For instance, if you’re ordering something, you could
always make a creative suggestion, but don’t force it down her throat. Ask her if she’d like to make her own
choice. She will see it as a quality that extends to other aspects of your life too.
Why..
..should you not ask her for a second date on your first date itself? You figure it will save you the trouble of
plucking up the guts to call her and ask her out again and it's better to get it over with now. But irrespective
how successful your date has been, or how much she says she’s enjoyed herself, it pays to drag out the
suspense. Anticipation is a powerful feeling and keeping her in that heightened state will work in your favor.
Keeping her guessing should do the trick and make her realize that you’re not a goner for her yet. In fact, you
could even call her up the next day telling her what a great time you had and how you should do it again, but
still refrain from asking her out. Try and see if she’s shows any inclination to do it for you and make your job
easier. If not, postpone asking her out till your next call, by which time she will hopefully be dying to see you
again.
Which…
..is the best way to end the date? To kiss or not to kiss, that is the question. This is something for which you
have to rely on your instincts. If the date has gone really well and she has been giving you good body language
signals - touching your hand, leaning toward you - it’s a fairly good indication that you won’t be slapped with
outrage if you try kissing her.
You could act as if it’s an impulse thing, and kiss her just as you open the car door for her. Or predictable, and
kiss her as you’re bidding her adieu at her door. Don’t get into the hot and heavy scene unless she makes the
first move. Keep the kiss light but firm, and no awkward groping please. And if you get any luckier than a kiss,
you can be sure you’ve really made a good ‘first date’ impression.
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You have successfully sailed through your first date. Though a bit awkward and uncomfortable in the beginning,
first dates can be both exciting and rewarding. How can you term it as rewarding? First dates can be rewarding
if the date leads to a second one.
A second date is an indicator that you have created a good first impression. After the first date, if there is a
feeling of attraction, eagerness to know the person better, you are comfortable with each other and are able to
talk with each other, then your next date is more likely.
TIP: The best way to spend the second date is to ask questions and get closer. If you're wondering what you
ask, we recommend 'Tell Me Honey...2000 Questions for Couples', the best-selling book from Amazon.com,
available as a paperback and as an instant download ebook.
Dating is all about eating out, good music and perhaps dancing. In all stages of dating, there should be a
consistent exchange of thoughts and ideas. A lively conversation between two people can spice up even the
most sober ambience.
Your first date was probably about getting to know each other. Conversation would typically center around each
other’s interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes, career prospects etc. So everything went off rather well on the first
date and you're planning to meet again. What next? A lively, enjoyable conversation can let your date learn
about the real you. So what are some conversation tips for your next date? Here are few pointers:
Successful first dates are the ones that progress into a second one. So set the fear factor aside. So now you can
fearlessly ask this question – What’s the most annoying thing someone could do on a first date? This question
may bring a smile to your partner’s face or may put her into a contemplative mood. This can be a great
conversation starter which may either add a sense of humour into your conversation or may get either one of
you into an analytical mood.
Has any book had a major impact on you?
If reading is a passion that both of you share, then this question will be relevant. A fiction or a non-fiction book
could have left an indelible impression on your mind. Talking about books or any common hobby may help you
realize that your general view of life and the values and ethics you have imbibed are common.
What was the best bargain you ever found?This is a good conversational tip to assess the humour aspect
present in your date. If your date is really smart enough and has a rather frivolous or different view to certain
aspects of life, her answer to this question may be like this:"The best bargain I could possibly find was picking
you for a date instead of going out with a rich handsome boy. Here you are, so compromising and willing when
it comes to footing the bill. Apart from good food, I get a chance to enrich myself, thanks to the free and
unlimited source of knowledge and tit bits of life you impart. It could have been a bad bargain if I had gone out
with the rich guy. Apart from talking incessantly about mundane issues he might have sedated me with 'I, me,
myself' stories."
What would be the title of your biography?
An appropriate conversation tip if you want your date to put on her thinking cap. Her answer to this question
may throw some light on certain aspects of her life/personality that you may not be aware of.
What is the most unusual thing you know how to do?
A conversation between you and your date should not always center around serious or mundane topics. To
make your conversation lighthearted, you can talk to each other about the wackiest things you have ever done.
This is one way of conveying a message to one another that you are not actually a dull or boring person as
either of you have possibly appeared to be.
If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?
Every person should be focused, have a sense of direction in life. He should aspire to reach a higher goal to
prove his mettle. This could be an effective conversation tip to judge each other’s ambition level.
Is there anything you can't say no to?
This should be your last topic of discussion. If your evening out is coming to an end, pop this question at that
moment but make it a point to answer first. Your answer should typically be, "I am quite sure that I cant say no
to another date with you." By the end of the evening, it's evident that you and your partner have learnt much
more about each other than you did on your first date. Taking a decision to date again will be rather obvious!
Random questions to ask a guy - fun questions for someone you're dating
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Here're random questions to ask a guy. Answers to these questions can help you know you guy better. It's best to take the
answers casually without being overly judgemental or the purpose would be lost. The idea is to know you boyfriend better,
not to break up with him!
1) Do you enjoy your job? What would you do in life if money was not a constraint?
2) Are you a morning person or a night person?
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3) Is there anyone in the world you love so much that you could give your life for them?
4) If you had the power to just utter a word and kill someone - no one would find out and you would not be charged with a
crime, who would you kill and why?
5) Do you have a role model - someone you want to emulate? Whom do you admire the most?
6) Do you contribute to any charity? What is the largest amount you have ever given to any charity?
7) Are there any causes you strongly believe in?
8) If you won a million dollars in a lottery, what would you do with it?
9) If you knew you had only 2 weeks to live and death was imminent what ae the regrets you would have? Why haven't you
done anything about those regrets? How would you spend those two weeks?
10) Is there someone from the past you really miss and would like to locate?
11) Who was your first love?
12) Who was the first person you ever kissed?
13) If someone gave you $1,000 and asked you to kill a butterfly by burning it alive in the flame of candle, would you do it?
14) If you could take a year off an go travelling, where would it be?
15) Which sports do you play or watch?
16) Which is your favorite Comic book character? What do you like about him/her?
17) If you could relive the last five years of your life, what would you change?
18) Are you a virgin? Who did you lose your virginity to?
19) Do you watch porn? How would you react if you found your girlfriend or wife was into porn?
20) Are there any fears you have that you would like to get over?
21) Do you find yourself prejudiced or biased in any area?
22) Tell me five of your pet peeves?
23) If a genie granted you 3 wishes, what would you ask for?
24) Would you marry someone much richer or much poorer than you?
25) If you could marry someone who was 80 years old and a billionaire wth virtually a certainity of inheriting hundreds of
millions of dollars on their demise, would you do so? What if the person were 70?
26) If you could have sex with any three people you chose, who would they be?
27) When you meet someone of the opposite sex, what do you first notice about them? Which are the parts of their body
that you notice?
28) Have you ever dated two girls at once without either of them being the wiser about it?
29) Have you ever been arrested or charged with a crime?
30) Have you ever used being drunk as an excuse for doing or saying something?
Questions to avoid on a first date
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Men and women go for dates for different reasons. But most common points of interest are intimacy,
companionship, socializing, and recreation. Dates are about two people going out together to have fun, but
sometimes they end up in misery for both. This depends on the quality of interaction or nature of conversation
between the two of them.
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If the communication between the two who are going on a date is not effective, they will not enjoy each other’s
company very much and their relationship will not go far. Mere physical attraction cannot help sustain a
relationship. A lull in conversation or embarrassed silences or dominating monologues are all mishaps in the
dating game.
It takes a lot of sensitivity and plain common sense in choosing what to talk about while on a date. You must
steer off controversy as well as monotony, vulgarity as well as stuffiness. You have to appear interesting,
empathetic, amusing and intelligent. Some of the questions you can avoid on a date to avoid embarrassment
afterwards are as below:
1) Questions on ex-partners
Do not narrate stories of ex-partners and previous relationships. Especially do not reveal all the gory details on
how she/he called you 18 times a day or how you cheated on him/her. You end up revealing your own character
flaws and perhaps arouse the suspicion that you have not completely got over the previous romance. So you
need to avoid discussing your ex to your date and must give the impression that you are starting on a clean
slate.
