Much Ado about “Nothing” Sweet nothings In the process of flirting, sweet nothings are often whispered into ears. In the late 1500s nothings was used to describe something trivial that was spoken, often to a lover. Gay nothings or soft nothings could be uttered in intimate conversation. Since the turn of the 20th century, the preferred phrase by English-speaking romantics has been sweet nothings. This preference is reflected in popular song names; there are no fewer than seven songs with "sweet nothing(s)" in the title, including the Velvet Underground's "Oh! Sweet Nuthin'" (1970) and Diana Ross' "Sweet Nothings" (1981). Dictionary.com Foofaraw [foo-fuh-raw] A foofaraw is either "a great fuss about something insignificant" or "an excessive amount of decoration." The term comes from the American West and is a mutation of the Spanish fanfaron, meaning "show-off." Are you ready for us to top the silliness of foofaraw?