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Denver Family Institute
Sexual Diversity, Attitudes & Behavior
Spring Quarter 2011
Instructor: Neil Cannon, Ph.D.
Aging
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BDSM
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Bestiality & Zoophilia
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Body Image
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Children & Adolescence
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For Clinicians
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Gay & Lesbian
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Helminiak, D. (2000). What the bible really says about
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Infidelity
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that ever happened to me. Vancouver, CA: Trafford on
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Snyder, D, Baucom, D, & K, Gordon. (2007). Getting past the
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Men’s Sexual Health
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Polyamory & Swinging
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sex, and marriage in the 21st century. Santa Barbara, CA:
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Trauma
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York: The Guilford Press.
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Self-Improvement
Bevan, L. (2009). Life without jealousy: a practical guide. Ann
Arbor, MI: Loving Healing Press.
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think you're supposed to be and embrace who you are.
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Wehrenberg, M. (2008). The 10 best-ever anxiety management
techniques: understanding how your brain makes you
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Sex Addiction
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Hazelden.
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Transgender
Alexander, M, & Rose, M. (2010). The color of sunlight.
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Francisco, CA: Cleis Press.
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Erhardt, V. (2007). Head over heels: wives who stay with crossdressers and transexuals. Binghamton, NY: Haworth.
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womanhood. New York: Jeremy P. Tarcher.
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from beyond the sexual binary. Los Angeles, CA: Alyson
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Women’s Sexual Health
Karras, N. (2003). Petals. San Diego, CA: Crystal River
Publishing.
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connection. Boston, MA: Shambhala Publications.
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Research & Professional Societies
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors &
Therapists (AASECT). www.aasect.org.
Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative
Sexualities (CARAS). www.caras.ws.
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF).
www.ncsfreedom.org.
Sexuality Information and Educator Counsel of the United States
(SIECUS). www.siecus.org.
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Society for Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS).
http://www.sexscience.org
Beach Reading
This section is for my fellow sex geeks...
Allen, P. (2000). The wages of sin: sex and disease, past and
present. Chicago: University Of Chicago Press.
Heidenry, J. (1997). What wild ecstasy: the rise and fall of the
sexual revolution. New York: Simon & Schuster.
Heins, M. (2002). Not in front of the children: indecency,
censorship, and the innocence of youth. New York: Hill &
Wang.
Klein, M. (2006). America's war on sex: the attack on law, lust
and liberty. Westport, CT: Praeger Publishers.
Levine, J. (2003). Harmful to minors: the perils of protecting
children from sex. New York: Da Capo Press.
Rubin, L. (2006). Man with the beautiful voice: and more
stories from the other side of the couch. London: Piatkus.
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