You should not narrate break-up history or express any bitterness over previous relationships. You are
supposed to have fun and not to cry over the other’s shoulder. Bury the past and start anew. You should not
treat your date as a shock absorber.
2) Questions on personal problems
Why do you want to rake up any personal problems on your date? Don’t discuss mental, financial, and legal or
divorce problems. You are opening up a Pandora’s box of problems. It is best not to bring up these problems
with your date.
3) Avoid politics
Especially on your first date, you must not discuss if and why you are a Democrat or a Republican or what you
think of Bush's governance. If your idea of having fun is discussing such topics, you belong to a rare species. A
heated argument on politics is sure to sour up a date.
4) Avoid heavy religion
You can discuss whether you believe in God and what He means to you in your life. But if this leads to
metaphysical arguments like the question of abortion, women priests, the question of who created you, the
theory of evolution, etc, such discussions are too heavy for a date. Avoid such topics or your date will avoid you
like the plague.
5) Don’t whine and complain
Don’t ask questions that lead to whining and complaining. Who wants to listen to how lousy your job is, and
how bad the weather is? A date is not the place to air your grievances. Your date is expecting to have fun and if
she is greeted with a whining about the traffic, that will put her mood off and strain the rest of the evening. So
even if you have had a bad day, get ready to enjoy your date and remember that frowns are as contagious as
smiles. So don’t let your mood affect your date.
6) Don’t ask questions about sex
Don’t be too curious about sex and try to discuss excerpts from the Kama Sutra. It may put off your date.
7) Health problems
If you are going to discuss your appendectomy, your hernia and your urinary infection, you will see your date
disappearing fast away from you. You can expect some sympathy for a broken leg or a headache but no date
can tolerate a vivid account of Uncle John’s kidney transplant or Aunt Thelma’s varicose veins. Steer clear of
topics that involve things painful, urinary or dilated, over your dinner date.
8)Technical jargon
Avoid too much discussion of technical stuff. You cannot impress any date by going on a rambling trip about
software and hardware, Bluetooth and SWOT analysis. Most women get bored with technical jargon. Most men
may like discussing the latest gizmo, but it is never appropriate on a date.
9) Sports
Some men have their head buried in sports all day long. Women enjoy sports too. But bringing it to the dating
scene is boring for most people. You may have a false notion that you can impress your date with the latest
baseball statistics. You can’t also convince her to rout for your home team. It’s a date that is wasted and
forgotten.
10) About money
One question to avoid is to ask how much money she/ he makes. Any questions on wealth will put a
person off and give the impression that you are a gold digger or a woman seeking a sugar daddy.
In sum, avoid asking questions on your date that may be too personal for the moment, too vulgar, too
monotonous, too controversial or too heavy. Remember to have fun and enjoy yourself!
How to find a boyfriend in a week
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God made woman to be with man. So eventually everyone finds someone or the other. Looking across the street, you will
find couples walking hand in hand, sitting and chatting or just plainly staring into each others eyes in bliss. At one point all
these people must have been alone, right? But today they have someone. One week is a short time, but love stories can
happen any moment. Love rarely 'just happens'. We have to make things happen, with a little help from lady luck! So go,
make your love story and give it your best shot!
Be friendly
Don’t be shy - it will come in the way of your interactions. If you are an introvert, you can work towards changing your
attitude. Start by greeting and talking to female strangers. Then you can move to greeting male strangers and making small
conversations with them at the department store, newspaper vendor, music store, concerts, while traveling. Eventually you
will find it an easy task. It won’t be like a task you are afraid of anymore. It will just be a part of daily life. You will also
realize that there are many guys who find it difficult to converse. But now you have broken the ice. The more guys you talk
to, the easier it will get.
Get involved in activities
Join a hobby class, play a sport or get involved in any other extra-curricular activity. You are likely to find new people there.
Get to know people who you think could be potential interests. This way you will find someone who has a common hobby,
which is great. You will also develop a new skill or become better in one, thus giving you an edge over others.
Internet dating sites
Sign up with online dating websites which have a large membership base. You will almost certainly find other people looking
for love. Lots of sites will let you sign up for free. You can search for singles in your area, filtering by age, zip code, interests,
profession and several other criteria.
Socialise
Go out and meet new people. Don’t turn down any invitations for parties . Alternatively organize one yourself at your own
place and ask your friends to get along their other friends. If you're on a budget, you could ask everyone to get their own
food and drinks. Just ensure that you have some good music. If you don't have a good music system, either rent one or ask
a friend who has one to lend it. When there are more options, you are likely to find that special person. If you find someone
interesting in the party, a pub, concert or in class, take their phone numbers or other contact details like an email id. You
could maybe get in touch with them later and go for a coffee.
Be punctual
Whenever you have a date, always see that you are on time. It serves you in two ways: you get to spend more time with
the person and you are free of any apologies for being late. You have all the time to make him wait after he becomes your
boyfriend, but for now, just be on time. Since your deadline is not far away, you need all the time you can get.
Be sure of what you want
Don’t get into a relationship to get over someone or just because you are frightened of being alone. Both you and your
boyfriend have to be emotionally stable. Don’t just choose anyone for the sake of it. Be clear about what you want and are
looking for.
Don’t live in a fantasy world
Be realistic. Don’t expect your boyfriend to be the best looking person alive. Looks fade. Character and nature is what you
have to live with. It will be of no use if the guy has a great body but doesn’t respect you for who you are.
Committment and hard work
Give your best and make it a priority. You can’t just think about it and not act. Like all things you succeed in you have to put
in hard work. Focus on your goal. Think of it as a project you would do for a job promotion or an assignment you want to
get an A on. If you are planning to cook him a meal, get ready with all the things required for the preparation, well in
advance. You can try different methods, experiment two days ahead. So by the time it is D-day, you are ready and confident.
Don’t think of guys just as potential love interests
You may have a plan and strategy but that doesn’t mean you always keep on thinking about that. Don’t just view them as a
target and always be calculating and planning your next action in your head. Don't be over-obsessed with the plan. This will
take up all your concentration and attention. You might miss some of the subtle things about the person which might be of
great help in understanding him better. Just go with the flow. Relax and take a breath. If not a boyfriend, at least you will
find a good friend.
Understand him
Get to know his likes and dislikes. Understand the way he thinks, reacts to situations and how he behaves with people
around him, like his family ,friends and strangers. Realise what is important to him and the things he values. Be careful not
to intrude into his private space. Figure out if he is worth the catch.
Be polite
Don’t be rude, but at the same time, be assertive. Be sweet and be positive. If you don’t agree with the way he does certain
things, open a ground for discussion. But don’t criticize or insult him. He is likely to avoid you after that. Don’t be too
demanding. Show a little warmth and concern.
Marriage and kids can come later
Don’t tell him how you really want to get married and how many kids you want etc. Also don’t ask him about his opinion
about the same. The guy is already wondering whether he should make you his girlfriend or not and you are confusing him.
All this tends to put a lot of pressure on his decision and could scare most guys away.
Communicate effectively
The conversation should not just be one-sided. Don’t be self-obsessed and talk only about yourself. Sure, he may like to
know a lot about you, but not so much that he feels only you exist in the entire world. He may also want to share things
about himself. It's nice to listen to others sometimes. So keep those ears open. Give him a chance to talk. Listen to what he
is saying, don’t just go on babbling. Don’t interrupt while he is talking. Some people may prefer to talk less but at least let
them say a few words. Remember that just as you may be excited to talk he may also want to say many things.
Avoid talking about your past relationships
Don’t talk about your ex-boyfriend, because the guy may start comparing himself with your ex. You may give him the idea
that you still have feelings for your ex. On the other hand, if you criticize your former boyfriends, he will wonder what you
are going to say about him later. If he asks you about your past relationships, then tell him .But avoid going into details. He
may not appreciate that. Try not to complicate things.
Don’t be a disciplinarian
Don’t be strict and judge all his actions. He is looking out for a date, not a teacher . Avoid laying down a set of rules which
he has to follow and debating about trivial issues. Leave all that to your workplace and profession. Remember you are
looking out for a date, not in a board meeting.
Similar ideals
The main basic attitudes and ideas on life should be similar. This will avoid tiffs in the relationship. Your outlook towards life
should be the same. Both should have similar goals in life, if not the same. For example if he gives a lot of importance to
money and you don’t give any, then it will create problems. Or if he likes to spend time at home and you are the partying
kind, it can lead to a lot of arguments.
