St Mary's Cathedral Parish Cathedral Church of Our Lady of the Flight into Egypt St Mary's Cathedral Nazareth House Villa Maria Parish Priest: Father Noel Rucastle Assistant Priest: Father Aloysius Abone Parish Office: 021-4611167 Fax: 021-4618111 16 Bouquet St, Cape Town, 8001 APPLICATION FOR BAPTISM (To be completed by parents) Guidelines and Policies The following guidelines and policies are given to prepare and empower parents bringing children for baptism to assume their role and responsibility in the sacramental life of the Church. 1. Beginning: The parents and baptismal team need ample time to prepare for the baptismal celebration. Therefore, parents seeking baptism for their child are invited to contact the parish office immediately after the birth to make arrangements for the preparation classes and the baptismal date. 2. Welcoming: Baptism’s will be done 6 times a year with 3 sessions and a recognition Mass held the same month. Preceding the Baptism. 3. Assessment of readiness: C 868 - “For an infant to be baptised lawfully it is required: (1) That the parents or at least one of them or the person who lawfully takes their place must consent; (2) That there must be a well - founded hope that the infant will be brought up in the Catholic religion…” Therefore, attendance by both parents is required, regardless if the spouse is Catholic, unless pastoral considerations have been made. Couples who are in an irregular marriage (not witnessed by a Catholic priest or deacon) or have other impediments that prohibit them from full communion in the Church are encouraged to seek whatever avenues necessary to restore them to full communion and membership in the Catholic Church, by contacting the parish office and arranging an appointment with the Priest. Assurances must be given by the parents that the gift of faith given freely by God in Baptism will be given opportunity to grow by an authentic education in the faith and Christian life. If the Priest deems that these assurances are not serious there can be grounds for delaying the sacrament. At times, longer periods of preparation may be necessary in order to assure both the integrity of the sacraments and the child’s future development as a Christian. 4. Godparent/sponsor: “Insofar as possible, a person to be baptised is to be given a sponsor who assists an adult in Christian Initiation, or, together with the parents, presents an infant for baptism. A sponsor also helps the baptized to lead a Christian life in keeping with baptism, and to fulfill faithfully the obligation inherent in it.” (CCL, # 872) A suitable sponsor (commonly referred to as godparent) is to be chosen following the norms of the Code of Canon Law. To be admitted to the role of sponsor, a person must: - be designated by the parents or the one who takes their place 1. Have completed the sixteenth year of age 2. Be fully initiated (has already received the sacraments of baptism, confirmation and Eucharist) and actively practicing the Catholic faith 3. Not be bound by any canonical penalty legitimately imposed or declared (e.g. one who is in an irregular marriage cannot be a sponsor) 4. Not be the father or mother of the one to be baptized 5. There can be only one male sponsor or one female sponsor or one of each 6. A non-Catholic, baptised person can participate only in the role as a witness of the baptism. 5. Catechesis: “Education in the faith by the parents should begin in the child’s earliest years….Family catechesis precedes, accompanies, and enriches other forms of instruction in the faith.” (CCC, # 2226) Six (6) hours of baptismal catechesis will be provided by the Priest and/or his trained delegates. Consisting of 3 Two (2) Hour sessions and a recognition Mass. Both parents are to attend. Because of the role of Godparents in the witnessing of a committed life of faith, they too are to attend. 6. Celebration: Infants will be baptised either during or after the 10am Mass. If parents choose to baptise at another Catholic church, please be assured that all necessary paper work will be provided upon completion of the Baptism preparation program. As for the rite of Baptism itself, immersion or pouring of water will be used. Policies of St Mary's Cathedral Parish 1. Completion of the Baptismal Preparation Program (6 hours – 3 x 2 hour sessions) for all parents presenting infants for baptism except for those who have completed the preparation program within the past 3 years. 2. At least one parent be a practicing Catholic and a member of St Mary's Cathedral Parish. 3. Attendance at all sessions by parents is required, whether or not the spouse is Catholic. Godparents are encouraged to attend all sessions so they may feel comfortable with their role. They are required to attend the first and last session and the recognition Mass. 4. A Godparent Statement letter needs to be signed and returned no later than the 1st session. See “Choosing a Godparent” section, for more details. 5. Couples who are in an irregular marriage (not witnessed by a Catholic priest or deacon) or circumstances are encouraged to seek whatever avenues necessary to restore them to full communion and membership in the Catholic Church by contacting one of the priests. 6. Infants should be baptized in their community parish, however, for those parents who choose to baptize elsewhere please be assured that all necessary paperwork will be provided upon completion of the Baptism preparation program. 7. Baptism of the infant will be by immersion/pouring of water unless there are medical contraindications. 8. There is a R100.00 registration fee which covers materials, books, paper work etc. Please include this with the application form to any Parish Priest. a) a gift may also be presented to the Priest. b) It is customary to make an offering (Stole fee) to the church on day of Baptism.