Children's Strategies for Displaying Anger and Sadness: What Works With Whom? Shipman, Kimberly L. Zeman, Janice. Nesin, April E. Fitzgerald, Monica. Merrill-Palmer Quarterly, Volume 49, Number 1, January 2003, pp. 100-122 (Article) Published by Wayne State University Press DOI: 10.1353/mpq.2003.0006 For additional information about this article http://muse.jhu.edu/journals/mpq/summary/v049/49.1shipman.html Access Provided by College of William __ACCESS_STATEMENT__ Mary __ACCESS_STATEMENT__ (Viva MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 100 M E R R I L L - P A L M E R Q U A R T E R LY , V O L . 4 9 , N O . 1 Children’s Strategies for Displaying Anger and Sadness: What Works With Whom? Kimberly L. Shipman, University of Georgia Janice Zeman and April E. Nesin, University of Maine Monica Fitzgerald, University of Georgia This study examined the influence of expressive strategies (i.e., verbal, facial, crying, sulking, and aggressive), emotion type (i.e., anger, sadness), social context (i.e., mother, father, best friend), age (i.e., 7, 10 years), and gender on 144 children’s expectancies regarding interpersonal responses to their emotional expression. Participants included 72 boys and 72 girls, with an average age of 8 years and 10 months. Results indicate that children expect others to respond more positively to certain expressive strategies (e.g., verbal, facial) as compared to others (e.g., aggression) and that these expectancies vary as a function of the type of emotion experienced, the social context, age, and gender. Consistent with the functionalist approach to emotion, findings suggest that, through social interaction, children learn culturally appropriate strategies for emotional expression that facilitate their ability to elicit a desired response from social partners. The functionalist approach to children’s emotional development (Barrett & Campos, 1987; Campos, Mumme, Kermoian, & Campos, 1994; Saarni, Mumme, & Campos, 1998) defines emotion from within an interpersonal context, emphasizing the role that emotional expression plays in facilitating children’s adaptation to their social environment. According to this perspective, emotion serves as a source of communication between the child and the child’s social partner. For example, the expression of sadness is thought to elicit support and assistance from significant others in the child’s environment. As such, Kimberly L. Shipman, Department of Psychology; Janice Zeman, Department of Psychology; April E. Nesin, Department of Psychology; Monica M. Fitzgerald, Department of Psychology. This research was funded by a grant from the National Institute of Mental Health to the first author. Correspondence should be addressed to the first author at the University of Georgia, Department of Psychology, Athens, Georgia 30602–3013. E-mail: kshipman@arches.uga.edu. Merrill-Palmer Quarterly, January 2003, Vol. 49, No. 1, pp. 100–122. Copyright © 2003 by Wayne State University Press, Detroit, MI 48201 100 MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 101 Emotional Display 101 children’s understanding and use of emotionally expressive behavior is essential to their development of socioemotional competence (Parke, Cassidy, Burks, Carson, & Boyum, 1992; Saarni, 1999). Research has demonstrated a relation between children’s ability to manage emotional expression in culturally appropriate ways and their social competence and psychological adjustment (Denham et al., 2001; Eisenberg et al., 2001; Fabes, Leonard, Kupanoff, & Martin, 2001; Saarni, 1999). As children develop, they must learn to modify their emotional behavior in a way that best facilitates their adaptation to the social environment. Two core skills associated with the development of competent emotion regulation require that children learn when emotional expression is appropriate and how to express emotion in a culturally appropriate manner (see Saarni, 1999). Through socialization experiences, children are thought to learn about the contingencies associated with emotional expressivity and to develop expectancies regarding interpersonal responses to their emotionally expressive behavior (Saarni et al., 1998; Saarni, 1999). Consistent with the functionalist approach, children do develop expectancies regarding when emotional expression is appropriate and these expectancies vary as a function of factors that influence the child’s relationship with the social environment, including social context, type of emotion, child age, and child gender (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Saarni, 1988; Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996, 1998). In relation to social context, findings have indicated that preschool- and elementary-school-age children prefer to express emotions to parents rather than peers (Saarni, 1988; Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman, Penza, Shipman, & Young, 1997), given that parents are expected to provide support and understanding in response to children’s emotional displays. In addition, one study found that children perceived mothers as more understanding of sadness expression than fathers (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988), with other studies finding no differences (Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman et al., 1997). Younger children, as compared to older children, report more supportive interpersonal responses to their emotional displays and indicate that they are more likely to display their emotional experiences in the presence of others (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Zeman & Garber, 1996). Finally, girls report displaying vulnerable emotions (i.e., sadness, fear, pain) more than boys and expect more positive responses to their displays (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Terwogt & Olthof, 1989; Zeman & Garber, 1996). Of particular interest within this area of research is the consistent relation between children’s expectations of support following their emotional displays and the likelihood that children will express emotions to others (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Shipman & Zeman, 1999, 2001). MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 102 102 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly The research described above provides convincing evidence that children learn when emotional expression is appropriate, at least in part, through family and peer interaction. Somewhat