Be happy
Be happy from within and enjoy life. Don’t be sad and depressed. Only if you are happy, your surrounding environment
seems good to you. When you are happy, it is more likely that you will lift up others' spirits. So you will end up making him
also have a good time. Have fun together!
Behave yourself
Act civilized. No one wants a date who doesn’t know how to behave properly. They don’t want to be embarassed being
around you. If you are ill-behaved, they are going to judge you as a person.
Let him be a gentleman
Make him realize that he is the man. When on a date, guys like to open the door, lead the lady, pull out her seat and call for
the check. Don’t deny him this right. Give him a chance to please you.
Don’t expect everything to be perfect
Your plans may not always work. Be prepared for a change. He may also have other commitments, respect those. Always
have a substitute plan/action. For example if you plan a movie and he cannot make it at that time, don’t loose heart you can
always go for the next show. Be patient. Be flexible and ready to compromise. See that even he is ready to do the same.
Don’t start blaming him and get irritated. Think from both sides, always.
Be confident
Forget all your doubts and what ifs. If you are not sure of yourself, how can you expect another person to be sure about you.
Look smart. This will create a good first impression. Being confident is almost like winning the battle halfway. Stand tall on
those feet!
Shy with girls? How to overcome shyness and talk to women of all ages!
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“Am very shy and cannot talk with girls,” writes an anonymous reader to an expert advice column in a magazine. He is not
alone. Shyness is common to most people and all have experienced it at some time or other. During childhood or teenage or
adulthood, one may have experienced the mortification of being tongue-tied and awkward before others. But it may be a
serious condition for some, as they may find shyness a problem for normal socializing, communicating and activity.
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What is shyness? It is a state of mind. It causes problems in relationships among people. It makes it difficult to interact with
people, make friends with them or maintain relationships with them. A shy person is constantly evaluating himself: am I
looking alright, am I speaking
properly, will others like me, will others refuse me etc. This constant preoccupation with
himself results in his not enjoying or getting involved properly with the current activity. Naturally, women tend to ignore or
forget about him. Shyness impedes communication and results in loneliness and anxiety.
Shyness manifests in physical symptoms like stuttering, blushing, shivering, sweating and avoiding eye contact. Some may
go to the other extreme by loud and boisterous behaviour trying to cover up their awkwardness. Either way, their behaviour
does not endear them to others and they end up lonely and ostracized. The cause of shyness is lack of self-esteem and
confidence. This results in lack of social graces needed for mixing with people.
Boys who are shy of girls are usually those who have grown up in all-boys families or studied in all-boys’ schools. Those who
are crippled by this condition need to build up valuable attitudes and practice appropriate behaviour. The following principles
can help in getting rid of shyness with girls...
Build up confidence
One must build up self-confidence - belief that one is worthy and has positive qualities. One must not feel inferior physically
or mentally. One must realize that physical appearance is not the only criterion by which women are attracted to men.
Positive qualities like optimism, good sense of humour, intelligence, kindness and warmth are qualities that override the
worst kind of bad looks. So try to feel confident about your worth by concentrating on your positive qualities and improving
on your negatives.
Look confident
It is important that even if you are not feeling that confident, you approach a person looking confident and the rest of the
interaction will flow easily. The best fact about shyness is that it is invisible. No one knows you are shy except yourself
initially. You can walk into a room without people realizing that you are the bashful type. This makes it easy for you to cover
it up and look confident. Don’t act shy. Start confidently and then you will be caught in its flow.
Wear clothes that make you feel confident
Do not "dress shy". Shy people tend to dress drably in clothes that make them insignificant. Look confident in clothes that
make you look good. Discard your dull wardrobe and develop your sartorial sense by being bold and adventurous, to feel
confident in the presence of the girl you like.
Make a move
You must gather courage to approach the girl you like. You can make a simple move like offering a magazine to read and
strike up an ordinary conversation. You need not be as witty as Steve Martin or as intelligent as Einstein to impress the girl.
What will impress usually are ordinary wit, a confident and easygoing manner and decent behaviour.
Aim realistically
Do you have the habit of always making a move on the most attractive and popular girl in the group? Chances are that you
will have to experience of many rebuffs, and these do horrible things to your already meager ego and confidence! Be
realistic and approach girls suited to your level and personality. Approach women that don’t intimidate you.
Realize that you are not alone
You must realize that girls are equally or sometimes more shy than you are. This should relieve you of undue anxiety and
put you at ease with them. Since you are shy, you can empathize with the girl and can behave in appropriate ways to put
her at ease. This could be the start of a beautiful friendship when two of you discard your diffidence and grow comfortable
with each other.
Do not fear rejection
Being rejected is the number one fear of the shy person. But how will you succeed until you try? Rejection is a part of life.
The best way to interact is not to care about it at all. It is so easy to date if one does not care a bit about being rejected by
some of the women. Force yourself to meet more women if you have been avoiding them.
Practice conversation skills
Learn how to strike up and maintain conversations. Read up books, newspapers, movie reviews etc. Develop your
knowledge about your favourite things. Go to plays, sporting events and remember interesting things about them. Relate
small stories, jokes and anecdotes.
Do some research
If you are really involved in impressing some girl, do some research. Ask her friends about her likes and dislikes. Maybe, try
to impress her with the flowers/ chocolates routine. Or even try to read up some Women’s magazines to know what makes a
woman’s heart tick!
The best part of shyness is that it need not be a permanent handicap and one can turn it into one’s advantage and get rid of
it completely. Finally realise that some women are turned on when they find a man shy in their presence. It makes them feel
safe with you because you're not one of the overly aggressive men, most of whom scare them away. Being a little shy
potrays you as somewhat childlike andd innocent, very endearing traits. It also gives them a sense of power because they
attribute your shyness to their own beauty or personality. So overcome shyness by all means but use it to your advantage
while you're still shy!
Does she love me? Signs that she loves you
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In the popular movie, 'Fiddler on the Roof', the protagonist asks his wife of 25 years, "Do you love me? Do you love me?".
Her answer rambles on about the length and breadth of her responsibilities as his wife. How the fact that she cooks, cleans
and looks after his household should speak for itself. And that her fidelity, among other things, should convey volumes
about her love for him. But he still asks her, "Do you love me". And he is finally content only when she admits in so many
words, "Yes, I love you."
So, short of following in his footsteps and asking her straight out, what are the more subtle signs that men can watch out
for?
1. She tells you so
This is the most obvious and easiest one. Women are known as the more expressive of the species. Amid juggling work,
home and maybe kids, if she squeezes in a 'Love you' or if she's really in the mood, 'Lurrrrve ya', you know she's out to
make you feel special.
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2. Her parents treat you good
You can often tell how a woman feels about you, from the vibes her parents give out. If they're barely civil, either they have
something against you personally or you can start packing your bags. If they're courteous but distant, your relationship may
still be on a tentative footing. If they're warm to you, it's an indication of the heat between you and your woman. And if
they're effusive and treat you like a king, be sure their daughter has been saying nothing but nice things about you, an
indication that she adores you.
3. You can see it in her eyes
Quite often, women's emotions are clearly reflected on their faces. If her face lights up when you walk into the room or she's
waiting up for you if you're late or standing at the door to say goodbye till your car's tail lights disappear, you have that
magical effect on her.
4. Calls you up "just like that"
In the middle of a hectic day, she still calls you just to hear your voice. Or you just met and she calls you to say she already
misses you. Get the message, my man. She just can't get enough of you!
5. She caters to you
It's often said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. And your woman may be no different. If she tries to
cater to your palate and takes special care to cook your favorite meals, she's showing you in her own way that she loves you.
6. She tells you how content she is
Sometimes we have to look deeper for signs of love. She may tell you how happy she is being around you or the sense of
contentment just being your girlfriend/wife gives her.
7. Her friends tell you so
Women often talk to their friends about their feelings. Her best friend may whisper to you that you're the best thing that's
happened to her. Or her bosom buddies may tell you she's always talking of you and how good you make her feel. You can
be sure she's head over heels!
8. She confides in you
She feels lighter telling you about things that are troubling her or weighing her down. You make her burdens easier to bear.