surprisingly, however, little empirical attention has been directed toward understanding the processes through which children learn how to express emotion in a culturally appropriate manner. From a functionalist perspective, learning appropriate strategies for displaying emotion will facilitate children’s adaptation to their social environment by eliciting a desired response from others. In contrast, children who consistently express emotion in inappropriate ways are likely to alienate themselves from others, jeopardizing their ability to obtain necessary support and assistance from their environment. For example, research indicates that children who have poor control over anger expression and who are emotionally negative experience peer rejection (Coie, Dodge, & Kupersmidt, 1990; Stocker & Dunn, 1990). Clearly, developing the skills necessary to express emotion in culturally appropriate ways is a crucial developmental task that has important implications for children’s socioemotional functioning. According to the functionalist perspective (Barrett & Campos, 1987), each emotion is associated with an action tendency, best described as a readiness to engage in a variety of behaviors that serve a specific function for the child. For example, anger is associated with several different expressive behaviors (e.g., displaying an angry facial expression, verbalizing anger, engaging in aggressive behavior) that function to help a child eliminate obstacles that interfere with his or her ability to attain a given goal. Based on socialization experiences, children are thought to develop a set of expectancies regarding the appropriateness of emotional expression, which then serve to guide their subsequent emotional behavior (Denham, 1998; DePaulo, 1991; Underwood, Coie, & Herbsman, 1992). For example, children may learn that certain strategies for displaying emotion (e.g., verbalizing anger) are more adaptive than other strategies (e.g., aggression), although this has received little empirical attention. Preliminary research (Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996) examining children’s expressive strategies indicates that children use a variety of methods to communicate emotion. In response to open-ended questioning (Zeman & Garber, 1996), elementary-schoolage children reported several strategies for communicating emotion to others, including verbalizations, facial expressions, crying, sulking, and aggression. Use of these strategies varied as a function of child age and child gender (Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996). For example, younger elementary-school-age children reported crying to MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 103 Emotional Display 103 express emotion more than did older children. Girls endorsed using crying more than boys, whereas boys reported using mild aggressive strategies more than girls. This research provides descriptive information regarding children’s reported use of specific expressive strategies. What is missing from these studies, however, is an examination of children’s expectations regarding the outcome of using different methods of emotional expression and how these expectations may vary as a function of type of emotion and social context. This is an important issue given that the type of expressive strategy used is likely to impact the response of significant others to the child’s emotional display (Saarni et al., 1998). Competent emotion regulation requires that children express emotion in a way that will best facilitate their adaptation within a given social context. The present study provides a unique examination of the role that social interaction may play in children’s understanding of how to express emotion in culturally appropriate ways. This study investigated elementary-school-age children’s expectations regarding interpersonal responses to their emotional displays as a function of (a) expressive strategy (i.e., verbal, facial, crying, sulking, aggressive), (b) type of emotion (i.e., anger, sadness), (c) social context (i.e., mother, father, best friend), (d) child age (i.e., 7 years, 10 years), and (e) child gender. The dependent variables included children’s report of the likelihood that they would use a given strategy to display emotion, the perceived social appropriateness of a given strategy, their expectations of receiving support from their social partner in response to their emotional displays, and their expectations of receiving conflict from their social partner in response to emotional displays. This study expands on past research by examining children’s expectancies about interpersonal responses to their emotional displays as a function of the type of expressive strategy used (e.g., using words versus aggression). Past research has focused only on expectancies regarding the outcome of emotional expressiveness (i.e., showing versus dissembling emotion), with no attention to the specific nature of the emotional display. Research in this area will provide new insight into the role that emotion socialization processes may play in the development of children’s emotionally competent behavior. Strategies included in this study were selected based on children’s open-ended responses regarding methods that they use most frequently to express their emotions (Zeman & Garber, 1996). Specifically, five expressive strategies were selected, including verbal expressions of emotion (i.e., saying you are angry), facial expressions, crying, sulking, and mild aggressive behaviors (i.e., stomping around and yelling). MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 104 104 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly These strategies have often been described by emotion theorists as signals used to convey emotion to social partners (Barrett & Campos, 1987; Denham, 1998; Izard & Malatesta, 1987; Lewis & Michalson, 1983) and are frequently observed in the social behavior of preschooland elementary-school-age children. Further, these strategies have been suggested to vary in terms of their cultural appropriateness (Lewis & Michalson, 1983). For example, children are thought to learn from an early age that crying and aggression are inappropriate strategies for displaying emotion (Lewis & Michalson, 1983). Two types of emotion (i.e., anger, sadness) were included because they are frequently experienced in childhood and, when managed appropriately, are thought to facilitate children’s adaptation to their social environment. From the functionalist perspective (Barrett & Campos, 1987; Campos et al., 1994), each emotion is posited to serve a unique function and, in turn, is expected to result in different responses from the child’s social partner. Consistent with this notion, research has demonstrated that children’s expectations for interpersonal outcomes following emotional displays vary as a function of emotion type (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Shipman & Zeman, 2001). Similarly, through social interaction, children may learn that the appropriateness of certain strategies for displaying emotion also depends on the type of emotion. For example, it is possible that certain strategies (e.g., crying) may receive a more positive response when used to signal sadness than when used for anger. A focus on negative emotion was selected given that socialization pressure to manage emotional displays in accordance with cultural expectations is likely to be higher for negative than positive emotions (Shipman & Zeman, 1999, 2001). To investigate the potential impact of social context on children’s strategies for emotional expression, three types of social partners (i.e., mother, father, best friend) were included. Past research has indicated that parents and peers play a central role in children’s socioemotional development (Parke et al., 1992), and that children’s expectations regarding the interpersonal outcomes of their emotional expressiveness (e.g., showing versus dissembling emotional experience) vary as a function of the socialization agent with whom they are interacting (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Shipman, Zeman, Penza-Clyve, & Champion, 2000; Zeman & Shipman, 1996). Inclusion of these three social partners will enable an examination of the role that parent-child and peer interaction may play in the development of children’s expectations regarding the appropriateness of using different strategies when displaying negative emotions. Similarly, inclusion of both parents will MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 105 Emotional Display 105 permit the examination of similarities and differences in children’s perceptions of their mothers’ and fathers’ responses to emotional displays. Child characteristics of age and gender were included based on research that indicates that children’s motivation and ability to manage emotionally expressive behavior vary as a function of these factors (Brody & Hall, 2000; Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Gnepp & Hess, 1986; Saarni, 1988, 1999; Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996). In relation to child age, research indicates a developmental shift across the elementary-school years in which older children, as compared to younger children, demonstrate increased understanding regarding the appropriateness of emotional expression in given situations (Gnepp & Hess, 1986; Saarni, 1988) and report greater socialization pressure to regulate emotional displays (Gnepp & Hess, 1986; Fuchs & Thelen, 1988). Age groups for this study were selected to reflect these different levels of emotional competence as well as to allow for consistency in comprehension of research protocols across groups. With respect to child gender, there is considerable evidence that girls and boys have different emotion socialization experiences within both family and peer contexts (Brody & Hall, 2000). For example, beginning in infancy, mothers respond more negatively to distress cries in boys than girls (Brooks-Gunn & Lewis, 1982; Malatesta, Grigoryev, Lamb, Albin, & Culver, 1986; Malatesta & Haviland, 1982). Similarly, parents of preschoolers talk more about emotion with girls than boys, with increased emphasis on discussion of emotional experience and expression (Brody & Hall, 2000). Brody and Hall suggest that, based on gender differences in emotion socialization, girls may learn to use expressive strategies (e.g., verbal, facial) that differ from those used by boys (e.g., overt action such as aggression). Taken together, this research indicates the importance of considering age and gender when examining the potential impact of emotion socialization experiences on children’s emotionally expressive behavior. Based on the tenets of the functionalist approach and available research, we hypothesized that children’s expectations regarding the outcome of emotional displays would vary as a function of type of strategy (i.e., verbal, facial, crying, sulking, and aggressive), type of emotion (i.e., anger, sadness), social context (i.e., mother, father, best friend), child age, and child gender. In relation to type of strategy, we hypothesized that: (a) children would expect the most positive expectancies (i.e., acceptability, support) and the least conflict for verbal displays of emotion, followed by facial displays and crying, with MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 106 106 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly the least positive expectancies and most conflict for sulking and aggressive displays and (b) that children would report more frequent use of strategies associated with positive expectancies (i.e., acceptability, support) than for strategies that yield negative outcomes. In relation to social context, it was hypothesized that (a) children would report more support for emotional displays with parents than peers, except following the use of aggressive strategies, and (b) peers would be more tolerant of aggressive displays (i.e., greater acceptability, less conflict) than parents. Finally, in relation to child age and gender, it was hypothesized that (a) younger children would report more positive expectancies (i.e., acceptability, support) and less conflict for emotional displays than older children, regardless of the type of strategy used, (b) younger children would report using all strategies more frequently than older children, and (c) girls, as compared to boys, would report expecting more support following crying and more conflict following aggressive strategies. These hypotheses are based, to a large extent, on research that identifies these factors as central to children’s expectations regarding when emotional expression is appropriate (Denham, 1998; DePaulo, 1991; Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Saarni, 1989, 1999; Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996). Given that there is no research that has examined children’s expectations of the