She loves telling you every little detail about her day, something good that happened to her or why she's feeling particularly
low. You're an essential part of her life; of course she loves you!
9. She tries to make you happy
She's a sucker for that smile on your face. She loves to do whatever it takes to see you satisfied and will go that extra mile.
If she tries that little bit extra in whatever way, big or small, you can be sure she's madly in love with you.
10. She tries to compromise
There's a give-and-take called for in every relationship. If she really tries to see your point of view and is willing to meet you
halfway, it's a sign of her immense love for you.
11. She tries to look good for you
She's so in love with you that she wants you to have eyes only for her. She makes an effort to keep fit and takes care of her
grooming and appearance. You often find her asking for your opinion on what you like on her, and her unadulterated joy
when you give her that gleam of approval. Your view counts!
12. She finds your quirks charming
Habits that annoy your family or acquaintances don't have the same effect on her. In fact she thinks your little eccentricities
are quite appealing. For instance, your siblings always taunted you by saying your habit of drooling in your sleep was
disgusting but she thinks it's rather cute. It's a sign of true love!
13. She tries to spend time with you
Even with all the multi-tasking she has to do, she tries really hard to put aside some quality time to be together. She basks
in the pleasure of your company and says so. What more do you need? Her love couldn't be more telling than this.
14. She trusts you
You've landed a plum assignment but it also involves working longer hours with your attractive and sexy colleague. Not only
does she not have a problem with it, but also she never calls you to check on where you are or how much later you're going
to be. Implicit trust in your significant other is a very strong indication of deep love.
15. She has eyes only for you
It's only a normal human tendency to notice a good-looking member of the opposite sex. But if a gorgeous male specimen
just entered the room and she's still engrossed in her conversation with you, that's good news. And if her eyes haven't
strayed when that guy with the perfect butt just walked past, you've got it made, my friend!
Tips on how to get a boyfriend - where to look for the perfect boyfriend
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Studying in a girl’s school and moving on to a girl's college, Anna had never really developed a friendship with
boys. When her friends discussed their boyfriends, she used to meekly wonder, "Have I missed the boat? Is it
too late for me to have a boyfriend?" Time is definitely not a stipulating factor for a girl to have a boyfriend. For
a person like Anna, finding a boyfriend becomes a prerogative of sorts, probably to prove a point to her peers.
But how does one get a boyfriend or where does one look for the perfect boyfriend? If these questions dog you
as much as it affects Anna’s mind, then read further for a few handy tips on where to find the perfect boyfriend.
Before we delve any further regarding the guidelines on getting a boyfriend, make sure you know what type of
a guy you are looking for.
Make a list of traits that you are looking for and prioritize them according to looks, intelligence, sense of humor,
mannerisms, respect and regard for other people’s feelings etc. Not necessary that these traits fall in this
pattern. Once you are certain about the kind of guy you want, start looking at these places to meet the
probable candidates:
Library
For those who are academically inclined and are looking for a similar trait in their mate, then a library should be
the first place you should head for.
Gymnasium
Perspiring bodies and guys pumping iron can be an ideal location to look for a boyfriend. Apart from sweating
out on a treadmill, remember you must be on the lookout to spot the man of your dreams. Don’t let go of any
opportunity that crosses your way. Strike a conversation with your prospective boyfriend, ask him to share the
secrets of his well-toned body. Boys who are fitness freaks can talk incessantly about their fitness and dietary
regimen. Discussing such topics will prove to be a good way of striking a friendship.
Hobby class
Joining a hobby class in your neighborhood to make good use of your spare time, is a good idea. But apart from
learning a craft, you can also use this occasion to hone your skills in getting a new boyfriend. A pottery class or
learning music or any musical instrument can be an ideal way to meet boys who happen to share the same
interest. If a boy and girl share a common interest/hobby, their level of intimacy can definitely increase faster
than those who have uncommon interests.
Book reading sessions
Look for a listing of book reading sessions in your local newspaper. Don't always wait for your favourite author’s
book reading sessions, try to attend as regularly as many as you can as this is the best place to meet likeminded people who share your views about a particular author, or books in general.
At work
A workplace or office is the most common ‘arena’ to find a perfect boyfriend. Since you are already familiar with
your colleague’s habits or behavior, the task of deciding the right person to fill the ‘boyfriend’ post may not be
too tough. Moreover, you have the freedom to pick and choose from a whole gamut of your male colleagues. A
colleague who comes closest to your idea of a perfect boyfriend should be opted for. Start talking to him about
official matters and slowly steer the conversation to his interests/hobbies, the places he likes to hang out at etc.
Once the ice is broken, muster the courage to ask him out for a date!
Non-profit organizations
Working for a non-profit organization in your free time, can be a great way of contributing a little to your
society and the country as a whole. But how about using this opportunity to contribute something to yourself,
like adding a boyfriend to your otherwise routine life, which revolves around your job/college and catering to
society's needs? Boys are equally aware of the evils that dog our society and like girls, prefer to work in non
profit organizations during their spare time. So this becomes a perfect venue for a girl to find a boyfriend who
not only shares her views but also possesses a strong sense of commitment and values.
Coffee shops
Having a cup of coffee should be the last thing on your mind when visiting a coffee shop! A coffee shop is a
favorite hangout for young eligible singlesof today. Sit in a discreet corner at Starbucks with a mug of café
mocha in your hands and scan the room for boys who come close to your expectations of a perfect boyfriend. If
the guuy you zero in on is sitting idle like you, walk up to him and offer to buy him a coffee. Talking about each
other over cups of this caffeineated beverage could start the budding of a new friendship.
Internet
Online dating or Internet dating has gained widespread popularity and acceptance in the last few years. There
are several free online dating services which enable people of different interests and backgrounds to meet and
enjoy each other’s company. A few sites offer specialized services especially for girls looking for a perfect
boyfriend like relationship and flirting tips, advice on how to behave in various situations and a lot of other
interesting information. There are various sites which offer free trials and have very large memberships running
into millions of members.
Some sites display a catalogue with the list of offline and online dating agencies, as well as internet dating
services. Internet dating provides a comfortable and intimate environment where you can safely and
conveniently search and find your perfect boyfriend, while having lots of fun. Thousands of ads of singles who
are looking for dating romance and friendship are available for you to browse through.Who knows, your ideal
boyfriend may be one among them!
10 Signs That Tell you a Man is Serious About you
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Popular culture has often labelled the woman as the more complex partner. References are often made about how it is
difficult to understand what’s on a woman’s mind. This may be true when it comes to deciding on what she wants on her
birthday or if she really is alright with you going out to get drunk with male friends. But the truth of the matter is that by
and large, most women are open about a relationship and its future. They’re always open to discussions and find it easier to
talk about their feelings. Unfortunately, most men, however serious, are at the other end of the spectrum and not as
transparent about their feelings and intentions. So, how do you tell if the man is truly serious about you? Fortunately, there
are certain signs that could be used to decode the man’s behaviour.
TIP: Ask him these questions and you'll know for sure if he's serious about you!
1. He doesn’t play mind games with you
If he says he will drop in to see you, he does. When he makes plans with you for the weekend, he sticks to them. He doesn’t
torment you by saying one thing and doing something else. He’s not cold one instant and warm and affectionate the other.
If his ex-girlfriend calls him, he tells you about it for the sake of honesty and not in a way that makes you uncomfortable.
When a man plays mind games, it’s typically because he doesn’t really care, or because the relationship is casual for him. If
your man makes a special effort to be honest and open, that’s a sign of his commitment to the relationship.
2. He wants to know things about you
And it’s not just the regular stuff like “What are your hopes and dreams?” or, “What inspires you to paint?” or “What’s your
favourite rock band?” He asks you questions about your childhood, your job, parents, etc. He wants to know what it was like
to be the elder sister or, he always asks you how you cope with your long stressful work hours. He is genuinely concerned
about your career and asks you about your plans. Even the best actor cannot feign an interest in mundane details such as,
“What time did you wake up today?”. or “Did you get enough sleep last night?” If he’s serious about you, he will find all the
mundane details interesting.
3. He calls you multiple times everyday
He calls you sometimes for no reason. Even if you’ve met at a coffee shop an hour ago, he calls you after he reaches home,
or from the elevator. This behaviour is typically displayed in the first few weeks of the relationship, when everything is new
and exciting. However, when you realize that he still calls you just to hear your voice and it’s been about a year since you
started going out, you should know that he’s serious about you.
4. If he’s always punctual...
If he’s always punctual, he’s definitely into you. When a man is serious about his girlfriend, he will ensure that she doesn’t
have to wait for an hour at the bus stop. He says he will pick you up for dinner and 8 p.m. and calls around 7.55 p.m. to tell
you he’s stuck in traffic and will be 15 minutes late, he’s respectful of your feelings. He won’t ever have you hanging around
the park for half an hour before he shows up. Most girls constantly find themselves waiting for their boyfriend’s phone call,
or for him to pick them up. If you don’t find yourself in that position, you’ve got yourself a winner.
5. When he listens to you talk
Several girls complain that they can’t talk to their boyfriends and that they just don’t listen. When you spend time with him,
he really listens to you. He’s all ears about your problems at work. On the train, he’s not distracted by fellow passengers,
but is listening to you intently. You have long chats on the phone where he hangs on to every word you say. You find
yourself telling him things that you’ve never told any boyfriend before. He’s not constantly checking his cell phone for
messages, when you talk about the day. If your man remembers that it’s your aunt’s birthday in a couple of weeks, just
because you mentioned it in passing, understand that he’s listening to every word you’re saying.
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6. When he wants to date you exclusively
You’re his steady girlfriend and he makes sure everyone knows it. He is faithful and expects fidelity from you too. He has
had the conversation about being exclusive with you. He makes sure everyone knows that he’s your boyfriend, not only
because he doesn’t want random men hitting on you, but because he wants to send a clear signal to all the girls that he’s
taken. This is a big step and you should appreciate him for this.
7. He’s transparent about his routine
You know his routine and what his day holds for him, not because you’re a tyrant but because he volunteers this information.
You know he’s in the gym in the morning and reaches work at 10 a.m., after making a quick dash to a coffee shop. You
know that if he doesn’t take your call in the afternoon, he’s probably in a meeting or in the loo. If he’s missing for a couple
of hours, there’s always an explanation that’s credible. You have never wondered, “What could he possibly be doing now?”
or “Why hasn’t he called me?”.
8. He introduces you to his friends
He is keen that you meet his friends and not only because he wants to show off what a knockout you are, but because he’s
so in love with you. He wants his friends to know you and like you. He wants you to get comfortable with them, because this
paves the way for your initiation in the group. He makes an effort to be nice to your friends for the same reasons. He wants
you to meet his family. This move is not to be underestimated at all. If there’s one thing common in men across continents,
it’s the fact that they only take the girl home, if they’re taking the relationship to the next level.
9. He asks for your opinion and respects it
He wants you to accompany him while he shops for clothes, because he trusts your choice. When he’s confused about his
career, he talks to you and listens patiently to what you have to say. He discusses things with you to seek your opinion.
10. He’s always there when you need him
He may be foul tempered and may say hurtful things from time to time, but he's always there when you need him. When
your uncle passed away, he was there to hold your hand. When you lost a job, he took you out for ice cream and reassured
you. He may have his faults, but if he really cares for you, he will always try to protect you. If a bitchy girlfriend keeps
picking on you, he calls her bluff and shuts her up. If he genuinely worries about you because you have cramps during that
time of the month, he’s definitely serious about you.
10 Reasons Why You Must Get Married Sooner or Later
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Famous German thinker, Goethe might have been answering cynics of marriage today, when he said, centuries ago, that
“Love is an ideal thing, but marriage, a real thing.”
In these times of takeaway dinners and disposable relationships, the institution of marriage seems in danger of heading for
the museum. Who gets married anyway, young people on the move might wonder. Who indeed has the time and patience to
devote oneself to another being 'Till’, as the saying goes, “…death do us part”?
And yet, popping the all-important question to your partner, continues to be regarded as the culminating moment in a
romantic relationship. So, why do lovers consider marriage at all if so many alternate arrangements are possible? And most
importantly, why should you keep marriage at bay when you feel that you both are equally committed to a relationship.
Here are ten very good reasons why you should get married and that too, sooner than later.
1. Marriage is a continuation of love
Contrary to the pessimistic idea that marriage signals the end of romance, it marks the beginning of a whole new
phase of being in love. Marriage allows lovers to enter into a partnership where two halves come together to form a
stronger whole and where love evolves into a deeper, more committed relationship.
2. Marriage helps both individuals to grow
Cynics might continue to harp on how marriage kills individuality and wipes out a person’s personal space. Marriage,
on the other hand, allows each partner to explore hitherto unknown facets of his or her personality. Exploring the
many nuances of a committed relationship, being responsible for each other’s well-being and meeting the challenges
that come in the way, allow each partner to grow into mature and more aware persons.
3. Marriage gives you a back-up
Married people have each other to fall back upon in case of emotional or medical emergencies. Anyone living in a
marriage of several years, knows how easily we take our partner’s support for granted, when we fall ill, have an
emergency at work or need to get the dessert with-the-Smiths-coming-over-in-an-hour-and-me-being-stuck-in-thetraffic.
4. Married people live longer
Studies by researchers like American therapist Brian Baker and psychologist John Gottman PhD have proved that
those people living in contented marriages have lower incidences of depression, cardio-vascular diseases and, in
combination with a healthy lifestyle, outlive their celibate or divorced counterparts.
5. Marriage helps you benefit from tax breaks
Marriage is undoubtedly a lot about white gowns, honeymoons and teary happily-ever-afters. But the financial
advantage of being married is nothing to frown upon either. Most countries offer married couples important tax
breaks and healthcare benefits. Moreover, you get to share expenses, with the advantage of having twin sources of
income.
6. A wedding brings presents galore
Ever wonder why a bride-to-be spends hours on trying out wedding gowns and poring over kitchen models? This is
because a wedding is one of those very rare occasions in your life when you are indulged upon, your likes and
dislikes in wallpaper patterns seriously considered and every necessary item in your yet-to-be-established household
duly noted. In short, this is the time to be showered with presents, in kind and in cash. And never mind the three
identical toasters you get on your wedding day – it will save you buying gifts for the next three wedding invitations!
7. Marriage is best for raising a family
Human society, since the beginning of its evolution, has been trying out various combinations of relationships and
the one paradigm that has stood the test of time is the heterosexual, monogamous relationship, most widely seen in
a marriage. The married couple forms the most stable environment for having kids and raising them in a world
increasingly splintered by violence, drugs and breakdown of kinship ties.
8. Marriage helps you to evolve as social beings
Coping with various challenges that confront a family gives partners the chance and experience to grow as
responsible members of society. Sociologists regard the family as the basic unit of the larger society and thus it is no
wonder that the best community leaders often emerge from the happiest of marriages.
9. Marriage as an institution continues to thrive
If people keep coming back to it for more, then it must be good for you. Despite all the brouhaha about rising
divorce rates in the advanced societies, there are equally strong trends in favour of remarriages. If the saying “Once
bitten, twice shy” held so good, why would there be so many dating sites for divorced men and women trying their
luck the second time around?
10. Marriage versus celibacy
Finally, there may be something in Samuel Johnson’s left-handed defense of the institution of marriage, when he
pointed out that “Marriage may have many pains but celibacy has no pleasures”. When no single relationship in this
world comes with a guarantee, why single out marriage for failing to live up to expectations? It is indeed better to
give a chance to a meaningful, committed bond, rather than living in an open relationship and enduring the
perpetual insecurity and attendant anxiety that such an arrangement brings.
Many people have expressed many opinions on marriage. However the very fact that the institution continues to stand the
test of time, is good news in a world where every social alignment and every personal relationship is being sorely tested.
Marriage, simply put, is a state of being that blends the best of every relationship – the ecstasy of a romance, the
tenderness of the mother for her child and the strength that a true friend holds out in times of need.
10 Ways to Charm a Girl on the First Date
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A first date is always a crucial affair, more so when you feel that she is someone whom you would want to know better. This
is because first impressions can either make or break a budding relationship. So explore the following tips and go all out to
charm your girl on the first date.
1. Be well groomed
Begin with the basics and see that you are well-groomed. Nothing will catch a girl’s eye as quickly as a well-dressed,
neatly-turned out man. While this implies that the externals should be spiffy, it also means that you check yourself
for clean breath, and fresh body odour, and ears and nostrils trimmed of hair.