social appropriateness of given strategies for emotional display, these predictions remain speculative. Method Participants Participants were 144 elementary-school-age children recruited from two public schools serving a lower- to middle-class, small urban area. Children in the younger age group were recruited from 1st and 2nd grades, whereas older children were recruited from 4th and 5th grades. In order to recruit participants, consent forms were sent to all parents of children in the relevant age groups at participating schools. Children with parental consent to participate were given a brief description of the project and asked individually for their verbal assent. Each age group consisted of 36 girls and 36 boys, with 12 children in each Age Sex Social Context cell (age for girls, younger, M 7 years, 4 months, SD 5.36 months; older, M 10 years, 6 months, SD 8.96 months; age for boys, younger, M 7 years, 3 months, SD 6.64 months; older, M 10 years, 8 months, SD 5.87 months). There was no significant difference in age as a function of sex. Participants were predominantly Caucasian (96%), with a small portion of children of MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 107 Emotional Display 107 African American and Hispanic heritage (4%). The majority of children lived with both biological parents (80%), although others resided with their mother only (13%), their mother and stepfather (5%), father only (1%), and their grandparents (1%). Children assigned to the different social context conditions did not differ significantly regarding family composition. Design This study was a 5 (Strategy) 2 (Emotion) 3 (Social Context) 2 (Grade) 2 (Sex) mixed-model design. Social context (i.e., mother, father, best friend) was designated a between-subjects factor to reduce the possibility of carry-over effects and to ensure that the protocol was a reasonable length so as to avoid undue fatigue for children. Type of strategy (i.e., verbal, facial, crying, sulking, aggressive) was designated a within-subjects factor along with type of emotion (i.e., anger, sadness). Materials Children were administered a structured interview that was developed based on past research (Shipman, 1998; Shipman et al., 2000; Zeman & Garber, 1996) to assess children’s expectations regarding the interpersonal outcomes of different methods of emotional display. Children were presented with two anger- and two sadness-invoking vignettes in which one of the three social partners (i.e., mother, father, best friend) was responsible for causing the emotion. The vignettes were the same for each social partner. Vignette themes included the child receiving blame for something he did not do (i.e., anger) and the social partner not appreciating a special project made by the child (i.e., sadness). Each story was written in the first person narrative, and the emotion experienced was labeled for the child. Past research (Shipman & Zeman, 2001; Shipman et al., 2000) and pilot testing with elementary-school-age children indicated that the vignettes successfully elicited the intended emotion. Each vignette was presented five times, with the final sentence varied such that it reflected the type of strategy that the child used to display emotion to the social partner (e.g., “You show your sad feelings to your mom with a sad look on your face.”). Given that each child responded to mad and sad stories, emotion type was counterbalanced, with stories within emotion types as well as story questions administered in random order. To minimize the potential carry-over effects for strategy, the type of strategy used was highlighted for children at the end of each story (e.g., “You show your mad MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 108 108 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly feelings to your dad with a mad look on your face.”) and throughout questioning (e.g., “Now remember, you showed your mad feelings on your face.”). In terms of emotion type, children were told that the first set of stories involved the specified emotion (e.g., “The first group of stories that we are going to read are all about mad feelings.”) and, when moving to the next emotion, children’s attention was directed toward this change. In addition, type of emotion experienced was highlighted in each story and in subsequent questioning. Following each story, children were asked to respond to questions on a 5-point Likert scale (1 not at all, 3 some, 5 a whole lot) regarding the: (a) likelihood that they would use the strategy indicated to express emotion (e.g., “How likely would you show your sad feelings to your mom by crying?”), (b) their expectations regarding the acceptability of the strategy for emotional display (e.g., “How much would your mom think it was okay for you to show your sad feelings by crying?”), (c) their expectations of receiving support from their social partner in response to their emotional displays (behavioral support, “How much would your mom try to help you feel better or fix the situation if you cried?”; affective support, “How much would your mom feel sad or concerned for you if you cried?”), and (d) their expectations of receiving conflict from their social partner in response to their emotional displays (behavioral conflict; “How much would your mom give you some negative consequences or punishment like going to your room if you cried?”; affective conflict, “How much would your mom feel mad or frustrated with you if you cried?”). As indicated above, children were asked two questions regarding their expectations of support and two questions about expectations of conflict with regard to the responses of their social partner. These questions were designed to measure behavioral and affective aspects of support and conflict. Given the high correlations between children’s responses to the behavioral and affective questions for expectations of support (anger: r (142) .78, p .001; sadness: r (142) .80, p .001) and expectations of conflict (anger: r (142) .78, p .001; sadness: r (142) .80, p .001), mean support and mean conflict scores were computed. Procedure Children with parental consent were interviewed individually in the school context by one of three female research assistants with specialized training in conducting child research interviews. Children were randomly assigned to a social context condition (i.e., mother, father, MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 109 Emotional Display 109 best friend). In the