TIP: The surest way to charm a girl is to ask her questions about herself and to listen. A lot guys don't know what to
ask and find it hard to listen. You can have an advantage over all your competition and charm a girl into looking
forward to meeting you again and knowing you better. Make her think about you and miss you in your absence.
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Amazon.com, available in paperback as well as an instant download ebook.
2. Dress according to the occasion
A first date is generally a light affair, when two people are just getting to know each other. So if you are meeting in
a café or an art gallery or simply going out for a movie, come dressed in smart casuals. Your date will feel that you
are easy to be with, but not a shallow personality. While jeans and jackets are trendy, it is a good idea to avoid torn
or grungy outfits, unless, of course, you specifically know that your date digs such styles. However, if you are
meeting for a dinner date, you can arrive in semi-formals or even designer casuals. Keep the tuxedos and suits for
more formal occasions like weddings and anniversary celebrations.
3. Chivalry is not dead
Good manners go a long way in making a first good impression. Pick your date from her house, if possible and be
sure to arrive on time. She will feel extra special and know that you are not like the other jerks, who keep their
dates waiting. Remember to hold open the door for her, or pick up her things, even if you can see that she has
dropped them knowingly! It is always gratifying to know that chivalry is not dead and what’s more, she is sure to be
charmed by your gentlemanly ways.
4. Bring a gift
Be sure not to arrive empty-handed. Pick up any small gift when you arrive for your date and your girl will be
charmed by the gesture. A bunch of flowers or a box of chocolates are time-honoured first-date presents, even
though you can be more adventurous and go for a silk scarf or a nice trinket. However, do not bring too expensive
or ostentatious a present, as she may think you are either desperate or a show-off.
5. Think of unusual date ideas
You can be innovative in picking first date ideas. Traditional first dates usually mean a dinner and a movie, but if you
can surprise your girl with something new and fun to do, then she is sure to be impressed. Take her out on a picnic
that you have packed or have a blast at the amusement park. Or if you know that she is the outdoor type, go rock
climbing and share the amazing view from the top. Your date will not only appreciate that you have creative ideas,
but also be charmed by the fact that you went an extra mile in planning something new.
6. Ask your date about herself
Nothing bores a girl so much as man who keeps on droning about himself – his work, his achievements and his
possessions. Instead, ask your date about her family, her friends, work, hobbies and interests. These questions will
keep the conversation going and help to tide over awkward pauses, if any. If you feel sure of yourself, ask
interesting things like where she sees herself in another ten years, or what she would choose if she could take only
three things if she was stranded on an island. However, be careful not to appear too prying and be sure to take a
hint if she seems unwilling to talk about her family or her job. Also steer clear of controversial topics, since a first
date is not the right occasion to air your political or religious convictions.
7. Pay attention to your date
Listen actively to what she has to say and maintain eye contact when she is speaking to you. Seldom is anything so
irritating to a girl, as when her date lets his gaze stray to the long, stockinged legs at the next table. Also avoid
fiddling with your phone or checking the time too often. When you pay attention to what she has to say, she will not
only be charmed by your consideration, but also feel valued and respected, which is essential for any serious
relationship.
8. Show consideration to others
A girl with her wits about her, will keenly watch how you behave with others. While your pretty manners with her
may flatter her into being momentarily charmed, if you are rude with the waiter or argumentative with the moviehall usher, she might be intelligent enough to see these as indicative of a selfish personality. On the other hand, if
you are polite to others around you, she will respect you as a mature person who has self-assurance enough to be
considerate to others.
9. Be yourself
Let your true personality guide you in what you say and do on your first date. Nothing is so pathetic as a guy who is
faking it, for it reveals immaturity and a huge lack of self-confidence. Be your own true self and she will surely be
attracted to the person you are.
10. Drop her home
If all has gone well on your first date, be sure to drop her home. This will make her feel extra-special and she will be
charmed by the tender romance of the gesture. Don't try to talk her into having sex with you on the first date, even
if the chemistry is definite. It will make it seem like that's all you're looking for.
So if you feel that your date is the stuff dreams are made of, remember that the first meeting is your most important chance
to charm her. Stick to the above pointers and before long, your date will be swept off her feet and eager to meet you for a
second time.
20 conversation starters that will almost always work when talking to strangers
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You know how it is. You see someone you want to talk to, or that someone sees you, and the conversation begins. It’s easy
to remember times when it doesn’t work out – maybe he used a bad pick-up line or you stumbled over your words when you
tried to start chatting – but what about when you hit it off with someone for real? The conversation was interesting
and funny, and made you want to get to know the other person better. How can you make that happen every time you see
someone you want to talk to? Read on for 20 good ways to start a conversation with someone you don’t know!
Read 2000 conversation starters - The largest list of conversation starters so you never get tongue-tied again!
1. Introduce yourself. “Hi, I’m Rob”, is a great way to start. It’s real, it’s truthful and the polite response from her is to
say “Hi, I’m Sarah.” Girls are wary of cheesy pick-up lines and no one wants to sound like they’re using one that’s
been tried a thousand times before. Try an icebreaker that you’d do in “real” life and see where it takes you.
2. Ask what he’s having for dinner. Maybe you’re at a restaurant with a bar area that serves food, and you see a cute
guy. An easy and not-too-risky way to start a conversation is to ask about that yummy-looking entrée he’s eating.
3. “How about those Yankees?!” Finding a common interest – or one relevant to your environment – is always a good
option. If it’s a sports bar, or just somewhere that the TV is showing a game, if you’re a baseball fan (or, seasonpermitting, a football/hockey/basketball fan), seeing someone you want to talk to, who’s into the game too, is a
perfect conversation starter.
4. Speaking of common interests, if you see someone who catches your eye, with a book or a stack of papers in
front of him at dinner, it can be a great way to start talking. Mention that you’ve had a busy day too, or ask
what he thinks about the book he’s reading.
5. “Your dog is so cute! What kind is it?” Maybe you’ve seen her walking her puppy at the park and wanted to strike up
a conversation. Most people with pets love to talk about their “best friends” and are open to this kind of approach.
6. “Is this seat taken?” If there’s an open seat next to that cute girl, ask if you can sit there! Next? Introduce yourself
and see where things go.
7. “Great shoes!” Everyone loves to be complimented. Be sincere, pick out one specific thing you notice about him or
her (her purse or shoes are unusual, he has a nice smile, you get the idea) and use it to start talking.
8. Send over a drink. This can work for both women and men, in the right setting. Want to break the ice but not sure
how to do it? Buy her one and have the bartender deliver it, and let her know you were the giver! Then follow up by
going over to introduce yourself.
9. Make a joke. Pop culture is full of references to use, and in the right setting any one might work. The bartender’s
just broken three glasses in a row and you can mimic a perfect Homer Simpson “Duh!”? Good way to get a laugh
and start talking.
10. Ask her opinion, if you’re a guy. Maybe you’re at a park and want a good lunch spot after you’re done hanging out,
or maybe you’re at a bar with friends and want a great place for dancing later that night. If you see someone you
want to talk to, this is a great icebreaker.
11. Ask for help, if you’re a girl. Need directions? Need a suggestion on your dinner spot after you finish cocktails? Ask
that cute guy what he likes in the neighborhood.
12. Be unexpected. Asking an off-the-wall question can work when done right! She’s reading “Rolling Stone” and you
remember a great cover from two years ago? Ask if she read that particular issue! See where talk goes from there.
13. Draw someone in as a third-person “expert.” For example, you and a friend are debating whether tab collars or
button-down are better for dress shirts, or whether Guinness in a bottle is as good as it is on draft. Ask that cute girl
nearby to settle the dispute.
14. Recent movies, concerts and restaurants are great conversation-starters. Did you see Van Halen on their recent
tour, or are you about to visit that new museum exhibit at a local gallery? Ask her if she’s interested in
music/arts/etc., too, and then explore common interests.
15. “Need another?” Whether it’s the local coffee shop or the neighborhood bar, if you see someone interesting and
notice he or she’s running low, a “refill” can be the perfect way to strike up a chat.
16. Ask if she comes there often. You can do it without sounding cheesy! If that pretty girl you’re eyeing seems to know
everyone around, ask her why it’s her favorite Mexican place or sandwich shop.