two instances in which children had no contact with their father, they were asked to think of a paternal figure with whom they had significant contact (i.e., stepfather). In one case, the child was reassigned to another social context condition, given that he could not identify a paternal figure. In the best friend condition, children were asked to identify a same-sex best friend by name, in order to make it more comparable to other social context conditions (i.e., mother, father) in which a specific person was identified. Children with parental consent (70.3%) were selected randomly from within their classrooms to participate. In a few instances, we had more children in one group than needed for the project given that we required equal cell sizes. In these cases (n 9), children were interviewed briefly (e.g., the project was described and they completed a few questions) and they were given a token of appreciation (i.e., small toy). To facilitate children’s understanding of the 5-point Likert scale used throughout the study, children were provided with an index card with circles varying in size associated with each of the scale points (i.e., smallest circle for not at all, largest circle for a whole lot). Although they used the index card throughout the interview, children were required to respond verbally to ensure that they understood the question and the response options rather than relying on pointing to the response options. The interview took approximately 30 minutes to complete and children were given a token of appreciation (i.e., small toy) for their time. To ensure that children remained engaged throughout the interview, they were provided with frequent praise and reinforcement (i.e., stickers) for continued effort and were given breaks when needed. Results Data Analysis Plan Repeated measures analyses of variance (RM-ANOVA) were conducted for each of the four dependent variables (i.e., use of strategy, acceptability of strategy, expectations of support, expectations of conflict). Scores for each of the dependent variables were computed as the sum of the ratings for the two stories within emotion type for a given strategy. Between-subjects variables were social context (i.e., mother, father, best friend), child age (i.e., younger, older), and child sex. Within-subjects variables included type of strategy (i.e., verbal, facial, crying, sulking, aggressive) and type of emotion (i.e., anger, sadness). Significant interactions were broken down using simple MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 110 110 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly main effects. Individual mean comparisons were conducted using t tests with Bonferroni corrections. In accordance with recommendations of Hertzog and Rovine (1985) for repeated measures analyses, we evaluated the degree to which the assumption of sphericity was met using the Greenhouse-Geisser epsilon value. In the instance that this assumption was not met, the degrees of freedom were adjusted in order to maintain the Type 1 error rate at conservative levels. Finally, to maintain a conservative family wise error rate, a Bonferroni correction was conducted such that the p value of .0125 was used for overall analyses (obtained by dividing the p value of .05 by the number of RM-ANOVAs). Results of repeated measures RM-ANOVAs will be presented by dependent variable. All comparisons among strategies indicated below are significant unless otherwise indicated. Use of Strategy Strategy by Emotion interaction. A Strategy Emotion interaction emerged, F(4, 528) 8.68, p .001, indicating that strategy use varied as a function of emotion type. Analyses were conducted to examine strategy differences within anger and sadness. Main effects for strategy emerged for anger, F(4, 129) 35.35, p .001, and sadness, F(4, 129) 64.87, p .001. For anger, verbal and facial strategies were used most, with crying, sulking, and aggressive strategies endorsed with the least frequency. For sadness, verbal and facial strategies were used most frequently, followed by crying, then sulking, and, finally, aggressive strategies. See Table 1 for means and standard deviations. Strategy by Sex interaction. A Strategy Sex interaction emerged, F(4, 528) 4.09, p .01, indicating that strategy use varied as a function of child sex. Analyses were conducted to examine sex differences within strategy type. A main effect for sex emerged for crying, F(1, 132) 17.39, p .001, with no sex differences for the other strategies. Findings indicated that girls (M 5.63, SD 2.28) endorsed using crying significantly more than did boys (M 4.24, SD 1.84). Age main effect. A main effect for age emerged, F(1, 132) 17.87, p .001, in which the mean rating for younger children (M 5.77, SD 1.37), as compared to older children (M 4.87, SD 1.19), indicated greater frequency of use across all strategies combined. Acceptability of Strategy Strategy by Emotion interaction. A Strategy Emotion interaction emerged, F(4, 528) 3.44, p .01, indicating that the acceptability of MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 2:46 PM Page 111 Emotional Display 111 Table 1. Means and Standard Deviations for Strategy Emotion Interaction for Strategy Use and Acceptability Question TYPE OF STRATEGY Facial Crying Verbal Sulking Aggression Strategy use Anger Sadness abc 4.78ad 4.72be 4.35cf (2.07) (2.42) (2.20) (2.14) 6.42def 5.10adgh 4.28begi 3.66cfhi (2.16) (2.35) (2.14) (2.02) 6.74 6.20 (2.01) 6.97abc (2.06) def Acceptability Anger Sadness 7.19abcd 5.56aef 5.48bgh 4.49cegi 3.68dfhi (2.19) (2.31) (2.55) (2.43) (2.01) 7.39abcd 6.21aef 5.98bgh 4.68cegi 3.59dfhi (2.16) (2.32) (2.34) (2.44) (2.14) Note. Means are presented followed by standard deviations in parentheses. In each row, superscripts that match are significantly different from one another (p .05). Note that the values presented reflect summing across two stories for each emotion. strategies varied as a function of emotion type. Analyses were conducted to examine strategy differences within anger and sadness. Main effects emerged for anger, F(4, 129) 59.32, p .001, and sadness, F(4, 129) 72.29, p .001. Findings for both anger and sadness indicated that verbal strategies were viewed as most acceptable, followed by facial strategies and crying, then sulking, and, finally, aggression. See Table 1 for means and standard deviations. Strategy by Social Context interaction. A Strategy Social Context interaction emerged, F(6, 416) 3.72, p .001, indicating that the acceptability of strategies varied as a function of social context. Analyses were conducted to examine differences between social contexts within strategy type. Main effects for social context emerged for aggressive strategies, F(2, 132) 12.56, p .05, and verbal strategies, F(2, 132) 5.10, p .01. Findings indicated that peers were expected to find aggressive strategies more acceptable than did mothers or fathers. In addition, fathers were expected to find verbal strategies to be more acceptable than did peers, with mothers not significantly different from fathers or peers. See Table 2 for means and standard deviations. Age main effect. A main effect for age emerged, F(1, 132) 6.61, p .01, in which the mean rating for younger children (M 5.76, SD 1.72), as compared to older children (M 5.09, SD 1.34), indicated higher acceptability across all strategies combined. MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 112 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly 112 Table 2. Means and Standard Deviations for Strategy Social Context Interaction for Acceptability Question Strategy Mother Social context Father Best friend Verbal 7.36 (1.85) 7.84a (1.71) 6.67a (1.92) Facial 5.64 (2.13) 6.37 (2.26) 5.66 (1.85) Crying 5.50 (2.41) 6.19 (2.09) 5.49 (2.06) Sulking 4.39 (2.51) 4.66 (2.18) 4.71 (1.98) Aggression 3.27a (1.99) 3.41b (1.62) 4.22ab (2.05) Note. Means are presented followed by standard deviations in parentheses. In each row, superscripts that match are significantly different from one another (p .05). Note that the values presented are scaled such that they reflect summing across two stories. Expectations of Support Strategy by Emotion interaction. A Strategy Emotion interaction emerged, F(4, 528) 3.36, p .01, indicating that the support expected for given strategies varied as a function of emotion type. Analyses were conducted to examine strategy differences within anger and sadness. Main effects for strategy emerged for anger, F(4, 129) 11.83, p .001, and sadness, F(4, 129) 14.06, p .001. For anger, children expected more support in response to crying, verbal, and facial strategies than sulking or aggressive strategies. For sadness, children expected more support in response to crying, facial, and verbal strategies than sulking, with the least support for aggression. See Table 3 for means and standard deviations. Age main effect. A main effect for age emerged, F(1, 132) 20.24, p .001, in which the mean rating for younger children (M 7.30, SD 1.65), as compared to older children (M 6.09, SD 1.56), indicated greater expectations of support across all strategies combined. Expectations of Conflict Strategy by Emotion interaction. A Strategy Emotion interaction emerged, F(4, 528) 8.28, p .001, indicating that the conflict expected for given strategies varied as a function of emotion type. Analyses were conducted to examine strategy differences within anger and sadness. Main effects for strategy emerged for anger, F(4, 129) 30.44, p .001, and sadness, F(4, 129) 44.64, p .001. For anger, MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 113 Emotional Display 113 Table 3. Means and Standard Deviations for Strategy Emotion Interaction for Support and Conflict Questions Question Verbal Type of strategy Facial Crying Sulking Aggression Support Anger 6.70ab 6.66cd 6.93ef Sadness 6.31ace 6.15bdf (1.86) (1.91) (1.90) (2.21) (2.11) 7.12ab 7.17cd 7.19ef 6.63aceg 6.14bdfg (1.88) (1.98) (1.90) (2.23) (2.24) Anger 4.00abc 4.56adef 5.01bdgi 6.01cehi (1.80) (1.82) (1.85) (2.04) (2.16) Sadness 3.13abc 3.25def 3.59adgh 4.31begi 5.50cfhi (1.53) (1.53) (1.70) (1.91) (2.18) Conflict 4.16fgh Note. Means are presented followed by standard deviations in parentheses. In each row, superscripts that match are significantly different from one another (p .05). Note that the values presented reflect summing across two stories for each emotion. children expected the most conflict in response to aggressive strategies, followed by sulking, then facial strategies, with the least conflict expected in response to crying and verbal strategies. For sadness, children expected the most conflict in response to aggressive strategies, followed by sulking, then crying, with the least conflict expected in response to facial and verbal strategies. See Table 3 for means and standard deviations. Strategy by Social Context interaction. A Strategy Social Context interaction emerged, F(8, 528) 7.06, p .001, indicating that the conflict expected for given strategies varied as a function of social context. Analyses were conducted to examine differences between social contexts within strategy type. A main effect for social context emerged for aggressive strategies, F(2, 132) 6.78, p .01. Findings indicated that mothers and fathers were expected to respond to aggressive strategies with more conflict than were peers. There were no significant differences for other strategies as a function of social context. See Table 4 for means and standard deviations. Age main effect. A main effect for age emerged, F(1, 132) 7.59, p .01, in which the mean rating for younger children (M 4.66, SD 1.43), as compared to older children (M 4.04, SD 1.22), indicated greater expectations of conflict across all strategies combined. MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 114 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly 114 Table 4. Means and Standard Deviations for Strategy Social Context Interaction for Conflict Question Strategy Mother Social context Father Best friend Verbal 3.35 (1.47) 3.38 (1.44) 3.96 (1.64) Facial 3.83 (1.45) 3.81 (1.39) 4.07 (1.62) Crying 3.84 (1.79) 3.64 (1.52) 4.14 (1.62) Sulking 4.70 (1.81) 4.69 (1.81) 4.60 (1.91) Aggression 6.26a (2.07) 6.06b (1.91) 4.93ab (1.68) Note. Means are presented followed by standard deviations in parentheses. In each row, superscripts that match are significantly different from one another (p .05). Note that the values presented are scaled such that they reflect summing across two stories. Discussion A functionalist view of emotional development suggests that, as children develop, they must learn to manage their emotional displays in such a way as to facilitate their adaptation to the social environment. To do this effectively, children must learn not only when emotional expression is appropriate but also how to express emotion in accordance with cultural expectations. Through social interaction, children are thought to develop a set of expectancies regarding the