17. Get to know the bartenders. If you make friends in places you like, it’s a great way to help you start conversations!
They’re probably happy to help you meet someone new.
18. “Did you grow up here?” Many of us live far from our hometowns. Others among us are locals! You never know until
you ask, and if that cute girl or guy is interested in you, too, you can learn a lot with this question.
19. “How long have you lived here?” Like #18, this helps you figure out what you have in common and interesting
differences between you.
20. “Can I have your number?” Best after you’ve tried some of #1 – 19, but definitely a way to take the conversation to
the next level and see if the other person’s up for it, too!
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Conversation Starter Tips for Dating
Having good conversation starter skills are key to any successful dating or marriage relationship. Have you ever seen
a dating couple enjoying a great conversation? You can just see and feel those sparks flying all over the place!
Learning how to have good conversations with your potential soul mate will not only help you both grow closer, but
will also make for a much more enjoyable dating experience.
Yet, how many of us seem at a loss when we try to start a conversation? Later on, we kick ourselves for not saying
that funny thing or timely word. Duh! However, if you put into practice the following conversation starter tips for
dating, you are on your way to succeeding in the future.
Conversation Starter Advice
Conversation Starter Tip 1: Don’t Hog the Ball!
We all hated that when we were kids, and as single adults we hate it when someone hogs a conversation. Remember,
a good conversation starts with a dialogue, not a monologue. That means allowing your date to get in some of his or
her thoughts as well.
Ever meet a person who asks you how you are doing, but then before you can open your mouth they spend the next 10
minutes droning on about their stuff? The bottom line is it’s boring and annoying all rolled into one, so don’t do it,
okay?
Conversation Starter Tip 2: Show an Interest in Their Passion
Everyone enjoys speaking about themselves and their interests. So discover what your boyfriend or girlfriend is
passionate about, and ask them sincere, open ended questions about the topic. You will see your date come alive, and
a nice and easy flowing conversation will ensue. You may also find out something interesting and surprising about
your single friend that you didn’t already know.
Conversation Starter Tip 3: Be Prepared with Topics
Think about some interesting topics to discuss from daily events, news or funny things that have happened to you
recently. Just remember to avoid boring or controversial topics, like talking incessantly about the ex-girlfreind or
boyfriend. This happens to be the number one complaint singles give about their dating partners.
Conversation Starter Tip 4: Give Them Undivided Attention
When you are having a conversation with your friend, make sure you concentrate solely on them. Look intently into
their eyes while they are speaking. This not only makes them feel important, but will give them the impression that
you really do care about what they are saying. And you do, right?
Conversation Starter Tip 5: Be Vulnerable
It’s hard to start a conversation with an overly guarded person. Hanging out with such a person is also a huge turnoff.
Hey, we’re not saying you should be giving away your bank account number to strangers, but opening up your heart a
little bit by sharing your feelings helps the other person relax, and makes them open to sharing as well.
Conversation Starter Tip 6: Understand Body Language
Did you know that 93% of communication is non-verbal? So when you are starting a conversation with your date,
take cues from their body language to assess if you are communicating well.
Good signs to look for when having a conversation: Leaning forward to you, dilated pupils, revealing palms and
wrists, smiling, or uncrossed arms and legs. As you might have guessed, a dating tipoff that your conversation is not
going well would include: folded arms and/or legs, rolling eyes, smirks, yawns, leaning back and looking away from
your eye contact. A smart communicator will gauge body language, and adjust their conversation accordingly.
I’m sure there are many other conversation starter tips we haven’t shared. Feel free to share and help others if you
have any other conversation dating tips.
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Looking to get to know your date better? Running out of things to talk to your sweetie about? First date jitters and don’t know
what to talk about? Well, here are 100 questions that can break the ice and get a conversation going. The most important thing is
to have fun! You might be surprised by what you learn about the other person. Don’t force anyone to answer a question they
don’t want to and don’t pry deeper if they are not willing to talk about a certain subject.
1. What was your best job?
2. What were your worst jobs?
3. Tell me all the places you worked
4. Tell me about your best friend
5. Tell me about your family
6. Tell me about your relatives
7. What was your first car?
8. Favorite movie star?
9. Favorite entertainer?
10. Favorite song?
11. What were your life changing moments?
12. First girlfriend/boyfriend?
13. First kiss?
14. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done?
15. Have you ever been arrested?
16. Political affiliation?
17. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn’t?
18. Have you used drugs?
19. Do you like to shop?
20. Best way to relax?
21. Favorite thing to do alone?
22. Ever had a one night stand?
23. Do you save money?
24. What hobbies to you spend money on?
25. If you found a $100 what would you do?
26. Do you want children/more children?
27. Are you a good parent?
28. What makes a good parent?
29. Are you romantic?
30. Ever loose a pet?
31. Dog or cat?
32. Pets growing up?
33. Sleep in the nude?
34. Favorite midnight snack?
35. Do you exercise?
36. Did you ever see your parents making love?
37. Peanut butter and what?
38. What is one food you will never give up?
39. What is a food you can live without?
40. Favorite drink?
41. Perfect day?
42. How many cds do you own?
43. How many dvds to you own?
44. Favorite thing to spend money on?
45. What is the weirdest thing about you?
46. What is on your bedside table?
47. Are you cheap or thrifty?
48. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time?
49. Grades in high school?
50. Favorite teacher?
51. Relatives in jail?
52. Toppings on pizza?
53. Black or white?
54. Glass half full or half empty?
55. Ever been to a food shelf?
56. Ever milked a cow?
57. Ever tipped a cow?
58. Bath or shower?
59. Mountains or the beach?
60. Plane, train or automobile?
61. Favorite all time movie?
62. Worse movie you have ever seen?
63. Best concert you have been to?
64. Beer, wine or coffee?
65. Best vacation?
66. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do?
67. Worse vacation?
68. Three places you would love to visit?
69. Worse boss?
70. If you could do anything what would it be?
71. Super powers you wish you had?
72. Ever had a massage?
73. Ideal romantic dinner?
74. Dumbest purchase you ever made?
75. Where did you find money when you were flat broke?
76. Ever sold blood?
77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of price?
78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine?
79. Ever won the lottery?
80. What would you do with your lottery winnings?
81. Are you a neat freak?
82. Can’t stand being around people who_________?
83. Crowds or small groups?
84. How old do you want to live to?
85. Loose your sight or hearing?
86. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex?
87. Pet peeves?
88. Most annoying habit?
89. Sexiest parts of a member of the opposite sex?
90. Major turn offs?
91. Tattoos?
93. Piercings?
94. Plastic surgery--would you/have you?
95. Computer geek?
96. Trekee?
97. Play an instrument?
98. Been in a band?
99. Most embarrassing moment?
100. Nude beach yes or no
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1. What's your favorite Dr. Seuss book?
2. If you could live in any home on a television series, what would it be?
3. What's the longest you've gone without sleep?
4. What's your favorite Barry Manilow song?
5. Who's your favorite Muppet?
6. What's the habit you're proudest of breaking?
7. What's your favorite Web site?
8. What's your favorite school supply?
9. Who's your favorite TV attorney?
10. What was your most recent trip of more than 50 miles?
11. What's the best bargain you've ever found at a garage sale or thrift store?
12. Where were you on September 11, 2001?
13. What's your favorite tree?
14. What's the most interesting biography you've read?
15. What do you order when you eat Chinese food?
16. What's the best costume you've ever worn?
17. What's your least favorite word?
18. If you had to be named after one of the 50 states, which would it be?
19. Who's your favorite Care Bear?
20. Describe something that's happened to you for which you have no explanation.
21. If you could travel anywhere in Africa, where would it be?
22. What did you have for lunch yesterday?
23. Where do you go for advice?
24. Which do you use more often, the dictionary or the thesaurus?
25. Have you ever been snorkeling? Scuba diving?
26. Have you ever been stung by a bee?
27. What's the sickest you've ever been?
28. What's your favorite form of exercise?
29. What's your favorite Cyndi Lauper song?
30. What did you do for your 13th birthday?
31. Are you afaid of heights?
32. Have you ever taken dance lessons?
33. What's your favorite newspaper?
34. What's your favorite Broadway musical?
35. What's the most memorable class you've ever taken?
36. What's your favorite knock-knock joke?
37. What's your favorite commercial?
38. If you could go to Disney World with any celebrity alive today, who would it be?
39. Do you prefer baths or showers?
40. Does your chewing gum lose its flavor on the bedpost overnight?
41. What's your favorite breakfast food?
42. Who's your favarite game show host?
43. If you could have a super power, what would it be?
44. Do you like guacamole?
45. Have you ever been in a food fight?
46. Name five songs to which you know all the lyrics. (Better yet, sing them.)
47. What's your favorite infomercial?
48. What's the longest you've ever waited in line?
49. What's on the cover of your address book or day planner?
50. Have you ever taken a picture in one of those little booths?
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How much does your imagination weigh?