appropriateness of emotional displays that influence their subsequent emotional behavior. Findings of the present study support functionalist tenets by demonstrating that children do form expectancies regarding the outcomes of emotional displays and that these expectancies vary as a function of the expressive strategy used, the type of emotion experienced, the social context, child age, and child gender. In relation to use of specific expressive strategies, we hypothesized that children would report using verbal displays most frequently, followed by facial displays and crying, and finally, sulking and aggressive displays. Although this pattern varied somewhat as a function of emotion type, results support this general pattern. In particular, for sadness, children reported using verbal and facial displays, followed by crying, then sulking, with aggressive strategies used with the least frequency. For anger, a similar pattern emerged, with the exception that there were no differences in reported use of crying, sulking, and aggressive strategies. For the question regarding the perceived acceptability of different expressive strategies, findings indicated that verbal strategies were deemed most acceptable, followed by facial displays and MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 115 Emotional Display 115 crying, then sulking, and aggression. These findings suggest that children recognize that certain expressive strategies are considered to be more socially acceptable than others and that such knowledge may influence their decisions regarding the use of expressive strategies when interacting with their social environment. Finally, with regard to child gender, findings supported our hypothesis that girls would report using crying to display emotion more than boys. This findings is consistent with past research (Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996) as well as with theories of gender role socialization that suggest that certain display strategies such as crying are considered to be more culturally appropriate for females as compared to males (Brody & Hall, 2000). Interestingly, in relation to questions about interpersonal responses to emotional displays, children indicated that facial displays and crying resulted in as much support as verbal displays. Although children recognize that verbal displays are deemed the most acceptable, they perceive that facial displays and crying also result in supportive interpersonal responses. It may be that children are socialized to use verbal expressive strategies (e.g., “use your words”) when possible, but that they are not expected to have the necessary skills to effectively manage facial displays and crying on a consistent basis. Similarly, facial displays and crying may be deemed as acceptable strategies for emotional expression, as long as these strategies are not used with high frequency or in inappropriate ways. It also may be that children perceived that the emotion-eliciting events in the vignettes were of sufficient intensity to warrant a response (e.g., crying, grimacing) that they might otherwise control given a less intense, milder emotional experience. This interpretation receives support from research that has demonstrated that children believe it is acceptable to display emotions when experiencing intense emotions even if the situation might otherwise call for emotional dissemblance (Saarni, 1991, 1999). It would be interesting to see if a different pattern of findings would emerge if the emotional events in this study had been of less intensity, given that children might perceive facial displays and crying as less justifiable in those circumstances. Consistent with research examining children’s aggressive behavior (Coie et al., 1999; Coie, Christopoulos, Terry, Dodge, & Lochman, 1989; Underwood et al., 1992), findings clearly indicate that children expect high levels of conflict from social partners in response to aggressive displays for both anger and sadness. From an early age, children are instructed by parents to control aggressive behavior and to display emotion using more constructive strategies (Lewis & Michal- MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 116 116 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly son, 1983; Pepler & Rubin, 1991). In addition, peers often respond to children’s aggression with active rejection (Coie et al., 1989; Coie, Belding, & Underwood, 1988). Interestingly, sulking was also considered to be an undesirable behavior that would evoke interpersonal conflict. Little research has examined children’s sulking behaviors as a means for communicating emotion given that the focus of research has generally been on the more overt, disruptive, externalizing types of emotional displays. Children’s expectations regarding outcomes of specific strategies also varied as a function of social context. As hypothesized, children reported that, in comparison to their best friend, parents viewed aggressive means of expressing emotion as less acceptable and indicated that use of aggression would be more likely to result in negative interpersonal consequences. Further, they reported that fathers would find verbal expressions of emotion more acceptable than would friends, with mothers not significantly different from either social partner. It appears that parents place considerable emphasis on socializing children to respond to negative emotional events in more constructive ways than stomping around, slamming doors, and yelling. With peers, however, these behaviors are not viewed as negatively as with parents. It may be that peers allow each other some behavioral latitude with respect to mild aggressive behaviors as long as the aggression does not involve direct personal attacks that could negatively affect the friendship. It is important to note, however, that peers do view aggressive behavior as the least appropriate strategy for displaying emotion and suggest that aggressive strategies are the most likely to result in interpersonal conflict. That is, although parents respond more negatively than peers to aggressive emotional displays, both parents and peers play a significant role in socializing children to avoid aggressive behavior (Carson & Parke, 1996; Patterson, Capaldi, & Bank, 1991; Pepler & Rubin, 1991). Somewhat surprisingly, children did not report more positive responses from parents than peers in response to expressing emotion via display strategies other than aggression (e.g., verbalizations, facial expressions, crying). In fact, children’s expectations of support and conflict did not vary as a function of social context for verbal, facial, crying, or sulking display strategies. Past research has suggested, in general, that elementary-school-age children prefer to express emotion to parents rather than to peers (Saarni, 1988, 1999). This finding, however, did not receive support from the present study. It may be that the intensity of children’s emotional expression is greater with parents MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 117 Emotional Display 117 than peers, and, given this greater intensity, parents are not expected to respond with more support. It may also be that children expected a generally high level of support from all three social partners for each of these expressive strategies because of the close, intimate nature of the relationships selected for this study. It would be interesting to vary the degree of relationship affiliation (e.g., stranger, acquaintance, intimate) and note whether children’s expressive strategies varied as a function of this variable. Of note, no significant differences between children’s report of their mothers’ and fathers’ responses to expressive strategies were found on the four dependent variables. The literature is equivocal with respect to potential differences between mothers and fathers with some studies finding that children perceive their mothers as being more accepting of certain emotional displays than fathers (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988) and other research indicating no parental differences (Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996). It may be that there are more similarities than differences in parents’ socialization of their children’s emotional expressivity or that differences in parental response only emerge in certain contexts. As such, the vignettes used in this study may not have presented situations that could capture the sensitive distinctions between mothers’ and fathers’ responses to their children’s expressive strategy use. Clearly this is an area that needs further careful investigation to determine the nature and impact of mothers’ versus fathers’ emotion socialization on their sons and daughters. Child Age Compared to older children, younger children consistently reported more frequent use of expressive strategies, higher levels of perceived acceptability for strategy use, and higher levels of expected support and conflict when using strategies in the presence of all social partners. These findings are generally consistent with the emotion literature. That is, past research has indicated that as children develop, they exhibit increasing ability and motivation to control emotionally expressive behavior (Gnepp & Hess, 1986; Saarni, 1979; Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996). In particular, older children, as compared to younger children, are less likely to display negative emotion and more likely to view their ability to control emotion and maintain composure as important to their social functioning (Parker & Gottman, 1989; Underwood, Hurley, Johanson, & Mosley, 1999). Further, older children perceive that their displays of emotion will be met MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 118 118 Merrill-Palmer Quarterly with less acceptance and support than do younger children (Fuchs & Thelen, 1988; Zeman & Garber, 1996; Zeman & Shipman, 1996). It may be that younger children do indeed express their emotions in a variety of ways to others and believe that such expression is acceptable. Given that younger children are learning to manage their emotional displays in accordance with cultural rules, it may also be that their social partners respond with both more support and more conflict. That is, young children are not yet expected to have the requisite control over their expressive behavior and, as a result, they may receive support in circumstances that older children would not. When younger children use inappropriate means for expressing emotion, however, their social partner is likely to communicate his or her dissatisfaction to the child, thereby teaching the child how to manage emotion more effectively in the future. Limitations and Directions for Future Research Although these findings provide important information, it is important to consider study limitations and directions for future research. One limitation involves the interpretation of findings with regard to developmental differences. Although the developmental findings from this study are generally consistent with other research, these findings do pose an interesting methodological question. It may be that these findings reflect a response bias from younger children in which they prefer to respond to questions using higher points on the Likert scale (e.g., some, a lot, a whole lot). Although the interviewers in this study trained the children in the use of the scale and reminded children throughout the interview that they should consider all five response options, a response bias still may have occurred. Future research should consider this potential confound when designing self-report studies with young children. In addition, future research would benefit from including a larger sample size to ensure that there is sufficient power to detect higher level interactions among the variables such as age, gender, strategy, and emotion type. Future research should also expand on the findings of this study by using self-report and observational methodology in combination to determine whether children’s expectancies for the interpersonal outcomes of their emotional displays predict their expressive behavior (e.g., types of strategies they actually use) in reallife situations. This would avoid the potential difficulties (e.g., social desirability) associated with relying on self-report to assess the use of different expressive strategies. In addition, the processes through which children learn that certain strategies yield adaptive responses should be studied further so that we can better understand those children whose MPQ_49_1_05_ShipmanIIIII 12/4/02 1:39 PM Page 119 Emotional Display 119 choice of maladaptive expressive strategies places them at risk for developing social and emotional difficulties. Finally, findings of this study are based on a Caucasian sample from a lower- to middle-class small urban area. 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