What is your idea of heaven?
Who used to be your superhero when you were a child?
I’m not trying to embarrass you, but do you have any embarrassing guilty pleasures?
You wouldn’t be caught dead, where?
Most hated chore on the chore list?
What is one thing you miss as a kid but no longer do or can do?
If you had to live underwater for 2 years, what would you be and why?
Who or which was one of your favorite musical groups when you were in middle school?
What do you consider your greatest achievement?
If you were to start your own restaurant, what would it be called?
If you could be any fruit, which would you be and why?
Which household object would you turn yourself into if you had to pick one?
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How to list 100 questions to create and maintain great conversation by Ivymere
"A bit tedious and mind-racking."
It took me
1 year
It made me
glad that I'm done
How I did it: I just kept thinking about what I would like to be asked and what other people have asked me in the
past. I stumbled across some articles on conversations and that inspired me as well.
Lessons & tips: Just think out of the box. Put a twist on old, cliched questions.
Resources: Google?
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81-100 by Ivymere
81. What did you do for your most memorable birthday and what age was it?
82. Did you ever sneak into the movies when you were a kid?
83. Where did you go/would you go for your honeymoon?
84. If you had the chance to make a change in your local community, what position of power and influence would you
assume?
85. Pet peeve about a former or theoretical someone living with you?
86. Most exciting experience thus far in your life?
87. If you wrote a movie, what would the title be?
88. What is a family tradition you’ll pass on to your significant other/kids?
89. What have you changed in your life recently?
90. If you were to be famous what would you like to be known for?
91. If you won the lottery what would you change about your life?
92. You’ve won a walk-on role on your favorite television show and you get to suggest the new character you play.
Which show and what type of character?
93. If your life was a TV show what would the main story line be? What would be the supporting roles?
94. If you were debating soaps/bodywashes, would you choose by color or scent (assuming your preferred choice of
both didn’t go together and they’re the same price/shape)?
95. What is your favorite board game?
96. You’re allowed a collection of books from one author only for the rest of your life and no access to any others.
Which author do you choose?
97. How early do you start holiday shopping?
98. What are your theories on deja vu?
99. What level of school was your best/preferred one?
100. Do you ever feel like you need to get in touch with the universe/nature and if yes, how do you go about doing
so?
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39-80 by Ivymere
39. What was my worst date like?
40. What is your favorite sound?
41. What gets you excited about life?
42. What is the most beautiful image, place, thing you have ever seen? Why?
43. Have you found a place in the world that is better than where you are now?
44. The world is going to finish in 1 hour. How are you going to spend that hour?
45. If you could confront anyone from your past, who would it be and why?
46. If you could be anyone for a day, who would it be and why?
47. If you had to only eat three things for the rest of your life, day in and day out, what would they be?
48. If you could go to any country for free, where would you go and why?
49. Do you prefer a stormy night with cuddling or a romantic dinner at a nice restaurant with ambiance?
50. If you were given the chance to experience what it is like to be deaf (provivded you aren’t already) for a day,
would you take it?
51. Have you ever caved in to peer pressure? If so, what was it and how would you have changed it if you could go
back in time?
52. What is your first memory?
53. If you were a time traveler and could only go back in time or forward in time, which would you choose?
54. If you could go on a date with one celebrity – if they’re currently married or you are let’s pretend you’re both
single – who would it be and why?
55. If you could tell your best friend one thing that you can’t stand about him/her what would it be?? what do you
think their reaction would be?
56. If you could live forever, would you want to?
57. If a relative or friend was out of work and you were in a position to hire them, would you even though you knew
deep down they would be all wrong for the job?
58. What’s the nicest thing that anyone has ever said to you?
59. When did you first realize you needed to change your lifestyle food wise?
60. Have you ever read a book that really changed the way you look at things? What was the book?
61. What’s your favorite time of day and what do you usually do during it? If you’re not free to do what you want,
what would you otherwise be doing?
62. What teacher did you admire the most in high school?
63. What is your most prized possession?
64. How do you feel about euthanasia?
65. What was your first job?
66. Who is one person who has been influential in your life, for better or worse?
67. What was your favorite toy as a child?
68. You have one full day (24 hours) to spend in Las Vegas. What’s your itinerary?
69. What is your favorite place in the world (as of right now)?
70. Why do people lie?
71. Do you consider your life a fulfilled one and if not, what would it take to get to that point?
72. What is your crowning achievement at this point in life?
73. What is a word or phrase you use frequently and how did you pick it up?
74. What would you want to be written on your tombstone?
75. Pencil or pen?
76. What color ink do you prefer to write with?
77. How many times have you moved homes/houses in your life?
78. There are many landmarks in the world people climb. Have you ever climbed one and if yes, which one(s)?
79. What’s your favorite breakfast food and do you ever eat this for other meals/snacks?
80. Describe the outfit that makes you feel the most sexiest/handsome/beautiful/powerful/strong/confident?
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Untitled by themetalmunchkin
if you could live any where in the world where would it be?
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i've noticed that these can be quite interesting questions: by asere
-do you have a fetish?
-if you could choose one thing to make life worth living, what would it be?
-what would be a perfect day in the life of (your name here)?
-if you could be reborn into any animal, what would it be?
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26-38 by Ivymere
26. How do you define “smart”?
27. What do you do on your weekends?
28. Where did you get that scarf/bracelet/shirt/coat/etc?
29. What kind meanings do colors have in your culture (this really only works for people from a different country
than you)?
30. What is your favorite kind of food?
31. What’s your favorite dish from (your country-of-origin) food?
32. What’s the best gift you ever gave someone, in your opinion?
33. What is one thing you HAVE to do before your next birthday but haven’t yet?
34. Have you ever seen any celebrities or famous people in person?
35. Do you look more like your mother or your father?
36. What do you love about where you live?
37. What do you bring most to a friendship?
38. What is one cleaning tip you swear by?
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11 - 25 by Ivymere
11. If you had one chance to travel back in time, which time period (and in which country) would you want to visit?
12. What are your thoughts on organic food, the Atkins diet, and the no-carbs fad?
13. For the holidays, are you a last-minute shopper or do you shop well ahead of time? (This assumes the person
celebrates.)
14. What’s a phrase or saying you say a lot?
15. Would you rather eat haggis (Scottish) or thousand-year-old eggs (Chinese)?
16. What’s your favorite holiday of the year?
17. Do you believe in luck or fate?
18. What’s your favorite meal of the day?
19. Which days of the week do you prefer and why?
20. What age of your life would you want to revisit, given the chance?
21. What character from a television show would you want to be?
22. What is one vivid memory in your childhood?
23. Would you ever be on a reality show? If yes, what kind?
24. What is one major quality you look for in a significant other?
25. What is one landmark in the world you hope to one day see?
over 2 years ago | 2 comments
6-10 Questions to ask! by Ivymere
6. What is one song or album that you’ve listened to over and over again in a very rough period of your life?
7. Have you tried tequila and if yes, do you have any interesting story to go along with it?
8. If you were forced or decided to go one year without phone calls (receiving OR making), who would the last two
people be you’d call before you start the year?
9. What is something funny or amusing that happened last winter?
10. White bread or wheat bread? Rice or potatoes?
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1-5 questions I randomly thought up by Ivymere
1. If you had to choose an unnatural way to die/be executed, what would it be? And why?
2. If you had to choose 3 words to describe yourself, what would they be? Care to explain?
3. What is your wine of choice?
4. How do you cheer yourself up when you’re feeling blue?
5. If you had to verbalize a slogan for your life – something you live by, like a principle – what would it be?